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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Because it allows you to garner attention. I'll assume you're lying until you post a pic...5'3 and no. Why the fuk would I lie about that.
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06-02-2019, 07:36 AM
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I only skimmed the replies but IMO... we're all too conditioned to think that life is all about either (a) having lots of casual sex with people we don't actually like (or know well enough to like) very much, or (b) being in a relationship.
Each to their own and more power to you if you do find yourself in a relationship with a nice person who is good company and so on... but a lot of relationships aren't like that. A lot of relationships are just two miserable people with nothing going for them, bringing nothing to the table, until they can't stand each other any longer and one of them finds an opportunity to cross grade to more of the same but with someone new.
So **** that.
As men though that's all we're made to feel.
Women on the other hand are more likely to tell each other "pursue your interests, quietly celebrate your achievements... your worth & your accomplishments are not dependent on being considered ****able by random people with nothing to offer you", right? As men we don't really get told that, but why shouldn't that be our attitude too? Why aren't we telling each other the same? Not necessarily in a bitter & resentful "I hate women" sort of way, either.
I probably reckon enjoying pursuing your interests and rejecting that idea that "it's all pointless if no girls like me" makes you a more cheerful person.
Being a more cheerful person with some interests in life might even make you more interesting to someone suitable of the opposite sex. SUITABLE though, not just whichever one is in proximity. When you're just desperate for VALIDATION you won't attract anything but sociopaths who want to take advantage of you. Both in terms of women who aren't interested in you but like the idea of you being interested in them, and scumbag males who make money from having you click their blogs and channels to keep feeding you bad info that makes you more depressed, resentful and undesirable to women.
The world is set up to keep telling you "you're not good enough, you're not doing well enough, you're not popular enough" in order to keep you down and make money off you. Women have started to figure out that this is how the diet industry has always worked. Us men... I dunno, we still seem to take it on board much to our detriment.
Those are my 23:30pm Sunday evening thoughts on the matter anyway.
Each to their own and more power to you if you do find yourself in a relationship with a nice person who is good company and so on... but a lot of relationships aren't like that. A lot of relationships are just two miserable people with nothing going for them, bringing nothing to the table, until they can't stand each other any longer and one of them finds an opportunity to cross grade to more of the same but with someone new.
So **** that.
As men though that's all we're made to feel.
Women on the other hand are more likely to tell each other "pursue your interests, quietly celebrate your achievements... your worth & your accomplishments are not dependent on being considered ****able by random people with nothing to offer you", right? As men we don't really get told that, but why shouldn't that be our attitude too? Why aren't we telling each other the same? Not necessarily in a bitter & resentful "I hate women" sort of way, either.
I probably reckon enjoying pursuing your interests and rejecting that idea that "it's all pointless if no girls like me" makes you a more cheerful person.
Being a more cheerful person with some interests in life might even make you more interesting to someone suitable of the opposite sex. SUITABLE though, not just whichever one is in proximity. When you're just desperate for VALIDATION you won't attract anything but sociopaths who want to take advantage of you. Both in terms of women who aren't interested in you but like the idea of you being interested in them, and scumbag males who make money from having you click their blogs and channels to keep feeding you bad info that makes you more depressed, resentful and undesirable to women.
The world is set up to keep telling you "you're not good enough, you're not doing well enough, you're not popular enough" in order to keep you down and make money off you. Women have started to figure out that this is how the diet industry has always worked. Us men... I dunno, we still seem to take it on board much to our detriment.
Those are my 23:30pm Sunday evening thoughts on the matter anyway.
06-02-2019, 07:43 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
I could just say I was ugly and get attention, if you need to assume I'm lying protect your narrative go ahead. Short people exist you retard. Refusing to believe me shows how delusional you areBecause it allows you to garner attention. I'll assume you're lying until you post a pic...
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06-02-2019, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yes, some people who are broke are broke because of bad luck (health, etc.). But given your post history, I'm confident that you're broke because you're a lazy, worthless chit. I hope that helps!Yea being poor is a personality flaw......lmao wut dude. A lot of times it's just circumstance rs pok especially nowadays. Theres a reason so many people live at home until later.
College too expensive, hard to find a decent job, rent is high etc etc.
Fuk you if you assume anyone struggling financially is lazy or whatever
College too expensive, hard to find a decent job, rent is high etc etc.
Fuk you if you assume anyone struggling financially is lazy or whatever
Take it easy Christian
06-02-2019, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
What post did I say I was broke? This convo isnt specifically about me either it's about general societyYes, some people who are broke are broke because of bad luck (health, etc.). But given your post history, I'm confident that you're broke because you're a lazy, worthless chit. I hope that helps!
06-02-2019, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Evil_D⏩
This.The ones I see who are struggling (in the workplace for example) can go suck a phat dink.
Fat gingers with soyboy beards.
I'm sure there are some males out there deserving of our compassion, I'm just saying, in my day-to-day activities, the 'struggling' males I come across can go to hell.
Passive aggressive, unbalanced, fat, neckbearded, betas.
Fat gingers with soyboy beards.
I'm sure there are some males out there deserving of our compassion, I'm just saying, in my day-to-day activities, the 'struggling' males I come across can go to hell.
Passive aggressive, unbalanced, fat, neckbearded, betas.
Chit, I'm 5'9", not attractive, an introvert, and still managed to make it in life. According to misc, I should be rotting at home, alone.
I don't give a chit how the media portrays us. If they want to think that men are sexually aggressive and that testosterone is bad, then good for them. Women deep down get off on that behavior.
If you are having problems with women, it's your own fault. Have some standards. If a fat women rejected you on Tinder, ask yourself what the fuark you are doing on tinder.
A lot of guys need to grow a sack. If they don't want to, they have no sympathy from me.
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06-02-2019, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Ok. I offer my sincerest apologies to general society.What post did I say I was broke? This convo isnt specifically about me either it's about general society
Take it easy Christian
06-02-2019, 07:57 AM
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don't give two ****s about females. only problem i have that i want to fix is money. ****in hard as **** for me to get a good paying job. brb experienced in warehousing brb apply to 10 different warehouses in the last month brb no calls or "must provide 3 supervisor references" i have 4 years experience in warehousing, even in management positions, and i couldn't even land this $14/hr warehouse position failed the interview lol. confident i have more management experience than most people. i honestly think most of it is either because i'm asian or have a baby face. or both. doesn't make sense why i can't get a job with years of experience in multiple companies.
There is only one Hell: the one we live in now.
06-02-2019, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
Lol at ignoring my question.Ok. I offer my sincerest apologies to general society.
Where the fuk did I say I was broke
06-02-2019, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
You got me. I don't really care about your financial status.Lol at ignoring my question.
Where the fuk did I say I was broke
Where the fuk did I say I was broke
Take it easy Christian
06-02-2019, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
Average height average looking white guy is doing ok and thinks he's some big counterexample?This.
Chit, I'm 5'9", not attractive, an introvert, and still managed to make it in life. According to misc, I should be rotting at home, alone.
I don't give a chit how the media portrays us. If they want to think that men are sexually aggressive and that testosterone is bad, then good for them. Women deep down get off on that behavior.
If you are having problems with women, it's your own fault. Have some standards. If a fat women rejected you on Tinder, ask yourself what the fuark you are doing on tinder.
A lot of guys need to grow a sack. If they don't want to, they have no sympathy from me.
Chit, I'm 5'9", not attractive, an introvert, and still managed to make it in life. According to misc, I should be rotting at home, alone.
I don't give a chit how the media portrays us. If they want to think that men are sexually aggressive and that testosterone is bad, then good for them. Women deep down get off on that behavior.
If you are having problems with women, it's your own fault. Have some standards. If a fat women rejected you on Tinder, ask yourself what the fuark you are doing on tinder.
A lot of guys need to grow a sack. If they don't want to, they have no sympathy from me.
You're doing well with women makes sense, you re an average white guy. The people struggling tend to have actual disadvantages that mean women are less likely to like them regardless of what they do. Despite what you think, nobody can control the feelings of another person, especially the romantic preferences of a woman
06-02-2019, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
FixedYou got me. I made up bullchit about you in my own head to fit my narrative rather than looking at observable reality
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I have no narrative; I call people with an!t excuses out all the time. Pick yourself up or fuk off. Tired of this weak garage. Blaming “limitations” and women for failures. “I was dealt a bad hand...”. Get over it babies...we all did.I could just say I was ugly and get attention, if you need to assume I'm lying protect your narrative go ahead. Short people exist you retard. Refusing to believe me shows how delusional you are
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06-02-2019, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
Like I've said 100 times, I have done everything in my power which is to do the best I can with what i got.I have no narrative; I call people with an!t excuses out all the time. Pick yourself up or fuk off. Tired of this weak garage. Blaming “limitations” and women for failures. “I was dealt a bad hand...”. Get over it babies...we all did.
In 2019, doing the best you can easily still leaves a lot of low tier men alone and incels. That's all I'm saying.
Women have so many options that they arent settling for low tier guys like me no matter what we do.
06-02-2019, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Then get your ass to the gas station and scoop out that chubby girl with 3 teeth and a club foot...go get em, tiger.Like I've said 100 times, I have done everything in my power which is to do the best I can with what i got.
In 2019, doing the best you can easily still leaves a lot of low tier men alone and incels. That's all I'm saying.
Women have so many options that they arent settling for low tier guys like me no matter what we do.
In 2019, doing the best you can easily still leaves a lot of low tier men alone and incels. That's all I'm saying.
Women have so many options that they arent settling for low tier guys like me no matter what we do.
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06-02-2019, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
even she ain't settlin boyoThen get your ass to the gas station and scoop out that chubby girl with 3 teeth and a club foot...go get em, tiger.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Just keeping stacking up those excuses; given eod a run for his money.even she ain't settlin boyo
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06-02-2019, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Takes more than one shovelful to dig yourself into a hole. It takes more than one step to climb a mountain. Learning to ride a horse you are going to fall off, and it's not how you fall off but how you get back up. Things worthwhile take time. Yadda yadda yadda. Enough with metaphors.Fuk you if you assume anyone struggling financially is lazy or whatever
When I see people who just don't succeed and seem stuck, I've always seen a few factors. They are either digging that hole by getting into trouble with the law, having drinking or drug problems, impregnating sloots, ruining their credit, burning bridges, ect. They make little effort to improve their situation and if anything doesn't go right they just give up and go back to digging that hole. They complain about the money they make not being enough but do very little to change anything. As far as circumstances, the struggle is real, everyone has their issues, and yes, some are worse than others, but just as well most of the time some people complain more than others.
On the flip side, a lot of successful people make light of their success as though it just happened without work. They already knew it all, just went to college and walked through because they already knew it, just had to fill out the paperwork to get their degree. And/or when they started in their career, they just walked on the job day one killing it, their first day. They are just so bright and smart, everything has been so easy for them. It's all complete crap, I've never seen it in real life, everyone started at the bottom. Then they go about criticizing anyone below them who's trying to learn by pointing out their mistakes, trying to tell them they don't have it in them, all that crap. I really hate people like that.
06-02-2019, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
It's not an excuse, this has literally happened dude. I go after the lowest of the low women and they still can do better than me or they would rather stay singleJust keeping stacking up those excuses; given eod a run for his money.
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
Quite off topic but anyway.How were guys like Isaac Newton, Tesla, and Beethoven able to be incels and be ok with it??
First of all you assume their celibacy was involuntary, maybe you are right, I have not read any real biography of those people.
Nevertheless I read few things about Sir Isaac Newton and Beethoven and for what I have read their celibacy was most likely a choice especialy for Sir Isaac Newton since he was a very pious man.
That being said, that is most often the case for geniuses since they are focus 200% on their work and don't care about anything else.
Finaly people like that do not need someone in their life or some external recognition (since accumulating sexual partners is mainly an ego thing and external validation), they are beyond all of that since they have been touch by God's grace.
Funny anecdote to illustrate this point, in the early 1800, French troops occupied Silesia and the Prince Carl Lichnowsky who suppported Beethoven financialy wanted him to play for french officers but Beethoven refused. The Prince orders him to play, Beethoven refused again and here was his answer : "Prince, you are what you are by pure hazard of birth, I have become what I am by my own merit. Princes, there have been, there are and there will be thousands more but there will be only ONE Beethoven".
You don't give two **** about relationships or anything else when you are at that level and knows that you are among the few who have written their name in the history of mankind.
That kind of people are not on the same page as 99.9999999% of mankind, they are "gods" among men, a comparison is not even possible with regular people.
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don't know
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man up *******
this is the easiest time in all of human history to have sex
phuck off
dont care
man up *******
this is the easiest time in all of human history to have sex
phuck off
06-02-2019, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By HouseOfISRAEL⏩
Studies show otherwise. 50% divorce rates and 28% of men admitted no sex in 2018don't know
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man up *******
this is the easiest time in all of human history to have sex
phuck off
dont care
man up *******
this is the easiest time in all of human history to have sex
phuck off
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Facts aren't allowedStudies show otherwise. 50% divorce rates and 28% of men admitted no sex in 2018
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I looked like the pic on the left for a couple years and slept with 20-30 women without issue...Facts aren't allowed
https://imgur.com/a/jdCh2zi
Those darn excuses again...
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
Slightly chubby, not bad in the face, white, not short.I looked like the pic on the left for a couple years and slept with 20-30 women without issue...
https://imgur.com/a/jdCh2zi
Those darn excuses again...
https://imgur.com/a/jdCh2zi
Those darn excuses again...
I'm not surprised dude. You arent that bad in that pic.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
Lmao dude, I've looked far worse and I've slayed plenty myself. These people are retarded.I looked like the pic on the left for a couple years and slept with 20-30 women without issue...
https://imgur.com/a/jdCh2zi
Those darn excuses again...
https://imgur.com/a/jdCh2zi
Those darn excuses again...
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Location: NorwayLmao dude, I've looked far worse and I've slayed plenty myself. These people are retarded.
You dont think there might be some differences between Norway and America
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
False, because I dont get laid but I also dont hate life.2 types of people in this thread
guys that aren't getting laid hating life
guys getting laid saying life ain't too bad/deal with it
guys that aren't getting laid hating life
guys getting laid saying life ain't too bad/deal with it
To assume anyone that cant get women hates life itself is nonsense.
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
It’s insufferable dude...I can’t stand it. Imagine being friends with some of these guys.Lmao dude, I've looked far worse and I've slayed plenty myself. These people are retarded.
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