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post 1581650891 06-07-2019, 06:44 PM
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the beginning of the end brah rip
post 1581651301 06-07-2019, 06:54 PM
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where do we sign op's obituary




was nice knowin ya


I bet BJ's/sex *might* increase nicely for first....week. at best. op will be thinking 'ha! those guys were so wrong! glad i did this!'


then guy will realize real lies with real eyes just how not joking we were


but live n learn bruh, live n learn
post 1581794011 06-10-2019, 10:56 AM
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Well the deed is done... move-in is complete

Things are going well so far but her cat has yet to acclimate to the new surroundings
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post 1581794441 06-10-2019, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By triception
Well the deed is done... move-in is complete

Things are going well so far but her cat has yet to acclimate to the new surroundings
So, what you're saying is that right now her pussy ain't diggin it? Well, wait until time passes... then you won't see that pussy anymore. Welcome to the mistake, brah.
post 1581796281 06-10-2019, 11:28 AM
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I look forward to ops next thread...

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post 1581796931 06-10-2019, 11:38 AM
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I've been dating my girlfriend since January. I've been living with my best friend from way back in the day for 2 years now. we just renewed our lease for 5 months. my girlfriend and I have been talking about me moving into her house after my current lease is up. that would be almost a year of us being together. we already spend almost every night together. i'm kinda looking forward too it because i'll be saving hundreds every month on rent.
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post 1581797211 06-10-2019, 11:42 AM
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Rip op...
post 1581797431 06-10-2019, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
why the fuk would you do this unless you were engaged?
This. Didn't move in together until after we were engaged. Don't see the point in doing it before.
post 1581798001 06-10-2019, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
This. Didn't move in together until after we were engaged. Don't see the point in doing it before.
You can save a chitload on a ring if you find out whether or not you can stand living with each other beforehand.
post 1581798131 06-10-2019, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie
You can save a chitload on a ring if you find out whether or not you can stand living with each other beforehand.
This^^^

I get not wanting to rush into living with a GF, but you're insane if you get engaged before having an extended timeframe of living together. You'd be amazed how quick a relationship can derail after moving in together.

You need to know your compatible housemates before you even consider getting engaged.
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post 1581798291 06-10-2019, 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
This. Didn't move in together until after we were engaged. Don't see the point in doing it before.
wtf why would I propose to someone if I don't even know if we can handle living together
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post 1581800051 06-10-2019, 12:26 PM
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I have done this twice. One of them was with a girl who stood at my place every weekend for 2 years before she moved in. It was a blast having her over, She lived with me for over a year, everything was great. Until it all went sideways in under 24 hours.

Tread carefully. It is one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do if you have to move her out.
post 1581800761 06-10-2019, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By toobusy
I have done this twice. One of them was with a girl who stood at my place every weekend for 2 years before she moved in. It was a blast having her over, She lived with me for over a year, everything was great. Until it all went sideways in under 24 hours.

Tread carefully. It is one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do if you have to move her out.
Please elaborate. What happened in 24 hours?
post 1581801141 06-10-2019, 12:48 PM
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I didn’t live with my wife until after I proposed, so I really had some motivation to make it work. Was def a pain in the ass having a woman living in my former bachelor house. Honestly don’t think it would have worked if I didn’t have that motivation. I still reminisce about the days of cranking one out with the big screen and chitting with the door open. Your going to find that any time she’s out and you have the place to yourself you’ll go full degenerate mode.
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post 1581802831 06-10-2019, 01:18 PM
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Nah son. Only date women who are established home owners. If you make it to the finish line with her, you get to hash out whos house you're selling/renting out. It's a win/win. NEVER let a woman move in unless y'all are married.
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post 1581803271 06-10-2019, 01:23 PM
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ive been dating my gf for 2.5 years and we are gonna move in with each other in november. She was hesistant at first but I stayed at her place for a few weeks and she seems ready to move in together now
post 1581804721 06-10-2019, 01:43 PM
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post 1581805141 06-10-2019, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By xpin2winx
ive been dating my gf for 2.5 years and we are gonna move in with each other in november. She was hesistant at first but I stayed at her place for a few weeks and she seems ready to move in together now
Seems reasonable after 2.5 years, what're your reasons for wanting to make the jump?
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Your going to find that any time she’s out and you have the place to yourself you’ll go full degenerate mode.
tbh I can already feel that this will be the case
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She pooped?
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post 1581805301 06-10-2019, 01:51 PM
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Dropping this Classic here for OP

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...ly+regret+move
I just came here on the internet to lie
post 1581805821 06-10-2019, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By mujie
lol'd but almost none of those bullet points apply to my gf.

only one that comes close would be rearranging the decor which

1) I don't care about as long as it's not significant work on my end

and

2) At least so far we seem to have pretty similar style preferences
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post 1581806861 06-10-2019, 02:14 PM
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lmao you dun goofed opie.

Say goodbye to everything you appreciate about your current setup.

Soon she will take over and you will forget what it ever felt like to do what you wanted to do, be your own man.

Downward and slippery slope starts right here.

Tour is over boyo.

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post 1581808931 06-10-2019, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By LordBroski
We both had separate apartments and then moved in together after a year, and then bought a house together a couple years after that. She sold off her furniture and kept mine, but all of her utensils and personal items came in so we were pretty crammed with all her things, but it was fine.

Lots of pros: someone to share expenses, cooking, and cleaning with. She also sees what I'm running low on and gets it for me when she's out shopping. Get to bed together and smash without having to drive to/from.

Cons: if you differ in terms of how you like your apartment to look, then it will be a clash point. I have no taste in design, my furniture is all ugly but very functional, so I don't care if she were to redesign the place, but for some guys it may feel like giving up part of your identity. She's messy and leaves things laying around, but she likes to clean, whereas I like to tidy, so it works out fine as much as I find her messiness annoying.

If you want to be with her and want to take things to the next step, you gotta get over giving up your space. That's just the way it is.
good points, repped
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post 1581810211 06-10-2019, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By triception
Seems reasonable after 2.5 years, what're your reasons for wanting to make the jump?



tbh I can already feel that this will be the case



She has a full time job and a part time job, so she works all the time and only wants to hangout on the weekend. I want to hangout more but she doesnt like it since i go to sleep so early and she stays up later. I moved out of my apartment and rents too high for a studio in chitty place in town. We can get a super nice 2 bed apartment in a nice area for a better price.
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