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what if you don't have a social circle with sloots in it?
"Sometimes nobody shows up and you automatically win."
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06-17-2019, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME⏩
how can it be over if it never even startedIt's over for you.
"Sometimes nobody shows up and you automatically win."
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06-17-2019, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted By RonaldMcflurry⏩
This.Everything that you just said is irrelevant in 2019.
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This is what I'm talking about. Most of the times you end up regretting not approaching and thinking what could have been. You have nothing to lose really...Same I was at the gym last week and there was cute girl standing in line behind me at the juice bar no one else was around. I almost offered to buy her smoothie to maybe start a convo, but I wussed out cause I was tired and sweaty from my workout lol
Originally Posted By RonaldMcflurry⏩
This is what I always thought but you'd be suprised how many women will be down to talk if you maybe say some remark. Also about that rejection part, I stopped giving a fuk, it doesn't have to be awkward unless you make it awkward. So what that I am seeing that person every day after getting rejected? I thought she was cute and went for it and she wasn't down, moving on. We are not in HS anymore where you'd get mocked and laughed at for liking someone and getting rejected.I feel like the gym is a bad place to cold approach. Most people just want to be left alone to get their workout in, and if you do get rejected then you have to see that person who rejected you on a regular basis. A regular cold approach rejection doesn't mean sht, because you most likely will never even see that person again.
Originally Posted By DassItMan⏩
Again, you have nothing to lose and even if you'd say hi and she'd blow you off with the most brutal way the feeling would still be better than the regret of "what could have been"Edit: She started staring at me again but I wouldn't look back, got frustrated at something, packed up her stuff and left while shaking her head and letting out a sigh. tf is with these chick's attitude.
fuk I regret not talking to her. We sat on the same table for 6 hours exchanging glances but tfw too much of a bytch to even talk
fuk I regret not talking to her. We sat on the same table for 6 hours exchanging glances but tfw too much of a bytch to even talk
Originally Posted By Noahbro⏩
Das it mane.Repped
I met my wife through cold approach.
I also got tired of convincing the misc that it’s okay to try to talk to girls they don’t know. Remember that saying they told us as kids, GIRLS DO NOT BITE. In fact most girls are nice well mannered when you approach in a sincere way.
I met my wife through cold approach.
I also got tired of convincing the misc that it’s okay to try to talk to girls they don’t know. Remember that saying they told us as kids, GIRLS DO NOT BITE. In fact most girls are nice well mannered when you approach in a sincere way.
Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
No type of approach will work if she's not attracted to you. You think if you meet a woman through your friends and she is not attracted you, you are going to get with her? You would most likely just end up friendzoned. Atleast just approaching you don't waste much time if she isn't down...Cold approach will not work unless she is attracted to you. If she is attracted to you then she will give you a subtle sign like a smile, eye contact, or try to get close to you. Then you can initiate a conversation if you are easy going and natural. The best way to get a girl is through a social circle where you guys are out. First impressions matter and if you come off as an autist in your cold approach then you have no chance.
Remember, girls are brutal and they dont care if you tried hard. This is why nice guys finish last because they try so hard, but dont know what they are doing. Yet, the jerks end up with the girl because they dont try and it comes off as confident.
Remember, girls are brutal and they dont care if you tried hard. This is why nice guys finish last because they try so hard, but dont know what they are doing. Yet, the jerks end up with the girl because they dont try and it comes off as confident.
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Do you ever look around at the types of dudes the vast majority of women are with? Most of them are extremelly average or bellow average. A lot of women are lonely and are waiting for somebody to show interest in them.She's talking about Chad. She wishes Chad would approach.
Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
Simply not true. Women don't need much for them to want to fuk you honestly. I don't understand where this notion that women have this insane checklist of things you need to have in order for them to fuk you came from (prolly online dating). All you need to do is talk to her and if she finds you sexually attractive and you have atleast some form of connection she will be down. That's all...the best way to meet women is to have a solid social group that includes attractive men and women, women that you're friends with and don't smash. women need the approval of other women to go home with a guy. so that when you're at a bar, or club, women know you're not some creep who's desperate for a lay. and, your girl friends have friends and you're pre approved. just lol at cold approach.
Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Since when do you have to do what everyone else does? Like I said not many people have the balls to approach or even make convo with a random stranger which is why most guys are alone, miserable, resorting to the cesspool that is online dating or whinning about women. Idc if people aren't talking to each other or what the social norms are, I am going to go get what I want...Go to a grocery store, how many people do you see talking to each other there? Strong understanding of social norms...
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06-17-2019, 04:07 AM
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Originally Posted By RonaldMcflurry⏩
I've only seen one cold approach in the gym and the person might have known the girl idk. 99% of girls there have ear buds in and have their Chad bf with them. I personally know a few of them that do this. So it would be pretty hard to cold approach there. Even approaching would be extremely hard since the girls either have their ear buds in have Chad bf or are the type to work out with a group of dudes they know lolI feel like the gym is a bad place to cold approach. Most people just want to be left alone to get their workout in, and if you do get rejected then you have to see that person who rejected you on a regular basis. A regular cold approach rejection doesn't mean sht, because you most likely will never even see that person again.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Tap on her shoulder and motion her to pull them out lol. Quit looking for excuses to not do somethingI've only seen one cold approach in the gym and the person might have known the girl idk. 99% of girls there have ear buds in and have their Chad bf with them. I personally know a few of them that do this. So it would be pretty hard to cold approach there. Even approaching would be extremely hard since the girls either have their ear buds in have Chad bf or are the type to work out with a group of dudes they know lol
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06-17-2019, 04:25 AM
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06-17-2019, 11:11 AM
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just lmao at thinking cold approach is the “best” way to meet girls. that should literally be your last resort desperation attempt after you have been rejected by society.
06-17-2019, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
How do you explain the popularity of online dating?It would be an instant rejection since most girls don't date men they aren't familiar with in 2019. Like a decent woman wouldn't be single or date someone who could approached her srs
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06-17-2019, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By BohemianSlav⏩
Although this is generally true, it is not true in all cases. If you have mutual friends and the friends can vouch that you are a fun guy and you guys have chemistry/common interests girls wont care as much about your looks. Of course you cant be ugly as fuk, but you dont have to be a "hot guy" if you have other things that make up for it. You'll be surprised how many avg looking guys get goodlooking girls when they have confidence.This.
No type of approach will work if she's not attracted to you. You think if you meet a woman through your friends and she is not attracted you, you are going to get with her? You would most likely just end up friendzoned. Atleast just approaching you don't waste much time if she isn't down...
No type of approach will work if she's not attracted to you. You think if you meet a woman through your friends and she is not attracted you, you are going to get with her? You would most likely just end up friendzoned. Atleast just approaching you don't waste much time if she isn't down...
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
The fuk are you on about?just lmao at thinking cold approach is the “best” way to meet girls. that should literally be your last resort desperation attempt after you have been rejected by society.
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06-17-2019, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
It's mostly a way for trash grade women to get attention from 87,000 thirsty betas. The number of decent women looking for a quality relationship is very small.How do you explain the popularity of online dating?
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
But that applies for cold approaching aswel. In no way do you have to be a Chad. The only place where I think you are going to get close to nothing unless you are really good looking is online dating and nightclubs because in that environment you are competing with tons of other dudes most of whom are going to be either better looking, taller, better dressed, have more money, etc...Although this is generally true, it is not true in all cases. If you have mutual friends and the friends can vouch that you are a fun guy and you guys have chemistry/common interests girls wont care as much about your looks. Of course you cant be ugly as fuk, but you dont have to be a "hot guy" if you have other things that make up for it. You'll be surprised how many avg looking guys get goodlooking girls when they have confidence.
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06-17-2019, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By BohemianSlav⏩
How does it apply to cold approaching when nobody can vouch for you? You're a complete stranger to the girl so she will have a huge guard up unless she is attracted to you. She may give you a number, but a number doesnt mean ****t. She could give it to you and never respond to your text. At least if you have mutual friends there is a higher chance of being able to see her again to build a repoire.But that applies for cold approaching aswel. In no way do you have to be a Chad. The only place where I think you are going to get close to nothing unless you are really good looking is online dating and nightclubs because in that environment you are competing with tons of other dudes most of whom are going to be either better looking, taller, better dressed, have more money, etc...
06-17-2019, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
Online dating isn't popular the vast majority of people still meet through friends or work. Online dating is mostly people who can't get any attention irl or introverted/fa people and women trying to date out of their league lol.How do you explain the popularity of online dating?
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
What I am saying is girls don't care about having somebody vouch for you. Yeah it can help if somebody talks you up but at the end of the day it won't matter. Look if social circle works for you then fine, the most success I've had and the most quality women I met randomly through cold approach. And whether she will give you a fake number or ghost/flake really depends on whether she finds you attractive enough. Also I don't like relying on my friends to meet new girls and hope they are single and attractive.How does it apply to cold approaching when nobody can vouch for you? You're a complete stranger to the girl so she will have a huge guard up unless she is attracted to you. She may give you a number, but a number doesnt mean ****t. She could give it to you and never respond to your text. At least if you have mutual friends there is a higher chance of being able to see her again to build a repoire.
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06-17-2019, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted By DassItMan⏩
Laurier/UW am I right? Apparently you aren't the chads if you can't even talk to Asian girls. Never had a problem with White Laurier girlsI agree but it can be so hard to read if a girl is actually interested or not and then finding the courage to talk to someone random. Currently sitting on a university campus that's not my own but down the street from my uni, but it helps cause we are seen as the chads of the city and they are seen as the nerds so I always get a few extra glances when they can see from my textbooks or my merchandise that reps my uni logo and cause most students from our uni don't study here. Stands out in a good way. This stunning Asian chick, and i'm not normally into Asians but this chick is just stunning, has been staring at me periodically for hours now with a few smiles when I catch her looking, and there's a lot of tension but it's so hard to muster the courage to go and say hi, especially if you've been out of the game for nearly a year like me, even though we're sitting on the same table. It's so much easier to talk to someone with context, i.e. from your classes or someone you met through friends, work, etc.
Edit: She started staring at me again but I wouldn't look back, got frustrated at something, packed up her stuff and left while shaking her head and letting out a sigh. tf is with these chick's attitude.
fuk I regret not talking to her. We sat on the same table for 6 hours exchanging glances but tfw too much of a bytch to even talk
Edit: She started staring at me again but I wouldn't look back, got frustrated at something, packed up her stuff and left while shaking her head and letting out a sigh. tf is with these chick's attitude.
fuk I regret not talking to her. We sat on the same table for 6 hours exchanging glances but tfw too much of a bytch to even talk
06-17-2019, 12:20 PM
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Can confirm the clubs/ bars. Yet everyone tells me it’s such a great way to get laid out here. There’s like 5 guys hitting on the same girl.
Complete and utter ****. The best way to meet people will always be your social circle or through mutual friends.
Complete and utter ****. The best way to meet people will always be your social circle or through mutual friends.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Must be a regional thing, because it's still fairly popular here.Online dating isn't popular the vast majority of people still meet through friends or work. Online dating is mostly people who can't get any attention irl or introverted/fa people and women trying to date out of their league lol.
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Originally Posted By BohemianSlav⏩
“girls don’t care about having somebody vouch for you”What I am saying is girls don't care about having somebody vouch for you. Yeah it can help if somebody talks you up but at the end of the day it won't matter. Look if social circle works for you then fine, the most success I've had and the most quality women I met randomly through cold approach. And whether she will give you a fake number or ghost/flake really depends on whether she finds you attractive enough. Also I don't like relying on my friends to meet new girls and hope they are single and attractive.
have u ever had friends that are girls before? i’m confidently guessing no
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It's also the most awkward way
HOWEVER
the one girl I cold approached in recent years was absolutely smitten with me
She wanted to bang but I had a girlfriend at the time (just keeping stable in case it went south, don't tell me you or girls don't do the same)
But she didn't know that so I just kept telling her I couldn't meet cos didn't want to cheat
But point is she wanted to bang ASAP and she was an 8/10 too
However, that was because we had a lot in common
Thinking girls are just gonna wanna smash cos you had 'balls' to walk up to them means you're deluded. They don't care how they get dick they just want a Chad.
HOWEVER
the one girl I cold approached in recent years was absolutely smitten with me
She wanted to bang but I had a girlfriend at the time (just keeping stable in case it went south, don't tell me you or girls don't do the same)
But she didn't know that so I just kept telling her I couldn't meet cos didn't want to cheat
But point is she wanted to bang ASAP and she was an 8/10 too
However, that was because we had a lot in common
Thinking girls are just gonna wanna smash cos you had 'balls' to walk up to them means you're deluded. They don't care how they get dick they just want a Chad.
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06-17-2019, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By BohemianSlav⏩
You have to be in the same social circle/tribe with the girl so that she can seriosuly date you. Look a bit into the history of mankind and you will know why you need to have friends in order for women to like you and have kids with you. Cold approaching is useless because people are naturally scared of strangers/foreign tribes.What I am saying is girls don't care about having somebody vouch for you. Yeah it can help if somebody talks you up but at the end of the day it won't matter. Look if social circle works for you then fine, the most success I've had and the most quality women I met randomly through cold approach. And whether she will give you a fake number or ghost/flake really depends on whether she finds you attractive enough. Also I don't like relying on my friends to meet new girls and hope they are single and attractive.
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So many excuses in here. I feel like people that think its against "social norms" think of sex as some "dirty" thing
So, if it becomes clear you want a girl you are "breaking the rules"
So if i go up to a restaurant right now.. And talk with someone (lets say no woman)
Im "breaking social norms"?
Why is it any different with a woman?
Theres a fundamental belief sex is bad for some reason
So, if it becomes clear you want a girl you are "breaking the rules"
So if i go up to a restaurant right now.. And talk with someone (lets say no woman)
Im "breaking social norms"?
Why is it any different with a woman?
Theres a fundamental belief sex is bad for some reason
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Originally Posted By Claud3⏩
Most girls don't give a chit about your friends, I have a decent social circle yet its never made a girl like me more or less just because I have some friends. Most people have friends ffs it won't exactly make you stand out will it? Unless you're friends with celebrities or CEO/10k a day no one cares.You have to be in the same social circle/tribe with the girl so that she can seriosuly date you. Look a bit into the history of mankind and you will know why you need to have friends in order for women to like you and have kids with you. Cold approaching is useless because people are naturally scared of strangers/foreign tribes.
All that matters is that shes attracted to you and that you get along well unless she's some gold digger insta model.
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
IMO depends on the girl. Some girls thrive off guys with big social groups. It demonstrates social value.Most girls don't give a chit about your friends, I have a decent social circle yet its never made a girl like me more just because I have some friends, most people have friends ffs it won't exactly make you stand out will it? Unless you're friends with celebrities or CEO/10k a day no one cares.
All that matters is that shes attracted to you and that you get along well.
All that matters is that shes attracted to you and that you get along well.
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
This is a giant red sloot flag. Danger danger danger. Big social groups are prime monkey branching territory.IMO depends on the girl. Some girls thrive off guys with big social groups. It demonstrates social value.
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