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post 1582374621 06-19-2019, 05:10 PM
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I'm about to start cold approaching before this year, would make for a good years end
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
I'm about to start cold approaching before this year, would make for a good years end
Don’t waste your time you’ll get nowhere brother
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
Practically all companies do cold calling. Lead generation buddy.
ya the bottom bytch of the company cold calls while the chad partner gets referrals. cold calling is literally one of the worst jobs on the planet and is 99.5% rejection and misc wants to apply that strategy to women?
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
ya the bottom bytch of the company cold calls while the chad partner gets referrals. cold calling is literally one of the worst jobs on the planet and is 99.5% rejection and misc wants to apply that strategy to women?
Your right and cold approaching is cringey but how does a 21 year old meet women I know no one and dating apps don’t work for me
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
yea, im sure this isn't just an excuse to explain your inadequacy.

so, you'd cringe if you saw someone that liked what they saw and got it?
no, i’d cringe because i saw someone that liked what they saw and initiated a painfully awkward social interaction that inevitably leads to public rejection.

it’s no different than finding a random instagram profile and DMing her. the only difference is that she can’t screenshot your pathetic failure and post it to twitter, instagram, and every group chat she’s in.
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Your right and cold approaching is cringey but how does a 21 year old meet women I know no one and dating apps don’t work for me
get some hobbies. go to meetups for those hobbies. invite everyone to drinks after.

if you’re in school, join a club or fraternity. meet them there.

get a job at a restaurant/bar. the employees of those places fukkk like bunnies. most are very social and hang out, drink, etc.

if you have a professional job, go to the happy hours with the other young people.
post 1582376141 06-19-2019, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
no, i’d cringe because i saw someone that liked what they saw and initiated a painfully awkward social interaction that inevitably leads to public rejection.

it’s no different than finding a random instagram profile and DMing her. the only difference is that she can’t screenshot your pathetic failure and post it to twitter, instagram, and every group chat she’s in.



get some hobbies. go to meetups for those hobbies. invite everyone to drinks after.

if you’re in school, join a club or fraternity. meet them there.

get a job at a restaurant/bar. the employees of those places fukkk like bunnies. most are very social and hang out, drink, etc.

if you have a professional job, go to the happy hours with the other young people.
I have hobbies and I don’t need a job atm and don’t wanna work in a bar and I know no one at a,l my hobbies are gym swimming gaming and going for walks I repeat I know no one everyone in the gym wears earphones lol I’m screwed gonna die alone I’m a loser
post 1582376331 06-19-2019, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
I have hobbies and I don’t need a job atm and don’t wanna work in a bar and I know no one at a,l my hobbies are gym swimming gaming and going for walks I repeat I know no one everyone in the gym wears earphones lol I’m screwed gonna die alone I’m a loser
Exactly. Been saying this for years man. Literally almost everyone that isn't one of the 24/7 gymcels is wearing ear buds in the gym. If you aren't part of the popular group that goes every fukin day there is no way to meet anyone.
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post 1582376511 06-19-2019, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Exactly. Been saying this for years man. Literally almost everyone that isn't one of the 24/7 gymcels is wearing ear buds in the gym. If you aren't part of the popular group that goes every fukin day there is no way to meet anyone.
Exactly!!! Your right my man even when it was easier meeting people in the day I didn’t meet them through hobbies lol.... my mum said I should find a women I said how? She said online oh dear the older generation have no idea do they!
post 1582376651 06-19-2019, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
I have hobbies and I don’t need a job atm and don’t wanna work in a bar and I know no one at a,l my hobbies are gym swimming gaming and going for walks I repeat I know no one everyone in the gym wears earphones lol I’m screwed gonna die alone I’m a loser
well if you refuse to get a hobby or a job that makes you interact with other people then i suppose after 100 cold approaches you can find a woman willing to go on one date with you and then ghost you.
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Exactly!!! Your right my man even when it was easier meeting people in the day I didn’t meet them through hobbies lol.... my mum said I should find a women I said how? She said online oh dear the older generation have no idea do they!
The stars still have to align. Just because you approach 100 women or get a few hobbies doesn't mean you will meet a woman that you like that likes you too. This is why it's all cookie cutter advice.
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Yes even if you did meet people through these hobbies they’d not be interested or taking surprised people suggest pubs and bars it’s full of couples and just men nothing works and I have hobbies what do you expect me to do pretend I’m interested in dancing take up dancing classes to meet women who are taken and not interested I’ll pass thanks
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Yes even if you did meet people through these hobbies they’d not be interested or taking surprised people suggest pubs and bars it’s full of couples and just men nothing works and I have hobbies what do you expect me to do pretend I’m interested in dancing take up dancing classes to meet women who are taken and not interested I’ll pass thanks
ima give you some harsh reality: your attitude is pathetic. srs. people get laid all the time through friends, hobbies, bars. if it’s not working for you then it’s a personal problem. i gave you some advice on how to fix it and you rejected all of it to throw a pity party. if you want to be an incel you’re doing a fantastic job.

people like to do fun things. be the guy that does fun things and invites people to fun things. the women will come flocking naturally.
post 1582378621 06-19-2019, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
no, i’d cringe because i saw someone that liked what they saw and initiated a painfully awkward social interaction that inevitably leads to public rejection.

it’s no different than finding a random instagram profile and DMing her. the only difference is that she can’t screenshot your pathetic failure and post it to twitter, instagram, and every group chat she’s in.



get some hobbies. go to meetups for those hobbies. invite everyone to drinks after.

if you’re in school, join a club or fraternity. meet them there.

get a job at a restaurant/bar. the employees of those places fukkk like bunnies. most are very social and hang out, drink, etc.

if you have a professional job, go to the happy hours with the other young people.
Good advice. He should have no trouble meeting women at 21. Also go to bars, clubs with friends and meet younger women there. That’s where my hookups came from in my early 20’s.

I’m 30 now and it’s hard meeting women due to social circle since most of my friends don’t go out anymore and have kids already
post 1582378981 06-19-2019, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
ima give you some harsh reality: your attitude is pathetic. srs. people get laid all the time through friends, hobbies, bars. if it’s not working for you then it’s a personal problem. i gave you some advice on how to fix it and you rejected all of it to throw a pity party. if you want to be an incel you’re doing a fantastic job.

people like to do fun things. be the guy that does fun things and invites people to fun things. the women will come flocking naturally.
I don’t care good for them? I know tons of virgins and successful people who brag about women what’s your point? I’m not an incel I love women lol just impossible to get them your advice being “get some hobbies” which I already do and get a job which I don’t want or need and isn’t as simple to get so what’s your point?
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
ima give you some harsh reality: your attitude is pathetic. srs. people get laid all the time through friends, hobbies, bars. if it’s not working for you then it’s a personal problem. i gave you some advice on how to fix it and you rejected all of it to throw a pity party. if you want to be an incel you’re doing a fantastic job.

people like to do fun things. be the guy that does fun things and invites people to fun things. the women will come flocking naturally.
If it’s a personal problem why do I know so many people who have the same problem the guy above me agreed and others aswell on this fourm so is everyone doing things wrong I’ve been to bars it’s a sausage fest I didn’t meet anyone through friends cos you don’t ive tryed all your advice it’s worthless son
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
no, i’d cringe because i saw someone that liked what they saw and initiated a painfully awkward social interaction that inevitably leads to public rejection.
that sounds like you expect them to reject you; that is the antithesis to "confidence".

ive gone to festivals alone and broken into groups. and ended up getting invited back to after parties and stuff. ive done it more than a few times

do i usually go alone? no. have i? yes. hell, most often even when i go out ill break off from who i came with. so in that scenario ive "cold approached" a lot of people. there's so many ways to go about it the possibilities are endless. you can be in line and then make an offhand comment and suddenly some dude thinks youre cool and invites you back to his group. or you can even say "my friends just left x", etc., etc.

i mean chit. sometimes it can be awkward but even then its not the worst thing in the world. sometimes gotta fight through the awkwardness to get to the other side
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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz⏩
Good advice. He should have no trouble meeting women at 21. Also go to bars, clubs with friends and meet younger women there. That’s where my hookups came from in my early 20’s.

I’m 30 now and it’s hard meeting women due to social circle since most of my friends don’t go out anymore and have kids already
I live in London... it’s diffrent here what part of I don’t know anyone didn’t you get all my friends was fake and didn’t meet anyone through them.... you can’t meet people the other guys right
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
If it’s a personal problem why do I know so many people who have the same problem the guy above me agreed and others aswell on this fourm so is everyone doing things wrong I’ve been to bars it’s a sausage fest I didn’t meet anyone through friends cos you don’t ive tryed all your advice it’s worthless son
Yep every time i went to a bar the girls were with other dudes. Girls don't just go to the bar to sit at the tables by themselves they are always with other dudes or in their social circle.
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
If it’s a personal problem why do I know so many people who have the same problem the guy above me agreed and others aswell on this fourm so is everyone doing things wrong I’ve been to bars it’s a sausage fest I didn’t meet anyone through friends cos you don’t ive tryed all your advice it’s worthless son
probably because as an incel you only interact with other incels and you share your miserable stories together. me and my friends have zero issues getting laid by hosting parties/pregames, having our girl friends plug it with their friends, at bars, meeting girls at work, hobbies, traveling, etc.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Yep every time i went to a bar the girls were with other dudes. Girls don't just go to the bar to sit at the tables by themselves they are always with other dudes or in their social circle.
I know right and a lot of the times the bars and pubs are just full of men no women lol!
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Originally Posted By puffdaddy68⏩
probably because as an incel you only interact with other incels and you share your miserable stories together. me and my friends have zero issues getting laid by hosting parties/pregames, having our girl friends plug it with their friends, at bars, meeting girls at work, hobbies, traveling, etc.
I don’t know anyone and have never met people through my hobbies
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Everything that you just said is irrelevant in 2019.
Incel does as Incel is.
Let's just write off life because...
Incels must incel.
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1) any quality woman is not going to let you cold approach her (at a grocery store for example)
2) any quality woman is not going to hand out her number to 50 guys
3) any quality woman is not going to be at a bar/club/etc
4) any quality woman probably has a strong family dynamic with brothers or dad looking out for her
5) any quality woman will have YOU pass the sniff test with said brothers or dad

Conclusion: quality women exist, they are not going to give up sex just because you have some kind of (lame) game
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
1) any quality woman is not going to let you cold approach her (at a grocery store for example)
2) any quality woman is not going to hand out her number to 50 guys
3) any quality woman is not going to be at a bar/club/etc
4) any quality woman probably has a strong family dynamic with brothers or dad looking out for her
5) any quality woman will have YOU pass the sniff test with said brothers or dad

Conclusion: quality women exist, they are not going to give up sex just because you have some kind of (lame) game
These women don’t exist it’s impossible to meet people cold approach ya get rejected you don’t meet people in the gym or outside because they stick with their social circle I don’t wanna start hating all women again but I’m becoming more and more negative because of them
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Working in ya self and sorting ya life out does nothing but become more negative and same expirences with women I’ll go back to being addicted to gambling then kill myself im too depressed women get you like this
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Accurate as fook.

I see so many hot women out at target, old navy, etc but my logistics are fkd right now.

Who’s in to start cold approach crew?
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Not me yields no chance of success think I’ll kill myself after all I’ll die alone
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