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post 1582533051 06-22-2019, 07:02 AM
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This thread will fail. Most of you don't have the grit, motivation or focus for approaching random women during the day.

Prove me wrong, *******s.
Never take it personal, even when it is.

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post 1582533151 06-22-2019, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Imagine if everyone approached random people at grocery stores or at the gym. Kind of messed up imo. People don't want to go out into public to be hit on or bothered. A lot of these girls have boyfriends at the gym too that work out with them.
Who's saying you have to hit on everyone you see? Just be friendly, strike up small talk when standing in line. The more comfortable you get the easier it will be to actually approach that person you see that you're attracted to. Oh noes!!! Someone of the opposite sex said hi to me! lol You're acting like being spoken to is this big bad scary thing.
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post 1582533271 06-22-2019, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Please don't do this. I'm for cold approach at bars and clubs where it is common but don't do this during the daytime srs
So you are telling me not to do something that works for me and many others here?
Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
getting her is not what bothers me


it's all the bs i'll have to put up with to keep her

it's just not worth it anymore, cuz you could do everything you think is right , and somehow , it will still be your fault when she blows a "friend"

i got enough aholes to deal with on the road and in the store these days , i don't need to date one


when that one in a mill unicorn presents itself , you'll know , cuz she'll approach you


approaching sloots , you're doing exactly what she wants

a man with integrity doesn't chase women , he also doesn't get laid much

being a man is not about getting laid , it's about having integrity and strength


jfc men are stupid
Getting the girl and keeping her around are definetly two diferent things. I feel like all the things like having friends/being really interesting, having a social circle and all the other chit misc likes to preach as being important really comes more into play once you are actually dating and have to constantly come up with chit to do with the girl to keep her interested.
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post 1582533831 06-22-2019, 07:33 AM
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In!! So sick of the sloots I meet off tinder and I work in IT so there are no cute girls at ALL! Will attempt to this Atleast once a day and update my progress, I get plenty of matches on dating sites but always been too puss to cold approach but fuk it life’s too short to be a fukn gay kunt
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post 1582533871 06-22-2019, 07:34 AM
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I see cold approach as taking opportunities, instead of physically pushing yourself into her space out of nowhere. There are tons of signs girls do when you're out and about we're all just too blind to see them. Ever had a moment when a girl did something and you thought to yourself "wtf that was weird/random" - that was her approach. See those opportunities and get em done.

I was returning an item and there girl ringing me up was cute. We started talking about our cultures for some reason, long story short my dad was walking out the store and was calling me so I put my phone down on the counter facing her direction and said put your number in my phone. She did it, later said nobody has ever done that to her and we dated for like 6 months afterwards.

Anyways, sweet thread bro, but are you even gonna do it?
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post 1582533891 06-22-2019, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Imagine if everyone approached random people at grocery stores or at the gym. Kind of messed up imo. People don't want to go out into public to be hit on or bothered. A lot of these girls have boyfriends at the gym too that work out with them.
Imagine if you didn't hit on anyone and just whined all day online about how everything changed in 2012.

Spoiler!
Jk, that's real life.
Take it easy Christian
post 1582533961 06-22-2019, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
I see cold approach as taking opportunities, instead of physically pushing yourself into her space out of nowhere. There are tons of signs girls do when you're out and about we're all just too blind to see them. Ever had a moment when a girl did something and you thought to yourself "wtf that was weird/random" - that was her approach. See those opportunities and get em done.

I was returning an item and there girl ringing me up was cute. We started talking about our cultures for some reason, long story short my dad was walking out the store and was calling me so I put my phone down on the counter facing her direction and said put your number in my phone. She did it, later said nobody has ever done that to her and we dated for like 6 months afterwards.

Anyways, sweet thread bro, but are you even gonna do it?
This. Just take opportunities that life throws at you and don't puss out.
Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
Imagine if you didn't hit on anyone and just whined all day online about how everything changed in 2012.

Spoiler!
Jk, that's real life.
Lol'd
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post 1582533991 06-22-2019, 07:41 AM
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Personally, I'd never cold approach a girl unless she gave me some obvious signals to do so, or unless I was mad drunk.

To each his own I guess...
post 1582534191 06-22-2019, 07:47 AM
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Hmmm, might be in on this....
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post 1582534671 06-22-2019, 08:02 AM
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Definitely a skill I need to work on. I’ve always been fine getting girls when I’m put in a situation where we will talk naturally (school,work, introduced by friend), but have pussed our SO MANY times when ive seen a cute girl out and about that I want to talk to.

Two problems I have at the moment
1. I’m in a huge bulky stabilization swing because my shoulder is wrecked, but I just had surgery and it’s on the mend. So hopefully this will be off in a few weeks.(not insecure about it as it’s a convo starter and I was injured doing bjj, so there’s a whole convo right there). It’s just hard for me to get around right now and would be difficult to go on a date if I got the #

2. I live with my parents and my son since my ex and I split, she kept our apartment. I really don’t have a choice in the matter for the moment since my mom is helping me so much with my son and my injury and I help her with the bills. But this one I am a bit insecure about, once I’m healed up and back to work I’ll be looking for my own place, but what to do in the meantime?
post 1582534881 06-22-2019, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted By rustywite⏩
Definitely a skill I need to work on. I’ve always been fine getting girls when I’m put in a situation where we will talk naturally (school,work, introduced by friend), but have pussed our SO MANY times when ive seen a cute girl out and about that I want to talk to.

Two problems I have at the moment
1. I’m in a huge bulky stabilization swing because my shoulder is wrecked, but I just had surgery and it’s on the mend. So hopefully this will be off in a few weeks.(not insecure about it as it’s a convo starter and I was injured doing bjj, so there’s a whole convo right there). It’s just hard for me to get around right now and would be difficult to go on a date if I got the #

2. I live with my parents and my son since my ex and I split, she kept our apartment. I really don’t have a choice in the matter for the moment since my mom is helping me so much with my son and my injury and I help her with the bills. But this one I am a bit insecure about, once I’m healed up and back to work I’ll be looking for my own place, but what to do in the meantime?
Hey bro, logged in to comment on this.

The first thing you should do is focus on yourself. Stabilize your situation before you try anything new. If you reach out before you're ready, you might have a poor experience which will discourage you.

I know you're probably anxious to make a move, but you can make progress towards that end by taking time for yourself first.

Good luck man.
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post 1582535261 06-22-2019, 08:21 AM
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post 1582536241 06-22-2019, 08:56 AM
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In....maybe OP can turn this into the We Do Pull Ups style aw fuk bye thread.
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Originally Posted By Nacured⏩
In....maybe OP can turn this into the We Do Pull Ups style aw fuk bye thread.
That thread is legendary
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post 1582536671 06-22-2019, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
I see cold approach as taking opportunities, instead of physically pushing yourself into her space out of nowhere. There are tons of signs girls do when you're out and about we're all just too blind to see them. Ever had a moment when a girl did something and you thought to yourself "wtf that was weird/random" - that was her approach. See those opportunities and get em done.

I was returning an item and there girl ringing me up was cute. We started talking about our cultures for some reason, long story short my dad was walking out the store and was calling me so I put my phone down on the counter facing her direction and said put your number in my phone. She did it, later said nobody has ever done that to her and we dated for like 6 months afterwards.

Anyways, sweet thread bro, but are you even gonna do it?
Great example! Maybe she wouldn't have been interested and said no, but you still tried.
Originally Posted By edcone⏩
hand/eye Avi always screams HUGE beta. You're not ready, son. (Srs). No hate.
He's not a beta and he's ready.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
IN

Going to cold approach at the gym. Already picked the guy and what to say. Something like hey I always see you here every time I go.

Regardless of what happens my goal is just to cold approach so at least I can check that off my 2019 goals list.

Das it womane! I went to the gym by myself without trainer for the first time in forever last week. There is a guy there that sometimes talks to my trainer about the Marvel movies while I'm working out. As I walked by him I made myself look right at him smile and say hi. I'm not particularly interested in him, but that was a big one for me. I've been trying to just say hi to guys in passing and then if they're walking in same direction make some kind of small talk about the weather or something.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Das it womane! I went to the gym by myself without trainer for the first time in forever last week. There is a guy there that sometimes talks to my trainer about the Marvel movies while I'm working out. As I walked by him I made myself look right at him smile and say hi. I'm not particularly interested in him, but that was a big one for me. I've been trying to just say hi to guys in passing and then if they're walking in same direction make some kind of small talk about the weather or something.
This is how it starts. Next thing we'll be hearing about your HTC BBC bf. This always happens to single phat assed grannies. Your are powerless before the call of the BBC.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
This is how it starts. Next thing we'll be hearing about your HTC BBC bf. This always happens to single phat assed grannies. Your are powerless before the call of the BBC.
lol I'm LTC not HTC. You confusing me with SS?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
IN

Going to cold approach at the gym. Already picked the guy and what to say. Something like hey I always see you here every time I go.

Regardless of what happens my goal is just to cold approach so at least I can check that off my 2019 goals list.

Das fookin' it.

Will rep you when you report back.
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
He's not a beta and he's ready.
<3
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
This is how it starts. Next thing we'll be hearing about your HTC BBC bf. This always happens to single phat assed grannies.Your are powerless before the call of the BBC.
Yes, hello there.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
lol I'm LTC not HTC. You confusing me with SS?
You sure bout dat?Spoiler!
Originally Posted By edcone⏩
someone repped me for my comment saying they agree so I think I have a point. I'm not tryna be a dick or put anyone down, I can just read people and know when they are ready.
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Originally Posted By edcone⏩
someone repped me for my comment saying they agree so I think I have a point.I'm not tryna be a dick or put anyone down, I can just read people and know when they are ready.
How about a screenshot of that rep? Was probably from your main account lol.

Anyways let me balance that out for you homie.
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Originally Posted By edcone⏩
I don't care for reps so do as you wish. Also you are clearly butthurt which just proves my point that you are not ready, you'd probably consider suicide experiencing your first rejection. Grow a pair.
Negs =/= Butthurt

All I see is a multi account trying to stir up trouble.

Where's that screencap boyo? Main account username?
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Originally Posted By edcone⏩
ain't you married with a kid?
Is that a yes? Would you fuk me?
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The thing is there are some that will like your looks and some that will think you are ugly. If on your first few cold approaches you try to talk to someone that doesn't like you then it will demotivate you from trying with others who might like you. So the hardest part is understanding this and not taking it personally when someone doesn't like your personality or looks.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Possibly today. Going to gym in a bit for quads and calves and will try to get up the courage.
Not possibly. Do it today and come back for negs if you don't.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oooohhhhhh mirin!!!!!!
Yeah, really trying to talk to random people.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Possibly today. Going to gym in a bit for quads and calves and will try to get up the courage.
Do eeeeeet!!!!!
Originally Posted By edcone⏩
someone repped me for my comment saying they agree so I think I have a point. I'm not tryna be a dick or put anyone down, I can just read people and know when they are ready.
So because one person said something that makes it true? Also lol at them putting it in CP and not just saying it here in public.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
You sure bout dat?Spoiler!


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lol
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