07-16-2019, 12:45 AM
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guy refuses to pay for his GF's meal...
Basically the title.
Usually on dates, we split the bill. I don’t really care like in the past, I’ve paid for the full bill and my ex would pay for the bill other times. Like we’d go back and forth.
My current boyfriend wants us to each pay for what we ordered. From the first date, he said that’s how he likes to do things. I was fine with it, I didn’t really care if he wouldn’t pay for me. Paying on a date is sweet to me and I like it but I have my own job so it’s whatever. I figured maybe he doesn’t have a ton of money and he can only cover his own bill.
Anyway I didn’t really have any problem with it. But we went out to some random spot. Like a local chipotle, it tastes way better though. So he went down the line and he got his own meal. I ordered mine and then when I went into my bag, I realized I forgot my wallet at my house. I told him that I forgot it by accident and I thought he’d offer to pay and id pay him back but he was like “oh that sucks...” and sat down to eat.
I was just like what the ****..? This guy standing behind me in the line paid for my food and I paid him back through cashapp. After we ate, I lied and said my mom needed me to come home for something and our date was cut short since we were supposed to go shopping in the city.
How messed up is that? Like why is he so cheap. A random stranger paid for me and he wouldn’t
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationshi..._my_meal_when/Usually on dates, we split the bill. I don’t really care like in the past, I’ve paid for the full bill and my ex would pay for the bill other times. Like we’d go back and forth.
My current boyfriend wants us to each pay for what we ordered. From the first date, he said that’s how he likes to do things. I was fine with it, I didn’t really care if he wouldn’t pay for me. Paying on a date is sweet to me and I like it but I have my own job so it’s whatever. I figured maybe he doesn’t have a ton of money and he can only cover his own bill.
Anyway I didn’t really have any problem with it. But we went out to some random spot. Like a local chipotle, it tastes way better though. So he went down the line and he got his own meal. I ordered mine and then when I went into my bag, I realized I forgot my wallet at my house. I told him that I forgot it by accident and I thought he’d offer to pay and id pay him back but he was like “oh that sucks...” and sat down to eat.
I was just like what the ****..? This guy standing behind me in the line paid for my food and I paid him back through cashapp. After we ate, I lied and said my mom needed me to come home for something and our date was cut short since we were supposed to go shopping in the city.
How messed up is that? Like why is he so cheap. A random stranger paid for me and he wouldn’t
srsly, millenial men, why are you like this?
07-16-2019, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By lolXlol⏩
Making men and women the same is a great mistake. We won't see anything short term, but long term this could ruin society because men will feel like their lives are useless.srsly, millenial men, why are you like this?
07-16-2019, 01:08 AM
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What's his misc username?
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07-16-2019, 01:13 AM
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tbh, it was too much of him , you dont have to be that much of a low life , i mean she forgot her wallet, pay for her , not the end of the world .
Usually if i invite a girl out , ill be paying for her, but when she asks to go out ,we go on a split
Usually if i invite a girl out , ill be paying for her, but when she asks to go out ,we go on a split
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07-16-2019, 01:16 AM
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Not posted in the woman’s story: how many times she has previously “forgotten” her wallet in the past month
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
So she asks you out she pays 50%Usually if i invite a girl out , ill be paying for her, but when she asks to go out ,we go on a split
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
07-16-2019, 01:43 AM
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Ugh! Dump his ass. What a douchebag .. that’s ur gf take care of her. If he can’t do that then dump him. Can you imagine if you guys got married and what kind of husband he would be? Umm no thanks
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07-16-2019, 01:43 AM
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Just lmfao at the white knight who paid for her meal.
07-16-2019, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted By sunrisesunshine⏩
omg... ikr, he's so cheap and grossUgh! Dump his ass. What a douchebag .. that’s ur gf take care of her. If he can’t do that then dump him. Can you imagine if you guys got married and what kind of husband he would be? Umm no thanks
she deserves so much better
07-16-2019, 01:46 AM
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that isn't so much about the money as it is about not stepping up to help someone you care for in a situation when they need it.
i get the splitting money thing, especially when you both got finance goals and agreed upon it.
but cmon mate, strong retardation.
i get the splitting money thing, especially when you both got finance goals and agreed upon it.
but cmon mate, strong retardation.
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07-16-2019, 01:46 AM
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07-16-2019, 01:49 AM
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"boyfriend"
and she chose to be exclusive with that guy . always amazes me.. must be really good looking
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and she chose to be exclusive with that guy . always amazes me.. must be really good looking
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07-16-2019, 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
its not double standards, but when i ask her out i want her to be relaxed , enjoy her time with me ... youre proly thinking , then why dont you think the same when she asks you to go out..... the answer is , when i ask a girl out , its usually to a restaurant ,were a booking is needed ... and i like her to understand that when im paying , that im taking care of here , and the road towards s3x0rs will be better paved. yeah im old fashioned you ******!Not posted in the woman’s story: how many times she has previously “forgotten” her wallet in the past month
So she asks you out she pays 50%
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
So she asks you out she pays 50%
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
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07-16-2019, 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
In the first situation she's trynna get laid. In the second situation you're trynna get laid. Either way someones trying to get laid but the second situation you're the one putting the work in.So she asks you out she pays 50%
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
You ask her out, you pay 100%
Why the double standard?
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07-16-2019, 02:13 AM
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I split bill with my GF but if she forgets her wallet I have no issue paying it LMAO. The boyfriend is a literal bum and retard.
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07-16-2019, 02:22 AM
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Are we upset at the millenial man being so pathetic as to pay for some random sloot’s meal?
Or the other one for being so passive aggressive and socially inept as to sit down without his partner being able to pay.
Or the female for thinking she’s dating someone who doesn’t care whether or not she can even eat with them (seriously, they can’t be actually together).
Or the other one for being so passive aggressive and socially inept as to sit down without his partner being able to pay.
Or the female for thinking she’s dating someone who doesn’t care whether or not she can even eat with them (seriously, they can’t be actually together).
07-16-2019, 02:26 AM
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Sounds like a genuine mistake on her part since she clearly only noticed at the counter and paid back the nice chap who helped her out.
I know this is the misc and everything, but forgetting your wallet anywhere is embarrassing as fuk, especially if you already have goods in hand and are the counter.
If my ‘boyfriend’ just left me there to deal with the situation whilst he went off to eat and he had the means to help me (but just didn’t want to), we would not be dating the second he walked away.
Relationships are give and take, I for one would never let my partner have to stand there and deal with an embarrassing situation alone. Jeez, some people!
I know this is the misc and everything, but forgetting your wallet anywhere is embarrassing as fuk, especially if you already have goods in hand and are the counter.
If my ‘boyfriend’ just left me there to deal with the situation whilst he went off to eat and he had the means to help me (but just didn’t want to), we would not be dating the second he walked away.
Relationships are give and take, I for one would never let my partner have to stand there and deal with an embarrassing situation alone. Jeez, some people!
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07-16-2019, 02:39 AM
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07-16-2019, 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame⏩
How is it being a WK if she paid him back?Just lmfao at the white knight who paid for her meal.
Just a bit of human compassion.
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07-16-2019, 03:02 AM
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Originally Posted By CopeyDan⏩
Right!How is it being a WK if she paid him back?
Just a bit of human compassion.
Just a bit of human compassion.
Fukking sad that she has to rely on the compassion of strangers when she has a ‘partner’ with her who is able but just unwilling to get her out of a bind.
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07-16-2019, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted By lolXlol⏩
Originally Posted By sunrisesunshine⏩
Ugh! Dump his ass. What a douchebag .. that’s ur gf take care of her. If he can’t do that then dump him. Can you imagine if you guys got married and what kind of husband he would be? Umm no thanks
Originally Posted By lolXlol⏩
Are you enjoying your conversation with yourself, you fuking try-hard?omg... ikr, he's so cheap and gross
she deserves so much better
she deserves so much better
07-16-2019, 03:14 AM
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07-16-2019, 03:20 AM
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The problem with this guy is refusing to pay when she had no means to. Worst case he finds out the forgotten money is a habit and drops the woman, he is out a few bucks and continues dating, no big deal. Also, LoL at buying separate meals, if he intends to splits meal costs one person but once, other person buys next, and so on. So this guy is an autistic fawk with no game but just LoL@ guys who don't date women who willing split expenses.
07-16-2019, 04:04 AM
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Dude went full blown. He should've realized she was cool with it based on the prior experience, and should'v'e expected that she'd get him back eventually. Honestly could envision him being a hardcore Dave Ramsey listener, a red piller, or just really broke in general.
07-16-2019, 04:11 AM
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lol at this sloot pretending to forget her wallet. and she is mad that her bf doesn't pay for her. entitled sloot playing games.
he should drop her or tell her he is a feminist and it is about equality. one gender should not pay for the other. check mate
he should drop her or tell her he is a feminist and it is about equality. one gender should not pay for the other. check mate
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07-16-2019, 04:24 AM
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Honestly might be the fact that she forgot her wallet or maybe she did it on purpose, none of us know and everyone is pretty much just assuming at this point but the fact that they were on a date and the bloke still didn't help her out with her meal even though she was still going to pay him back is honestly all kinds of fuked up. People putting the stranger down for paying for her meal might be ''alpha'' - but helping someone out in time of need is better then your so called 'alpha' status. Props to the bloke for showing a random act of kindness.
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07-16-2019, 04:33 AM
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Perfect opportunity for the guy who paid for her meal to cuck the bf hard.
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First dates shouldn't be dinner anyway. Even if a situation like this occurs, you'd pay the $4 for her icecream or coffee or whatever and that's it.
Not sure why anyone would take a girl out to a restaurant for a first date.
It increases your chances of being used for a free meal if you don't know her and if the date is akward then you're stuck at the table for 45 minutes.
Not to mention worrying bout food getting stuck or your face or between your teeth.
Not sure why anyone would take a girl out to a restaurant for a first date.
It increases your chances of being used for a free meal if you don't know her and if the date is akward then you're stuck at the table for 45 minutes.
Not to mention worrying bout food getting stuck or your face or between your teeth.
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07-16-2019, 05:19 AM
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame⏩
I intended to post this but got sidetracked by all the other cuckery going on ITTJust lmfao at the white knight who paid for her meal.
Originally Posted By evline⏩
alpha tbh, he got the money back anyway, and he probably smashed the girl and her friends
Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo⏩
Nope. Guys like the white knight in the story have their number saved in girl’s phones as “free food”Perfect opportunity for the guy who paid for her meal to cuck the bf hard.
Also: perfect let’s reschedule
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
But she paid him back so didn't get anything for free.Nope. Guys like the white knight in the story have their number saved in girl’s phones as “free food”
Also: perfect let’s reschedule
Also: perfect let’s reschedule
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