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post 1584041131 07-16-2019, 10:52 PM
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An older woman with a child who doesn't want to develop a sexual relationship into a romantic one is doing herself a disfavour, so at least you know she's not completely wrong in the head. You definitely should have seen this coming.

If you're not interested, time to let her go. She has a kid she can't be wasting her time on young dudes with commitment problems. And don't have repeat sittings with single mothers from now on, dude. You're just asking for this to happen and it's a waste of both parties' times.
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post 1584041211 07-16-2019, 10:54 PM
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Let her go. She needs a provider for her and her kid, not you. Her clock is ticking.
post 1584041391 07-16-2019, 10:59 PM
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fwb's are degenerate and having too many of them will mess you up in the head for having a real relationship. Also having a fwb means you're aiming lower than a woman you'd actually want.
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post 1584041451 07-16-2019, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By RTone
Also having a fwb means you're aiming lower than a woman you'd actually want.
this is very true. have hooked up with many that i knew from the get-go, sometimes even before meeting just from pics or whatever, that id truly never want a relationship w them just wanted a quick fuk/side i can call and thats it

when will it be mine turn to find a remotely, remotely respectable decently pretty woman who isnt a ho (see: remotely respectable)
post 1584041631 07-16-2019, 11:08 PM
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You’ll beg for her back once she nc’s your ass
post 1584042061 07-16-2019, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By severagee
I honestly don’t understand why any guy would want a FWB situation over a relationship. You can jerk yourself off, but the intimacy and closeness you get with a girlfriend, the genuine love you develop for her over time? That’s irreplaceable.

My only theory is that you’re not that attracted to her. Attracted enough to sleep with her, but not enough to date. Which makes you a chit person if you continue down this path, knowing she wants a relationship and you don’t.
No ****.

But again I hate all these "bad person" sentiments.

The bottom line is sex is pleasurable on both ends.

I have no problem banging girls I'm not THAT attracted to, for however long.

No idea how that equates to using somebody, I'd say more like an even exchange.
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post 1584042191 07-16-2019, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
What's wrong with taking her to the beach?
Nothing. He's looking for the human equivalent of a doll you can take out and put away at will.
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post 1584042231 07-16-2019, 11:34 PM
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Yeah, fwb to gf usually don't work. She is breaking your fwb agreement. You got yourself an awkward conversation to have with her.
Just keep on going.
post 1584042251 07-16-2019, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Absolute2
You’ll beg for her back once she nc’s your ass
i've recently found my self in a few, actually, situations where **I** am the one going NC on them. feelsgoodman srs knowing you have like everything to offer a chick and she proves she's not trying to please you/be loyal/not waste your time, she's gone w/o hesitation. like gl finding a beta orbiter im sure you'll do just fine sooner or later these days but im not him so k peace out bye thx for the nut
post 1584042271 07-16-2019, 11:36 PM
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for the aware's in life let's go ahead and take a minute to have a slight giggle at how OP is perfectly playing in to her frame. fwb used to mean something to actual men
post 1584042301 07-16-2019, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DHFX
Nothing. He's looking for the human equivalent of a doll you can take out and put away at will.
No dummy.

It's called that will inevitably lead to her wanting to be ore serious.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
post 1584042361 07-16-2019, 11:38 PM
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Tell her to fk off and say you’re busy. That’s what I do
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post 1584042481 07-16-2019, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
No dummy.

It's called that will inevitably lead to her wanting to be ore serious.
. and that my friends is why u . call it spinning, w multiple
post 1584043181 07-17-2019, 12:12 AM
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Got damn nick, looking beautiful in that new avi
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post 1584043251 07-17-2019, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
this is what im saying..

These idiots makin me feel bad now. Even though this is what she basically wanted. Its hard enough to meet up with our schedules as it is.

and shes not fat, shes skinny but older.
Are you ashamed of her? Your incel disposition in the past is making me curious about your behavior now.
post 1584043341 07-17-2019, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted By GooeyBrah
for the aware's in life let's go ahead and take a minute to have a slight giggle at how OP is perfectly playing in to her frame. fwb used to mean something to actual men
"She was in a marriage for a long time and said the guy had no libido and she didnt feel loved."


Cum buddies, eh? How so. She would rather be with him out in public than in bed. He's more her friend with benefits. He had his opportunity and it is what it is now. Oh, well. Time for a new game plan. Going to the beach is nothing to snub. The sun will hook you up with vitamin D. Vitamin D is good for testosterone. Testosterone is a sex hormone...
post 1584043501 07-17-2019, 12:31 AM
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u should just buy her a promise ring bro or take her out on a luxurious cruise. brb stayingin the same room for X amount of days, u're surely to get a handjob at least once, who knows! maybe even more!


gl op
post 1584043531 07-17-2019, 12:34 AM
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Good job man but you need to master the art of the pump n dump. These older single moms are a dime a dozen. You can't get attached if you're banging 3-4 of them at the same time. When they get too clingy or weird just go no contact and start hunting for a new cock holster.
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post 1584043571 07-17-2019, 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
Good job man but you need to master the art of the pump n dump. These older single moms are a dime a dozen. You can't get attached if you're banging 3-4 of them at the same time. When they get too clingy or weird just go no contact and start hunting for a new cock holster.
read first few words and instantly thought i was gonna reply 'yep. abundance'


the continued reading and u covered it.


aware man. repped. you need to spin these sloots. don't get complacennt even if ur getting laid w a new sloot. for certain. otherwise brb oneitis omg my dik finally got wet after it was drier than sahara omg omg omg whered she go text text text beta beta beta bye bye bye
post 1584043591 07-17-2019, 12:38 AM
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you on that toupee time now brah? nice!
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post 1584043651 07-17-2019, 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted By GooeyBrah
read first few words and instantly thought i was gonna reply 'yep. abundance'


the continued reading and u covered it.


aware man. repped. you need to spin these sloots. don't get complacennt even if ur getting laid w a new sloot. for certain. otherwise brb oneitis omg my dik finally got wet after it was drier than sahara omg omg omg whered she go text text text beta beta beta bye bye bye
I bet you that poser has never bedded a woman greater than a 5. 3 or 4 still doesn't equal a 10 even when adding it all together. Mr. Pump and Dumper is chasing ego boosts from ugs before the reality hits him too hard. Hence why he moves out so fast.
post 1584043741 07-17-2019, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted By TomcatAli
I bet you that poser has never bedded a woman greater than a 5. 3 or 4 still doesn't equal a 10 even when adding it all together. Mr. Pump and Dumper is chasing ego boosts from ugs before the reality hits him too hard. Hence why he moves out so fast.
. u ever think that jokes actually on u cuhh? i mean not for everyone, plenty dont have the mindset, social skills or half way decent looks to pull it off. but lol just lol. wake up bc while many dont, i assure you. plenty do. ask ur girl. she wont tell u a srs response but enjoy the looks she gives you as she tries to explain
post 1584044171 07-17-2019, 01:03 AM
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I seriously hate fwb's. I specifically avoid them because of all the mess
post 1584044281 07-17-2019, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By GooeyBrah
. u ever think that jokes actually on u cuhh? i mean not for everyone, plenty dont have the mindset, social skills or half way decent looks to pull it off. but lol just lol. wake up bc while many dont, i assure you. plenty do. ask ur girl. she wont tell u a srs response but enjoy the looks she gives you as she tries to explain
Yeah that's sum shady stuff. Couldn't imagine a scenario where my lover would feel a need to lie to me or where I'd be in a situation where I'd have to interrogate her. You should rotate more dry spells in and out of your life and give the girls a break.
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Seems the girls are dripping after your new hair transplant OP, time to take it easy.
post 1584046251 07-17-2019, 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted By JamesA1990
Never had a gf Crew


Story is really hard to believe

also where are the fukking pics
OP is consistently the chitest troll on this website, never funny and always a depressing kent.
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Nicklols changed man... used to be a quality poster with pics and interaction.... look what has become of him
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Originally Posted By farmergainsbrah
Damn bro when I saw your avi I could have sworn to god it was Paul walker... but I thought to myself he’s dead and that couldn’t be the case. I squinted and I could see it wasn’t him. Wow bro
He still looks awful with “chad” hair

(I’m just kidding nick you know I love you)
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It's all good if you actually enjoy spending time with her but this convo usually comes TBH. She wants to "show you off"

If you're not thinking of getting serious with her, i'd move on. She's catchin feels.
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Originally Posted By farmergainsbrah
Damn bro when I saw your avi I could have sworn to god it was Paul walker... but I thought to myself he’s dead and that couldn’t be the case. I squinted and I could see it wasn’t him. Wow bro
If you squint harder you'll actually see it's a paul walker/brad pitt lovechild
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