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post 1584193031 07-18-2019, 10:48 PM
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My gf just dumped me

Because I just wanted to stay in tonight and have an early night to recover from a concert I went to last night and was out till 2:00 am.

We were serious for only like 1 month but total dating for like 2 months.

Sheโ€™s doing me a favor right??

This drama is too much for me.
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post 1584193161 07-18-2019, 10:50 PM
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One way trip to North Carolina boyo. Phuck her
post 1584193171 07-18-2019, 10:50 PM
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Keep your head up. It sucks. I'm going through it myself with a girl I was dating. I find it crazy that girls can just drop you over small crap like this and act like you never existed.
post 1584193191 07-18-2019, 10:51 PM
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1 month..
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post 1584193231 07-18-2019, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
Keep your head up. It sucks. I'm going through it myself with a girl I was dating. I find it crazy that girls can just drop you over small crap like this and act like you never existed.
Oh my phone has been ringing off the hook and text messages flowing in like a tidal wave calling me a dick and how much of an ass I am.
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post 1584193241 07-18-2019, 10:52 PM
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You sound hurt as fuk right now

She dumped you to not feel guilty about fukking another guy

If you give her another second of your damn time in this thread I will mess you up bro
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post 1584193291 07-18-2019, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Oh my phone has been ringing off the hook and text messages flowing in like a tidal wave calling me a dick and how much of an ass I am.
2 months ain't worth that

check this off as a win that she showed the crazy that soon, and move on to the next one
post 1584193361 07-18-2019, 10:54 PM
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go NC, my gf cheated on me back in may and i keep messaging her and other beta shiit makes it way harder for me to get over her, not feel sad etc.. i was with her 3 years tho
post 1584193401 07-18-2019, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Oh my phone has been ringing off the hook and text messages flowing in like a tidal wave calling me a dick and how much of an ass I am.
Man, women cant live with them, but cant live without them as they say. The worst is when you catch feelings for them and then they drop you like nothing soon after.
post 1584193511 07-18-2019, 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted By ryankoch⏩
go NC, my gf cheated on me back in may and i keep messaging her and other beta shiit makes it way harder for me to get over her, not feel sad etc.. i was with her 3 years tho
It's alright bro. It shows you have a heart even if it was beta at the time. We've all been beta when it comes to girls. I was super beta today. It never works in the end. Girls are heartless sometimes.
post 1584193561 07-18-2019, 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
Man, women cant live with them, but cant live without them as they say. The worst is when you catch feelings for them and then they drop you like nothing soon after.
Thatโ€™s because every girl has a million options. The key to not catching feels as easily is to always be talking to at least 3 girls at a time.


1month? Be glad you found out that you meant nothing to her after such a short period of time. She did you a massive favor. Think about it brah, if you really liked a girl you would do so ****ing much to be with them.
post 1584193801 07-18-2019, 11:05 PM
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Not sure wtf this even means. She dumped you because you didn't want to go out one thursday night? Either something else was going on (another guy likely) or she's nutty. I've dated party girls in my 20's and one particular one I couldn't keep up with. Bish was gnarly, going out several times during weekdays till the sun came up and on a powerful cocktail of substances too.
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post 1584193841 07-18-2019, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
Thatโ€™s because every girl has a million options. The key to not catching feels as easily is to always be talking to at least 3 girls at a time.


1month? Be glad you found out that you meant nothing to her after such a short period of time. She did you a massive favor. Think about it brah, if you really liked a girl you would do so ****ing much to be with them.
Thats not true necessarily man. You could be talking to 3 girls at a time, but if you like one more than the others and you lose that one, its still gonna hurt. Maybe not as bad if you had nobody else, but depending on the circumstances it will still suck.
post 1584193981 07-18-2019, 11:10 PM
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You did well my brah. Few months is nothing, you'll find an upgrade in no time or just go solo for a while.
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post 1584194181 07-18-2019, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted By NsaneOne⏩
You did well my brah. Few months is nothing, you'll find an upgrade in no time or just go solo for a while.
Yea.
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post 1584194251 07-18-2019, 11:17 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We were serious for only like 1 month but total dating for like 2 months.

Sheโ€™s doing me a favor right??
uhhhh










some of yall are complete rookies in this, you'll learn trial by fire
post 1584194271 07-18-2019, 11:18 PM
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There are two possibilities here:
1. She's crazy and will try to get back with you again tomorrow.
2. She was looking for any excuse to dump you.
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post 1584194371 07-18-2019, 11:24 PM
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Find one that's more controllable, had my girlfriend get bitchy over stupid stuff and I called her out and suggested maybe we should see other people if she could not act like an adult. Take a stern stance without being a dick and draw a redline and she will like you even more, but it appears you've already blown that.
post 1584194481 07-18-2019, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By PITA21⏩
Find one that's more controllable, had my girlfriend get bitchy over stupid stuff and I called her out and suggested maybe we should see other people if she could not act like an adult. Take a stern stance without being a dick and draw a redline and she will like you even more, but it appears you've already blown that.
Sure, but you'll never marry her. Now she's like a child you have to keep in line. Although I guess some guys do marry women like that..
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post 1584194501 07-18-2019, 11:28 PM
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thats not why she dumped you. That was just the excuse she used to do it
post 1584194651 07-18-2019, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
thats not why she dumped you. That was just the excuse she used to do it
Now saying โ€œdumping meโ€ wasnโ€™t serious.
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post 1584194771 07-18-2019, 11:39 PM
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she sounds retarded

cant stand girls that get dramatic when you dont agree to hang out every time.


brb "im really tired, dont feel like going out today"

her: "ok"

me: "what are you up to"

her: ghosts stubbornly
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Now saying โ€œdumping meโ€ wasnโ€™t serious.
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Because I just wanted to stay in tonight and have an early night to recover from a concert I went to last night and was out till 2:00 am.

We were serious for only like 1 monthbut total dating for like 2 months.

Sheโ€™s doing me a favor right??

This drama is too much for me.
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post 1584194981 07-18-2019, 11:47 PM
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Yeah, consider this a good thing. Sounds like she was crazy.
Just keep on going.
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Itโ€™s just a month, thatโ€™s literally nothing.

But yeah NC.
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post 1584195151 07-18-2019, 11:50 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Now saying โ€œdumping meโ€ wasnโ€™t serious.
usually when they are textin and calling you an arsehole, they dont really mean what they say. Just know that she's like this and will continue this behavior if she doesnt get her way. It's still better than getting blocked like I did lol.
post 1584195241 07-18-2019, 11:52 PM
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post 1584195271 07-18-2019, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
usually when they are textin and calling you an arsehole, they dont really mean what they say. Just know that she's like this and will continue this behavior if she doesnt get her way. It's still better than getting blocked like I did lol.
Iโ€™m extremely pissed off now.
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