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08-26-2019, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY⏩
not sure if srsWe never dated. We weren't at that stage.
We talked for a bit, she wigged.....left her alone. She came back a while later, apologized, we began conversing again....
And no, I wasn't that guy. Not even sure what you're talking about.
We talked for a bit, she wigged.....left her alone. She came back a while later, apologized, we began conversing again....
And no, I wasn't that guy. Not even sure what you're talking about.
you guys met on a dating app, unless you had specifically talked about being just friends or taking it exceptionally and painfully slow, it's assume that dating is where it's headed, or at least smashing. what exactly were you looking for? and do you not get how putting off any sexual interaction would drive a girl nuts, regardless of whether or not she was already crazy? there's a quote from George Carlin that I think is perfectly applicable in this situation. "here's what you need to know about men and women. Women are crazy, men are stupid, and women are crazy because men are stupid." There is typically a natural progression to these sorts of things, and whether or not you wanted to hold off to get to know her longer, it seems like you held off way too long/strung her along way too much before realizing you needed to fully end it. Not attempting to blame you for how she acted cuz she's still a nutter blowing up on you and reaching out to your ex-wife, but I can see how she got so insecure so as to feel like she needed to do those things.
also you def are the guy people look to for closer texts. ain't nobody forget your paragraph diatribe on texting some girl in depth about wanting to eat them out.
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08-26-2019, 04:52 PM
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08-26-2019, 05:22 PM
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Imagine "conversing" with a chick for months, while she's sucking someone's dink and getting loads blasted down her throat.
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08-26-2019, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By nvrstopworking⏩
This is exactly what i was thinking, it could happen at a bar or club as well.Uhhhh.... this. WTF man? Being a gentleman is all good (I work the same way) but if you don't even want to kiss the girl after a few dates then what's the point? You just looking for a friend?
Side note: I met a chick at a bar maybe 2 months after breaking up with my GF at the time and she did the same thing to me lol.... crept my FB and then DM'd my ex asking if we were still together.
Bishes be cray.
Side note: I met a chick at a bar maybe 2 months after breaking up with my GF at the time and she did the same thing to me lol.... crept my FB and then DM'd my ex asking if we were still together.
Bishes be cray.
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08-26-2019, 05:43 PM
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Yeeaaaahhhhh, this is probably on you OP. Who the fuk meets a girl on a dating app, talks to her for fukking MONTHS while making zero moves while occasionally ignoring her cos you're "too busy with work" and expects the girl not to get confused and freak out?
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08-26-2019, 06:12 PM
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where the fook are the cliffs?
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08-27-2019, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By miscerForLulz⏩
Cliffs:where the fook are the cliffs?
-OP meets bottomest of the bottom barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
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08-27-2019, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Lmao thank god these *******s got over the "Black Jesus GTFIH wut do?" phase.Cliffs:
-OP meats bottoomest of the bottle barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
-OP meats bottoomest of the bottle barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
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08-27-2019, 09:43 AM
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08-27-2019, 10:02 AM
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please redeem us black jesus
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08-27-2019, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Sounds like two immature adults to me. Who meets on a dating site just to be friends? No sex, no relationship? I mean, both are at fault here tbhCliffs:
-OP meats bottoomest of the bottle barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
-OP meats bottoomest of the bottle barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
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08-27-2019, 10:21 AM
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You kind of led her on man. It was a dating website, and then you basically treated her like a good friend and destroyed her self esteem by not escalating things. I know you already know this, but its the man's job to pursue and lay the pipe, etc. You didn't fuk her because you didn't want to lose interest? Meanwhile she thinks you didn't fuk her because you're not interested. Back asswards my guy. These seems strange from you considering at one point on here you had a pretty good success rate.
08-27-2019, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY⏩
Thanks for confirming you are, in fact as dumb as I always assumed. No one needs to actually say the word dating for it to be dating. Getting to know each other to see if you're compatible romantically is the literal fuking definition of dating you dumb fuk. No wonder you keep attracting stupid sloots.This muthafukca can't read....
I specifically said we both agreed on conversation and getting to know each other....neither one of us mentioned relationship or dating.
I specifically said we both agreed on conversation and getting to know each other....neither one of us mentioned relationship or dating.
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08-27-2019, 10:34 AM
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Lol at being in a months long relationship and not actually doing anything.
But I met a girl on tinder who then found out my instagram and then DM'd me through there. I was like da fuq man? but whatever I was cool with it. We start talking and it's pretty apparent this chick is psychotic and I'm like yeah no thanks jeff this is over. She flips out and calls me every name in the book and that I'm the cesspool of society. I block her on instagram and unmatch her from tinder. I get a phonecall from my ex a few days later like "Do you know Samantha?" and I have no idea who you're talking about. Me and my ex of 3 years broke up like 2 years ago from that point and we were cool with each other. I meet up with my ex and she shows me that this girl liked EVERY SINGLE ONE of her instagram posts, and then DM'd her saying that I didn't love her anymore and that she was my new found love, and if my ex tried to get involved she'd hurt her. Mind you that I only exchanged like 15 messages with this girl over two days. So my ex is like is everything cool and I'm like yeah, so we smash in my car before we jokingly tell each other we hate each other and that it's not going to work out between us. I then message the girl saying I'd notify the police and her parents if she didn't chill the fuq out, which she eventually did. Stage 5 Clingers man.
But I met a girl on tinder who then found out my instagram and then DM'd me through there. I was like da fuq man? but whatever I was cool with it. We start talking and it's pretty apparent this chick is psychotic and I'm like yeah no thanks jeff this is over. She flips out and calls me every name in the book and that I'm the cesspool of society. I block her on instagram and unmatch her from tinder. I get a phonecall from my ex a few days later like "Do you know Samantha?" and I have no idea who you're talking about. Me and my ex of 3 years broke up like 2 years ago from that point and we were cool with each other. I meet up with my ex and she shows me that this girl liked EVERY SINGLE ONE of her instagram posts, and then DM'd her saying that I didn't love her anymore and that she was my new found love, and if my ex tried to get involved she'd hurt her. Mind you that I only exchanged like 15 messages with this girl over two days. So my ex is like is everything cool and I'm like yeah, so we smash in my car before we jokingly tell each other we hate each other and that it's not going to work out between us. I then message the girl saying I'd notify the police and her parents if she didn't chill the fuq out, which she eventually did. Stage 5 Clingers man.
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I get what you were trying to do but man, you should know better. Girls need to feel some sort of connection. Sure an emotional connection first is the right way to go if you want something long term, but you also have to close the deal within a certain time frame. I would never go out on a 3rd date with a girl and not kiss her. It's fine to work slowly but there is such a thing as too slow. That's why you can't ride a bicycle on the highway. Better luck next time dude.
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08-27-2019, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
This isn't directed harshly at you, so don't take it that way, but I seriously don't get where this "relationship" sh** is coming from. I specifically stated, we were NOT in a relationship, NOT trying for one, NOT dating.....we both made the decision to converse and get to know each other, ZERO EXPECTATIONS. We never had a date, ever....the only face to face interaction we had is our first meeting and the few times we'd be out, maybe coming home from work and met up to shoot the sh** live and direct and what have you. There was no dinner, no romantic candles....we were in that getting to know you phase. I've said this countless times, but for some reason, people think what they want and want to call it a relationship. There was NO mention of exclusivity, we never asked the other if they were talking to other people on the app, or off of it....ever. So she had no knowledge of my inbox, and I no knowledge of hers. All we knew is that we enjoyed each other's conversation from jump, kept talking, were just getting to know each other slowly.....that's it.I get what you were trying to do but man, you should know better. Girls need to feel some sort of connection. Sure an emotional connection first is the right way to go if you want something long term, but you also have to close the deal within a certain time frame. I would never go out on a 3rd date with a girl and not kiss her. It's fine to work slowly but there is such a thing as too slow. That's why you can't ride a bicycle on the highway. Better luck next time dude.
I'm not going to highlight every quote, but for those who are asking what's the reason for being on the app? What the fukc do you think? To meet people. But that doesn't mean I, or anyone else, has to do things at YOUR pace. You want to meet someone tonight and fukc them, fine, do you.....but that's not my thing. It has nothing to do with not being able to do so, I simply don't want to. Who gives a fukc if that upsets you or you think it's a waste of time.....we're adults.
I will ask this for those who seem to think my not fukcing her right off the bat was wrong. How many of you have had sex with someone off the app and actually SEEN the results of their STD test? Actually held the paperwork and viewed it or yourself? Since everyone is on their high horse, let's be honest. I never said I didn't plug anything off the app, but what I did, I actually saw theirs and they saw mine. So nah, you're not going to try and poke fun at me like I did something wrong here. Lol, the fukc?
My reason for saying that. I met someone early on when I first got the app. She was beautiful, conversation was right, we talked all the time and the whole wop. Finally the sex questions came about. I asked her, "If a guy asked you to get tested with him, would you take that personally?" She said yes. Her reason.....she has herpes. She straight up told me, "I know you probably won't want to talk to me anymore and I have to live with the fact that I'll be alone for the rest of my life." So, I either make say fukc it and risk getting it, or I fall back and move to the next one. I chose to fall back and move to the next person. So no, that early sex sh** isn't for me....especially when we know nothing about each other and the lies you can tell a person because of your lack of info, ON BOTH SIDES.
Again, we both came into this thing looking to just talk with no strings. Converse, that's it. It's not my fault she got crazy and I didn't see the sh** until it was too late. She literally NEVER acted like this until that Texas sh** when she asked me last minute. The times we didn't speak, it was because of the texting. Her basically feeling like I was ignoring her. Well fukc her and fukc anyone else who thinks that I'm going to be on my phone 24/7 at the beck and call of some bitch. Nah, you got the game all twisted. Pussy isn't that important to me to where I feel like not having my phone to talk to her is going to somehow make it leave. You may be pussy deprived, but I'm not....that's sucker sh**.
I found the pics of her apologizing the day I snapped on her, as well as the day when I got at her for getting at the ex-wife. So anyone that says I'm at fault for her being crazy, lol.....
Will upload and post in a minute.
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Originally Posted By Holyfenix⏩
This hoe ass muthafukca is grasping at straws.Thanks for confirming you are, in fact as dumb as I always assumed. No one needs to actually say the word dating for it to be dating. Getting to know each other to see if you're compatible romantically is the literal fuking definition of dating you dumb fuk. No wonder you keep attracting stupid sloots.
You mean to tell me if you meet someone a few times, talk here and there.....no actual legit dates, you're dating that person?
Lol, the fukk?
Bitch, stop. You know what the fukc dating means. We're exclusive, ACTIVELY WORKING TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT SEEING OTHER PEOPLE, we've talked about this so we're BOTH clear.....that's dating.
Fall back pussy, don't try to tell me what the fukc was going on.
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY⏩
all i see in this post is a bunch of cope, trying to remove any responsibility from yourself as to why she might have acted this way.This isn't directed harshly at you, so don't take it that way, but I seriously don't get where this "relationship" sh** is coming from. I specifically stated, we were NOT in a relationship, NOT trying for one, NOT dating.....we both made the decision to converse and get to know each other, ZERO EXPECTATIONS. We never had a date, ever....the only face to face interaction we had is our first meeting and the few times we'd be out, maybe coming home from work and met up to shoot the sh** live and direct and what have you. There was no dinner, no romantic candles....we were in that getting to know you phase. I've said this countless times, but for some reason, people think what they want and want to call it a relationship. There was NO mention of exclusivity, we never asked the other if they were talking to other people on the app, or off of it....ever. So she had no knowledge of my inbox, and I no knowledge of hers. All we knew is that we enjoyed each other's conversation from jump, kept talking, were just getting to know each other slowly.....that's it.
I'm not going to highlight every quote, but for those who are asking what's the reason for being on the app? What the fukc do you think? To meet people. But that doesn't mean I, or anyone else, has to do things at YOUR pace. You want to meet someone tonight and fukc them, fine, do you.....but that's not my thing. It has nothing to do with not being able to do so, I simply don't want to. Who gives a fukc if that upsets you or you think it's a waste of time.....we're adults.
I will ask this for those who seem to think my not fukcing her right off the bat was wrong. How many of you have had sex with someone off the app and actually SEEN the results of their STD test? Actually held the paperwork and viewed it or yourself? Since everyone is on their high horse, let's be honest. I never said I didn't plug anything off the app, but what I did, I actually saw theirs and they saw mine. So nah, you're not going to try and poke fun at me like I did something wrong here. Lol, the fukc?
My reason for saying that. I met someone early on when I first got the app. She was beautiful, conversation was right, we talked all the time and the whole wop. Finally the sex questions came about. I asked her, "If a guy asked you to get tested with him, would you take that personally?" She said yes. Her reason.....she has herpes. She straight up told me, "I know you probably won't want to talk to me anymore and I have to live with the fact that I'll be alone for the rest of my life." So, I either make say fukc it and risk getting it, or I fall back and move to the next one. I chose to fall back and move to the next person. So no, that early sex sh** isn't for me....especially when we know nothing about each other and the lies you can tell a person because of your lack of info, ON BOTH SIDES.
Again, we both came into this thing looking to just talk with no strings. Converse, that's it. It's not my fault she got crazy and I didn't see the sh** until it was too late. She literally NEVER acted like this until that Texas sh** when she asked me last minute. The times we didn't speak, it was because of the texting. Her basically feeling like I was ignoring her. Well fukc her and fukc anyone else who thinks that I'm going to be on my phone 24/7 at the beck and call of some bitch. Nah, you got the game all twisted. Pussy isn't that important to me to where I feel like not having my phone to talk to her is going to somehow make it leave. You may be pussy deprived, but I'm not....that's sucker sh**.
I found the pics of her apologizing the day I snapped on her, as well as the day when I got at her for getting at the ex-wife. So anyone that says I'm at fault for her being crazy, lol.....
Will upload and post in a minute.
I'm not going to highlight every quote, but for those who are asking what's the reason for being on the app? What the fukc do you think? To meet people. But that doesn't mean I, or anyone else, has to do things at YOUR pace. You want to meet someone tonight and fukc them, fine, do you.....but that's not my thing. It has nothing to do with not being able to do so, I simply don't want to. Who gives a fukc if that upsets you or you think it's a waste of time.....we're adults.
I will ask this for those who seem to think my not fukcing her right off the bat was wrong. How many of you have had sex with someone off the app and actually SEEN the results of their STD test? Actually held the paperwork and viewed it or yourself? Since everyone is on their high horse, let's be honest. I never said I didn't plug anything off the app, but what I did, I actually saw theirs and they saw mine. So nah, you're not going to try and poke fun at me like I did something wrong here. Lol, the fukc?
My reason for saying that. I met someone early on when I first got the app. She was beautiful, conversation was right, we talked all the time and the whole wop. Finally the sex questions came about. I asked her, "If a guy asked you to get tested with him, would you take that personally?" She said yes. Her reason.....she has herpes. She straight up told me, "I know you probably won't want to talk to me anymore and I have to live with the fact that I'll be alone for the rest of my life." So, I either make say fukc it and risk getting it, or I fall back and move to the next one. I chose to fall back and move to the next person. So no, that early sex sh** isn't for me....especially when we know nothing about each other and the lies you can tell a person because of your lack of info, ON BOTH SIDES.
Again, we both came into this thing looking to just talk with no strings. Converse, that's it. It's not my fault she got crazy and I didn't see the sh** until it was too late. She literally NEVER acted like this until that Texas sh** when she asked me last minute. The times we didn't speak, it was because of the texting. Her basically feeling like I was ignoring her. Well fukc her and fukc anyone else who thinks that I'm going to be on my phone 24/7 at the beck and call of some bitch. Nah, you got the game all twisted. Pussy isn't that important to me to where I feel like not having my phone to talk to her is going to somehow make it leave. You may be pussy deprived, but I'm not....that's sucker sh**.
I found the pics of her apologizing the day I snapped on her, as well as the day when I got at her for getting at the ex-wife. So anyone that says I'm at fault for her being crazy, lol.....
Will upload and post in a minute.
don't be obtuse and pretend that thesedatingsites/apps are strictly for meeting people platonically. Unless you prefaced your initial interaction with "platonic friends only" or her profile did, it's assumed that it's meeting for the purposes of dating or smashing, or something more intimate than friends, and rightfully so. You can go on Meetup or any of the other group networking/activity meetup groups to just meet people for the sake of meeting people. Zero expectations =/= i am not romantically interested in you and am only looking to be friends, so for you to assume she would take your interactions that way without being explicitly told is on you.
There's nothing wrong with you being safe regarding STD's, and you're well within your rights to want to hold off for that reason. But don't pretend like you are entirely faultless in her craziness for passively rejecting her for what seems like months on end. We are humans, not robots, and we have feelings and insecurities. Any sane person is going to be offended or hurt to some degree if they meet someone off a dating site and that person engages with them but never moves forward with the engagement past a platonic sense with no explanation or reasoning behind it, to their knowledge.
That being said, she is certainly a different breed of crazy for how she responded, most would just flip out like she did and leave it at that. But lol @ you saying "I didn't see the **** until it was too late" when you had already NC'd her once, but entertained her again after she came crawling back. Don't act like the flags weren't there...you enabled her to take it even further after the first time. also lol @ you using "we were just talking with no strings" as a defense for stringing her along for so long. You do realize the first stage of relationships that people usually acknowledge is "we're just talking" right? then it progresses to dating, then relationship, then sometimes marriage.
Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY⏩
dating has nothing to do with exclusivity or working towards a relationship unless you actually discuss it with the person you are dating. You can be dating multiple people at the same time and not be a scumbag. Not sure if the "We" in "we've talked about this" is referring to you and her, or you and misc. but if it's you and her, more than likely she assumed that it was going to lead to that, and was hurt by the fact you never took it any further despite continuing to engage her.This hoe ass muthafukca is grasping at straws.
You mean to tell me if you meet someone a few times, talk here and there.....no actual legit dates, you're dating that person?
Lol, the fukk?
Bitch, stop. You know what the fukc dating means. We're exclusive, ACTIVELY WORKING TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT SEEING OTHER PEOPLE, we've talked about this so we're BOTH clear.....that's dating.
Fall back pussy, don't try to tell me what the fukc was going on.
You mean to tell me if you meet someone a few times, talk here and there.....no actual legit dates, you're dating that person?
Lol, the fukk?
Bitch, stop. You know what the fukc dating means. We're exclusive, ACTIVELY WORKING TOWARDS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT SEEING OTHER PEOPLE, we've talked about this so we're BOTH clear.....that's dating.
Fall back pussy, don't try to tell me what the fukc was going on.
and lettuce be cereal, if she was a rational female who did check all your boxes but handled herself the way you claim to have been handling the situation, you would be making a thread about how some internet dating thot was stringing you along and using you for attention.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
I know you want to be right here, but you're not.....at all.all i see in this post is a bunch of cope, trying to remove any responsibility from yourself as to why she might have acted this way.
don't be obtuse and pretend that thesedatingsites/apps are strictly for meeting people platonically. Unless you prefaced your initial interaction with "platonic friends only" or her profile did, it's assumed that it's meeting for the purposes of dating or smashing, or something more intimate than friends, and rightfully so. You can go on Meetup or any of the other group networking/activity meetup groups to just meet people for the sake of meeting people. Zero expectations =/= i am not romantically interested in you and am only looking to be friends, so for you to assume she would take your interactions that way without being explicitly told is on you.
There's nothing wrong with you being safe regarding STD's, and you're well within your rights to want to hold off for that reason. But don't pretend like you are entirely faultless in her craziness for passively rejecting her for what seems like months on end. We are humans, not robots, and we have feelings and insecurities. Any sane person is going to be offended or hurt to some degree if they meet someone off a dating site and that person engages with them but never moves forward with the engagement past a platonic sense with no explanation or reasoning behind it, to their knowledge.
That being said, she is certainly a different breed of crazy for how she responded, most would just flip out like she did and leave it at that. But lol @ you saying "I didn't see the **** until it was too late" when you had already NC'd her once, but entertained her again after she came crawling back. Don't act like the flags weren't there...you enabled her to take it even further after the first time. also lol @ you using "we were just talking with no strings" as a defense for stringing her along for so long. You do realize the first stage of relationships that people usually acknowledge is "we're just talking" right? then it progresses to dating, then relationship, then sometimes marriage.
don't be obtuse and pretend that thesedatingsites/apps are strictly for meeting people platonically. Unless you prefaced your initial interaction with "platonic friends only" or her profile did, it's assumed that it's meeting for the purposes of dating or smashing, or something more intimate than friends, and rightfully so. You can go on Meetup or any of the other group networking/activity meetup groups to just meet people for the sake of meeting people. Zero expectations =/= i am not romantically interested in you and am only looking to be friends, so for you to assume she would take your interactions that way without being explicitly told is on you.
There's nothing wrong with you being safe regarding STD's, and you're well within your rights to want to hold off for that reason. But don't pretend like you are entirely faultless in her craziness for passively rejecting her for what seems like months on end. We are humans, not robots, and we have feelings and insecurities. Any sane person is going to be offended or hurt to some degree if they meet someone off a dating site and that person engages with them but never moves forward with the engagement past a platonic sense with no explanation or reasoning behind it, to their knowledge.
That being said, she is certainly a different breed of crazy for how she responded, most would just flip out like she did and leave it at that. But lol @ you saying "I didn't see the **** until it was too late" when you had already NC'd her once, but entertained her again after she came crawling back. Don't act like the flags weren't there...you enabled her to take it even further after the first time. also lol @ you using "we were just talking with no strings" as a defense for stringing her along for so long. You do realize the first stage of relationships that people usually acknowledge is "we're just talking" right? then it progresses to dating, then relationship, then sometimes marriage.
See, the problem is you're failing to listen to what I'm saying regarding the no expectations sh**. And no one strung her along. I was acting like I wanted to be her boyfriend and then taking it back, dangling it in front of her.....she caught feelings too early. That's not my fault. When I stopped talking to her the first time, again, it was over the text sh**. I wasn't mean about it, I simply let it go. She apologized, we talked and that was that.....
I know it's hard for you to believe, I don't care, but she didn't act like that. It was civil. Wasn't that crazy sh**, it was some adult type conversation and a simple misunderstanding. But if you want me to take the hit on that one, just so you can say I was at fault here in some way, fine......I'll take the hit.
So, if WE BOTH, in the beginning, talk about what the other person is looking for, and we BOTH say that we're not looking to get married/relationship, we're just looking to meet someone and converse, I'm still at fault when we both went into this on some humbug sh**? How does that work? And I never said that these things are for platonic relationships, I simply said to those who are asking me why I didn't fukc her that you don't have to specifically get on them JUST FOR SEX. And if you read correctly, I said that I have been active on it, but at the time we met, we were both just looking to talk. If I can find those pictures, I'll upload them.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
Of course you can be dating multiple people at the same time, but I wasn't....and wasn't looking for that. The "we" is she and I....we discussed that. Just, talking....dating has nothing to do with exclusivity or working towards a relationship unless you actually discuss it with the person you are dating. You can be dating multiple people at the same time and not be a scumbag. Not sure if the "We" in "we've talked about this" is referring to you and her, or you and misc. but if it's you and her, more than likely she assumed that it was going to lead to that, and was hurt by the fact you never took it any further despite continuing to engage her.
and lettuce be cereal, if she was a rational female who did check all your boxes but handled herself the way you claim to have been handling the situation, you would be making a thread about how some internet dating thot was stringing you along and using you for attention.
and lettuce be cereal, if she was a rational female who did check all your boxes but handled herself the way you claim to have been handling the situation, you would be making a thread about how some internet dating thot was stringing you along and using you for attention.
You're wrong on the last part. This was intended to show our brothers that some women will go through the ringer for no reason at all other than they're miserable and have unresolved issues that were there before you.
So all her issues were there before me, like I said.....we meet and she likes me beyond what we discussed, the time she ASSUMES we'll be able to hang out on last minute's notice, I can't do it.....and I get this? And this is my fault when it's honestly seen at the last minute?
Gotcha...
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OP I would check under your bed every night before you went to sleep if i were you, just to be sure she's not there.
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I enjoyed this story because I've been in situations like this one.
Have a good day.
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
Meeting someone from online is real life.I remember online dating threads in the past with black jesus guiding brahs with his word smithing. good times.
With that said, online dating is a toxic environment. Better to find someone in real life.
With that said, online dating is a toxic environment. Better to find someone in real life.
You blokes are idiots if you don't use dating apps. If you keep attracting the wrong kind of woman, look inside.
One off's like OP's experience don't count. That could have happened to anyone anywhere. Has ZERO to do with online dating.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Cliffs:
-OP meets bottomest of the bottom barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
-OP meets bottomest of the bottom barrel woman on POF. (Seriously, who uses POF anymore?)
-OP goes on date that wasn't a date and has a great time.
-OP decided to continue talking and going on dates, but not dating. (wut)
-OP is a supreme gentleman, so does not try to hold her hand, kiss, or sex for over two months. (lol)
-OP continues to show interest in said plenty of fatty, stringing her along.
-Fatty is extremely confused because OP is treating her like a GF, but never makes a move.
-Fatty starts to get crazy because OP continues to string her along.
-OP continues to string her along for almost a year. Still never holds her hand.
-Fatty finally figures out that he is just using her for attention, so she DM's OP's ex-wife to find out if they are still married, and if she's actually a side piece.
-OP creates threads trying to convince us that Fatty is a psycho stalker and he's Black Jesus that can do no wrong, warning us of our sinful ways.
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So, no cliffs and no pics
huh
bet no one negged tho cause he's high rep power lmao
huh
bet no one negged tho cause he's high rep power lmao
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
thisSo, no cliffs and no pics
huh
bet no one negged tho cause he's high rep power lmao
huh
bet no one negged tho cause he's high rep power lmao
OP tells some sob story about " muh crazy friend, who is a girl hehehe"
they date, I mean wait they aren't dating even though they are going on dates
then the girl gets mad because OP is acting like a 15 year old broad whose friendzoning white knights
not saying we cant friendzone girls but at least treat them like friends
I friendzoned girls, but I treated them like friends, we hung out with people, smoked, chilled, played video games, didn't go on dates and didn't EVER talk sexual.
OP is a has been
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