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post 1587144511 09-02-2019, 07:19 PM
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Why do girls ignore texts? (SRS)(Rant)

Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
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post 1587144621 09-02-2019, 07:21 PM
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low interest.

The lack of communication is in fact a method of communicating.

She's communicating that she's not that into you
post 1587144661 09-02-2019, 07:21 PM
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Please tell me this isn't Ruby again, brah.
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post 1587144761 09-02-2019, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Please tell me this isn't Ruby again, brah.
Never again nope not her, new girls I'm talking with.
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post 1587144911 09-02-2019, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
low interest.

The lack of communication is in fact a method of communicating.

She's communicating that she's not that into you
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
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post 1587144931 09-02-2019, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
low interest.

The lack of communication is in fact a method of communicating.

She's communicating that she's not that into you
This


Bail on this one. Normally I wouldn’t say that but given that Instagram post it’s pretty obvious she’s not into you
post 1587145111 09-02-2019, 07:26 PM
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If they don't respond then fuk them. Delete/NC them. Especially if you message them then they don't respond yet they posting chit.
post 1587145151 09-02-2019, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
always have atleast 3 different conversations going at once srs. Take turns talking to each one. They will naturally alternate between the them. Only problem's when you get 9 conversations going and you gotta remember what you're talking about lol.
post 1587145161 09-02-2019, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
This


Bail on this one. Normally I wouldn’t say that but given that Instagram post it’s pretty obvious she’s not into you
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
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post 1587145191 09-02-2019, 07:27 PM
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Ruby please text op back

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post 1587145231 09-02-2019, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
Don't look at what she was saying and how she was acting when you met her. Look at her actions and you'll see how she really feels. Casual dating for some people is all about novelty, and it's possible that the novelty with you wore off.


Maybe we're all wrong and she is still into you. Just dial it back and go NC lite. You have a good body that I'd kill for, so I don't think it'll be hard for you to game some other sloots in the meantime. In this day and age it's better not to put all of your eggs in one basket. I don't like it, but it's the way modern dating is these days.
post 1587145251 09-02-2019, 07:28 PM
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post 1587145261 09-02-2019, 07:28 PM
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They're not interested
post 1587145321 09-02-2019, 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Mcfreako
Try beastiality
Srs tag means fuk all these days huh?
post 1587145591 09-02-2019, 07:32 PM
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Stopped reading at “Like seriously...”
post 1587145721 09-02-2019, 07:34 PM
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OP was smashing female miscers lol.
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post 1587145731 09-02-2019, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Don't look at what she was saying and how she was acting when you met her. Look at her actions and you'll see how she really feels. Casual dating for some people is all about novelty, and it's possible that the novelty with you wore off.


Maybe we're all wrong and she is still into you. Just dial it back and go NC lite. You have a good body that I'd kill for, so I don't think it'll be hard for you to game some other sloots in the meantime. In this day and age it's better not to put all of your eggs in one basket. I don't like it, but it's the way modern dating is these days.
This is what also frustrates me, I'm a decently handsome guy. Not male model tier but slightly above average I'd say. Obviously I workout and look decent, I have a very laid back personality and am fun to be around. People enjoy my company, but when it comes to attracting girls that I'm attracted to it just never works out. I can never get them interested in me.

It also sucks cause I don't really have much in common with people my age, my interests and hobbies are boring or not conducive to being social so I never have much to talk about with women in general. I'm really am started to get jaded with my lack of success/experience with dating and relationships. I've really only been with two women ever in my life. But I've tried countless times with others. In person and online.
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post 1587145811 09-02-2019, 07:35 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
She's saying it with her actions. Actions speak louder than words.

But I don't know why she just wouldn't just come right out and say she was losing interest unless she just wants to use you for attention when she's bored.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Srs tag means fuk all these days huh?
lol shut up geek
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post 1587145891 09-02-2019, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Mcfreako
lol shut up geek
This
post 1587146071 09-02-2019, 07:39 PM
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Some people are busy doing other chit. As an adult nobody, has time to sit there and send smilies all day like a retard.
post 1587146201 09-02-2019, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
She's saying it with her actions. Actions speak louder than words.

But I don't know why she just wouldn't just come right out and say she was losing interest unless she just wants to use you for attention when she's board.
Yea she went on a vacation out of the country and ever since then she's been like this. I came off a little strong at first I'll admit but she was incredibly receptive to spending time together and stuff before.

I tried to let her know that I still wanna see her, and she was receptive. But now I'm in the situation I'm in... like if you don't wanna continue let me know. Don't just ghost me after spending nearly everyday together and saying how I'm "too good to be true" then all of a sudden ignoring my texts.
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post 1587146231 09-02-2019, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
low interest.

The lack of communication is in fact a method of communicating.

She's communicating that she's not that into you
this is generally true, but too many personality types out there for this to be 100% true

you have shy girls, you have really hot girls that like to play the "chase", etc.

op, what did you say? how well do you know her?
post 1587146321 09-02-2019, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
low interest.

The lack of communication is in fact a method of communicating.

She's communicating that she's not that into you
the truth hurts so bad
post 1587146391 09-02-2019, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
this is generally true, but too many personality types out there for this to be 100% true

you have shy girls, you have really hot girls that like to play the "chase", etc.

op, what did you say? how well do you know her?
We dated and spent nearly every day together for about 2-3 weeks, she went on vacation out of town for a month after that but I've been in contact with her since.

EDIT: All I asked her was that if she was free this week and wanted to grab dinner.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
We dated and spent nearly every day together for about 2-3 weeks, she went on vacation out of town for a month after that but I've been in contact with her since.
so what did you say that she hasn't responded to?

anyways, if what you said is true. that you spent all that time together. just drop her. go do bigger and better things and watch her come back once she catches wind
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Rubyharo said you were obsessed with her
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She hooked up with more interesting guys while on vacation... you said you’re boring so..

Or maybe you have high standards
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Originally Posted By billyjeanking1
Rubyharo said you were obsessed with her
She was my first GF lol
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Wonder if it’s just a female thing. My sister and mom do it a lot. Clearly I’m not into them nor do I want anything.

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