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post 1587155681 09-02-2019, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
sounds like she lost respect for you when you didn't bang her, then also kept trying to pester her with questions and were generally more enthusiastic than she was. women are actually very simple, and if you're frustrated, you're too emotionally involved in what's going on. the best way to have a girl want you is to smash asap then pretend you don't like her.
post 1587156311 09-02-2019, 10:55 PM
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Because Chad called.
post 1587157171 09-02-2019, 11:37 PM
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Most women I have been talking to lately seem very "basic". It's funny because you look at their profile and they have all these expectations for a guy and they have a basic job, basic life with no interesting/creative hobbies, listen to mainstream music explicitly, their idea of fun is drinking and doing basic crap or talking which im not saying is wrong but then you go to talk to them (even if they hit YOU up) and they have nothing to say.. "Hiiiiii!" "Nm layin in bed u" "sup?" "nm bored"..etc. I swear its more interesting talking to a toddler than most women.
post 1587157711 09-03-2019, 12:03 AM
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lol delete the number and move on guy..if someone doesnt text back i move on..if a girl likes you she will get back to you no matter what..if they dont then its low interest..maybe throw one last hail mary to meet but if nothing fuk her and meet someone else
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post 1587157741 09-03-2019, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Did you sleep with her? If you didn't.....lol.

And you massively failed the availability test. Never spend everyday with a women, especially one you've just started seeing. It says "I aint got chit else going on in my life so I can devote almost every second to some chick I just started hanging out with". Huge turn off for women. Instead of getting bitter, figure out whatyouneed to do differently. You can get as mad as you want but you cant change the game or female nature. Better smarten up.
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post 1587158141 09-03-2019, 12:28 AM
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Dunno only time it started happening to me was right after I got famous. Though tbh there were many factors that were involved in that many of which I don’t feel like discussing, am at liberty to discuss, etc.

Pretty stupid though, I did it to girls sometimes back in the day. Only cuz I was often in a real hard spot with it often times. Like I was fuking one girl and had others texting me but it’s like. Do I even want to respond right now cuz maybe it’ll piss the girl I’m currently fukking off. Maybe I’ll just leave it in limbo so that after I’m done ****ing her I’ll try to pick it back up?

Dunno my life been crazy
post 1587159021 09-03-2019, 01:24 AM
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She just wanted to get you to show interest, shes got that and moved on to the next guy that shes more interested in.
Move on bruz, shes relegated you to backup plan status. Don't waste your time with time wasters.
She may show interest in you again but take it with a massive grain of salt cuz she'll probs do the same thing again.
post 1587159131 09-03-2019, 01:27 AM
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She doesn’t do this to chad. The second he texts her, her heart flutters and she grabs her phone to read his text ASAP, and then types up a response, deletes it because she doesn’t want to sound dumb, retypes it about 3 more times until she’s sure it’s perfect, adds a bunch of kiss emojis, and then sends it....

Just remember that.

She might ignore YOUR texts. But she isn’t ignoring chads texts. 100% facts.
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post 1587159301 09-03-2019, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
Share messages of chat. You're blatantly boring as Fukk brah.
post 1587159721 09-03-2019, 01:53 AM
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either you're not interesting or good looking, the girl im currently talking to is responding in a matter of seconds even if i take hours to respond. I've ghosted her atleast 5 times to smash other girls and shes hot asfq.
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post 1587160281 09-03-2019, 02:29 AM
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After literally years of wondering this myself, I now have the answer (srs)

Low interest in you

Why don't they out right tell you this?

Because women avoid confrontation (they are physically weaker sex so can't defend themselves if you get mad; caveman times)

So they begin by delaying their responses to hope you'll get the message then they won't reply all together.

That's it.
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Bonus: if you want proof she isn't interested, write something completely non needy and fun that anyone would respond to, and see if she tries to continue the conversation or if she replies in a closed manner
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post 1587160331 09-03-2019, 02:32 AM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
sounds like she lost respect for you when you didn't bang her, then also kept trying to pester her with questions and were generally more enthusiastic than she was. women are actually very simple, and if you're frustrated, you're too emotionally involved in what's going on. the best way to have a girl want you is to smash asap then pretend you don't like her.
This is also true.
Before you smash her she doesn't give a fuk but after that first bang you can go nc on her and she will chase you for years
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post 1587160381 09-03-2019, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Yea she went on a vacation out of the country and ever since then she's been like this. I came off a little strong at first I'll admit but she was incredibly receptive to spending time together and stuff before.

I tried to let her know that I still wanna see her, and she was receptive. But now I'm in the situation I'm in... like if you don't wanna continue let me know. Don't just ghost me after spending nearly everyday together and saying how I'm "too good to be true" then all of a sudden ignoring my texts.
You seem like a guy who doesnt know how to take a hint. In a woman's mind, ignoring you is her way of letting you down easy. You were not the only guy she was/is seeing. Chad beat you to it by gaping her angus and making her swallow, whilst you were spending days writing her a poem.

Move on *******!
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post 1587162481 09-03-2019, 04:21 AM
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post 1587163131 09-03-2019, 04:40 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This is what also frustrates me, I'm a decently handsome guy. Not male model tier but slightly above average I'd say. Obviously I workout and look decent, I have a very laid back personality and am fun to be around. People enjoy my company, but when it comes to attracting girls that I'm attracted to it just never works out. I can never get them interested in me.

It also sucks causeI don't really have much in common with people my age, my interests and hobbies are boring or not conducive to being social so I never have much to talk about with women in general.I'm really am started to get jaded with my lack of success/experience with dating and relationships. I've really only been with two women ever in my life. But I've tried countless times with others. In person and online.
So...... fix that?

Why would you expect her to be interested in you if you're boring as fuk?
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
We dated and spent nearly every day together for about 2-3 weeks, she went on vacation out of town for a month after that but I've been in contact with her since.

EDIT: All I asked her was that if she was free this week and wanted to grab dinner.
and you didn't bang her? she probably thought you were gay with no confidence..

like how can a guy with a body like that not be fking me either on the 1st date or at least the 2nd...
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post 1587163311 09-03-2019, 04:50 AM
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Pretty sure her lack of response means that you're an insignificant insect that never enters her mind.
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post 1587163421 09-03-2019, 04:55 AM
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Being brutally honest, it means you’ve slipped on their depth chart.

Ideally you should be talking to 2-3 girls before making one a long term.

Notice how some of the girls always have time for you, no excuses, there is no maybes or possibles or backdoors for them to make excuses. That’s how you know you are the current #1 they bail on the other guy for you, in fact

Then there is a sexy girl who always seems like it’s an uphill battle to get her to show up. You have a great time when she does, but until she’s standing in front of you, it’s definitely not easy. You are that girl’s backup.

Edit: just saw OP didn’t even smash. Surprised she even gave you this much rope without putting it in her lmao
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You're being way too beta and clingy. That will dry up a girls vagine fast. You need to work on your game and have the girls chasing you not you chasing them.

It all starts with working on yourself. Stop being an insecure loser and start being an alpha chad. Also never focus on just one girl. Work on relationships with at least 3 and if one starts losing interest replace her immediately.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
This is irrelevant. What drvillian said is 100% true. It doesn't mater what she used to do, or how things used to be. Her not responding to your texts (or any girl) means she doesn't have enough interest in you. End of story. If a girl is into you, she will respond and make the effort.

Don't over analyze this kind of chit. No response = no interest.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
You are deemed to be of so little value she doesn’t think you’re worth the time it would take to tell you to fuk off

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Does your texting device make phone calls?
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I remember getting a girls number after my first encounter and never got a text back.

I guess, she wasn't into me or something. lol

Or perhaps, she gave me a fake number or something. lol
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it just means they are busy doing other things ....

I had a chick that i called on a Thursday night ... we spoke for just over an hour and we agreed i'd call again the very next day.
On my home after work the next day i called her and she doesn't pick up, i didn't msg her or call back the whole weekend.

On Sunday night i get a text from her saying "sorry for being so scarce but i was at the movies with my cousin on Friday night and then at my friends bday party on Saturday and is a bit hungover"

LOL i bought a one way ticket to North Carolina after reading her msg.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Pretty sure her lack of response means that you're an insignificant insect that never enters her mind.
you could give OP false hope and say..

she actually loves him but because she has left it a few days now feels too embarrassed to reach out to him because she thinks he will ignore her. and she doesn't want to feel sad. she cries herself to sleep every night thinking about almost banging him *i wish he had made a move, i was moist*.






































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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Yea she went on a vacation out of the country and ever since then she's been like this. I came off a little strong at first I'll admit but she was incredibly receptive to spending time together and stuff before.

I tried to let her know that I still wanna see her, and she was receptive. But now I'm in the situation I'm in... like if you don't wanna continue let me know. Don't just ghost me after spending nearly everyday together and saying how I'm "too good to be true" then all of a sudden ignoring my texts.
She probably met a new guy that she is more interested in and is keeping you on the back burner in case it doesn't workout with this guy.

Honestly i never had problems with girls answering my texts usually they answer almost right away and we would text back and fort however what pissed me off was that they would never text me first. I nexted so many girls because in my mind it was like if i text you first 3-4 times then at some point you should be texting/initiating conversation with me first but that never happened.

Most of the girls i met i stopped texting and they never texted me after that. I had few that would hit me up a month later but at that point i either went nc or responded with something like ok or k.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Not communicating IS communicating.

It's not that they are too busy, it's that they are too busy for you.

I don't even bother with women that don't text me back within a few hours.
I dont think that is necessarily true. I am terrible at texting answering phone with everyone. Half the time i dont even know where my phone is at if i am home. The other time ill be watching a movie, eating, maybe playing video game and ill get a phone call and be like ill call them up once i am done eating or at a save point and then totally forget sometimes for days.


My friends and family complain about it all the time and i know its a bad habbit but i havent been able to fix it...its just that sometimes i dont feel like talking or dont wanna be bothered so i dont respond right away.


Its so bad that my best friends said if they were in jail they would not even using me as their one call because chances are high i would not pick up.


So i dont think if a girl doesnt answer right away that she is not necesseraly interested for all you know she might be in a meeting at work or watching a movie.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
You come across as clingy and a bit desperate with nothing going on in your life (your words, you don't have hobbies and have difficulty relating to others. Thankfully that's an easy fix, and I encourage you to do so.) And IIRC, you're in law enforcement. That's a lot of red flags to me and while I'd like to think I'd use my words to say this isn't working and good luck, depending on your level of clinginess and crazy vibe, I might just disappear as well. It's much easier and safer than dealing with the fallout of an angry, clingy man with a lot of power. I agree with what others are saying, she actuallyiscommunicating with you, just not in the way you want.
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