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09-22-2019, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1Dj4WCKq8WEYeah man I agree all that happens when you cold approach is you get Bert stared lol or rejected I dunno hat to do anymore I see these 2 black guys talking to a white women she probs carried on talking to them because she was intimated by them lol. Cold approaching don’t work man it’s so frustrating
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Yeah man I agree all that happens when you cold approach is you get Bert stared lol or rejected I dunno hat to do anymore I see these 2 black guys talking to a white women she probs carried on talking to them because she was intimated by themlol. Cold approaching don’t work man it’s so frustrating
Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
It's not that cold approaching doesn't work. You just don't know how to do it.I lost all my confidence to cold approach in the past week I’ve approached 12 women I either get rejected Bert stared or ignores now I’ve lost confidence after rejection it feels like it ages you it defeats you it makes you more depressed
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
They are both autistic and peachy looks like he hasnt showered in months. You are wasting your energy replying to these clowns.It's not that cold approaching doesn't work. You just don't know how to do it.
09-22-2019, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom⏩
Do I? On an old picture you seeing off me maybe I look better than you lolThey are both autistic and peachy looks like he hasnt showered in months. You are wasting your energy replying to these clowns.
09-22-2019, 03:59 PM
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09-22-2019, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom⏩
That’s what I thought until I went out cold approaching I’m at 0/12 no one likes to talk to strangers I’m not going to continue trying something I know won’t work I don’t even have the confidence to cold approach now since too much rejection I feel defeatedThey are both autistic and peachy looks like he hasnt showered in months. You are wasting your energy replying to these clowns.
09-22-2019, 04:21 PM
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“Looks like he ain’t showered in months” just LOLhttps://imgur.com/gallery/jV8E3KOthat pics not even me trying
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Man brahs, I cant get myself to approach this chick I'm really interested in. I'm having a problem with it because shes a member of a singles group that I'm apart of and I don't want it to be awkward if shes not interested. I haven't been having problems approaching randoms in public, but when it comes to places or groups I frequent like the singles group or gym, I struggle. Give me motivation brahs. I wont see her again until next weekend unless I message her on ******** or something and I think it would be better to do in person.
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09-22-2019, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted By travis976⏩
What’s your success rate with cold approach sir?Man brahs, I cant get myself to approach this chick I'm really interested in. I'm having a problem with it because shes a member of a singles group that I'm apart of and I don't want it to be awkward if shes not interested. I haven't been having problems approaching randoms in public, but when it comes to places or groups I frequent like the singles group or gym, I struggle. Give me motivation brahs. I wont see her again until next weekend unless I message her on ******** or something and I think it would be better to do in person.
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Nah bro I look pretty sweet srs. I look like a mix between big sean and larenz tate.Do I? On an old picture you seeing off me maybe I look better than you lol
I was just exaggerating. In those videos you posted you looked homeless but I understand that's not how you always are.
09-22-2019, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
I’ve cold approached probably 12 with the intention of getting number/hookup. Out of those I think I was successful with 8 or? Got FWB with 2 but cut it off after deciding I want serious and high quality woman. In this time I’ve also been cold approached by several. I no thanks jeffed a few and casually been texting one of them.What’s your success rate with cold approach sir?
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09-22-2019, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By travis976⏩
I’ve tried cold approaching it don’t workI’ve cold approached probably 12 with the intention of getting number/hookup. Out of those I think I was successful with 8 or? Got FWB with 2 but cut it off after deciding I want serious and high quality woman. In this time I’ve also been cold approached by several. I no thanks jeffed a few and casually been texting one of them.
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09-22-2019, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
It’s true and I’ve has friends who claim to get women and despite meeting them over 10 times these guys never cold approached women not even in bars cold approaching is a myth meme and a fairytale it don’t work never have never will manYou cray.
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09-22-2019, 09:03 PM
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09-23-2019, 11:28 AM
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09-23-2019, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Yeah nobody does that irl. The only place you can meet people these days is bars and coworkers. That is your only chance. Anyone saying they cold approached or made friends by cold approaching is lying out their ass. You can even look that it is proven that it takes many hours to get to know someone enough to hang out with them or become a friend. It does not happen and it's 100% failure rate.PC specs
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09-23-2019, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
The bars must be good where you live every bar here in London is a sausage fest people go on like men and women go to bars as strangers and meet new people no.... they go with people they already know and don’t wanna talk to strangers but I guess cocktail bars you have a chance cold approaching is bs😂😂😂😂 ive been Bert stared ignored rejected if this crap actually worked you’d atleast make a few girl-friends from it the only time I see quality women is at coffee shops the gym and public etc no quality women goes to bars I think. Idk I’ll try a cocktail bar but I bet I’ll make a fool out myself! One thing I can say don’t cold approach in public you’ll get Bert stared and ignored and rejected (if your lucky enough to get a reply)Yeah nobody does that irl. The only place you can meet people these days is bars and coworkers. That is your only chance. Anyone saying they cold approached or made friends by cold approaching is lying out their ass. You can even look that it is proven that it takes many hours to get to know someone enough to hang out with them or become a friend. It does not happen and it's 100% failure rate.
09-23-2019, 04:54 PM
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I'm talking like alcoholics and college kids that already know people might be able to meet in bars. But it's absolutely pointless for someone like me and you won't meet anyone quality there. I used to go a lot and got in some trouble from the people there. They were mostly trashy people and alcoholics so fuk that.The bars must be good where you live every bar here in London is a sausage fest people go on like men and women go to bars as strangers and meet new people no.... they go with people they already know and don’t wanna talk to strangers but I guess cocktail bars you have a chance cold approaching is bs���������������� �������� ive been Bert stared ignored rejected if this crap actually worked you’d atleast make a few girl-friends from it the only time I see quality women is at coffee shops the gym and public etc no quality women goes to bars I think. Idk I’ll try a cocktail bar but I bet I’ll make a fool out myself! One thing I can say don’t cold approach in public you’ll get Bert stared and ignored and rejected (if your lucky enough to get a reply)
I mean you might get lucky and pull a 4/10 ONS or something is basically all that is going to happen
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09-23-2019, 05:02 PM
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But yeah if you are going somewhere alone you're fuked. People will just bert stare you unless you are drinking and get a lucky ONS or something. That's your only chance. Nothing else can come of going anywhere alone these days. I know this for a fact.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Agreed the only option is to accept being FABut yeah if you are going somewhere alone you're fuked. People will just bert stare you unless you are drinking and get a lucky ONS or something. That's your only chance. Nothing else can come of going anywhere alone these days. I know this for a fact.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
09-23-2019, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
LmfaoBut yeah if you are going somewhere alone you're fuked. People will just bert stare you unless you are drinking and get a lucky ONS or something. That's your only chance. Nothing else can come of going anywhere alone these days. I know this for a fact.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
And i hate being places when it's nothing but couples or sausage fests. Legit makes me just want to leave that place.
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I go out alone all the time and i get 1-2 numbers every time I go out.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I disagreeI go out alone all the time and i get 1-2 numbers every time I go out.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
https://youtu.be/Grn83jq5E-oI go out alone all the time and i get 1-2 numbers every time I go out.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
Stop saying cold approach does not work. Again, it jut doesn't work for you because you and EOD are autistic and don't realize that cold approach = Talking to a woman as another human being (not a target) + looking for IOIs.
If you don't actually hit on or flirt with(pick up on) a woman until she gives you IOI's your rejection ratio will go WAY down.
I don't ask for a woman's number and suggest we hang out until we've been casually talking and flirting for a while and its obvious she is hanging around talking because she is actually interested vs. just happens to be in the same area as me and I cornered her. I'll often separate after the initial interaction and see if she follows me.
Women do this ALL the time too. They'll just randomly walk away and see if you find your way back to her. You can tell she wants you to come back because she'll continue making eye contact.
And let me let you in on a secret. Every time a woman gives you IOI's and you don't approach, YOU just rejected HER. This is because of social conditioning. Since women get approached all the time, she has learned that if a guy is interested he will approach, and if he doesn't he must not be interested. They don't think that guys are weak for not approaching, that is a male made thing. Men created that to maintain the alpha hierarchy and hold others back to increase their chances.
I feel like all you FA's think that cold approach means going right for the kill, which does, in fact, not work. The secret is to make the woman feel like you are NOT picking up on her, to get her to lower her defenses. You have to build rapport first.
I fully realize that I just spit way to much sense and logic and it will all go right over your heads.
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Would like some advice,
I'm not that bad looking maybe a bit above average. The problem is i have no social circle friends or anything.
I use tinder and get matches and have had some success on there but most of the girls ive "pulled" from there have been very average/slutty girls.
I want to start approaching and going after girls i actually want to bang.
Where can i approach girls and secondly. do you ask them for their number? would it be better to ask them for their social media even if your own social media sucks?
I'm not that bad looking maybe a bit above average. The problem is i have no social circle friends or anything.
I use tinder and get matches and have had some success on there but most of the girls ive "pulled" from there have been very average/slutty girls.
I want to start approaching and going after girls i actually want to bang.
Where can i approach girls and secondly. do you ask them for their number? would it be better to ask them for their social media even if your own social media sucks?
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
And it's example of why you're a failure with women.I disagree
I've had more than enough success with women in my life to know when a man knows what he's talking about and Pondus gives me that vibe.
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Originally Posted By ArchangelST⏩
When you go up and say hey hi or I wanted to come over and say hi etc. And you don’t even get a conversation I’ll go with cold approaching don’t workAnd it's example of why you're a failure with women.
I've had more than enough success with women in my life to know when a man knows what he's talking about and Pondus gives me that vibe.
I've had more than enough success with women in my life to know when a man knows what he's talking about and Pondus gives me that vibe.
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