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Thread: **official cold approach crew thread**

post 1588587821 09-26-2019, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Places are just too fast paced and crowded now days. Its like the mouse utopia experiment happening now. It's just so hard to go out and do anything anymore without a good group of friends because there are so many people. Pubs and restaurants are literally packed full and overflowing in my city.

There isn't anywhere you can go besides a Casino or something where there aren't a million people.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Documenting a failure.

I went to the security desk and saw that sloot. I joked with her a bit, had some light conversation. I wanted to ask for her number, but then I remembered she has a long distance bf. This information came from someone else, but that thought ruined my motivation. I get really nervous around this one for some reason, not stupidly nervous, but nervous enough to second guess everything I say. Anyways, I didn't to jack chit, and I just wasn't feeling confident. I think it's the fear of being rejected by someone I'd have to see everyday. It was a really embarrassing feeling in school.

Any tips for overcoming self conscious nervousness? I no longer consider her an "option" for the bf reason. She might not be with him anymore, but I don't really care to try to get that information out of her.


The sloot I mentioned for the unawares:https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1587341821



One day I will have a success story to share.
Shoot your shot and get it over with. It's really not that hard.

Plus it shouldn't be taking you this long just to make a move.

Also since she's at work, just give her your number and tell her to call or text you tomorrow at a certain time to gauge her interest. If she's interested, she'll hit you up, if not, she'll either decline your number or take it but never hit you up. Getting a woman's number really don't mean chit as women give out their number all the time to guys.
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
https://youtu.be/cjXXq0IQuQ4
Yeah I was just at the gym again and it was another sausage fest. A couple people were talking but they know each other. Everyone else was on their phones or by themselves. Even when I got there the girl was just staring at her phone waiting for the front desk guy to open the door. Then I saw someone I knew and said what's up man and I got bert stared lol. Thing is everyone is on the move and places are super crowded unless you go in the morning when everyone is just trying to get in and get out.

Now I'm going to go to work with thousands of people and nobody is going to talk to each other. Only smokers talk to others because they have a nicotine buzz. All smokers are social people but the other 3000 people in work with stay to themselves. Very few people these days have that personality to just talk to anyone or even want to talk to anyone. Everyone stays to themselves bro. I could take a video and prove it lol.
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post 1588594721 09-26-2019, 05:44 AM
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At work now and I work with thousands of people and e everyone is in small groups or on their phone. Same thing different day. Literally doent matter what you do it's like deja vu there is no way to meet anyone these days
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post 1588611001 09-26-2019, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
At work now and I work with thousands of people and e everyone is in small groups or on their phone. Same thing different day. Literally doent matter what you do it's like deja vu there is no way to meet anyone these days
Can’t belive I saw a women in a bar drinking by herself whilst wearing earphones says it all she didn’t wanna be approached how to people even meet in bars since all the women go with people/guys they know it’s such a myth
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Originally Posted By Suqat⏩
Did my first in almost 6 months, will be making this a habit. Didn't go as well as I had hopped, but it was a pure cold approach, earphones in on computer and all, so we were both flustered lol. Was one of my worst approaches if I had to really rate it, but I am happy I started again.
Good chit dude. Mirin the balls to go for a chick with headphones in.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1588611721 09-26-2019, 10:24 AM
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If you're going to cold approach one of the best ways to go about it is the same way we go to the gym. We leave our house and go to the gym with the purpose of getting a workout for an hour or so. This same approach should be taken with day game and night game (this one is more obvious since you're heading out for the night). Take an hour a day a couple of times per week (2-3 times/wk if you can) to go and cold approach women. This eliminates half-ass attempts at approaching women while you're coming from work, the gym, or w/e the fuk you're doing and just puts the focus on cold approach and improving on it.

I'm fuking with this thread btw. Lots of good info that comes from experience and should be shared. There's also a lot of *******s itt and you guys should leave and head to the incel threads or some shiet.
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post 1588612081 09-26-2019, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Rai9⏩
If you're going to cold approach one of the best ways to go about it is the same way we go to the gym. We leave our house and go to the gym with the purpose of getting a workout for an hour or so. This same approach should be taken with day game and night game (this one is more obvious since you're heading out for the night). Take an hour a day a couple of times per week (2-3 times/wk if you can) to go and cold approach women. This eliminates half-ass attempts at approaching women while you're coming from work, the gym, or w/e the fuk you're doing and just puts the focus on cold approach and improving in it.

I'm fuking with this thread btw. Lots of good info that comes from experience and should be shared. There's also a lot of *******s itt and you guys should leave and head to the incel threads of some shiet.
Incels can't help but try to bring others down. It's ridiculously sad to see dudes come in here just repeating over and over again that cold approach is not possible, like their reality is the only reality and trying to make it our reality, too. It HAS to be some kind of psychosis. (srs)
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post 1588612591 09-26-2019, 10:35 AM
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I chased a girl down the subway srs (no creeper). I caught on the train right before it was gonna leave but she was in the other compartment. At the next stop I switched to the other compartment and was about to cold approach.

When I got behind her I saw the hairiest back on a woman I have ever seen brahs. Almost threw up it was that gross.



Another day. One day it will be my turn for cold approach success. That day was not today.
post 1588612841 09-26-2019, 10:37 AM
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srsly can you naysayers (EODumbass and Peach) stop bringing all this negativity to the thread. We have guys actually trying to get out there and get some women. You ****s bring nothing to this topic other than excuses. Either find your balls or become extinct....pussies.
post 1588613221 09-26-2019, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By chesterprynne⏩
srsly can you naysayers (EODumbass and Peach) stop bringing all this negativity to the thread. We have guys actually trying to get out there and get some women. You ****s bring nothing to this topic other than excuses. Either find your balls or become extinct....pussies.
Find some balls? Who approached 12 women in the past 3 days lat week! I did! It don’t work I’m just helping others not waste their time on something that don’t work!
post 1588613341 09-26-2019, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Find some balls? Who approached 12 women in the past 3 days lat week! I did! It don’t work I’m just helping others not waste their time on something that don’t work!
How did you become green?
post 1588613561 09-26-2019, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom⏩
How did you become green?
I don't know, but I'll fix that very soon.
post 1588613811 09-26-2019, 10:51 AM
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It’s so depressing seeing the same sh!t everyday no one talking to strangers everyone wearing earphones or on their phones or both and there’s no way to meet people since no one goes bars pubs etc alone it sucks
post 1588617231 09-26-2019, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Rai9⏩
If you're going to cold approach one of the best ways to go about it is the same way we go to the gym. We leave our house and go to the gym with the purpose of getting a workout for an hour or so. This same approach should be taken with day game and night game (this one is more obvious since you're heading out for the night). Take an hour a day a couple of times per week (2-3 times/wk if you can) to go and cold approach women. This eliminates half-ass attempts at approaching women while you're coming from work, the gym, or w/e the fuk you're doing and just puts the focus on cold approach and improving on it.

I'm fuking with this thread btw. Lots of good info that comes from experience and should be shared. There's also a lot of *******s itt and you guys should leave and head to the incel threads or some shiet.
Ehh I don't go looking for pussy anymore. I just meet women as I go about my day and I discovered as I do this, that I'm more calm, cool and collected and give an appearance of indifference and sexual content and women pick up on that and not only will they start checking you out more but it becomes easier to approach a hot woman when you do meet at a store for example instead of approaching every hot chick in a 10 yard radius.
post 1588623141 09-26-2019, 01:17 PM
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Just wish there was a way to meet people man I don’t feel good
post 1588623591 09-26-2019, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977⏩
Just wish there was a way to meet people man I don’t feel good
There is a way to meet people but if I tell you you aren't gonna believe it
post 1588623821 09-26-2019, 01:25 PM
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If you have the ability to hold conversations with people, you have the ability to meet women. Its not rocket surgery
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post 1588623911 09-26-2019, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom⏩
There is a way to meet people but if I tell you you aren't gonna believe it
How?
post 1588624421 09-26-2019, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By travis976⏩
If you have the ability to hold conversations with people, you have the ability to meet women. Its not rocket surgery
Ahh if only it was as easy as that in london
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Originally Posted By travis976⏩
If you have the ability to hold conversations with people, you have the ability to meet women. Its not rocket surgery
I've never seen it. Nobody talks to randoms anywhere except hollering on the city streets. If it happened i would see it or there would be proof of it. Only way people meet is organically through work or mutual friends. Or bars which isn't cold approach since alcohol is involved.
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post 1588637131 09-26-2019, 04:42 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I've never seen it. Nobody talks to randoms anywhere except hollering on the city streets. If it happened i would see it or there would be proof of it. Only way people meet is organically through work or mutual friends. Or bars which isn't cold approach since alcohol is involved.
Yes I agree although bars here everyone goes with who they know etc. But pretty much spot on
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I've never seen it. Nobody talks to randoms anywhere except hollering on the city streets.
Maybe most people don't talk to random people, but in my experience lots do. In my field social networking is pretty important, and I just notice that everybody in this space is good at cold approach. It's not even a second thought or even a big deal. Usually when I go out with people the expectation is that we're going to chat up random people in general, and if it's a hotty, then nice.
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Peach and Eod, I legitimately got involved in this thread hoping to offer a little bit of valuable advice, but you two *******s are completely insufferable. I was a bit more empathetic, but I've realized that you're both delusional and beyond help.

I hope neither of you *******s finds a woman and ever has the opportunity to reproduce. The Western world doesn't need more worthless *******s like you.

And if by some small chance you found a woman, I'd detective you so I could come have your bitch suck my dink and then send you the video.
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Yea you two should politely exit this thread lol... This thread is for people who have actual social skills and are not too beta or awkward to talk to people they dont know.
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Broke up with my gf of 5 years a month ago

Time to get over it. In.
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Originally Posted By ArchangelST⏩
Peach and Eod, I legitimately got involved in this thread hoping to offer a little bit of valuable advice, but you two *******s are completely insufferable. I was a bit more empathetic, but I've realized that you're both delusional and beyond help.

I hope neither of you *******s finds a woman and ever has the opportunity to reproduce. The Western world doesn't need more worthless *******s like you.

And if by some small chance you found a woman, I'd detective you so I could come have your bitch suck my dink and then send you the video.
I was late to the thread. Eod trollin'?
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Originally Posted By ArchangelST⏩
Peach and Eod, I legitimately got involved in this thread hoping to offer a little bit of valuable advice, but you two *******s are completely insufferable. I was a bit more empathetic, but I've realized that you're both delusional and beyond help.

I hope neither of you *******s finds a woman and ever has the opportunity to reproduce. The Western world doesn't need more worthless *******s like you.

And if by some small chance you found a woman, I'd detective you so I could come have your bitch suck my dink and then send you the video.
Nothing to do with social skills Ive approached more women than anyone here they just reject ignore you or walk away no matter what you say or look like I’m telling you how it is cold approaching don’t work I ain’t asking for your opinon I’m telling you my experiences I’ve approached women with confidence they just ignore you
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Originally Posted By travis976⏩
Yea you two should politely exit this thread lol... This thread is for people who have actual social skills and are not too beta or awkward to talk to people they dont know.
Lol spoke to more women than you and cold approached many they just stare at you or reject ya 0 percent of any conversation that isn’t forced I know I’ve tried it myself and I’m giving you my experiences it don’t work man stop telling people to do the same sh!t over and viler again I’ve been out on a wing wi5 confidence and positively you just get your a@@ rejected Bert stared or ignored I’m not asking for your view I’m telling you how it is now face off
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