Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum
ยป Wife upset at living conditions. Wat do?
  1. Results 121 to 150 of 150
  2. First
  3. 3
  4. 4
  5. 5
post 1591536761 11-13-2019, 11:43 AM
-
#121
  1. arod204
  2. Banned
  1. arod204
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 38
  5. Posts: 4,389
  6. Rep Power: 0
Had no idea this was the "China doesnt exist flat earth bruh". His marriage working out has about the same prospects of him finishing a degree in geography.

Seriously can't imagine what his wife is going thru (lol he married a hair dresser so hes already plucked.). Imagine having a child with a flat earther who has tons of cats and dogs and doesnt love his wife or kid enough to clean up the chit tier living conditions he puts them through.

Bro you're eventually going to lose everything and the only thing you'll have is child support payments, cats, and a shoe box apartment filled with the smells of cat piss and chit.

Gl.
post 1591537121 11-13-2019, 11:47 AM
-
#122
  1. EdwardTheGreat
  2. Registered User
  1. EdwardTheGreat
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Age: 52
  5. Posts: 9,092
  6. Rep Power: 235009
Originally Posted By arod204
Bro you're eventually going to lose everything and the only thing you'll have is child support payments, cats, and a shoe box apartment filled with the smells of cat piss and chit.
That's already all he has...the only difference is that no one else will be physically present...but will OP even notice...
post 1591537551 11-13-2019, 11:52 AM
-
#123
  1. badbl00d
  2. Registered User
  1. badbl00d
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2015
  4. Age: 44
  5. Posts: 42,044
  6. Rep Power: 363602
Originally Posted By LinuxJon
QUOTE=BroncManiac;1591535481]How is the kid? Is he healthy? Crawling already? Just imagine all the crap and germs your kid is ingesting from crawling around in a house filled with multiple cats and dogs with parents who don't want to clean.
Kid is super healthy. Walking, running, talks, super smart and happy. And fuk no,antivaxers areinsane.[/QUOTE]

That's kind of why I assumed you were one.
No man is your friend
No man is your enemy
Every man is your teacher

Black Crew
Lol @ Tradies Srs
AP4 crew
post 1591537781 11-13-2019, 11:54 AM
-
#124
  1. AutistTrigger
  2. Registered User
  1. AutistTrigger
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2017
  4. Posts: 2,024
  5. Rep Power: 3315
Originally Posted By Uhyeahokay
Sounds like you both have different enneagrams going on.

Lose the cats, stop buying chit, bang your wife, go to Church.
This^
post 1591538581 11-13-2019, 12:03 PM
-
#125
  1. snailsrus
  2. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿชณ
  1. snailsrus
  2. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿชณ
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 15,306
  5. Rep Power: 189841
Originally Posted By LinuxJon
QUOTE=BroncManiac;1591535481]How is the kid? Is he healthy? Crawling already? Just imagine all the crap and germs your kid is ingesting from crawling around in a house filled with multiple cats and dogs with parents who don't want to clean.
Kid is super healthy. Walking, running, talks, super smart and happy. And fuk no, antivaxers are insane.[/QUOTE]do you think you were ready to have a child when you found out your wife was prego
SuperHercules crew
cancer survivor crew
Dyslexic crew
Friend of Mr.Wilson crew
Ugly and old cell crew
Cat crew
Insomniac crew
post 1591540671 11-13-2019, 12:34 PM
-
#126
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  3. Join Date:
  4. Posts: 12,500
  5. Rep Power: 1
Have you tried training the racoon pack to do basic chores or yardwork?

post 1591542851 11-13-2019, 01:07 PM
-
#127
  1. Smithers115
  2. 6'4 crew
  1. Smithers115
  2. 6'4 crew
  3. Join Date: Sep 2008
  4. Location: Alberta Brah, Canada
  5. Posts: 24,851
  6. Rep Power: 81884
Originally Posted By Halfway
Have you tried training the racoon pack to do basic chores or yardwork?

wait, pls tell me these arent OP's rakkins...
Great MAGA King status

Bing Chilling
post 1591543091 11-13-2019, 01:12 PM
-
#128
  1. DesiredUserphag
  2. 1:12TilTheDayIFukinDie
  1. DesiredUserphag
  2. 1:12TilTheDayIFukinDie
  3. Join Date: Sep 2014
  4. Posts: 40,176
  5. Rep Power: 397140
inb4 divorce
๐—ฃ๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ข๐——
ฯ‰ฯƒัโ„“โˆ‚ ั‚ัฮฑฮฝั”โ„“ั”ั ศผัั”ฯ‰ โ‚…โ‚€/โ‚โ‚‰โ‚…
๐•ฌ๐–Š๐–˜๐–™๐–๐–Š๐–™๐–Ž๐–ˆ๐–†๐–‘๐–‘๐–ž ๐•ฎ๐–š๐–™ ๐•ธ๐–†๐–˜๐–™๐–Š๐–— ๐•ฝ๐–†๐–ˆ๐–Š ยฎ
แ—ชIแ”•แ‘•แ–‡Iแ—ฐIแ‘Žแ—ฉTIOแ‘Ž Eแ™ญแ‘•แ’ชแ‘Œแ”•IOแ‘Ž Iแ‘Žแ—ชOแ‘•Tแ–‡Iแ‘Žแ—ฉTIOแ‘Ž
post 1591543461 11-13-2019, 01:18 PM
-
#129
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  3. Join Date:
  4. Posts: 12,500
  5. Rep Power: 1
Originally Posted By Smithers115
wait, pls tell me these arent OP's rakkins...
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...0439261&page=1

They contracted toxoplasmosis from the cat chit and went feral
post 1591545141 11-13-2019, 01:43 PM
-
#130
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  3. Join Date: Dec 2013
  4. Posts: 28,898
  5. Rep Power: 342064
Originally Posted By Halfway
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...0439261&page=1

They contracted toxoplasmosis from the cat chit and went feral
What do you call a pack of racoons?

A troop, herd?

Edit: Google says gaze

A clowder of cats and a gaze of racoons living in the same apt.
6'2"

OMAD results: 2/15/19-235, 10/13/19-190

OHP-205 Bench- 245 Squat - 405 C&J - 245

2021 Spring cut: 195lbs starting weight
post 1591546171 11-13-2019, 01:59 PM
-
#131
  1. darkninja67
  2. The Dark Lord
  1. darkninja67
  2. The Dark Lord
  3. Join Date: Aug 2009
  4. Posts: 87,403
  5. Rep Power: 802217
INB4 bathroom SOS???
rumpler of stiltskins

"I'm not afraid to die, I'm afraid I'll survive and have to watch you suffer" - Thy Art Is Murder

"Life will cease so breathe deep" - Lorna Shore
post 1591546671 11-13-2019, 02:04 PM
-
#132
  1. 78novacaine
  2. Registered User
  1. 78novacaine
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2019
  4. Posts: 15,477
  5. Rep Power: 176552
Originally Posted By Halfway
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...0439261&page=1

They contracted toxoplasmosis from the cat chit and went feral
Omg this post in that thread had me fukking rolling. Have my measlies.
Originally Posted By ANumber1
I can't imagine how this chit would go down.

Management: "WTF is up with all these raccoons trashing the patio area?"

Neighbor: "Yeah, so, Carl lets raccoons into his apartment at night."

Management: "...he what?"

Neighbor: "He lets raccoons into his apartment at night. Like, an entire family. He puts down cat food for them and they hang out together, watch TV and chit."

Management: "...he what?"

SIX MONTHS LATER

New Tenant: "WTF is up with all these raccoons trashing the patio area and trying to break into my apartment?"

Management: "Sorry, the prior tenant would let them into his apartment at night. They're used to being fed and hanging out."

New Tenant: "...he what?"
Permabulk/bloatlord Crew
Tradie Crew
HTC
post 1591549721 11-13-2019, 02:49 PM
-
#133
  1. LinuxJon
  1. LinuxJon
  2. Join Date: Apr 2014
  3. Location: California, United States
  4. Posts: 49,073
  5. Rep Power: 325966
Originally Posted By 78novacaine
Omg this post in that thread had me fukking rolling. Have my measlies.
lol I remember that.

I wish I'd ever gone through with my kitchen chicken coup idea.
480s / 370b / 495d / 235 x 2 SOHP

Trump 2020
DeSantis 2024
Catbrah 2032

Misc Firearms Crew
Misc Wristwatch Crew
Will sell wife's foot pics for watch/gun money crew
Definitely not a fed crew
post 1591611781 11-14-2019, 01:51 PM
-
#134
  1. northernlights7
  2. Banned
  1. northernlights7
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jun 2013
  4. Posts: 24,527
  5. Rep Power: 24
Originally Posted By TBO1313
If this is a troll job its the best ever.
OP isn't a troll. He's an attention seeking nut job that largely posts truths about himself in his quest for attention and validation. Even if he were actually an elaborate troll, it would not be impressive. It would just be all the more pathetic that the neckbeard had dedicated 5+ years to the gimmick.

Gmiscer's gimmick also sucks because only a few idiots have ever believed he wasn't trolling. He was obvious about it from the start.
post 1591612101 11-14-2019, 01:55 PM
-
#135
  1. snailsrus
  2. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿชณ
  1. snailsrus
  2. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿชณ
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 15,306
  5. Rep Power: 189841
Pics of ops house?
SuperHercules crew
cancer survivor crew
Dyslexic crew
Friend of Mr.Wilson crew
Ugly and old cell crew
Cat crew
Insomniac crew
post 1591612981 11-14-2019, 02:07 PM
-
#136
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  3. Join Date: Dec 2013
  4. Posts: 28,898
  5. Rep Power: 342064
Originally Posted By northernlights7
OP isn't a troll. He's an attention seeking nut job that largely posts truths about himself in his quest for attention and validation. Even if he were actually an elaborate troll, it would not be impressive. It would just be all the more pathetic that the neckbeard had dedicated 5+ years to the gimmick.

Gmiscer's gimmick also sucks because only a few idiots have ever believed he wasn't trolling. He was obvious about it from the start.
I never found Gmiscer to be entertaining but Catbrah on the other hand is very interesting. He has some crazy ideas and may be posting for attention but he doesn't strike me as the kinda guy that needs any validation.
Originally Posted By snailsrus
Pics of ops house?
Those pics with the cat bowl in the bathroom are his house. His living room/den area is surprisingly not that bad. His sink absolutely haram though.

All of that pales in comparison to his apartment when he was single. That place should have been demolished after he moved out
6'2"

OMAD results: 2/15/19-235, 10/13/19-190

OHP-205 Bench- 245 Squat - 405 C&J - 245

2021 Spring cut: 195lbs starting weight
post 1591613151 11-14-2019, 02:11 PM
-
#137
  1. LinuxJon
  1. LinuxJon
  2. Join Date: Apr 2014
  3. Location: California, United States
  4. Posts: 49,073
  5. Rep Power: 325966
Originally Posted By TBO1313
I never found Gmiscer to be entertaining but Catbrah on the other hand is very interesting. He has some crazy ideas and may be posting for attention but he doesn't strike me as the kinda guy that needs any validation.



Those pics with the cat bowl in the bathroom are his house. His living room/den area is surprisingly not that bad. His sink absolutely haram though.

All of that pales in comparison to his apartment when he was single. That place should have been demolished after he moved out
Lmao. I'll rep anyone who posts photos of my apartment from back in the day. The funny part is that we actually have a pretty nice house now:

480s / 370b / 495d / 235 x 2 SOHP

Trump 2020
DeSantis 2024
Catbrah 2032

Misc Firearms Crew
Misc Wristwatch Crew
Will sell wife's foot pics for watch/gun money crew
Definitely not a fed crew
post 1591613441 11-14-2019, 02:16 PM
-
#138
  1. l2ambo
  2. Registered User
  1. l2ambo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2010
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Age: 36
  6. Posts: 8,380
  7. Rep Power: 8260
How many fuking cats does OP have? Honestly, give away all your cats right now and maybe get 1 dog, just 1. Yeah, animals show unconditional love for you, that's probably why you have so many cats. No matter how pathetic you are, your cat doesn't care. It's just fueling your degeneracy. Don't get a maid, clean up after yourself and communicate with your wife, spend more time with her, grow together. The problem is that the both of you aren't putting in enough effort to solve simple problems. Be a man *******, not a cat lady.
"Movin' ahead so life won't pass me by."
post 1591613471 11-14-2019, 02:17 PM
-
#139
  1. CementPizza
  2. Registered User
  1. CementPizza
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2002
  4. Posts: 49,096
  5. Rep Power: 271368
Ok, here is the deal. And this IS what is going to happen.

Your priorities are as follows. This is NOT debatable.
1. Your Kid
2. Your wife
3. you
4. You zoo.

Now you can't have them all. Your wife may have agreed at first to jump in the can and live with you like Oscar the grouch. But YOUR KID DID NOT. So you have a responsibility to provide the safest healthiest condition for your kid you can.

Your wife is feeling this.

This means ALL the animals go. ALL!!!! IN your case ALL!!! Because you are some kind of weird pet-a-holic. Just lile an alcoholic can't have one drink you can't have one pet.
They all need to go

You are raising your kid in a litter box and your wife knows it.

Next.
You will stop believing all this stupid bull**** you have allowed yourself to have the luxury to pretend is real. Again, your kid deserves to get an education from people smarter than you and less messed up than you.

You have 48 hours to get rid of the stupid animals and clean your dumpster fire.
R.I.P. Hector Bluntz
I am sex yor butt.
Sick Duck Crew.
Stroke crew
Mortal Enema Crew.
Intent to penetrate Crew.
https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Kitchen-Dining-Potholders/zgbs/kitchen/678537011
post 1591613701 11-14-2019, 02:19 PM
-
#140
  1. jeshelton
  2. Registered User
  1. jeshelton
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2013
  4. Age: 43
  5. Posts: 11,801
  6. Rep Power: 267554
[QUOTE=LinuxJon post_id=1591613151]Lmao. I'll rep anyone who posts photos of my apartment from back in the day. The funny part is that we actually have a pretty nice house now:

[img]https://i.imgur.com/mIp6RUd.jpg[/i mg][/QUOTE]Here to help.

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/embed/J5IvuFxa4pA[/youtube]

[img]http://i.imgur.com/RTRQYZz.jpg[/img]

[img]http://i.imgur.com/ePdcAp7.jpg[/img]

[img]http://i.imgur.com/MhBVfZD.jpg[/img]

[img]http://i.imgur.com/F3W6IV3.jpg[/img]

[img]https://i.ibb.co/pKgrhMp/Hair-on-Fire-1024x683.jpg[/img]
445/340/545
post 1591614101 11-14-2019, 02:28 PM
-
#141
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  1. TBO1313
  2. Never Registered
  3. Join Date: Dec 2013
  4. Posts: 28,898
  5. Rep Power: 342064
Originally Posted By jeshelton

That looks disturbingly like my little brother
6'2"

OMAD results: 2/15/19-235, 10/13/19-190

OHP-205 Bench- 245 Squat - 405 C&J - 245

2021 Spring cut: 195lbs starting weight
post 1591614751 11-14-2019, 02:39 PM
-
#142
  1. GreatOldOne
  2. Cthulhu fhtagn
  1. GreatOldOne
  2. Cthulhu fhtagn
  3. Join Date: Jan 2013
  4. Posts: 39,712
  5. Rep Power: 210947
Don't give up on therapy. It sounds like perhaps the person you engaged wasn't especially talented or idk...maybe too busy and being stupid. They can be stupid, too.

Keep your relationship with your wife. It's the most important relationship of your life.

If things aren't going well...keep it simple. Do something nearly meaningless and pleasant, such as make a nice breakfast and coffee. Set the tone for the day to be nice.
post 1591615221 11-14-2019, 02:48 PM
-
#143
  1. GreatOldOne
  2. Cthulhu fhtagn
  1. GreatOldOne
  2. Cthulhu fhtagn
  3. Join Date: Jan 2013
  4. Posts: 39,712
  5. Rep Power: 210947
Also if work is becoming a terminal issue...give up. Find something with less stress. Money is not that important, and you will not be taking it with you when your dead. Instead, take a lifetime of love and happiness to your grave.

People think life is too complicated and serious...it's not. Don't forget there's years in your future.

Keep a reasonable number of cats as well...you could actually become allergic and that would break your heart. I wouldn't get into any more cats...you probably have enough so focus on those and staying married.
post 1591615331 11-14-2019, 02:50 PM
-
#144
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2014
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 6,718
  7. Rep Power: 27255
So you don't want to find happiness within the relationship (or have zero hope of that), you just don't want to get divorced.
Separate and never sign any papers then. Problem solved.

But for real, you have to view your relationship as one worth saving (for factors other than your kid) or no therapist can help.
Right now you're just two people who don't want to be married but are too scared to go through with the divorce.
post 1591615911 11-14-2019, 03:04 PM
-
#145
  1. SuperChieftain
  2. Banned
  1. SuperChieftain
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Sep 2019
  4. Posts: 3,630
  5. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By jeshelton
Here to help.











LMAO that was great.
post 1591616801 11-14-2019, 03:20 PM
-
#146
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  1. anonymous
  2. Guest
  3. Join Date:
  4. Posts: 12,500
  5. Rep Power: 1
Originally Posted By snailsrus
Pics of ops house?


The used needles in the cat tower are a nice touch, and I just noticed the sock flavored pancake next to the cat sick stains
post 1591616961 11-14-2019, 03:23 PM
-
#147
  1. TypeNirvash
  2. World Warrior
  1. TypeNirvash
  2. World Warrior
  3. Join Date: Aug 2012
  4. Posts: 23,195
  5. Rep Power: 26070
You loved each other enough to marry each other.

And unless one or both of you is doing something morally reprehensible you are both capable of working this out.

You have the ability to fix your situation.

You hate each other because neither of you are listening to the other when they talk. You hear the words, but you don't understand what they mean.

I sincerely hope you can figure this out.

Personally, I believe that the cats, the mess, and the spending could all be contributing to this. You're both at fault for letting your lives get this way, and yet... It sounds like both of you blame each other.
post 1591617061 11-14-2019, 03:24 PM
-
#148
  1. solidus2k3
  2. Registered User
  1. solidus2k3
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2003
  4. Location: rofl land
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 41,584
  7. Rep Power: 123781
*send help*
<HTC>
post 1591617291 11-14-2019, 03:27 PM
-
#149
  1. tnthudson
  2. Registered User
  1. tnthudson
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2009
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 1,987
  6. Rep Power: 40325
Yeah, find a good therapist man. My wife told me 20 years ago that she would never love me again and we were done, no questions asked.
I had 2 young boys with her at the time and fought like h+ll to keep us together, going to a counselor by myself until she would come. By God's grace we got back together, went through cancer and we're closer than ever.
She lost all kinds of weight and is a dime, and our sex is great. No brag, just saying things can do a complete 180 if you put the immense effort in.
Once things turn around, you won't feel like you're putting effort in, you naturally want to please each other. And if you pray, pray. I believe that made the hugest difference.
Hebrews 12: 1,2
https://peacewithgod.net

Basic Nutrition: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=156380183
post 1591621381 11-14-2019, 04:43 PM
-
#150
  1. 78novacaine
  2. Registered User
  1. 78novacaine
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2019
  4. Posts: 15,477
  5. Rep Power: 176552
Originally Posted By CementPizza
Ok, here is the deal. And this IS what is going to happen.

Your priorities are as follows. This is NOT debatable.
1. Your Kid
2. Your wife
3. you
4. You zoo.

Now you can't have them all. Your wife may have agreed at first to jump in the can and live with you like Oscar the grouch. But YOUR KID DID NOT. So you have a responsibility to provide the safest healthiest condition for your kid you can.

Your wife is feeling this.

This means ALL the animals go. ALL!!!! IN your case ALL!!! Because you are some kind of weird pet-a-holic. Just lile an alcoholic can't have one drink you can't have one pet.
They all need to go

You are raising your kid in a litter box and your wife knows it.

Next.
You will stop believing all this stupid bull**** you have allowed yourself to have the luxury to pretend is real. Again, your kid deserves to get an education from people smarter than you and less messed up than you.

You have 48 hours to get rid of the stupid animals and clean your dumpster fire.
Quoting this on the off chance that catbrah is not just an elaborate/dedicated troll. If you are serious with even HALF the chit you post, then for the sake of your son and your wife PLEASE take these words to heart.
Permabulk/bloatlord Crew
Tradie Crew
HTC
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts