lol @ being 270lbs and being proud of a few pounds, my weight fluctuates through out the day too.

I don't mind the process, in fact i am being very proactive about it, hence why i am learning how to speak Spanish.

It's not only that. The guy has to bring something to the table. Whether it's looks, money, reputation, intelligence, strength of character etc. So the best thing to do is show your best traits, highlight the things women value or look for in a guy.

For example a pretty guy will focus even more on his looks and dress well.

A successful guy often wears good quality clothing, may have a good quality vehicle, or nice apartment/house, and during dating will let women know whether directly or.indirectly. For example when the woman asks what his job is or where he lives etc etc he will be indicating his 'value'.

A guy with a good personality will tend to either be very sociable or have lots of female friends or will be involved in charity or some meaningful projects etc that points to his personality. Keep in good personality can mean either the guy is a comedian or is befriends others easily or is a very supportive person. So on a date such a guy will when discussing hobbies indicate his personality indirectly or directly.

Smart guys often are involved in techy or research oriented things. They often travel, go to host conferences, seminars. Or are involved in other projects. Often their job or past uni may indicate their intelligence. Such guys would in order to show their value indicate their wide range of skills and mastery in a certain field etc.

If a guy does not appear to bring anything to the table, the woman may lose interest. Women often regain interest after learning something new about a guy. E.g. that he is an athlete, that he is successful, that he is highly intelligent and has degrees, awards etc to prove it etc.

So when you talk to women what traits or skills do you speak about? How do you show your value so to speak.

Right.

When questioned, produce a painting that demonstrates years of effort and skill that less than 1% of the population have.

* the picture of you and your pet heavy kettle on the top of a mountain in 7 degrees

* the photo of you all having dinner after saving a drowning child from a riptide, at ultimate personal risk

* the time you defeated the Russian mafia and got a bunch of people arrested.

Like that.

I've been with my wife for 8 years.That's great, I'm sure your janitorial cohorts at the hospital will be ecstatic.

Congratulations brother! Excellent decision.

Never let her go.

One day, if she gets really mad at you...keep your head level and chin tucked.

Get her right back.

Then everything will be fine. And one day, it will get rough and you're going to experience hard tests and you won't like them.

Survive and best them.



It doesn't matter if it's 5150.

Make it work. Carry the load.

I speak about what is material to the discussion. Being smart or knowledgeable about a topic won't get you laid. You'll be labeled an autist who "goes on and on" about things.

Just trying to help out by telling you the unfiltered facts. I really want help you Wincel. I think you're a great guy but you see things in a flawed way.

If you allow me to help, I can guarantee you'll have a date with a decent chick set up by next week. I'm pretty honest as I think everyone can tell by now.

True not going on and on about something is good but you have to add in jokes or flattery to make the conversation interesting. A flat convo is not it.

lmao gtfo didn't you say you were never going to post here again.

This is not true.

On the day you actually have something intelligent and funny to say, women will trip over themselves trying to get into your car and you might just decide to let one of them succeed.

Having an ordinary conversation will get you nowhere. It's a way to begin but if you want to close the deal, you have to impress or make the convo interesting. In fact ask questions and pretend you're interested in the answers.

Make her feel important and unique. But give genuine compliments.

Another thing is can you tell if a chick is interested by watching her body language? What do you think are the signs?

excellent advice you can't even help yourself and you are going to help 4 generations of inbreeding now.

Not a good idea.

She SHOULD be important and unique.

Don't waste your time.

I know all the bullchit signs. Touching your hair, giggling, etc. Here's the thing. I'm not interested in her answers. Do you know why? Because there is a 99.95% chance she is a dumb bitch. IDC about ppl anymore. I don't want anyone. SRS. Just want to live out the remainder of my years and die in peace. SRS. Hopefully without any fuking nuclear war or economic collapse.

Be in a college town and have dinner parties.

PhD's literally to come find you, because they're smart too.

Would you take advice from an obese person about diet and exercise?

Same thing.

I know a guy who is morbidly obese who was an award winning powerlifter. So, yeah. I would look at what his advice was and see if it made sense. Go look at most bodybuilders and powerlifters after they stop. Are they any less knowledgeable? Stfu.

I was successful. I understood statistics and chaos theory on that day.

Edit: because while people were busy saying philosophy was stupid I was busy taking philosophy of math and science, and becoming a psychological software developer.

Those signs are updated, as few women use them now. Modern signs are a woman always coming up with excuses to talk to you, her eyes brightening up when you two meet, her casually touching you often, her trying to make eye contact often, asking other people about you, asking if you're single, inviting you on non dates often.

A woman who is interested will find a way to come close. Sometimes they pretend they're busy. Usually they will sneak looks and eventually try starting up a convo.

I'm wondering if you can tell if a woman on the street, in the park or in your neighbourhood is interested.

You just ethered yourself. He was an award winning powerlifter. You're not an award winning womenologist. Unequal in respects of knowledge/experience to what you're spouting.

I didn't ether anything. My point is to not judge the message by the man delivering it. It is literally a logical fallacy to do so. Nothing you people have said against me invalidates anything I have said.

You can say you have reason to not believe me. That's fine. But to say what I am saying is bs, you should have some sort of counterargument. I am cautioning people against greed and to seek to form lasting bonds of loyalty and familial stability. If this bothers you, please evaluate why you are a greedy whore/manwhore and rethink life. Thanks.

I'm interested in helping a younger person who likely has similar psychological disabilities as myself, because when I asked for help...in my life.

It was given to me. And I really appreciate that.

So when someone tells me they are going to lay down and rot, I will say, I understand. It very hard and I wish it wasn't as hard as it is.

But I don't give up and I don't give up on you. So if you can't stand up I will literally stand you back up and carry you until you are ready to walk again

Yeah you're not rotting on my watch. So are you willing to listen to me and let me help you?

Fukking LMAO.100% correct.

Something I want to highlight with these two posts- we live in a world of specialists, and just because you're "smart" doesn't mean you know about everything. It usually means you know about one specific thing that you've trained at, and the deeper you go into that field, the more specific you get. Relevant pic, but it's too big so I had to spoiler it.

Spoiler!


Just as an example from my own life: I'm a grad student in electrical engineering, and I focus on analog design - amplifiers, transmitters and receivers, chit like that. Let's say I go up to the next floor in my research building and talk to an EE PhD who's expertise is in digital design (computers), and I ask him about his research. I might get the gist of what he's saying, but I won't actually understand 50% of it. I just don't have enough background to fully understand him.

Now if I talk to a mechanical engineering student in depth about his research, I'll havenobackground, and I'll understand 5% of it tops. If I talk to a biology PhD about their research, I will understand 5% of it tops. If I talk to an art history PhD, I will understand 5% of it tops.

So all this in-depth knowledge that I have, and it's not even enough to talk to anyone outside the same floor of my research lab.

Wincel is/was/I'm not sure a math PhD. There's no question that he's smart, but the only people who he can really speak to on his level of expertise are other math PhDs. And those folks are A. always men, and B. always massively fukked in the head. It takes a type to get that deep into math, and a 30yo virgin who hides in his basement in fear of an oncoming nuclear apocalypse is really about par for the course with them.

Anyway, to head back more towards Wincel's point. No chick in the history of mankind has every sucked a guy off because he told her about Kolmogorov's axioms. When chicks say they want a smart guy, what they really mean is they want an attractive guy who makes a lot of money (cause Americans have this fukked-up attitude about "if you're smart, then why aren't you rich") and can impress their friends with witty conversation at parties.

The amount of information it takes to appear knowledgeable to someone who knows nothing about a certain topic is really, really low. It's much more about social skills and presentation, and a PhD is way overkill for background info. The deeper you go and the more you start talking about chit that no one else understands, the more they're going to tune you out.

You have to keep it surface level and keep the other person engaged (usually about their own interests), while signalling just enough to tell them that you're not a guy they want to fuk with on X topic. It's basically a dominance thing. And that's what chicks want - not a guy with chitloads of raw intelligence but an attractive, socially-calibrated guy who knows just enough to not get shown up by your average bachelors grad (sorry tradies).

It's a lot funnier because it's 100% true. My brother and I, sat on a deck one night and decided that chasing women was too much effort.

Instead, lure them with food and music.

And it worked.

oh winny winny boy. when are you gonna find what ever it is ur lookin for?

This.

What wincel says isn't automatically wrong, just because it's coming from him.

But looking for relationship advice from an incel virgin seems akin to fossicking through a turd to find a kernel of sweetcorn.

Jay283 and Wincel should have hot awkward steamy sexorz. Get it over with.

This. Maybe she can make a man out of him.