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post 1593398331 12-12-2019, 07:40 AM
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Repped for truth.
Also raging bonar from pic.
Inb4 working abroad since Tuesday and anything gets me hard after 2 nights without my girl.
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Originally Posted By Yoidiot
Now use the same logic on women who do fuark all and get chased by 1000 guys on tinder

Go rope yourself ***gt
Are you mad that women get chased? That's just how men and women work. Men chase/offer goats/start wars over women while they just sit there going "teehee!".
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Basiliskboy
Damn I fall into both brackets on some points. I'm really trying to work on my social skills Im getting better at conversation but i feel like i could be so much better at this point
Bro, at least you're trying and aware you have at least some level of control over your situation and you see areas you can improve. Tthis kind of self awareness puts you ahead of 80% of incels right away. Das it mane.. keep progressing.

Will rep on recharge.
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
I said 'lots of', and yes of course i was exaggerating to make a point.

There's two main types of incel:
1. Those who are very anti social, don't want to help themselves and are their own worst enemy - you probably fall under this, they can't get laid because they lack basic social skills, and in your situation look down on others and are very judgemental, all whilst moaning about not being able to meet anyone (although most of them don't have a GF waiting at home while they're crying about it...). They are also extremely unrealistic about what they offer (i.e they think they're top 10%). How can these kind of people expect to get top tier females?

2. Those who are simply genetically lower tier males, in which case what's the issue with getting the female genetic equivalent of themselves?

So basically, incels have some kind of issue blocking them from getting laid that makes them a less desirable male.. .whether it's poor social skills, being extremely negative, looking down on others or simply being low tier genetically. So what exactly is the problem with them getting a women who is less desirable, since that's their female equivalent? Not everyone can get the best women, this is just common sense.. and if you want higher quality women then you need to work at making yourself into a higher quality male. If you don't put the work in, you can't moan... you're not entitled to any woman you desire, you get what you can get.
Quoted and repped.
post 1593399091 12-12-2019, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Are you mad that women get chased? That's just how men and women work. Men chase/offer goats/start wars over women while they just sit there going "teehee!".
Hahaha very true. Guys have always chased woman. Ever since Gok decided to give Ogga a deer skin coat, and big dick Chad Thog decided to give her a lion skin coat instead.
post 1593399101 12-12-2019, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
I remember when I saw pics of incels on forums.

They the majority were average looking, or even would be rated as good looking. What I think they had in common was mental health problems. Anxiety, Depression, or just really poor social skills due to never socializing IRL and only online.

I was following the Twitich 'just chatting' community for about 6 months this year, and the amount of guys that I saw that the misc would tear apart for their looks who had GFs, would shock the misc. What they all had in common was popularity in that sub-culture, and good social skills (seemingly just a williness to do something embarrassing, or act goofy).
Yeah i started watching just chatting after seeing the livestream fails stuff on youtube. So many of these guys who would otherwise be considered forever alone incel losers are pulling like crazy. Nerd chicks are hot now. I have no idea how these 10/10's are watching this degeneracy on twitch.

First 30 seconds. 5 foot bald manlet twink walks in like he's the tallest alpha in the room. Mindset > everything.


also notice the dork making the comment about his height trying to mog him. It doesnt even phase him and vest guy looks like a fckn idiot lmao.
post 1593399421 12-12-2019, 08:02 AM
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There are no good women anymore

Just fat chicks and drug addicts
post 1593399441 12-12-2019, 08:03 AM
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What hobbies put you around females?

Their favorite hobbies are social media, shopping and starbucks..
post 1593399571 12-12-2019, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx
What hobbies put you around females?

Their favorite hobbies are social media, shopping and starbucks..
Hobbies are cope.

If you're attractive, your hobbies dont matter she'll like you regardless.

If she doesnt find you attractive your hobbies dont matter since she's not attracted to you.

It's always comes down to whether or not you look the part. Other than that what you do in your spare time makes no difference whatsoever
post 1593400071 12-12-2019, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx
What hobbies put you around females?

Their favorite hobbies are social media, shopping and starbucks..
cooking, coed sports, reading, dance, going to dog parks, rock climbing, theres a ton
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Hobbies are cope.

If you're attractive, your hobbies dont matter she'll like you regardless.

If she doesnt find you attractive your hobbies dont matter since she's not attracted to you.

It's always comes down to whether or not you look the part. Other than that what you do in your spare time makes no difference whatsoever
Yeah but joining a hobby/club that attracts females can allow you to interact with them. Ugly dudes with good personalities have gotten pretty girls before. You can't expect to get a pretty girl (above your attractiveness) if you don't bring anything to the table.
post 1593400551 12-12-2019, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Yeah but joining a hobby/club that attracts females can allow you to interact with them. Ugly dudes with good personalities have gotten pretty girls before. You can't expect to get a pretty girl (above your attractiveness) if you don't bring anything to the table.
Hobbies dont attract women. If there was some hobby that magically got everyone laid everyone would ne doing it.

Hobbies can help you meet people but at the end of the day if you're ugly or for some other reason unattractive to women, it wont make a difference.

There are very few cases of actually ugly dudes getting women with personality. That is a total myth. No woman ever gets with a dude she thinks is ugly. Why? Because she doesnt have to. In 2019 they can find someone they find attractive among 1000s of matches online.

When you see an ugly dude with a girl, its because that girl thinks he's attractive. The problem with being ugly is it will be rare to find someone who finds you attractive.
post 1593401001 12-12-2019, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Hobbies are cope.

If you're attractive, your hobbies dont matter she'll like you regardless.

If she doesnt find you attractive your hobbies dont matter since she's not attracted to you.

It's always comes down to whether or not you look the part. Other than that what you do in your spare time makes no difference whatsoever
The truth is in the middle.

It's all about opportunities, less desirable males have a smaller pool of women who may be attracted to them, making things harder. Having hobbies that put you in social situations and around different women gives you a higher chance of meeting someone. Sitting at home doing nothing is a certain way to get nothing.

(This is generic btw, i'm not talking about your situation, just generally)
post 1593401181 12-12-2019, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Hobbies dont attract women. If there was some hobby that magically got everyone laid everyone would ne doing it.

Hobbies can help you meet people but at the end of the day if you're ugly or for some other reason unattractive to women, it wont make a difference.

There are very few cases of actually ugly dudes getting women with personality. That is a total myth. No woman ever gets with a dude she thinks is ugly. Why? Because she doesnt have to. In 2019 they can find someone they find attractive among 1000s of matches online.

When you see an ugly dude with a girl, its because that girl thinks he's attractive. The problem with being ugly is it will be rare to find someone who finds you attractive.
All I hear is excuses. Keep sitting on your computer and crying that you can't find anybody. Recently I started latin dancing and hnnng good looking chicks everywhere.
post 1593401311 12-12-2019, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
The truth is in the middle.

It's all about opportunities, less desirable males have a smaller pool of women who may be attracted to them, making things harder. Having hobbies that put you in social situations and around different women gives you a higher chance of meeting someone. Sitting at home doing nothing is a certain way to get nothing.

(This is generic btw, i'm not talking about your situation, just generally)
THIS

That's my point regarding the hobbies. It will put you around people and possibly girls you can ask out.
post 1593401361 12-12-2019, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
All I hear is excuses. Keep sitting on your computer and crying that you can't find anybody. Recently I started latin dancing and hnnng good looking chicks everywhere.
Its reality. It's not hard to find chicks. When you're ugly they just wont want to date you.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
THIS

That's my point regarding the hobbies. It will put you around people and possibly girls you can ask out.
No kidding that's just the numbers game. But you can play the numbers game anywhere it doesnt matter where.

Even my ugly a$$ eventually got laid off tinder it just took years and years. It's all about odds and some guys the odds are basically zero.
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Saying stuff like it's a numbers game or you joined a dance class but didn't even post a pic of the girl you hooked up with there isnt even logical. Just so tired of this nonsense.

If you think a short dude or an average quiet dude is going to meet a girl at a dance class you are delusional

Nobody goes to dance classes and meets women unless they are a bluepilled chad
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Problem is that we don't live in a civilized society. If we did, then men wouldn't have to spend effort on women directly, and would be able to focus entirely on working and building things for themselves and others.

I do agree that complaincels are worthless for not adapting though. Just because things are not the way they should be doesn't mean you can't make do.
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Originally Posted By eod8989
Saying stuff like it's a numbers game or you joined a dance class but didn't even post a pic of the girl you hooked up with there isnt even logical. Just so tired of this nonsense.

If you think a short dude or an average quiet dude is going to meet a girl at a dance class you are delusional

Nobody goes to dance classes and meets women unless they are a bluepilled chad
An undesirable male is an undesirable Male. Going to dance class dont change a thing
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
An undesirable male is an undesirable Male. Going to dance class dont change a thing
Lol so wrong. Such a loser mentality
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Originally Posted By Basiliskboy
Damn I fall into both brackets on some points. I'm really trying to work on my social skills Im getting better at conversation but i feel like i could be so much better at this point. I can feel the attraction drop when I interact with a new group and the women in said group see how socially retarded i am LOL. I think most people take it as me being an ass hole because im so comfortable with it at this point i dont feel or look insecure about it.

Any tips on socialskill Maxing? Average height Ethic brah with a 7 face i need help
Sorry brah didn't see the last bit of your post.

I mean i'll just give you the general advice as i know little about you:
- Lift (looks like you do anyway so it's a good start), helps boost confidence and obviously improves looks.
- Find fulfilling hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, join clubs for said hobbies where you can meet people.
- Socialise as much as you can to improve social skills, if you already have friends then just hit them up and try to go out in social settings.
- Practice as much as you can, try talking to women you have no intention of boning to get more confidence and develop skills, talk to the girl in starbucks while she's making ur coffee, crack a joke, talk to girls in stores etc..
- How do you dress? Get a fashionable brah to be honest with you about your dress sense/style and see if there's any areas to improve.
- and honestly don't look at it as a chore, try to genuinely enjoy the social interactions you have.

I mean it's a long process of constantly putting yourself out there and just improving your life skills organically by practising. I would advise you do this stuff for yourself, trying to mould yourself into the best version of you that you can be (cliche as fk i know but it's true), instead of focusing on trying to get women as girls can generally detect this and it's a turn off. You don't seem to have any serious afflictions blocking you so it really is a case of just putting yourself out there and developing into an interesting person people like to me around.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean
Lol so wrong. Such a loser mentality
Yeah exactly this. Not to mention these dudes would probably go get frustrated that they suck, and then just complain and apologize the whole time. I want to give incels hope, but maybe there is no helping these guys.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean
Lol so wrong. Such a loser mentality
Ok, pls tell me what hobby magically transforms ugly undesirable men. I will sign up tonight if that exists
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Originally Posted By Basiliskboy
Damn I fall into both brackets on some points. I'm really trying to work on my social skills Im getting better at conversation but i feel like i could be so much better at this point. I can feel the attraction drop when I interact with a new group and the women in said group see how socially retarded i am LOL. I think most people take it as me being an ass hole because im so comfortable with it at this point i dont feel or look insecure about it.

Any tips on socialskill Maxing? Average height Ethic brah with a 7 face i need help
Do looks play a huge part in getting women? Yes. But it’s not the only thing that plays a part. Being able to socialize is extremely important, honestly just ask questions and girls will talk night long, have a confident posture and just smile as you interact with them. I was socially awkward and shy around people, but as I got older I kept on practicing, I went from not talking to any girls to hitting on a ton of them. From doing that I learned how to converse, and most important of all I gained confidence, I had no problem getting rejected.

Just 2 weeks ago I got invited to a party, I go there and I barely know anyone in there, but within 10 minutes I was leaning against the railing and literally had 5 people surrounding me and talking to me, I was flirting with some of the girls and just keeping things light. All I did just was smile and not be creepy bro.

Another thing that has helped with my confidence is the fact that almost everywhere I go I’m the most jacked dude in there and I’m not even huge, that means most people don’t lift or workout that hard, I destroy myself in the gym and that’s results have shown, so make sure you hit the gym hard because you’ll outcompete dudes just from that alone. Being able to dress well is something that has also helped me, and the mindset I go in with is that no girl is out my league, I never see a girl and think I can’t get her because of looks, call it overconfidence or whatever but I believe no one is better than me and I am better than no one, so why should I go out my way to impress them, I’ll just be myself, either they like it or don’t.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
You're telling me that guys don't have an hour a week to go out do a meet up, cooking class, dance class, rock climb ect.??If they have time to complain on the misc the they have time to do something social.People have days off, theres always a way.
this right fukin here.
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- brahs complain about not being able to get laid
- other brahs brag about how much they get laid but disguise it as advice
- brahs that can't get laid become more jaded

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Originally Posted By Coolman468
Do looks play a huge part in getting women? Yes. But it’s not the only thing that plays a part. Being able to socialize is extremely important, honestly just ask questions and girls will talk night long, have a confident posture and just smile as you interact with them. I was socially awkward and shy around people, but as I got older I kept on practicing, I went from not talking to any girls to hitting on a ton of them. From doing that I learned how to converse, and most important of all I gained confidence, I had no problem getting rejected.

Just 2 weeks ago I got invited to a party, I go there and I barely know anyone in there, but within 10 minutes I was leaning against the railing and literally had 5 people surrounding me and talking to me, I was flirting with some of the girls and just keeping things light. All I did just was smile and not be creepy bro.

Another thing that has helped with my confidence is the fact that almost everywhere I go I’m the most jacked dude in there and I’m not even huge, that means most people don’t lift or workout that hard, I destroy myself in the gym and that’s results have shown, so make sure you hit the gym hard because you’ll outcompete dudes just from that alone. Being able to dress well is something that has also helped me, and the mindset I go in with is that no girl is out my league, I never see a girl and think I can’t get her because of looks, call it overconfidence or whatever but I believe no one is better than me and I am better than no one, so why should I go out my way to impress them, I’ll just be myself, either they like it or don’t.
Do you get guys (and girls) hating on you because of your physique brah?
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Originally Posted By kippp3
Do you get guys (and girls) hating on you because of your physique brah?
Not that I’ve noticed, I’ve noticed most of the time when I talk to girls they tend to stare at my arms, they don’t it knowingly, it’s like when you stare At boobs, and I’ve never received hate from dudes, they just compliment as well.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
All I hear is excuses. Keep sitting on your computer and crying that you can't find anybody. Recently I started latin dancing and hnnng good looking chicks everywhere.
Really? At what age? Seems like am activity women 35+ would do

Edit: gotta be honest I bombed so hard with my oneitis recently I almost want to throw in the towel.
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Originally Posted By Basiliskboy
Yeah i started watching just chatting after seeing the livestream fails stuff on youtube. So many of these guys who would otherwise be considered forever alone incel losers are pulling like crazy. Nerd chicks are hot now. I have no idea how these 10/10's are watching this degeneracy on twitch.

First 30 seconds. 5 foot bald manlet twink walks in like he's the tallest alpha in the room. Mindset > everything.


also notice the dork making the comment about his height trying to mog him. It doesnt even phase him and vest guy looks like a fckn idiot lmao.
How can people watch this crap? A bunch of slack-jawed *******s in this video.
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