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post 1593490931 12-13-2019, 01:43 PM
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Anyone ever seen someone ruin their life fast?

The dude who was the strongest lifter in my gym said he had plans to do these weight lifting competitions at the Arnold classic etc.
Saw him bench press 375 lbs for reps despite not being a bloat lord. (but not natty). Also was always a nice guy.
He go kicked out the gym due to deadlifting and doing rack pulls and making too much noise and haven't seen him since.

My cousin saw him today (4 months later since he got kicked out) and said he looked real scrawny, lost all his gains and was looking terrible like a crack head with sores all over on his face. Apparently he begged my cousin to borrow $20.
Pretty sure he's an (homeless) addict now.

I didn't see him myself, but damn.. it's pretty crazy how life can change that fast for some people.
Scary world out there brahs. Stay safe and don't do drugs.
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post 1593490971 12-13-2019, 01:43 PM
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Not natty, so not surprised. Addiction is a terrible thing. He can come out of it, but he will need help.
post 1593491091 12-13-2019, 01:45 PM
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Planet fitness claims another one with their lunk alarm.

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post 1593491121 12-13-2019, 01:45 PM
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Something must have happened to him after getting kicked out of the gym.

Can't imagine being kicked out of the gym would lead to addiction. Just LMAO at some people caring so much... guess he did though since he trenned so hard.
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post 1593491221 12-13-2019, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By aleeboy
Something must have happened to him after getting kicked out of the gym.

Can't imagine being kicked out of the gym would lead to addiction. Just LMAO at some people caring so much... guess he did though since he trenned so hard.
Nah my cousin saw him 2 months ago at the mall where he was with his girlfriend and he was still doing good looking jacked etc so i assume he found a different gym.
I don't know what happened though but i feel bad since he was always a friendly guy. I don't know... chit just messes with my head.
That said, everyone is responsible for their own actions so i can't feel too bad.
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post 1593491401 12-13-2019, 01:50 PM
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post 1593491441 12-13-2019, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
The dude who was the strongest lifter in my gym said he had plans to do these weight lifting competitions at the Arnold classic etc.
Saw him bench press 375 lbs for reps despite not being a bloat lord. (but not natty). Also was always a nice guy.
He go kicked out the gym due to deadlifting and doing rack pulls and making too much noise and haven't seen him since.

My cousin saw him today (4 months later since he got kicked out) and said he looked real scrawny, lost all his gains and was looking terrible like a crack head with sores all over on his face. Apparently he begged my cousin to borrow $20.
Pretty sure he's an (homeless) addict now.

I didn't see him myself, but damn.. it's pretty crazy how life can change that fast for some people.
Scary world out there brahs. Stay safe and don't do drugs.
It's always a shame when you see buff guys lose their gains and end up weak looking. Its scary as it could happen to any of us.

If you want to see guys ruin their lives fast, check the YT vids of the nonce's who get trapped by the online hunters and taken into police custody. Sometimes nothing really happens and they are released. Sometimes they get branded forever.
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post 1593491611 12-13-2019, 01:53 PM
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Did a number on my own in a matter of months a few years ago. Get into a trend of self destructive behavior and it’s hard to turn it around.
I’ve recovered financially, but mentally and health wise I’m not where I was pre 2016.
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post 1593492741 12-13-2019, 02:11 PM
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My one friend was doing great for himself trying to become a professional bodybuilder, total chad type. Banging a couple of chicks on the side while going back to school to become an Physical Therapist. One day a sloot comes knocking on his door telling him that she's pregnant, and that it's definitely his. Gets a DNA test and it's his. Pretty much within 4 months when the baby was born he dropped out of school, started working golf gear, stopped going to the gym, and had a shotgun type marriage with this chick he pretty much barely knew because both of their parents were tight about the whole thing. I see him now and he just looks like a mess. Lives alone, estranged from his wife like every other week, and scrawny as fuk.

Neighbor down my block was like 33 years old with a finance job that paid legitimately like $300k-$400k+ a year. 10/10 trophy wife, 2 kids, massive house, all that jazz. Ended up getting addicted to *******, involved with dealers, started sleeping with one of the dealers side pieces, got caught, almost killed, got exposed to family, wife divorced him and took the kids, turned into an alcoholic, got fired from his job, spiraled even harder, house looks like chit now, and then one day his house caught fire and it burned pretty bad, had to sell it because he had no money from the divorce. whole thing took place over the course of 8 months. Dude literally had it all, and got addicted to drugs from one of his coworkers.
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post 1593492791 12-13-2019, 02:11 PM
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yes with opioids or *******
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post 1593492881 12-13-2019, 02:13 PM
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Who really determines how long a life should be?
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post 1593493311 12-13-2019, 02:19 PM
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So he substituted one addiction for another? My question is: why didn't he just find another gym?
post 1593493421 12-13-2019, 02:20 PM
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i said hello to some girl on tinder and she literally unmatched me, i had her instagram so i sent her death threats, i know for a fact its destroyed her life. if she dies she dies lmao
post 1593493451 12-13-2019, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By stevemckenna
So he substituted one addiction for another? My question is: why didn't he just find another gym?
He did find a different gym cuz my cousin ran into him at the mall 2 months after getting kicked out and he was still doing good.
But i guess something happened afterwards.
Originally Posted By JStrez
Neighbor down my block was like 33 years old with a finance job that paid legitimately like $300k-$400k+ a year. 10/10 trophy wife, 2 kids, massive house, all that jazz. Ended up getting addicted to *******, involved with dealers, started sleeping with one of the dealers side pieces, got caught, almost killed, got exposed to family, wife divorced him and took the kids, turned into an alcoholic, got fired from his job, spiraled even harder, house looks like chit now, and then one day his house caught fire and it burned pretty bad, had to sell it because he had no money from the divorce. whole thing took place over the course of 8 months. Dude literally had it all, and got addicted to drugs from one of his coworkers.
Crazy how some people have it all and then waste it.
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post 1593493511 12-13-2019, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Woody-5
Did a number on my own in a matter of months a few years ago. Get into a trend of self destructive behavior and it’s hard to turn it around.
I’ve recovered financially, but mentally and health wise I’m not where I was pre 2016.
Same pretty much alcoholism kicked in dropped out of college gained a bunch of weight looked horrible saw an old college rommmate while I was working at grocery store was hella embarrassed
post 1593493841 12-13-2019, 02:24 PM
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What fukkn Twink gym do you go to OP where brahs are getting kicked out for making noise and doing deadlifts?
post 1593494091 12-13-2019, 02:27 PM
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It's a shame what addiction to drugs can do and how it changes people. I've seen it firsthand and the dude is a complete fuk up and has nothing going for him. Glad I dropped him out of my life because he's not a good person anyway.

I was addicted to opiates for a couple years. I've been clean and sober for 6 months now. At times it's hard. But, I don't want to be in that place again and turn out to be a chitty person like the guy I mentioned. I'm a lot better off now.
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post 1593494351 12-13-2019, 02:32 PM
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I bet forumadmin feels guilty about bob and ken now.
post 1593494391 12-13-2019, 02:33 PM
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My cousin ended up getting into drugs in a bad way...Stole guns and like $30K from his parents house during a binge (ironically they always had his back during his low points).

Served 5 years in jail and just got out last year.
Originally Posted By Woody-5
Did a number on my own in a matter of months a few years ago. Get into a trend of self destructive behavior and it’s hard to turn it around.
I’ve recovered financially, but mentally and health wise I’m not where I was pre 2016.
What happened?
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post 1593494471 12-13-2019, 02:34 PM
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family member took some of that H and well....he will never be the same again (wheelchair bound)
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