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post 1593671901 12-16-2019, 02:28 PM
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Got another match. She looks 20 at most to be honest. But she has a chill vibe in her photos. Will post pics in a few minutes.
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post 1593672141 12-16-2019, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By ThisIsMyAlias
This is stupid, ask the same women out 50 times instead
Thats my move buddy.

Hasnt worked yet but you miss 99% of the shots you dont take or whatever.
post 1593672781 12-16-2019, 02:41 PM
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So update. The chick I just matched with. Started a convo with her. Will see if she responds.

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post 1593674601 12-16-2019, 03:07 PM
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Saying you respect women. That you treat them like a queen.

Those statements eliminate you from being seen as sexy by women. You have now set yourself up to be seen as nothing more than a safe comfortable choice that will always be there but never make her pussy tingle.

Congratulations you just became her ATM.

That's your best possible outcome.

Most likely just her gay best friend for her to dump her problems on.
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post 1593676401 12-16-2019, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Saying you respect women. That you treat them like a queen.

Those statements eliminate you from being seen as sexy by women. You have now set yourself up to be seen as nothing more than a safe comfortable choice that will always be there but never make her pussy tingle.

Congratulations you just became her ATM.

That's your best possible outcome.

Most likely just her gay best friend for her to dump her problems on.
Oh. Damn it. I was trying to avoid coming off as aiming for sex. Ok. I will try a more macho approach.
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post 1593677021 12-16-2019, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
Oh. Damn it. I was trying to avoid coming off as aiming for sex. Ok. I will try a more macho approach.
Every Male female interaction is about sex.

No matter if a man is looking for a one night stand or if he is looking at getting married sex is the driver.

The continuation of the species is at the core of our DNA.

That person you created would be in a once a month sex marriage.
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post 1593677691 12-16-2019, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Loooool you would never have sex with her if this is real.

That's not how you talk to a woman


LMAO her vagina just slammed shut like a bank vault.
this is what i predicted even if op got responses. she doesn't know how to be aggressive and escalate. nor does she know how quickly women lose interest

but op, based on your experiences as a female how much has this differed thus far?

btw, you're struggling for responses. the next step to getting them to actually meet up is even harder
post 1593678611 12-16-2019, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Every Male female interaction is about sex.

No matter if a man is looking for a one night stand or if he is looking at getting married sex is the driver.

The continuation of the species is at the core of our DNA.

That person you created would be in a once a month sex marriage.
Yes I know sex is a big factor but I didn't want it to be the focus. But I should show more sexual interest and attraction.
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post 1593678881 12-16-2019, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
So update. The chick I just matched with. Started a convo with her. Will see if she responds.

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post 1593678891 12-16-2019, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
this is what i predicted even if op got responses. she doesn't know how to be aggressive and escalate. nor does she know how quickly women lose interest

but op, based on your experiences as a female how much has this differed thus far?

btw, you're struggling for responses. the next step to getting them to actually meet up is even harder
Well it's different because I underestimated how good women's senses can be. I think they sense that I am not after sex at all. So they may be hesitant as a result. I mean not making sexual desire obvious is a good thing but completely taking it out of dating interactions isn't so wise I've learnt.

I think I will have to start seeing these women in a more sexual light. Not in a pervy way but just some more attraction is needed. Will I turn gay by the end of this experiment?

I don't even know.
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post 1593678961 12-16-2019, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
Yes I know sex is a big factor but I didn't want it to be the focus. But I should show more sexual interest and attraction.
Are you sure your female?

You sound like a guy learning on the go. Trying to figure this out
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post 1593680581 12-16-2019, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Are you sure your female?

You sound like a guy learning on the go. Trying to figure this out
Yeah female here. I figure to do the experiment well I have to learn stuff, put more effort in and try to act like how a guy would.
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post 1593682321 12-16-2019, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
Yeah female here. I figure to do the experiment well I have to learn stuff, put more effort in and try to act like how a guy would.
Ok think about things guys have said to you that made you tingle and made them seem sexy.

Then use that within the frame of the conversation.


Have you never talked to a man before?


Would you even consider the profile you wrote or think a damn he said he treats women like queens my panties are soaked?
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post 1593682861 12-16-2019, 05:13 PM
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You know jay, I've always tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you're full of chit here and you know damn well it's true.
post 1593683601 12-16-2019, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
You know jay, I've always tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you're full of chit here and you know damn well it's true.
what are you guys having trouble believing lol?

i wouldn't expect women to know how to pick up women

lets start first and foremost with the different system of hormones they're working with

also, theyre reactionary - on the receiving end - and aren't the ones doing the catalyzing
post 1593683691 12-16-2019, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
what are you guys having trouble believing lol?

i wouldn't expect women to know how to pick up women

lets start first and foremost with the different system of hormones they're working with
I get the feeling she's just fuking around. Seems like she doesn't know chit about men either.

Being a user here, she should already know goddamn well that all of that simp beta texting wouldn't work.
post 1593684031 12-16-2019, 05:28 PM
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The way to get females: be Chad.
Or Tyrone, Or Adbulla.
post 1593685421 12-16-2019, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
I get the feeling she's just fuking around. Seems like she doesn't know chit about men either.

Being a user here, she should already know goddamn well that all of that simp beta texting wouldn't work.
I see what you mean but it's a bit weird going full throttle trying to chat up women. I usually do it with no expectation but this time it's different.

I'll put more effort into it. I'm not used to carrying the interaction so to speak. I can't use my usual seduction here. For the experiment I have to be more dominant.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
I get the feeling she's just fuking around. Seems like she doesn't know chit about men either.

Being a user here, she should already know goddamn well that all of that simp beta texting wouldn't work.
she's thinking she could be "different" and being the epitome of what she thinks she wants. then finds out it doesn't work. just like every beta comes to that realization too (like you see on the misc)

haven't you ever seen people say don't follow women's advice regarding women? like i said, its mainly because they're on the receiving end and aren't understanding the process that's going on

and then again, she'll never be able to replicate the aggression/ tenacity/ vigor of an actual male with all that estrogen
post 1593686661 12-16-2019, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
she's thinking she could be "different" and being the epitome of what she thinks she wants. then finds out it doesn't work. just like every beta comes to that realization too (like you see on the misc)

haven't you ever seen people say don't follow women's advice regarding women? like i said, its mainly because they're on the receiving end and aren't understanding the process that's going on

and then again, she'll never be able to replicate the aggression/ tenacity/ vigor of an actual male with all that estrogen
I mean it's not impossible. I just have to put more effort into it. Be more dominant and steer the conversation more to how I want it to go.
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post 1593686871 12-16-2019, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
I mean it's not impossible. I just have to put more effort into it. Be more dominant and steer the conversation more to how I want it to go.
i get what you're hinting at BUT, even at your testosterone peak for a female:

"On average, in adult males, levels of testosterone are about 7 to 8 times as great as in adult females. As the metabolism of testosterone in males is more pronounced, the daily production is about 20 times greater in men"
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
i get what you're hinting at BUT, even at your testosterone peak for a female:

"On average, in adult males, levels of testosterone are about 7 to 8 times as great as in adult females. As the metabolism of testosterone in males is more pronounced, the daily production is about 20 times greater in men"
I see, then I'll probably have to research more on dominant behaviours and speech so it can at least help a bit. Kind of like how actors have to study up when doing roles. If I can learn some of the sentence patterns and or verbal patterns that indicate dominance.

Then that will help. It will help me to at least be better in controlling the outcome.
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OP I agree with the consensus here. Your conversations are coming off really cheesy, not the kinda stuff a dominant man would say. Not even a nice guy would say stuff like that. Only desperate, thirsty men would, which is not good for getting women.

Try to completely put yourselves in the shoes of a man. Think how they think, look through their eyes, speak how they speak. Become a man. At least in your persona that is. Do you not have any male friends that can help you out?
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Originally Posted By jay283
I don't think it's going badly she hasn't unmatched yet and she responded. Well see how it goes.

You guys could give some tips. I'm kind of new to this.
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Originally Posted By jay283
I don't think it's going badly she hasn't unmatched yet and she responded. Well see how it goes.

You guys could give some tips. I'm kind of new to this.
I've got a tip for you, but you'd have to learn how to use it yourself


Like that ^^^ I think misc wants more of that cheeky stuff if you're going to pretend to be a guy.

Eh; actually I don't know. How guys work/operate is a mystery to me.
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If she had used a picture of chad on tinder, she would get laid even with the most softboy nice-guy soy attitude. White knighting works if its chad that does it.

Im not quite sure what even the goal of this whole experiment is. Someone ever chadfished? You can be as autistic as you please, you WILL pull most women easily into at least a meet-up QUICKLY.

If you are an average looking male on tinder, it doesnt matter if you are assertive and dominant and do everything right, you will hardly ever succeed, PERIOD. Srsly, just chadfish and see how easily conversations are flowing.

But tbh, OP should be assertive and quickly escalate, just to see how her matches are chickening out instantly.
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Maybe you should ask chicks out in person instead.
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Did the Asian one respond? If not send "Shrimp fried rice and chill?". She's probably a bot, but still.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Did the Asian one respond? If not send "Shrimp fried rice and chill?". She's probably a bot, but still.
Yeah she did. She said “nice" and liked two of my messages. I texted her tonight so will see what she responds.
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