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post 1595038431 01-06-2020, 12:30 PM
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About to pack my bags and move to Italy to be with my soon to be fiancee

My girlfriend and I are deeply in love. We met when I was visiting family overseas and we fell in love immediately. She is very good friends with my cousin and she knows my entire family. It is really true love and neither of us have ever felt anything like this before.. We spent 15 days together back in July and I just got back from another 12 days with her over the christmas holidays. I just booked my flight back to be with her in March but we want to possibly get engaged/move in together.

She is Italian but works in Paris right now at a high fashion place as a dress designer. I make really good money here in the states but we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan with all of the art everywhere around you.

Her dad said he could help me find a job there which is apparently very difficult for americans to get a work visa. I know I'd be making like 40% less but I think I would be much more happier there and I need to be with this girl everyday. When we said "a dopo" (see you later. I dont like saying goodbye) after my last visit to her, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She was crying a lot and then I started crying seeing her so sad that I was leaving.

Has anyone ever had any luck finding work in Europe? I am looking in both Paris and Italy for anything Finance/Analytical etc. Typical corporate cuck work.

Thanks for reading.

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post 1595038531 01-06-2020, 12:32 PM
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post 1595038751 01-06-2020, 12:36 PM
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moving to a different continent just to please a woman.

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post 1595038821 01-06-2020, 12:36 PM
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You could at least find a job teaching English somewhere.
post 1595038941 01-06-2020, 12:38 PM
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Trevi Fountain.. very nice.

I loved Italy, especially the southern Amalfi coast. We thought that Milan was the most pompous and snooty of all of Italy.

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post 1595039021 01-06-2020, 12:40 PM
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Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
post 1595039121 01-06-2020, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
My girlfriend and I are deeply in love. We met when I was visiting family overseas and we fell in love immediately. She is very good friends with my cousin and she knows my entire family. It is really true love and neither of us have ever felt anything like this before..We spent 15 days together back in July and I just got back from another 12 days with her over the christmas holidays.I just booked my flight back to be with her in March but we want to possibly get engaged/move in together.

She is Italian but works in Paris right now at a high fashion place as a dress designer. I make really good money here in the states but we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan with all of the art everywhere around you.

Her dad said he could help me find a job there which is apparently very difficult for americans to get a work visa. I know I'd be making like 40% less but I think I would be much more happier there and I need to be with this girl everyday. When we said "a dopo" (see you later. I dont like saying goodbye) after my last visit to her, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She was crying a lot and then I started crying seeing her so sad that I was leaving.

Has anyone ever had any luck finding work in Europe? I am looking in both Paris and Italy for anything Finance/Analytical etc. Typical corporate cuck work.

Thanks for reading.

Here is a pic of us in Rome where it was the best day of our entire lives SRS.

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post 1595039261 01-06-2020, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
lulz I musta skimmed over that part
post 1595039361 01-06-2020, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Trevi Fountain.. very nice.

I loved Italy, especially the southern Amalfi coast. We thought that Milan was the most pompous and snooty of all of Italy.

If you're happy, go for it.Money shouldn't hold you back from getting with her.
lol

yeah OP, just go chase some azz you have know for less than a month and disregard your career and your life in the US.

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post 1595039371 01-06-2020, 12:46 PM
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Have fun making 1800$ a month in italy/france if you're lucky. Welcome to our world
post 1595039381 01-06-2020, 12:46 PM
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Better move her here before she gets raped or kidnapped or acid attacked or hit by a truck.
post 1595039581 01-06-2020, 12:48 PM
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Keep this thread updated so we can see how it turns out for you OP
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post 1595039621 01-06-2020, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
paris is a chithole, if you look for work then look for it in milano/florence/venice
I did not like Paris. The food was incredible but I liked Italy 1000x more.
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post 1595039681 01-06-2020, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By dopamine72⏩
Keep this thread updated so we can see how it turns out for you OP
Will do my friend. Not listening to any of the guys up top who have never been in love. I've had my fair share of sloots and always trying to find something meaningful. Legit feel true happiness with this girl.
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post 1595039721 01-06-2020, 12:50 PM
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post 1595039811 01-06-2020, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
lol

yeah OP, just go chase some azz you have know for less than a month and disregard your career and your life in the US.

Cuck.
I'm not sure how old Opie is, but if he's in his 20's, he can afford the risk to find true love.

Just my opinion.
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post 1595040011 01-06-2020, 12:54 PM
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post 1595040041 01-06-2020, 12:55 PM
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Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic alone she looks cute (body and hair) and can tell she isn't an ultra sloot. but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.
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post 1595040091 01-06-2020, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
I'm not sure how old Opie is, but if he's in his 20's, he can afford the risk to find true love.

Just my opinion.
I'm 25 and have over $70k saved.

I wouldnt move there until I have a job established beforehand but I have been vigorously applying.
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post 1595040171 01-06-2020, 12:57 PM
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If I was you op id get her to take the leap & come to America. Moving in with someone isn't as big of a deal as being engaged. But you moving to her is a bit much.
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic alone she looks cute (body and hair) and can tell she isn't an ultra sloot. but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.
I was the same. I gave up on looking for anything meaningful. I thought there was no girl out there who I'd care to invest my time and money into. Until I met her. If any of yall know me, this is out of the ordinary for me. But this is a different kind of feeling, one i have never experienced.
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post 1595040261 01-06-2020, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic aloneshe looks cute (body and hair) andcan tell she isn't an ultra sloot.but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
If I was you op id get her to take the leap & come to America. Moving in with someone isn't as big of a deal as being engaged. But you moving to her is a bit much.
That is what I really want.. Her to move here and find something and we can travel back to Italy as many times as she wants during the year while we save, and maybe in a few years move together back there. Nothing is final yet but she is applying for jobs here and I am applying for jobs there.
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As a guy that lives in Europe I would give my left asscheek to move to the States srs... Spent a few months there in 2015 and I'm dreaming of going back.. More opportunities, more chit to do, people are more fun.. Just lmao at even considering France.. Even Italy is a chithole, it's fun to visit for a week but living there?
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
That is what I really want.. Her to move here and find something and we can travel back to Italy as many times as she wants during the year while we save, and maybe in a few years move together back there. Nothing is final yet but she is applying for jobs here and I am applying for jobs there.
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where in Italy? If in the south, I got some bad news hombre
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Fuk it man, you're only 25 - just do it. But don't just do it purely for her, you barely know her.

Keep in mind that it might not work out, and have some provisions for that case. So worst case, you get to experience another culture and travel Europe - most than most miscers can claim.
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Originally Posted By xam1996⏩
where in Italy? If in the south, I got some bad news hombre
in Milan most likely.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fuk it man, you're only 25 - just do it. But don't just do it purely for her, you barely know her.

Keep in mind that it might not work out, and have some provisions for that case. So worst case, you get to experience another culture and travel Europe - most than most miscers can claim.
Appreciate it man. I'm going to do it most likely but going to be smart about it. Going to try hard to find some job there, even if it doesnt pay as much as what I make now.
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