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Thread: About to pack my bags and move to Italy to be with my soon to be fiancee

post 1595054041 01-06-2020, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fuk it man, you're only 25 - just do it. But don't just do it purely for her, you barely know her.

Keep in mind that it might not work out, and have some provisions for that case. So worst case, you get to experience another culture and travel Europe - most than most miscers can claim.
This is the best advice for you op.

God speed little buddy.


I was in a very similar position and i chose to not follow up on it. I always, and probably will always, wonder if i should have chased her.
post 1595054081 01-06-2020, 04:22 PM
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Happy for you op, hope you guys the best of luck on everything. srs mane.
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post 1595054201 01-06-2020, 04:24 PM
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Why is it difficult for hard working, educated Americans to get a work visa?

And can you speak Italian? Sicilian brah reporting in, I can actually get Italian citizenship through bloodline just have to go through the paperwork/hoops.
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post 1595054331 01-06-2020, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
there is no "true love", *******.
There is passionate love which lasts around a year and then compassionate love which is the long-term kind. OP is in the honeymoon stage.
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post 1595054341 01-06-2020, 04:26 PM
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If you were moving to Europe because you want to live somewhere different I think that would make more sense and be less likely to end up something you regret. Moving there for someone it seems you hardly know...that's a no from me dawg.
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post 1595054531 01-06-2020, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
Ahh the things men do for love.

You're pretty spot on by saying that it's a good time to take the risk at 25, because there's still time afterwards. But this is a drastic change for you OP - have you ever thought that maybe you wont like Italy once you're there for a few months? Probably easier to get settled/accustomed in the US for her rather than Italy for you tbh.
It's not just men, women do it too.

Remember the world we live in - if there's even a remote possibility that you can get with someone who's not crazy, it's worth the risk. Marriage and serious relationships are on a decline. Most people aren't interested in having them anymore.
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post 1595054721 01-06-2020, 04:32 PM
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post 1595054831 01-06-2020, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
It's not just men, women do it too.

Remember the world we live in - if there's even a remote possibility that you can get with someone who's not crazy, it's worth the risk. Marriage and serious relationships are on a decline. Most people aren't interested in having them anymore.
girl i know moved accross the country to be with her current fiance( was boyfriend at the time ) she got super in shape, competed in a show, then rebounded into bloatlord status, he has "deleted" his instagram twice because it got "hacked" and people were stealing his identity on dating apps and instagram . Its not going to end well
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post 1595055131 01-06-2020, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
girl i know moved accross the country to be with her current fiance( was boyfriend at the time ) she got super in shape, competed in a show, then rebounded into bloatlord status, he has "deleted" his instagram twice because it got "hacked" and people were stealing his identity on dating apps and instagram . Its not going to end well
LMAO, classic.
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post 1595055191 01-06-2020, 04:39 PM
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how has no one mentioned that OP's girl knows and gets along with each others family?

having good relationships with the in laws, and the in laws having good relationship with each other provides further strength to the family's unity.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
Bro they know each other so well now.
post 1595055311 01-06-2020, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
lol this. what the fuk op
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post 1595055431 01-06-2020, 04:43 PM
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post 1595055451 01-06-2020, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
It's not just men, women do it too.

Remember the world we live in - if there's even a remote possibility that you can get with someone who's not crazy, it's worth the risk. Marriage and serious relationships are on a decline. Most people aren't interested in having them anymore.
Most people are. Look at the demographics for people who get married, people who are college educated or come from a stable upper middle class and above background almost always get married. Its basically something for the 'privileged' now. There was a good article on this, can't remember the author
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post 1595055771 01-06-2020, 04:49 PM
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No pics so can’t decide if it’s a good move, but assuming she’s cute it’s 100% worth it, srs.
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post 1595056031 01-06-2020, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
No pics so can’t decide if it’s a good move, but assuming she’s cute it’s 100% worth it, srs.
op did post a pic just blocked faces out, cant hate for him actually posting a legitimate pic
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post 1595056881 01-06-2020, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
Muzziechik you can’t just “get engaged” and see if it works out unless it’s between two Muslims or two very Christian people. Trust me there’s too much baggage etc that people need to discover about the other person, and this can only be done in close proximity through dating for a while. If he jumps into this with a girl he barely knows he’s a complete idiot who’s only projecting in her what he wants to see. And it’s going to 99% end badly. Not to mention this whole “they’ve known each other 27 days and want to get married” thing is a huge red flag showing they’re not really thinking and just living a fantasy. Trust me, I went through this
I believe you. But I have also known people that married quickly and it worked out. I think Cass has said she married her guy PDQ.
Originally Posted By JewSeeJohn⏩
Worth giving it a shot especially be cause he's at an age where he is old enough to be able to differentiate the pheelz that he has for this girl from the others he's encountered, and young enough to be able to risk a f*ck up with things not working out.

Thing is, there is a chance of finding true love for OP, which is worth it 100% when you take into consideration that anything else is just going to be a codependent style relationship, where you grow to resent your partner sooner rather than later and then move on to the next: rinsing and repeating until you die; almost like chasing the dragon.
Originally Posted By JewSeeJohn⏩
That's what OP thought until he met this girl

Believe it or not, there is cases where people marry and live a generally happy life til death does them apart.

It might not happen for you, me, or even OP, but it does happen for some people.
Agree. Take precautions...like maybe keep most of that savings stashed for some time. Otherwise seems to me the time is ideal to take a chance.
Originally Posted By hotsaucebrah⏩
Most people are. Look at the demographics for people who get married, people who are college educated or come from a stable upper middle class and above background almost always get married. Its basically something for the 'privileged' now. There was a good article on this, can't remember the author
Same with having a lot of children. Some people that are really poor will, but if you are in a decent area and see a family with a lot of kids chances are good they have money. See: Eddie Murphy with 10 kids, Brad and Angelina with 6 kids, etc. I think the estimated cost to raise a child now in the US is over $200K.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
Sounds like the intro to a Vince Vaughn movie
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
how has no one mentioned that OP's girl knows and gets along with each others family?

having good relationships with the in laws, and the in laws having good relationship with each other provides further strength to the family's unity.
This. She is very close friends with my cousin who lives overseas. they worked at the same designer for a year before she ended up moving to paris to pursue another job. She met my entire family and is very close with them. She is not some stranger to us and I have generally good sense when it comes to determining if a girl is a waste of time or not.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This is a decent test. Bring it up in conversation that you don't believe in green card sponsorship through marriage, and only skilled labor should be eligible for green card.

But... I think some US brahs overestimate how much Europeans want to move to the US. If she was in India of Philippines, then I'd be more suspicious.
She has been very adamant that she doesnt want to move to the USA but would do it to be closer to me.(i dont want to force her here) She would come only if she was able to find work (meaning id prob have to move to new york or something where there are fashion shows etc.) she works in high fashion dress making (think gucci, versace, dolce, etc.) I am not going to specify which company but those companies are mainly in milan and paris.
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
She has been very adamant that she doesnt want to move to the USA but would do it to be closer to me.(i dont want to force her here) She would come only if she was able to find work (meaning id prob have to move to new york or something where there are fashion shows etc.)she works in high fashion dress making (think gucci, versace, dolce, etc.) I am not going to specify which company but those companies are mainly in milan and paris.
So she’s a 9/10.

Now this thread is making a little bit more sense
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
This. She is very close friends with my cousin who lives overseas. they worked at the same designer for a year before she ended up moving to paris to pursue another job.She met my entire family and is very close with them. She is not some stranger to us and I have generally good sense when it comes to determining if a girl is a waste of time or not.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
So she’s a 9/10.

Now this thread is making a little bit more sense
Well, that much was obvious anyway.

Pretty women can kill a man’s rational faculties. Everything OP described so far is emotional - based on lust/chemistry/infatuation. That’s why I’m telling him to tread defensively.

Unless OP, you have evidence of strong virtues and values, you’ve dealt with conflict, you’ve negotiated, you’ve determined and compromised on life paths and family desires etc?
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?
.... and 28 days later

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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
Mirin brotha
Literally nothing to mire here. I want a fellow misc brah to succeed especially with marriage, but come on only 27 days? Her meeting his family literally means nothing they haven't even lived together that is the true test.
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You sound like a beta, she will eventually leave you for not being a leader/ masculine. You are giving up your stability for love and slowly you will lose confidence as she is making more money than you. It will be easy for another man with more resources and sexual value to take her away from you. I know this sounds harsh but it is true and some men have to learn the hard way. So enjoy it while you can cause it will not end well for you.

Knowing someone for 27 days and saying your in love and want to move and get married is a sign of beta/insecurity and childishness. Yes when I was younger I to thought I was in love after 10 days/ a month but you learn from mistakes, finding someone attractive is not love worth moving for and giving up your stability. True love is after a year at this point you will know for sure maybe 2 years that it is worth the move.
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