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post 1597314831 02-07-2020, 06:16 PM
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I felt forced into a threesome by my gf and a male friend

My gf and I have been together about 5 years. We were drinking heavily with a male friend of mine one night when he brought up the topic of having a threesome. This had not been the first time he suggested this, and we had turned him down on at least two other occasions. My gf and I had discussed this amongst ourselves before after he initially brought it up and had soundly decided against it. I had initially tried to change subjects, but he was pretty insistent, and my gf chimed in, saying "hear him out".

I was a little shocked at her response, and didn't know how to react. He kept pushing it, and she seemed interested. I tried protesting this, which was either not heard or ignored. I then tried suggesting we wait for our male friend's gf to come over before starting anything, which I thought was agreed to. But the next thing I know, my gf is asking if we're doing this. All I could really say at this point was "whatever you want dear". She proceeds to undress the two of us. At this point I'm catatonic, and couldn't say anything, and couldn't really move much. She then started to try to jam my flaccid wang into herself, and ended up cutting me in a rather sensitive place with her nails. I pushed off of me and went to the bathroom to clean the blood off myself.

I stayed in the bathroom a minute or two and worked up the courage to stop things, but when I got back, they were fking. I panicked again and didn't know what to do, so I suggested we move things to the bedroom. I end up collapsing on our bed, and not moving. They end up fking over me, and I eventually snap out of it and ask him to leave. He packs up and leaves our place. She then asks why I didn't participate more, and we end up fighting then passing out from the alcohol.

The next morning, we tried to patch things up and continue on like nothing happened. However, I noticed text notifications between my gf and him on her phone. I didn't see what the texts were about, but she did admit she was texting him, and that they'd been texting pretty regularly. At this point, I told her I'm no longer comfortable with them talking, and that I don't want him around us whatsoever. She gets angry, says I'm just being immature, that I agreed to the threesome, we were all just drunk, that I better not ruin their friendship, and I just changed my mind in the middle of things. She's also demanding that we have an open relationship, and I'm not comfortable with that. At this point I don't know what to do.

I feel anxious and pretty confused about what happened that night. I should have been more forceful in saying no. I love her, and we had been talking about getting married. But I'm not so sure anymore. Anytime I try to bring up what happened, she gets angry and shuts down any discussion about it. She says any issues I have with that night are my fault, and that she did nothing wrong. How do I move past something like this? Are we even compatible at this point? Should we just end things?
post 1597315071 02-07-2020, 06:20 PM
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post 1597315201 02-07-2020, 06:21 PM
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lol this happened
post 1597315211 02-07-2020, 06:21 PM
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Huge if true
post 1597315301 02-07-2020, 06:23 PM
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Holy chit INNN. It sounds like she is bored and your relationship is heading to the point it’s going to end. It might be easier if you just break it off now and end your friendship with that guy. From the way you told it she basically took advantage of your drunken state and raped you in a way. Next thing you’ll catch those two fuking without you there.




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post 1597315311 02-07-2020, 06:23 PM
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Sorry man, I didn't mean to force you in to anything. When you left the room she guided me by the dink inside of her. I hope we can still be friends brahh
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post 1597315351 02-07-2020, 06:24 PM
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I had initially tried to change subjects, but he was pretty insistent, and my gf chimed in, saying "hear him out".

I was a little shocked at her response, and didn't know how to react. He kept pushing it, and she seemed interested.
They had already talked among themselved about this, they probably wanted to fukk and get your approval so it wouldn't be cheating. She probably had already been seeing him for a while, sorry OP you got cucked by your friend and hopefully ex gf. Time to buy a one way ticket to NC and heal from this, she was a full blown sloot by going behind your back talking to your ex friend, and he is a bitch boy for going along with it, cut ties with both for your own sanity.
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post 1597315421 02-07-2020, 06:25 PM
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this happened.
post 1597315461 02-07-2020, 06:25 PM
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I'm getting a strong reddit vibe here. You copy pasting chit from reddit op?
post 1597315511 02-07-2020, 06:26 PM
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I've read this somewhere before
post 1597315621 02-07-2020, 06:27 PM
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post 1597315631 02-07-2020, 06:28 PM
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This cannot be srs...
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post 1597315731 02-07-2020, 06:29 PM
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I bet while your pathetic flaccid ween ween was bleeding out his was like a tree log and she could feel it.

Def go NC if true.

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post 1597315841 02-07-2020, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
I've read this somewhere before
Sounds kind of like the movie Get him to the Greek when Russel Bran suggests a 3 way to Jonah Hills gf and they end up just banging on him.
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post 1597315941 02-07-2020, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By GerbilFarmer
Sounds kind of like the movie Get him to the Greek when Russel Bran suggests a 3 way to Jonah Hills gf and they end up just banging on him.
Fairly sure I've read it, but I do like that move so maybe that's it
post 1597316121 02-07-2020, 06:33 PM
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Next time call me up too bro

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post 1597316391 02-07-2020, 06:36 PM
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Sounds like a copypasta from Reddit
post 1597316601 02-07-2020, 06:39 PM
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copy pasta from reddit. Guarantee
post 1597316671 02-07-2020, 06:40 PM
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tempted to neg cause I gave a actual reply to a copypasta or troll post
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post 1597316761 02-07-2020, 06:41 PM
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stop posting reddit content here *******
post 1597316901 02-07-2020, 06:43 PM
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fuk this thread
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post 1597316981 02-07-2020, 06:45 PM
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i don't get it...you were on your period and bleeding so you went to the bathroom to clean up???

this story is not true...but if it is the solution is simple, dump the ho, head to NC
post 1597317401 02-07-2020, 06:50 PM
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god damn reddits full of cucks lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...y_my_gf_and_a/
post 1597317451 02-07-2020, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By carcano69
Yeah I posted it on there too
post 1597317611 02-07-2020, 06:54 PM
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post 1597317681 02-07-2020, 06:54 PM
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I'm sure this is a troll.

On the 1% chance this is real then you need to go NC on both your GF and your "friend." They clearly were planning this and planned the whole thing.
post 1597317701 02-07-2020, 06:54 PM
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You mean ex girlfriend
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post 1597317931 02-07-2020, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By atomicbbgum
tempted to neg cause I gave a actual reply to a copypasta or troll post
lmao you read that and actually thought that was a real story?
post 1597318081 02-07-2020, 06:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Titansfan08
lmao you read that and actually thought that was a real story?
I did, I guess I'm still naive and gullible to misc trolling
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