Thread: them fking eyes of the devil
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Originally Posted By hiyooo⏩
I think you have memory loss, did I said in my story that it went like a pendulum?defensive much? i never said only women have continually sacrifice or it will always be one sided forever. it goes BOTH ways like a pendulum. by your logic, break up with him then since it's not fair and you're doing more.
I was very CLEAR - I did more. He has the opportunity to do more after giving him the 15k, but if he does not do it, ofc I'll break up. What do you think, that I won't ? lmao
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Holy chit. This can't be real?
I notice you keep bagging on peoples parents in this thread. You should talk **** about your own mom and dad for not raising you with any integrity or character. Listen to the chit you are saying in this thread. You're having doubts about your bf and putting him down over things you are MAKING UP IN YOUR HEAD. You ever consider maybe he actually believes he did most of the work? Maybe he's wondering why he has to split 50/50 with you when he did most of the work. Thats how these things always work. You made a deal. stick to the deal and then just break up with him. "Money is the devil eyes"- only if you're weak minded and have loose morals.
Also lol at thinking that because you both have crooked teeth but you paid 10k to fix yours you're better then him. The fuks wrong with you woman?
I notice you keep bagging on peoples parents in this thread. You should talk **** about your own mom and dad for not raising you with any integrity or character. Listen to the chit you are saying in this thread. You're having doubts about your bf and putting him down over things you are MAKING UP IN YOUR HEAD. You ever consider maybe he actually believes he did most of the work? Maybe he's wondering why he has to split 50/50 with you when he did most of the work. Thats how these things always work. You made a deal. stick to the deal and then just break up with him. "Money is the devil eyes"- only if you're weak minded and have loose morals.
Also lol at thinking that because you both have crooked teeth but you paid 10k to fix yours you're better then him. The fuks wrong with you woman?
02-24-2020, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
You agreed to split it. You ever been in love? You dont say "i think"I work hard for my money, 15 k and other amounts like this are important for me. Sorry that I'm not earning 15k in a day like you or other miscers. I think I love him, but I love myself more.
Read your replies in the thread, try to read them as if someone else wrote them. What do you think this person feels?
02-24-2020, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Listen bimbo, we already know what you're gonna do. Why bother asking us? We're not gonna give you the validation that ****ing him over is the right thing, and we don't give a **** that you think you're better looking than him.I think you have memory loss, did I said in my story that it went like a pendulum?
I was very CLEAR - I did more. He has the opportunity to do more after giving him the 15k, but if he does not do it, ofc I'll break up. What do you think, that I won't ? lmao
I was very CLEAR - I did more. He has the opportunity to do more after giving him the 15k, but if he does not do it, ofc I'll break up. What do you think, that I won't ? lmao
Just know that how you handle this now will be how your entire future will handle you.
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02-24-2020, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
I think you're bullchitting with 15k not lasting you 2 months, I bring the issue up and he says the same thing, that he found me at my lowest and that he trusted me and it should be equal, blablabla. I had a hard time ending it because feelings are involved.Why didn't you bring this up with him, that he isn't doing much?
What do corporations do with underperforming employees? They pay them what they owe them and fire them.
Quit with this ghetto third world way of doing business. Pay him the $15K and move on with your business if you can continue the work.
FYI to put this into perspective, $15K won't even last me 2 months. I wouldn't think twice about parting ways with that, especially if I made an agreement already.
What do corporations do with underperforming employees? They pay them what they owe them and fire them.
Quit with this ghetto third world way of doing business. Pay him the $15K and move on with your business if you can continue the work.
FYI to put this into perspective, $15K won't even last me 2 months. I wouldn't think twice about parting ways with that, especially if I made an agreement already.
Originally Posted By ImportantPerson⏩
I think I'll talk to your mom and dad about the retard they created. Didn't read the rest cause if a homeless man spits on the ground, that has more value than youHoly chit. This can't be real?
I notice you keep bagging on peoples parents in this thread. You should talk **** about your own mom and dad for not raising you with any integrity or character. Listen to the chit you are saying in this thread. You're having doubts about your bf and putting him down over things you are MAKING UP IN YOUR HEAD. You ever consider maybe he actually believes he did most of the work? Maybe he's wondering why he has to split 50/50 with you when he did most of the work. Thats how these things always work. You made a deal. stick to the deal and then just break up with him. "Money is the devil eyes"- only if you're weak minded and have loose morals.
Also lol at thinking that because you both have crooked teeth but you paid 10k to fix yours you're better then him. The fuks wrong with you woman?
I notice you keep bagging on peoples parents in this thread. You should talk **** about your own mom and dad for not raising you with any integrity or character. Listen to the chit you are saying in this thread. You're having doubts about your bf and putting him down over things you are MAKING UP IN YOUR HEAD. You ever consider maybe he actually believes he did most of the work? Maybe he's wondering why he has to split 50/50 with you when he did most of the work. Thats how these things always work. You made a deal. stick to the deal and then just break up with him. "Money is the devil eyes"- only if you're weak minded and have loose morals.
Also lol at thinking that because you both have crooked teeth but you paid 10k to fix yours you're better then him. The fuks wrong with you woman?
Originally Posted By HomerJThompson⏩
Never been in love, this is the first time. I agreed to split, true, I am going to do that, but I will tell him that things are going to change: 70-30 or no more working together or break upYou agreed to split it. You ever been in love? You dont say "i think"
Read your replies in the thread, try to read them as if someone else wrote them. What do you think this person feels?
Read your replies in the thread, try to read them as if someone else wrote them. What do you think this person feels?
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02-24-2020, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Good luck, love is an amazing feeling, it turns strong man into pussies because of how strong a feeling it is.Never been in love, this is the first time. I agreed to split, true, I am going to do that, but I will tell him that things are going to change: 70-30 or no more working together or break up
Also, finance talks like this never go well.
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02-24-2020, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By HomerJThompson⏩
there is no way of talking this kind of finance. If I tell him I consider I should get more, he will get upset and consider it unfair.Good luck, love is an amazing feeling, it turns strong man into pussies because of how strong a feeling it is.
Also, finance talks like this never go well.
Also, finance talks like this never go well.
If I want to stop my business with him, he will ask why, again get upset and consider it unfair, because it started to finally work after some time.
Also don't want to ask him again to go back to his low paying job. I would just like to know who he is, and he can become successful or not, I don't want to waste my time to make him have those amounts of money on my ideas if he is not what I want. If someone would tell me that in 10 years he would be the same, I'd drop him today.
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02-24-2020, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Now you know what it's like to be the man in the relationship.there is no way of talking this kind of finance. If I tell him I consider I should get more, he will get upset and consider it unfair.
If I want to stop my business with him, he will ask why, again get upset and consider it unfair, because it started to finally work after some time.
Also don't want to ask him again to go back to his low paying job. I would just like to know who he is, and he can become successful or not, I don't want to waste my time to make him have those amounts of money on my ideas if he is not what I want. If someone would tell me that in 10 years he would be the same, I'd drop him today.
If I want to stop my business with him, he will ask why, again get upset and consider it unfair, because it started to finally work after some time.
Also don't want to ask him again to go back to his low paying job. I would just like to know who he is, and he can become successful or not, I don't want to waste my time to make him have those amounts of money on my ideas if he is not what I want. If someone would tell me that in 10 years he would be the same, I'd drop him today.
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02-24-2020, 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
1. You're not entering into a business partnership with your accountant.Congrats on the business doing well, but the amount and dificulty of the work in a business partnership has 0% relevance to how much equity each person gets. -> bullchit, you don't pay an accountant as you pay the CEO
If you made an agreement and all he did was make the agreement and you did everything else, you still owe him.=> true
In your case it sound like he has provided you with the stable mentality and support your otherwise broken mind and self esteem needed. => then what do you suggest, that now for future businesses he does nothing since I don't need it like before, but he still should get 50-50?
If you made an agreement and all he did was make the agreement and you did everything else, you still owe him.=> true
In your case it sound like he has provided you with the stable mentality and support your otherwise broken mind and self esteem needed. => then what do you suggest, that now for future businesses he does nothing since I don't need it like before, but he still should get 50-50?
2. You're not the CEO, by the sounds of it you're not even a company, mind you, we still have no answers as to the type of business you have registered (Sole trader.Partnership.Joint venture.Trust.Company. etc.)
3. If you feel strongly that he's not putting in his share and you arent happy with how the business is going, absolve the business together, sell him your share or simply leave it with him. Regardless of your choice a deal between you both must be reached and in your case i cant imagine you coming out ontop. Once you have done this you are free to start your new business on your own and build new clientell. Another option would be to register a new business name and try and sneakily take assets and clients into your new name and leave him with the broken business. The last option is not advisable and very illegal but it get done a lot more than you think.
4. By the sounds of things your relationship is a different issue, from what your saying you clearly don't respect this man. Keep in mind everything you have said about your value for him is completely subjective, money, education, looks are all valid foundations for a relationship (albeit not very nice or lasting ones). But you have to remember it doesn't mean your percieved value and disrespect is a truism. like i said, change your viewpoint on life to a place where you can accept him for who he is and be open enough to confront him with the issues you feel and how you can both work through them together. OR continue with your headstrong approach to the world, and prove to everyone that your ego and self valuation is exactly where it should be and dump him to find someone that YOU THINK is better.
My personal opinion, you seem very unstable, erattic and it seems like your conclusions on life have been drawn without much depth. Continue to go to university and smash the goals you want to smash to make you feel good about yourself. But by the sounds of your sharp headstrong responses and for the sake of the person your currently dragging through your life, i suggest you spend some time to look inward and work on your own flaws first.
02-24-2020, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
I am always too masculine to have a normal relationship and I suffer from the warrior syndrome (no joke, even my psychiatrist told me this). I always want to get people out of their chitty lives and help them when I should normally just focus on myself. Everybody tells me I should get again a boyfriend that is handsome, has his own money and doesn't need me to live nicely.Now you know what it's like to be the man in the relationship.
But I was not that happy with that kind, because they could not relate to me being generous to my family or worrying about things, like getting my own house, because most of them are born into medium-high income families and I was born into poverty. Finding someone like me is difficult.
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Originally Posted By hiyooo⏩
because he is not educated, qualified or experienced and he had a low paying job, so I tried to save him after he motivated me in some waysyes i did say one person does more, not equal, and yes i never mentioned gender or both until you mentioned it. isn't this why people have discussions and conversations? you're taking every response argumentatively and literally.
what im trying to say it's never gonna be literally exactly 50/50 equal at all times or at the end of your relationship there's no score, that's what i meant. that's why i mentioned pendulum, it's gonna be 60/40, 55/45, or 40/60 at the end of the day.
sometimes i do more, sometimes my gf does more. i don't fking keep tabs with a business ledger omg i did too much up to this point now i gotta make her do more now.
yea you did more in the business. i was talking about relationship in general. my question is why are you mixing business with relationship?
what im trying to say it's never gonna be literally exactly 50/50 equal at all times or at the end of your relationship there's no score, that's what i meant. that's why i mentioned pendulum, it's gonna be 60/40, 55/45, or 40/60 at the end of the day.
sometimes i do more, sometimes my gf does more. i don't fking keep tabs with a business ledger omg i did too much up to this point now i gotta make her do more now.
yea you did more in the business. i was talking about relationship in general. my question is why are you mixing business with relationship?
LE: reading my last posts make me realize that I should probably break up with him and find someone that I consider on my level...
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02-24-2020, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
lol you're no better than guys who use girls for sex but don't want them for serious relationships so stop getting all butthurt when miscers keep saying sloots gonna sloot. But getting back to your question, I first need to know exactly how much money did you put into the business.I'm gonna be short. I found somebody and we liked each other, being together for 10 months already, living together for 2. ups and downs like every other relationship.
problem is i made a small business with my bf and we got 30,000 eur in 3 months of work. the deal was that if we make it, we split the money equally, so 15k and 15k. nothing was sure.
problem is that now I feel that I am the one who works more and now I feel like a bad girl because truth is I keep asking myself if he is is deserving the entire 15 k.
I feel like I shouldn't feel this way.I don't want to ruin what we have, the fact that we started from 0, failed so many times and still succeeded. However, 2 more gigs like that with my savings and I buy myself a big apartment at 24.
Furthermore, I helped in my life so many people that did not do the same, now I'm thinking that there is no guarantee about us being together further. So I'd be crazy mad to know that we broke up 2 months from now on and I still gave him the money.
he says we should do it together with the house,but I'm 24, I don't want common properties at this age, I am not ready to get married.
also, he is in his mid 30s, much more pressured to do serious things, but I feel that I did not had enough time to play, because I was always serious and focused on making money.
didn't present him to people because he is not attractive, but I fall in love because he trusted me at my lowest mental point, the start of a family drama that's ending now.
but I also doubt that he trusted me because he had no other option, he has no uni degree or amazing job, more on the low income side.
what's your opinion on this matter?
CLIFFS: op made a business with bf, decided to split the profit
op feels that she worked more, feels like bf does not deserve his entire half
but op also doesn't want to break up bcuz has feelings for bf but also some thoughts like : could buy her own apt at the age of 24 sooner if she would exclude him
problem is i made a small business with my bf and we got 30,000 eur in 3 months of work. the deal was that if we make it, we split the money equally, so 15k and 15k. nothing was sure.
problem is that now I feel that I am the one who works more and now I feel like a bad girl because truth is I keep asking myself if he is is deserving the entire 15 k.
I feel like I shouldn't feel this way.I don't want to ruin what we have, the fact that we started from 0, failed so many times and still succeeded. However, 2 more gigs like that with my savings and I buy myself a big apartment at 24.
Furthermore, I helped in my life so many people that did not do the same, now I'm thinking that there is no guarantee about us being together further. So I'd be crazy mad to know that we broke up 2 months from now on and I still gave him the money.
he says we should do it together with the house,but I'm 24, I don't want common properties at this age, I am not ready to get married.
also, he is in his mid 30s, much more pressured to do serious things, but I feel that I did not had enough time to play, because I was always serious and focused on making money.
didn't present him to people because he is not attractive, but I fall in love because he trusted me at my lowest mental point, the start of a family drama that's ending now.
but I also doubt that he trusted me because he had no other option, he has no uni degree or amazing job, more on the low income side.
what's your opinion on this matter?
CLIFFS: op made a business with bf, decided to split the profit
op feels that she worked more, feels like bf does not deserve his entire half
but op also doesn't want to break up bcuz has feelings for bf but also some thoughts like : could buy her own apt at the age of 24 sooner if she would exclude him
EDIT: Just re-read your post and agree with others here that regardless of who put in more money to start the business or who put more hours into the business, if you both made an agreement to split profits 50/50 then you should honor it.
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Coming from a Eastern European, you sound like you have completely lost the plot and are way overthinking this.
For one, it’s never a good idea to mix business and relationship. This is why you are in a position you are in.
Two. It happened and now it’s time to sort it out. Set aside the relationship part and look at the situation from business perspective. You made a deal and now you have to pay up. If you are so motivated, pay his 15k and then turn what you have left into 1.5m. It makes 0 difference if you put in 90% of the work or 50%. Deal is a deal and if you have any self respect, you have to honor it. Business partnerships fail every day various reasons, and underperforming is one then. When you realize it’s not working out, you split what was agreed to, terminate the partnership and go on to make other moves and evolve your company.
Three. Relationship part is icing on the cake here. From what I’ve read, the best course of action is to talk it out for good and see who is okay with what. If you “think” you love him, propose buying out his share of the business and continuing the relationship. He can take this money and start something on his own or use it towards improving his career potential. This would be the most logical solution if you 2 want to stay together but knowing that people act too much on their emotions during times like this, most likely outcome here is splitting up and going your separate ways.
For one, it’s never a good idea to mix business and relationship. This is why you are in a position you are in.
Two. It happened and now it’s time to sort it out. Set aside the relationship part and look at the situation from business perspective. You made a deal and now you have to pay up. If you are so motivated, pay his 15k and then turn what you have left into 1.5m. It makes 0 difference if you put in 90% of the work or 50%. Deal is a deal and if you have any self respect, you have to honor it. Business partnerships fail every day various reasons, and underperforming is one then. When you realize it’s not working out, you split what was agreed to, terminate the partnership and go on to make other moves and evolve your company.
Three. Relationship part is icing on the cake here. From what I’ve read, the best course of action is to talk it out for good and see who is okay with what. If you “think” you love him, propose buying out his share of the business and continuing the relationship. He can take this money and start something on his own or use it towards improving his career potential. This would be the most logical solution if you 2 want to stay together but knowing that people act too much on their emotions during times like this, most likely outcome here is splitting up and going your separate ways.
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Originally Posted By BroLongJohnson⏩
you didn't read what I typed so I'm not gonna read what you typed1. You're not entering into a business partnership with your accountant.
2. You're not the CEO, by the sounds of it you're not even a company, mind you, we still have no answers as to the type of business you have registered (Sole trader.Partnership.Joint venture.Trust.Company. etc.)
3. If you feel strongly that he's not putting in his share and you arent happy with how the business is going, absolve the business together, sell him your share or simply leave it with him. Regardless of your choice a deal between you both must be reached and in your case i cant imagine you coming out ontop. Once you have done this you are free to start your new business on your own and build new clientell. Another option would be to register a new business name and try and sneakily take assets and clients into your new name and leave him with the broken business. The last option is not advisable and very illegal but it get done a lot more than you think.
4. By the sounds of things your relationship is a different issue, from what your saying you clearly don't respect this man. Keep in mind everything you have said about your value for him is completely subjective, money, education, looks are all valid foundations for a relationship (albeit not very nice or lasting ones). But you have to remember it doesn't mean your percieved value and disrespect is a truism. like i said, change your viewpoint on life to a place where you can accept him for who he is and be open enough to confront him with the issues you feel and how you can both work through them together. OR continue with your headstrong approach to the world, and prove to everyone that your ego and self valuation is exactly where it should be and dump him to find someone that YOU THINK is better.
My personal opinion, you seem very unstable, erattic and it seems like your conclusions on life have been drawn without much depth. Continue to go to university and smash the goals you want to smash to make you feel good about yourself. But by the sounds of your sharp headstrong responses and for the sake of the person your currently dragging through your life, i suggest you spend some time to look inward and work on your own flaws first.
2. You're not the CEO, by the sounds of it you're not even a company, mind you, we still have no answers as to the type of business you have registered (Sole trader.Partnership.Joint venture.Trust.Company. etc.)
3. If you feel strongly that he's not putting in his share and you arent happy with how the business is going, absolve the business together, sell him your share or simply leave it with him. Regardless of your choice a deal between you both must be reached and in your case i cant imagine you coming out ontop. Once you have done this you are free to start your new business on your own and build new clientell. Another option would be to register a new business name and try and sneakily take assets and clients into your new name and leave him with the broken business. The last option is not advisable and very illegal but it get done a lot more than you think.
4. By the sounds of things your relationship is a different issue, from what your saying you clearly don't respect this man. Keep in mind everything you have said about your value for him is completely subjective, money, education, looks are all valid foundations for a relationship (albeit not very nice or lasting ones). But you have to remember it doesn't mean your percieved value and disrespect is a truism. like i said, change your viewpoint on life to a place where you can accept him for who he is and be open enough to confront him with the issues you feel and how you can both work through them together. OR continue with your headstrong approach to the world, and prove to everyone that your ego and self valuation is exactly where it should be and dump him to find someone that YOU THINK is better.
My personal opinion, you seem very unstable, erattic and it seems like your conclusions on life have been drawn without much depth. Continue to go to university and smash the goals you want to smash to make you feel good about yourself. But by the sounds of your sharp headstrong responses and for the sake of the person your currently dragging through your life, i suggest you spend some time to look inward and work on your own flaws first.
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Originally Posted By sdshakal⏩
this is probably what is going to happen, thanks. I will discuss about separating the business from the relationship and I want to see how he uses his brain after I give him the 15k. If he doesn't seem to understand anything from it, I'll probably break upComing from a Eastern European, you sound like you have completely lost the plot and are way overthinking this.
For one, it’s never a good idea to mix business and relationship. This is why you are in a position you are in.
Two. It happened and now it’s time to sort it out. Set aside the relationship part and look at the situation from business perspective. You made a deal and now you have to pay up. If you are so motivated, pay his 15k and then turn what you have left into 1.5m. It makes 0 difference if you put in 90% of the work or 50%. Deal is a deal and if you have any self respect, you have to honor it. Business partnerships fail every day various reasons, and underperforming is one then. When you realize it’s not working out, you split what was agreed to, terminate the partnership and go on to make other moves and evolve your company.
Three. Relationship part is icing on the cake here. From what I’ve read, the best course of action is to talk it out for good and see who is okay with what. If you “think” you love him, propose buying out his share of the business and continuing the relationship. He can take this money and start something on his own or use it towards improving his career potential. This would be the most logical solution if you 2 want to stay together but knowing that people act too much on their emotions during times like this, most likely outcome here is splitting up and going your separate ways.
For one, it’s never a good idea to mix business and relationship. This is why you are in a position you are in.
Two. It happened and now it’s time to sort it out. Set aside the relationship part and look at the situation from business perspective. You made a deal and now you have to pay up. If you are so motivated, pay his 15k and then turn what you have left into 1.5m. It makes 0 difference if you put in 90% of the work or 50%. Deal is a deal and if you have any self respect, you have to honor it. Business partnerships fail every day various reasons, and underperforming is one then. When you realize it’s not working out, you split what was agreed to, terminate the partnership and go on to make other moves and evolve your company.
Three. Relationship part is icing on the cake here. From what I’ve read, the best course of action is to talk it out for good and see who is okay with what. If you “think” you love him, propose buying out his share of the business and continuing the relationship. He can take this money and start something on his own or use it towards improving his career potential. This would be the most logical solution if you 2 want to stay together but knowing that people act too much on their emotions during times like this, most likely outcome here is splitting up and going your separate ways.
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02-24-2020, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Long story short, girl has nothing. Meets boy they try make **** work both have nothing life sucks. Money comes in now girl being greedy trying to justify taking all the money thinks shes better than him all of a sudden, her place in life shot up tiers because of the money apparently, hasnt lived life aka slooted around, he is ugly, useless etc....the deal was that if we make it, we split the money equally, so 15k and 15k.
but I feel that I did not had enough time to play, because I was always serious and focused on making money.
didn't present him to people because he is not attractive, but I fall in love because he trusted me at my lowest mental point
he trusted me because he had no other option
but I feel that I did not had enough time to play, because I was always serious and focused on making money.
didn't present him to people because he is not attractive, but I fall in love because he trusted me at my lowest mental point
he trusted me because he had no other option
If you wanna leech off someone thats fine, don't come in here making him the leech when youre the leech.
Just be honest, you used him now you legged up and wanna run dont try to justify **** end of the day
A DEAL IS A DEAL HONOR IT OR DONT MAKE STUPID DEALS 4HEAD
02-24-2020, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
That's what you do with a spouse, not some boyfriend you've known for half a year.true dat, not gonna lie, I wanted to make that ''build an empire together, succeed together, motivate each other'' bs real
Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
That's just a euphemism for a kunty personality.I am always too masculine to have a normal relationship and I suffer from the warrior syndrome (no joke, even my psychiatrist told me this).
02-25-2020, 12:01 AM
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Hey Roxy, if you agreed on 15k each then you should honour the agreement. Do the right thing girlo, you can’t expect others to be honest with you if you’re not honest with them.
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02-25-2020, 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
For someone so highly educated as yourself you sure do sound like a 10 year old. Good lord I hope this guy has the commonsense to dump your dumb ass first.you didn't read what I typed so I'm not gonna read what you typed
02-25-2020, 12:17 AM
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eastern europeans are bona fide retards and this thread is a perfect example of that
they come from small backwards countries where everyone is uneducated trash, so as soon as they learn how to spell they think they are some sort of talented genius
then when they can afford to rent an apartment with more than 100 sq ft they think that they are successful
this is the eastern european mentality, though there have been a good number of great men from that part of the world, the women have all be low standard trash that overestimate themselves by comparing themselves to other eastern european trash
you are 24 and are a small business partner with, so far, 10k monthly profits. Instead of trying to grow and develop the business, you want to not only blow half of it on dressses and blow, but spend the other half on the same thing. You are an idiot and I am 100% sure that this 'business' is sex work and your bf is your pimp.
they come from small backwards countries where everyone is uneducated trash, so as soon as they learn how to spell they think they are some sort of talented genius
then when they can afford to rent an apartment with more than 100 sq ft they think that they are successful
this is the eastern european mentality, though there have been a good number of great men from that part of the world, the women have all be low standard trash that overestimate themselves by comparing themselves to other eastern european trash
you are 24 and are a small business partner with, so far, 10k monthly profits. Instead of trying to grow and develop the business, you want to not only blow half of it on dressses and blow, but spend the other half on the same thing. You are an idiot and I am 100% sure that this 'business' is sex work and your bf is your pimp.
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02-25-2020, 12:20 AM
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Damn I feel real sorry for the ugly dude that's dating this POS.
This is the bish who sent wincel nudes in exchange for him doing her math homework though, I guess that says a lot about her character
This is the bish who sent wincel nudes in exchange for him doing her math homework though, I guess that says a lot about her character
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02-25-2020, 12:24 AM
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Break up with him, srs.
You only have feelings for him because you spend lots of time with him. It sounds like you're not physically attracted to him. Plus 15k is 15k.
Think of it as getting paid 15k to do the right and necessary thing. A motivation from the heavens.
Next time learn from your mistakes, dont mix business with pleasure, and dont date people you aren't 100% attracted to. Life is too short to settle.
90% of the misc is bitter incels lashing out.
You only have feelings for him because you spend lots of time with him. It sounds like you're not physically attracted to him. Plus 15k is 15k.
Think of it as getting paid 15k to do the right and necessary thing. A motivation from the heavens.
Next time learn from your mistakes, dont mix business with pleasure, and dont date people you aren't 100% attracted to. Life is too short to settle.
90% of the misc is bitter incels lashing out.
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02-25-2020, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
now you have 15g's go fix his teeth...I don't want to give explanation to people, because truly he is 10 years older than me, not rich and he has crocked teeth due to an accident, but then he couldn't afford to fix them
02-25-2020, 12:58 AM
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A fat Romanian 20something greedy af gypsy chick in the Netherlands with no skills/education who has to take meds for her mental illnesses.
Gee, what kind of business could that be, surely it must be folding and selling tulip and windmill decorations from organic hemp.
Time and again you have shown that you're totally insane and only care about money, nothing else. You already made your decision to screw over your pimp, and now you're looking for excuses. Absolutely pathetic.
Gee, what kind of business could that be, surely it must be folding and selling tulip and windmill decorations from organic hemp.
Time and again you have shown that you're totally insane and only care about money, nothing else. You already made your decision to screw over your pimp, and now you're looking for excuses. Absolutely pathetic.
02-25-2020, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
AgreedNone of this matters, you had a deal you split it 50:50
The rest of this chit is you trying to rationalise to yourself that it is OK to break a promise
That’s an unethical move and basically paints you as a scumbug
So quite simply give the man his 15k then break up with him and let him find someone who values him for who he is. This man saw you at your lowest and helped you up. This is not how your treat other people
The rest of this chit is you trying to rationalise to yourself that it is OK to break a promise
That’s an unethical move and basically paints you as a scumbug
So quite simply give the man his 15k then break up with him and let him find someone who values him for who he is. This man saw you at your lowest and helped you up. This is not how your treat other people
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02-25-2020, 01:25 AM
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