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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
It's because they all want a certain phenotype or want 8/10+

So they rate nearly every guy below average
Legit. Almost all women 90% of women want a tall man. This is a universal trait. I don't think women know the actual averages*.

And the crazy thing is I remember reading before you could really filter for height...women complaining about tall guys messaging them but looking like horsefaces (a natural consequence of being tall)....what they actually desired were men who were tall but looked like Channing Tatum.














*Spoiler: percentage of men 6' or above ....roughly 15-17%....over 6'2...5%.
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Women want either an alpha guy or a chad. If your not alpha or a chad it's over.
If I wanted a non alpha/masculine man, I'd be a lesbian.
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Because most miscers are either virgins, just gf club sluts, or just homos.
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
If I wanted a non alpha/masculine man, I'd be a lesbian.
Over for the betas as I said.
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Originally Posted By StarfaceChris⏩
Over for the betas as I said.
Some women like being in control & odd, clingy & effeminate type, but you have to go for the less feminine if you want the gender reverse. Nvm some feminine ones in appearance still like clingy as well now I think about it, I'm lying. Some of us do not lol depends which type you find. Stop typing everyone as the same that is the problem with this line of thinking.
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Repped

Girls that I know told me that guys nowadays are terrified to talk to them

Men don't realize that 95% of them are massive pussies/beta and that's why they don't get girls

Obviously when in the dating pool you want to LooksMax no matter what, but that coupled with confidence and social skills is the key

edit: also follow some miscers and can tell most of you are out of the loop socially irl, js
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
I often wonder how much they go outside or look around in reality @ the state of most American men. Majority of every couple I have seen rl (Including 100k + women groups who post pics with SO) The women are always several points above the male in looks department. I have seen legit trolls pulling women that are at least pretty and a 6 or better with a guy I'd judge a solid 2. Most men are not that great looking in reality. Would be a nun first @ yes, I do like the mendem & demand at least average/nice/ decent which even that is rare.
Quite often ill see some neckbeard with man tits wearing sandals with dirty feet and he’ll be with a slim 7 with a fat ass.

It’s more common than you’d think.
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These incels make me sad.

Women aren't much different from men. A lot of them are insecure. Most of them (by definition) are average. All of them are flawed.

It's not some feat to attract someone that is average and is flawed. That is who you are talking about if you're talking about most women.

Don't be so available. Women are accustomed to having the veto. Have high standards. That doesn't mean be unmeritorusly picky. That means through your own conduct you set high standards and you expect others to meet them.

Don't be another option. No one is interested in someone that is too available, and women especially aren't intrigued by men that only want what most other men only want: sex. That doesn't mean they aren't interested in sex. If the only thing their being offered daily is dick they're going to choose the one with the best face.
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
These incels make me sad.

Women aren't much different from men. A lot of them are insecure. Most of them (by definition) are average. All of them are flawed.

It's not some feat to attract someone that is average and is flawed. That is who you are talking about if you're talking about most women.

Don't be so available. Women are accustomed to having the veto. Have high standards. That doesn't mean be unmeritorusly picky. That means through your own conduct you set high standards and you expect others to meet them.

Don't be another option. No one is interested in someone that is too available, and women especially aren't intrigued by men that only want what most other men only want: sex. That doesn't mean they aren't interested in sex. If the only thing their being offered daily is dick they're going to choose the one with the best face.
"Dont be so available..."

how does one pull that off ? lol
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Originally Posted By KingSWRV⏩
"Dont be so available..."

how does one pull that off ? lol
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
These incels make me sad.

Women aren't much different from men. A lot of them are insecure. Most of them (by definition) are average. All of them are flawed.

It's not some feat to attract someone that is average and is flawed. That is who you are talking about if you're talking about most women.

Don't be so available. Women are accustomed to having the veto. Have high standards. That doesn't mean be unmeritorusly picky. That means through your own conduct you set high standards and you expect others to meet them.

Don't be another option. No one is interested in someone that is too available, and women especially aren't intrigued by men that only want what most other men only want: sex. That doesn't mean they aren't interested in sex. If the only thing their being offered daily is dick they're going to choose the one with the best face.
Bro normal women are not even looking at average guys. Not just average looks but guys who work average jobs, have average social skills etc. They aren't even getting noticed. Do you think Tucker the nerdy engineer making 40k per year is even getting noticed?
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Originally Posted By FastBack6⏩
Quite often ill see some neckbeard with man tits wearing sandals with dirty feet and he’ll be with a slim 7 with a fat ass.

It’s more common than you’d think.
Yes I see it all the time too not dressed to that extent but badly and gross looking lol
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post 1600371141 03-21-2020, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By KirkMcquest⏩
" Why are so many miscers deluded about what women find attractive?"

Because what women SAY they want and what they actually want have nothing in common.
You're making a big assumption thinking they even talk to women IRL.

Most of their opinions regarding women and dating aren't based off first-hand real world experience.

They base most or all of their opinions on things they see online.

Problem there is many people are fake online, it's a really, really bad caricature of real life.

Why do you think their answer is always "Tinder ______", because that's all you have to go by if you don't have balls IRL.

You have to hope to woo them enough over the internet that they can ignore everything you're trying to hide.

It's not different than real dating other than women being completely inundated by options.

IRL women screen most guys out through personality etc, hell majority of of Tinder dude's weeded out just by not approaching IRL.

If you're going after a girl who's SERIOUSLY uses Tinder you're setting yourself up to fail.

That's fine but don't use your stupidity to try and muddy the water for everybody else.
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Originally Posted By KingSWRV⏩
"Dont be so available..."

how does one pull that off ? lol
By having high standards they you yourself meet and not settling for less. It's not some stunt or gaming women.

If you have high standards that someone else must meet you aren't available to a lot of people. Maybe even most. Average is overestimated and that applies to women, too.

Most guys devalue men because they will settle for anything, so it makes it harder for everyone.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
what a goober lmaooooo
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Men are overall better looking than women and it's not really close.

That is actually an extremely HighIQ observation. Thing is its one of those things you can't convince people about, they have to see that for themselves. I could explain why its true but like I said its kinda pointless. EOD is absolutely correct though.

And he is better looking than most females...no makeup, fit, clear skin, etc.

p.s. NO HOMO...so don't PM me you fuking homos
Originally Posted By KingSWRV⏩
what a goober lmaooooo
your comment conversely proves why I & EOD are correct tbh. don't wanna get into why though.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Bro normal women are not even looking at average guys. Not just average looks but guys who work average jobs, have average social skills etc. They aren't even getting noticed. Do you think Tucker the nerdy engineer making 40k per year is even getting noticed?
They don't pay attention to you, because you are just ugly.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Face

Hair

Height

Personality
like this bish right here. single handedly making dating worse for everybody else

too stupid to fix the problem, but perpetuates it wondering why she's single

reminds me of deadliftbrah

youre on a bb sub forum. keep that in mind
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Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
Men are overall better looking than women and it's not really close.

And he is better looking than most females...no makeup, fit, clear skin, etc.

p.s. NO HOMO...so don't PM me you fuking homos
He is not better looking. What obese chicks? Lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Face

Hair

Height

Personality
What do you have to offer to the table?

inb4 just your pussy
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Originally Posted By trapspot⏩
that’s simplistic bro. As of 2019, irl is pretty much obsolete except for cubbies, older girls, and whatnot who can’t land too much on apps. I know girls who only use apps, because they can learn a lot about a guy quickly instead of during a cold approach.
ok.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
He is not better looking. What obese chicks? Lol
Listen...I can't explain why unless someone has 1) high enough iq 2) openminded.

However, michelangelo realized this truth as well.

INB4 mikeandangelo was a *******! tbh he was.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Bro normal women are not even looking at average guys. Not just average looks but guys who work average jobs, have average social skills etc. They aren't even getting noticed. Do you think Tucker the nerdy engineer making 40k per year is even getting noticed?
Nowhere in my post did I advocate being average to find a suitable partner or to date around (completely different market than LTR btw). In fact, what I advocated was being above average (high standards).

Too many men try to get women to buy into some **** (themselves) they have put minimal work into and then act surprised no one wants their derelict ass.

Inb4 "but you can'tchange an average face!"
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Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
Listen...I can't explain why unless someone has 1) high enough iq 2) openminded.

However, michelangelo realized this truth as well.

INB4 mikeandangelo was a *******! tbh he was.
You must look worse than that. I'd place him about a 4.5-5.2 to be nice, I have seen worse than him where I live he's not bad or anything, by not bad I mean not a troll but looks a bit geeky, but he is in no way better looking than most women. I'd love to know what you are comparing that too, must be the obese/out of shape lol.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
LOL at these levels of delusion.
Mmmmkay....I'm deluded.




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Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
Mmmmkay....I'm deluded.




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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
The fact that you can't back up your "argument" because apparently other people aren't "high IQ" enough tells me that you are.
I gave you enough info in this thread to find all the information you'll need to find out I'm correct.

Also along with 1) high iq 2) openminded ...I should add ....3) not lazy
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
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Girls that I know told me that guys nowadays are terrified to talk to them

Men don't realize that 95% of them are massive pussies/beta and that's why they don't get girls

Obviously when in the dating pool you want to LooksMax no matter what, but that coupled with confidence and social skills is the key

edit: also follow some miscers and can tell most of you are out of the loop socially irl, js
This. Majority of guys are beta males. I think the incel problem is a result of video games, boys growing up without fathers. Never developing masculine energy. Etc.
Originally Posted By Claude33⏩
There is absolutely zero proof anywhere in life that dating is determined by anything other than looks. Its all a myth.
If that were true every single person that matched with someone on Tinder then went on one date would get married, have kids and be a happy/forever couple immediately.


Physical appearance only accounts for initial attraction. And the good news is, not everyone finds the same things attractive.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Except you're wrong.
it should also be noted, that a woman could be too stupid to see it. often times there's much more that goes on beyond the surface.

its like seeing an object thats a certain color and thinking that it is the color, when in fact it is actually every color BUT the color you see. it absorbed all the other colors and the color it reflected is the one you see. yet most peoples perception is so limited to only see the color and think its that

so, keep in mind when you hear a woman talk about it even their perception can be skewed
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