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Thread: Going NC on girlfriend of just over 1 year. advice?(pics of text only)

post 1600737591 03-25-2020, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
Fortunately I am getting my life in order now. It's been a long time coming but I have professional help now and I'm making good progress.
That isoutstandingnews. Good for you, I'm proud of you. I'm sure it's going to suck and hurt for a while, but it's probably for the best. Best of luck with everything.
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post 1600738391 03-25-2020, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
my 1) was to Caldef, who lives in New Zealand, who has 205 confirmed cases total, whereas the state of New York had 5,000 cases TODAY alone. But shes being overly dramatic that things are so bad there but its not even at the US level, and the US isnt even at Italy/ Asia levels yet.
Ah, okay, My bad.
Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
That isoutstandingnews. Good for you, I'm proud of you. I'm sure it's going to suck and hurt for a while, but it's probably for the best. Best of luck with everything.
Lol thanks. It's really not as bad for me as it sounds. I'm gonna be alright, it's just been a rough patch. Might as well get everything out of the way at once.
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post 1600741551 03-25-2020, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By BritishTwit⏩
Exactly the right mindset brah.

You're clearly a compassionate brah but she doesn't deserve you, People with depression can still be dinks. I know, b/c I used to have severe depression as a teen, and I was a dink to my parents when they were getting divorced.
Thanks.

Just kinda broke NC because we had a joint account ($100 in it. Was for dates/trips/whatever.)




I think I left a small amount of booze at her apartment but nothing else. Her keys are sitting in my mailbox right now waiting to be picked up.

She texted again asking what I needed money for. I have no intention of replying as of right now.
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post 1600742031 03-25-2020, 03:20 PM
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If you initiating the text convo more than your girl she is NOT YOUR GIRL facts of life take it in
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post 1600742331 03-25-2020, 03:26 PM
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Simp levels are through the ****ing roof. Start acting like a man, this is embarrasing.
post 1600742471 03-25-2020, 03:28 PM
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Your lifes a mess.


Dump her and focus on yourself.
post 1600743001 03-25-2020, 03:34 PM
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GO N/C ASAP. Girls who love you or are in love with you don't take that long to respond and are giddy about stupid chit like anniversary's . SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU ANYMORE and has lost feelings. YOU NEED TO GO N/C. She is probably acting cold because she doesn't wanna break up with you and hurt your feelings. Woman love to be distant and cold when they lose feelings for you. Remember if a girl loves you or is in love with you she will not be acting like that. N/C is the only way you show her that you don't need her. Tour is over, son.
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post 1600743141 03-25-2020, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
1) the whole world isnt turning to chit, your country is one of the lesser restrictive ones right now and you still are acting like its the end of the world

2) he already stated he does call her and gets the same cold shoulder

3) OP is delusional thinking she isnt talking to/sleeping with another guy. Girls dont keep relationships going and turn cold unless theres another guy, they will end it or talk to you if its just depression/anxiety. I can say with about 99% confidence shes talkking to another guy, the 1% doubt is only because i havnt seen it in person.
1. Just because my country is doing pretty well (which I am grateful for) doesn't mean I'm unaware of what's happening globally. Given that OP doesn't live in NZ I imagine both him and his "girlfriend" are fairly stressed right now, but regardless of that, a phone call is always better than a text. I can't stand guys who don't know how to use the call function, personally.

2. If she's giving him the cold shoulder when he calls then either she's mad about something but lacks the social skills to say what, or it's already over. Regardless of that my original advice still stands which is if she doesn't respond to phone calls then walk away.

3. There is no reason to suspect there are any third parties involved. It's entirely possible to lose all interest in someone simply because they don't make you happy.

OP if she's not talking to you, she's not your girlfriend. Just delete her number and don't talk to her again
post 1600743251 03-25-2020, 03:37 PM
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fkn lmao @:

1) joint acct even though you've only been together for a year
2) her lying about her contribution
3) the total being under 100 bucks
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post 1600743441 03-25-2020, 03:39 PM
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1) you're texting her like a pussy dude
2)at least tell her you're going to end it with her, and why.

I'm assuming you haven't done 2) already.
Said with enough conviction she will almost certainly change if she likes you. If she doesn't, then you haven't lost anything.

Tell her you're done if she doesn't change. Then go NC
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post 1600743821 03-25-2020, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
fkn lmao @:

1) joint acct even though you've only been together for a year
2) her lying about her contribution
3) the total being under 100 bucks
Learn to read. The joint account was for things like going out to eat and a trip to florida we were planning ($500 cost) It was neither of our main bank account where we kept our savings/actual money.
Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
1) you're texting her like a pussy dude
2)at least tell her you're going to end it with her, and why.

I'm assuming you haven't done 2) already.
Said with enough conviction she will almost certainly change if she likes you. If she doesn't, then you haven't lost anything.

Tell her you're done if she doesn't change. Then go NC
I'm not getting back together with her unless she gets professional help, and I would need serious evidence of progress. And I think I'll probably have a new relationship by then. I don't intend to wait.
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post 1600743981 03-25-2020, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
I'm not getting back together with her
ftfy
post 1600744871 03-25-2020, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
ftfy
That's probably accurate.
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post 1600745091 03-25-2020, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
fkn lmao @:

1) joint acct even though you've only been together for a year
2) her lying about her contribution
3) the total being under 100 bucks
Sadly, this.
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post 1600745341 03-25-2020, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Sadly, this.
Oh look. Another retard who can't read.
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post 1600747371 03-25-2020, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
Oh look. Another retard who can't read.
never said that was your primary acct

it's just as stupid as a secondary one

and just lol @ you talking chit when you are srsly legally blind, judging by her appearance

giving ibby's sloot a run for her money

i told you in your original thread that you deserve better

shoulda listened
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post 1600747731 03-25-2020, 04:31 PM
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Have you even tried asking her what's the problem/why she's being distant? Man up & get to the bottom of it then break up with her, i hate dumb mind games some girly chit.
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post 1600749351 03-25-2020, 04:51 PM
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girls are on their phones all day, replying at lightning fast speed. i remember being texted after hours but when the girl and I were driving around during a trip, she was on her phone 24/7 responding to people within seconds. knew right then and there it was over srs
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post 1600749461 03-25-2020, 04:53 PM
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How's you?

lol beta you sound hella clingy
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post 1600749711 03-25-2020, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By ConTroLFreaKK⏩
Have you even tried asking her what's the problem/why she's being distant? Man up & get to the bottom of it then break up with her, i hate dumb mind games some girly chit.
I can't get her to talk about it much. I pressed hard once and got her to admit she was scared/depressed. But it was like pulling teeth. I don't have the energy for that.
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post 1600750921 03-25-2020, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
Oh look. Another retard who can't read.
Another retard? I’m not the one asking the misc a question you obviously know the answer to. There’s plenty of other 3/10’s out there that will text you back and aren’t depressed. Go find one. Sure hope that wasn’t your main bank account, but just the fact that you have a fund with her for vacation is cringe. Try men.
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post 1600751691 03-25-2020, 05:22 PM
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You seem like a nice guy you dont deserve that hope the best for you man
post 1600757911 03-25-2020, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
Thanks.

Just kinda broke NC because we had a joint account ($100 in it. Was for dates/trips/


I think I left a small amount of booze at her apartment but nothing else. Her keys are sitting in my mailbox right now waiting to be picked up.

She texted again asking what I needed money for. I have no intention of replying as of right now.
Good OP.
You’ve broke up with her, now NC. You write you don’t have any intention of replyingas of right now... the bolded needs to be deleted in your mind. There’s no need to text her ever again. If she needs you to be there to give her the keys, then that is the only thing you should be communicating with her.
No how are you, no what are you up to, no what do you need money for. If you want to reply to not seem like a douche, always use the same standard answer “Very good, thanks, but very busy as well. Gotta go! Take care” or some variation of that which closes the conversation. She will get the hint fast. In regards to the money for instance, I would say “Just wanted to withdraw my money, so I didn’t have to use the account again... Anyway, I’m really busy at the moment. Take care!”
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Sorry brah but she's definitely talking to/getting attention from another guy at the very least, if not already getting creampied. Tell her you found another girl you're feeling more of a connection with and it's best to end things, then go NC, that way she's at least guaranteed a little jealousy/heartbreak even if she's already cheating.
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post 1600761771 03-25-2020, 07:31 PM
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tour is 100% over boyo. Go NC. That was hard to read. She has 0 interest in you. Download tinder and start swiping
post 1600766221 03-25-2020, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
Sorry brah but she's definitely talking to/getting attention from another guy at the very least, if not already getting creampied. Tell her you found another girl you're feeling more of a connection with and it's best to end things, then go NC, that way she's at least guaranteed a little jealousy/heartbreak even if she's already cheating.
Not really interested in playing games.
Originally Posted By wrastler163⏩
tour is 100% over boyo. Go NC. That was hard to read. She has 0 interest in you. Download tinder and start swiping
I got banned on tinder for looking for a plug lol chatting with a gal on bumble as we speak. Not gonna go anywhere during a lockdown though lol
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post 1600766591 03-25-2020, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By NicholasMango⏩
Not really interested in playing games.



I got banned on tinder for looking for a plug lol chatting with a gal on bumble as we speak. Not gonna go anywhere during a lockdown though lol
a plug?
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post 1600766741 03-25-2020, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Noliberals4⏩
a plug?
My quick google search tells me it's a drug dealer essentially.
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post 1600766761 03-25-2020, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Noliberals4⏩
a plug?
a dealer.
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post 1600767891 03-25-2020, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By wrastler163⏩
tour is 100% over boyo. Go NC. That was hard to read. She has 0 interest in you. Download tinder and start swiping
happy?


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