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post 1603543661 04-26-2020, 10:33 PM
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Most of you don't Understand how hard it is for a Woman to find a Decent guy

and that if you just put a little bit of work in, you can become a decent option.
most timmies are simps and most chads are douchebags. women get tired of it emotionally after a while. most of them don't want to be single. especially once they hit the mid 20s.
be interesting and get to bare min 75% of your potential looks wise and you're playing in the league. not everyone can develop into a slayer, but most can get in the game imo.
obviously there's no hope for some. that's just life.

speaking as a child of the 90's
post 1603543791 04-26-2020, 10:35 PM
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I'm sympathetic towards women and their dating experiences but having dealt with a volume of bull**** by women and knowing my bros have I gotta side with the men lol. Granted I do feel for women but I can't put myself in their shoes or experiences.

With that said many guys are self loathing and don't do things to improve themselves so I have little sympathy for that.
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post 1603544001 04-26-2020, 10:39 PM
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Nope...

they ghost and friendzone said "decent guys"

dont listen to what theyre saying
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post 1603544041 04-26-2020, 10:40 PM
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Yeah I've thought about this tbh

Most guys are pretty wack, big betas. If I was a chick I couldn't trust them enough to be able to not only handle their emotions but be non responsive/chill with my crazy female emotions too

Then comes the fact that they are so thirsty that even ugly dudes cheat (man nature)

And the top tier good-looking, emotionally stable, confident and financially independent men don't want to settle down in the first place.

The struggle
post 1603544251 04-26-2020, 10:45 PM
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OP is right. So many men (and women) think they are a 'catch' themselves but bring and offer almost nothing of value or interest to the table.
The above post is 100% false
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post 1603544351 04-26-2020, 10:46 PM
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I agree with this actually

Some sense on the misc!

Blows my mind how many men irl are beta as phuck

Problem with most guys imo is that they friendzone themselves. Meaning they act like a girls buddy for so long that they friendzone themselves cuz she think theyre not interested. There's ways to show interest without being douchey and such but most guys don't get it.

I'm friends with alot of srat girls and they tell me guys are also afraid to talk to them, and they wish guys would walk up to them more(they're attractive)
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post 1603544371 04-26-2020, 10:46 PM
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i am easily a "decent guy".

Have a job.
A car.
My own place.
Lean.
5.4 inch penis
Educated
Not a douche.
Gucci shoes


Still never been on a date. Women don't want "decent guys." They want extraordinary guys.
post 1603544381 04-26-2020, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
Nope...

they ghost and friendzone said "decent guys"

dont listen to what theyre saying
ok you american history x looking mothefuker
post 1603544501 04-26-2020, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Decent guy is not hard to find at all.

What’s hard is finding a guy who is

Decent

Handsome

Tall

Good hair

Rich
Tall, handsome, rich men want prime 20 year olds.
post 1603544641 04-26-2020, 10:51 PM
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you gotta be good looking, rich, or fun. You can't just be a "decent" guy. GIrls will treat you like trash.

It's pretty big suicidefuel and im not sure if I can take it much longer. Might have to visit Gandy or some chit.
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I agree with this actually

Some sense on the misc!

Blows my mind how many men irl are beta as phuck

Problem with most guys imo is that they friendzone themselves. Meaning they act like a girls buddy for so long that they friendzone themselves cuz she think theyre not interested. There's ways to show interest without being douchey and such but most guys don't get it.

I'm friends with alot of srat girls and they tell me guys are also afraid to talk to them, and they wish guys would walk up to them more(they're attractive)
this is true also.

by decent guy, i meant decent option. not nice guy.
i think it's important to be a little dangerous on some levels. it's attractive.
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Let's be reality, you have to go two standard deviations out to find men and women these days that aren't trash or aggressively mediocre these days. The reason why dudes complain so much is that when women are horny and just want to be superficial, it's 100x easier for them to have that need fulfilled than it is for guys. It's bad in multiple ways because for guys, getting a nut off is more and more competitive, and it makes girls less wifeable in their eyes. Guys are inherently competitive and don't want to feel like they're getting someone's sloppy seconds after they've ridden the cock carousel for a decade. As such, dudes are getting the worst trade deal in the history of trade deals with the rise of hookup culture, which is why there's so much backlash.
post 1603544751 04-26-2020, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Decent guy is not hard to find at all.

What’s hard is finding a guy who is

Decent

Handsome

Tall

Good hair

Rich
inb4 jimmies are rustled.
post 1603544801 04-26-2020, 10:53 PM
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post 1603544871 04-26-2020, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
this is true also.

by decent guy, i meant decent option. not nice guy.
i think it's important to be a little dangerous on some levels. it's attractive.
what is decent option to women though??

over 5'10
over 80k/year salary
charming
funny
nw1-2 hairline
2-5 years older than her
has a social life
has hobbies


Now how many men actually meet those requirements?? 1%????


yeah im going to end it.
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Originally Posted By DoctorKazama⏩
inb4 jimmies are rustled.
I don't think that's controversial at all.
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
this is true also.

by decent guy, i meant decent option. not nice guy.
i think it's important to be a little dangerous on some levels. it's attractive.
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.”

I honestly think more men should put their needs and passions first more. Also learn how to read body language and learn how to ADD value to a conversation, an individual, or a social circle. Most people in general want to know how they can take something from someone and never think how they can give or add to something yet they expect the best of the best. Kind of annoying.

But I do think men have to certainly harder than other generations but if that's the case you gotta work hard to get what you want if you truly want it too.
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post 1603545021 04-26-2020, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I'm sympathetic towards women and their dating experiences but having dealt with a volume of bull**** by women and knowing my bros have I gotta side with the men lol. Granted I do feel for women but I can't put myself in their shoes or experiences.

With that said many guys are self loathing and don't do things to improve themselves so I have little sympathy for that.
i'm not taking sides. there's nothing in my post that had anything to do with women's nature. the fact of the matter is that most men these days are pathetic and if you put work in, it's not that hard to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. there's plenty of simps and autists that are 8s in looks alone. if you're a charismatic and exciting dude and you're a 6, you'll be able to fuk is what i'm saying.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.”

I honestly think more men should put their needs and passions first more. Also learn how to read body language and learn how to ADD value to a conversation, an individual, or a social circle. Most people in general want to know how they can take something from someone and never think how they can give or add to something yet they expect the best of the best. Kind of annoying.

But I do think men have to certainly harder than other generations but if that's the case you gotta work hard to get what you want if you truly want it too.
how do u add value to conversation?? I never have anything to say.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
what is decent option to women though??

over 5'10
over 80k/year salary
charming
funny
nw1-2 hairline
2-5 years older than her
has a social life
has hobbies


Now how many men actually meet those requirements?? 1%????


yeah im going to end it.
You're probably nowhere near as good of a 'catch' as you think you are and I'm basing that solely off of the assumption of you listing features and traits like that non-ironic manor
The above post is 100% false
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
i'm not taking sides. there's nothing in my post that had anything to do with women's nature. the fact of the matter is that most men these days are pathetic and if you put work in, it's not that hard to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. there's plenty of simps and autists that are 8s in looks alone. if you're a charismatic and exciting dude and you're a 6, you'll be able to fuk is what i'm saying.
charismatic and exciting is like an 8+ personality and he also needs a 6+ looks??? So a way above average personality and above average looks to get some used up roastbeef?????


good bye world. I'm out.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
what is decent option to women though??

over 5'10
over 80k/year salary
charming
funny
nw1-2 hairline
2-5 years older than her
has a social life
has hobbies


Now how many men actually meet those requirements?? 1%????


yeah im going to end it.
Is $80K considered a good salary these days? Lol at poorcells.
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal⏩
Is $80K considered a good salary these days? Lol at poorcells.
no it's a "decent" one
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
what is decent option to women though??

over 5'10
over 80k/year salary
charming
funny
nw1-2 hairline
2-5 years older than her
has a social life
has hobbies


Now how many men actually meet those requirements?? 1%????


yeah im going to end it.
you are an entitled, whiny fuking bitch. they used to call guys like you birth control.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.”

I honestly think more men should put their needs and passions first more. Also learn how to read body language and learn how to ADD value to a conversation, an individual, or a social circle. Most people in general want to know how they can take something from someone and never think how they can give or add to something yet they expect the best of the best. Kind of annoying.

But I do think men have to certainly harder than other generations but if that's the case you gotta work hard to get what you want if you truly want it too.
having a passion got me more blowjobs than anything else in my life. when you have that fire in your heart, they pick up on it. they want to be a part of it. eventually most of them wanna suck it out of you fuking sloots mang lol
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
and that if you just put a little bit of work in, you can become a decent option.
most timmies are simps and most chads are douchebags. women get tired of it emotionally after a while. most of them don't want to be single. especially once they hit the mid 20s.
be interesting and get to bare min 75% of your potential looks wise and you're playing in the league. not everyone can develop into a slayer, but most can get in the game imo.
obviously there's no hope for some. that's just life.

speaking as a child of the 90's
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I'm sympathetic towards women and their dating experiences but having dealt with a volume of bull**** by women and knowing my bros have I gotta side with the men lol. Granted I do feel for women but I can't put myself in their shoes or experiences.

With that said many guys are self loathing and don't do things to improve themselves so I have little sympathy for that.
I like these posts because their a more balanced view on dating. I haven't had success yet, but I've certainly learned from my failures. Some of the guys here forget that you can take lessons from those too.

If you aren't getting women now and you claim to be this great "catch" then surely you must be doing something wrong. Find it, fix it.


For me it's not having my own place, and not knowing how to close the deal.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
what is decent option to women though??

over 5'10
over 80k/year salary
charming
funny
nw1-2 hairline
2-5 years older than her
has a social life
has hobbies


Now how many men actually meet those requirements?? 1%????


yeah im going to end it.
Pretty much this

Even guys who check all these boxes can't get a gf under 200lbs
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
having a passion got me more blowjobs than anything else in my life. when you have that fire in your heart, they pick up on it. they want to be a part of it. eventually most of them wanna suck it out of you fuking sloots mang lol
straight facts right here,, lmao
The above post is 100% false
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How many of them really want a decent guy and how many of them just want someone who will play daddy after the carousel.

I go to a big state school, I see 5-10K people hit the bars and clubs every weekend. You're not going to tell me that some chick has her azz hanging out her shorts and is downing shots of Jager because they can't find a decent guy. Sometimes you've just got to call a sloot a sloot.
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Most people cant acknowledge one simple truth

That they are in control of their destiny and short of extreme unforeseen final destination type tragedy everything bad or good in their life is 100% their fault or their credit thanks to their choices and actions. The biggest hurdle most people will face is deciding what they want and what theyre willing to do to get it. Most people never get to step 1 what do they want. Its easier to tell yourself dont try because the game is rigged.

Probably the second most common fantasy after the “dont try clustercope” is the “I deserve a 9”. If you arent getting hit on everytime you step out your door you are batting in a league so far away from the 9s league you may as well be an alien from a different planet to them.
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