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Thread: Most of you don't Understand how hard it is for a Woman to find a Decent guy

post 1603549451 04-27-2020, 12:21 AM
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Check out most of the 40+ women in public next time you're out in about. You will thank your lucky stars you're not stuck with one of them.

You have to adapt to what's going on. Best play is to be single and travel overseas to bang hot young females.

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I hear this from some women. They say that women cherish a 'good' guy because they know how hard they are to find. Of course 'good' means them: 1)being attractive, 2) having similar interests, 3) ambition/good career.
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Originally Posted By GenLebronski⏩
Check out most of the 40+ women in public next time you're out in about. You will thank your lucky stars you're not stuck with one of them.
Once they pop out a kid, it's fawking overrr.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
yes, but i promise you that you will look at a similar graph in 2025 and you will freak the **** out and think "damn Ken-O was right".

Thats nothing compared to whats coming.
There will probably be less marriages. Circling the drain towards weimar levels of degeneracy. Get ready for the tranny brothels, they will be here soon enough.
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These threads are useless without a little concrete advice from the slayers of the Misc to the autists. How do we go about polishing our personality? inb4 "just b urself". How do you start the initial chat without coming across mundane? As soon as you come across as mundane as an avg dude, it's over. send help.
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Originally Posted By BigGuy4You⏩
These threads are useless without a little concrete advice from the slayers of the Misc to the autists. How do we go about polishing our personality? inb4 "just b urself". How do you start the initial chat without coming across mundane? As soon as you come across as mundane as an avg dude, it's over. send help.
when i was younger, i'd go on a date with anyone. the more dates you go on, the more natural it becomes, the easier it becomes and the better you get at it. who cares if she's not good looking?

what are you passionate about? forget about having hobbies, it's good to do things that separate you from everyone else. do standup comedy, write poetry and go to readings, volunteer at a soup kitchen, build chit etc etc
be interesting. do interesting chit.
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
when i was younger, i'd go on a date with anyone. the more dates you go on, the more natural it becomes, the easier it becomes and the better you get at it. who cares if she's not good looking?

what are you passionate about? forget about having hobbies, it's good to do things that separate you from everyone else. do standup comedy, write poetry and go to readings, volunteer at a soup kitchen, build chit etc etc
be interesting. do interesting chit.
lol. dude. we are autistic we need word for word lines we can memorize.
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
when i was younger, i'd go on a date with anyone. the more dates you go on, the more natural it becomes, the easier it becomes and the better you get at it. who cares if she's not good looking?

what are you passionate about? forget about having hobbies, it's good to do things that separate you from everyone else. do standup comedy, write poetry and go to readings, volunteer at a soup kitchen, build chit etc etc
be interesting. do interesting chit.
I feel you on the go on dates part, but don't you feel it's a waste of time on both parties' parts to go on dates you know are pointless, aside from practice? I had enough interaction with decent chicks during school, but now that I'm out, Idk wtf to do.

What being interesting isn't of interest to you? I am passionate about: Math/ML for school and hobby (and hopefully career now that I graduated), lift, read, play piano, speak 3 languages, and see the boys when I can. I have no interest in picking up chit for the sake of being interesting. Am I destined to be FA? I was wondering how you guys pick up girls in your day-to-day operations. Is that even an option for avg dudes anymore?

Take my measlies for the advice and sentiment.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
how do u add value to conversation?? I never have anything to say.
It's simple:
- If you are smart, don't be a know-it-all.
- If you aren't smart, then be funny.
- If you aren't smart and aren't funny, then have interesting life experiences to tell stories about.
- If none of the above apply, then you are boring and that's the worst thing you can be to a woman. Forget about women for a while and go live an interesting life for a couple of years.
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Originally Posted By BigGuy4You⏩
These threads are useless without a little concrete advice from the slayers of the Misc to the autists. How do we go about polishing our personality? inb4 "just b urself". How do you start the initial chat without coming across mundane? As soon as you come across as mundane as an avg dude, it's over. send help.
Come on brah, we are apes wearing clothes. You know what women want. If you aren't mogging every guy in your peer group, she's not interested.
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Originally Posted By BigGuy4You⏩
I feel you on the go on dates part, but don't you feel it's a waste of time on both parties' parts to go on dates you know are pointless, aside from practice? I had enough interaction with decent chicks during school, but now that I'm out, Idk wtf to do.

What being interesting isn't of interest to you? I am passionate about: Math/ML for school and hobby (and hopefully career now that I graduated), lift, read, play piano, speak 3 languages, and see the boys when I can. I have no interest in picking up chit for the sake of being interesting. Am I destined to be FA? I was wondering how you guys pick up girls in your day-to-day operations. Is that even an option for avg dudes anymore?

Take my measlies for the advice and sentiment.
never felt it was a waste of time because there was always the option of getting drunk and making out/hooking up.

piano is good. are you good at it? can you compose? did you ever think about starting a band or something like that? or even playing at a recital? i never ever started playing music bc i thought it would get me laid. i legit love music. it saved my life and gave me purpose on multiple occasions. it fuels me. it feeds me. it's my true love.

that being said,
being in a band is a great way to meet women(don't be a creep and act entitled ever. that's not how any of this works.) and it's something a lot of women will find attractive if it comes up in conversation.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Come on brah, we are apes wearing clothes. You know what women want. If you aren't mogging every guy in your peer group, she's not interested.
I know what your mom wants, but what do quality chicks want? Send help, ty.
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
never felt it was a waste of time because there was always the option of getting drunk and making out/hooking up.

piano is good. are you good at it? can you compose? did you ever think about starting a band or something like that? or even playing at a recital? i never ever started playing music bc i thought it would get me laid. i legit love music. it saved my life and gave me purpose on multiple occasions. it fuels me. it feeds me. it's my true love.

that being said,
being in a band is a great way to meet women(don't be a creep and act entitled ever. that's not how any of this works.) and it's something a lot of women will find attractive if it comes up in conversation.
I'm slightly above average at it, and fuk no, I couldn't compose chit. I've played recitals. I'm probs not good enough to be in a band, tbh. I do like going to live blues/jazz shows in my city though, but not a ton of HBBs getting wet over jazz/blues. I wanna learn how to chat up the waitress or whoever the fuk and try and go that way because I feel like my life/hobbies don't align with meeting too many quality chicks.
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Originally Posted By BigGuy4You⏩
I'm slightly above average at it, and fuk no, I couldn't compose chit. I've played recitals. I'm probs not good enough to be in a band, tbh. I do like going to live blues/jazz shows in my city though, but not a ton of HBBs getting wet over jazz/blues. I wanna learn how to chat up the waitress or whoever the fuk and try and go that way because I feel like my life/hobbies don't align with meeting too many quality chicks.
plenty of women will find you interesting for taking them to a jazz club. especially if you're a cool regular.

no such thing as not being good enough to be in a band. start jamming with some people slightly better than you. srs. if you want you can dm me and i'll be happy to share tips about how to get booked at livenation venues and chit once your chit is rolling but it's a lot of work.
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Originally Posted By BigGuy4You⏩
I wanna learn how to chat up the waitress or whoever the fuk and try and go that way because I feel like my life/hobbies don't align with meeting too many quality chicks.
You were pretty much screwed at "Math/ML", to be honest.

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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
i am easily a "decent guy".

Have a job.
A car.
My own place.
Lean.
5.4 inch penis
Educated
Not a douche.
Gucci shoes


Still never been on a date. Women don't want "decent guys." They want extraordinary guys.
Thats your fault. Getting a date is easy. Girls will tell you they will go on a date with someone much lower on their standards then in a LTR. The problem is i bet your a little bitch boy.

And also, in general I think guys let lust get in the way and dont keep the woman attracted. Its ok to cause a fight, get home late after work(you cant bs with the buddies in the office on a monday night?), get mad, etc. Women get bored easily.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
i am easily a "decent guy".

Have a job.
A car.
My own place.
Lean.
5.4 inch penis
Educated
Not a douche.
Gucci shoes


Still never been on a date. Women don't want "decent guys." They want extraordinary guys.
you slam plastic kunt, you are a 3/10
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I don’t need him to be rich for just dating or fwb. The guys I like currently are all broke and that’s fine. For marriage or LTR I would want him to have money though.

For just dating or fwb my standards are only:

1) physical attraction

2) normal/nice personality
You are definitely a dude

Also can confirm OP. My female friends around my age are always complaining about the dating market for women.

Us dudes are lucky. But LOL at taking relationships seriously.

If you lift, are lean, tall, good looks, and have a big dick, you shouldn't be dating anyone that seriously. Women would definitely be down to have fun with you without having to lock you down.
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The problem with 90% of women is that they refuse to submit. To reach deep down and communicate with the feminine sides God gave them. They are proud, loud, entitled and brainwashed (almost) beyond saving.
Every sloot wants to get married and have children but no one wants to be a real woman. Yet, the expect a Christian-Giga-Slayer-Chad to sweep them off their feet.
If you LARP as a man, you will only find boys, cucks and douche bags. Real women find real men at the snap of a finger.

This is only an issue for White women and some random minorities living in white countries.... Hmmmm... I wonder why?
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
^ ^ ^

My mom had both her legs destroyed and will never walk without crutches again because some azzhole rammed her car head-on at 60MPH in a suicide attempt. She never even saw it coming. But I'm sure Gravity will say that's her fault because she's in control of her life.
I'm really sorry about what happened with your mom, that is truly so tragic. I see your point... some people go through lots of trauma that wasn't their fault and they obviously couldn't control it.
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Notice how Opie’s thread title wasn’t “Most of you don't understand how hard it is for adecentwoman to find a decent guy”.

This is actually an important detail.

ANYONE, regardless of gender, who complains about their failings with the opposite sex probably needs to take a long, hard look in the mirror to see where they are going wrong.

Plus another important element is that ‘decent’ and ‘attractive’ are two completely different things.
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tks op

the motivation I needed, will try after lockdown.
the big teds thread broke my scroll
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Only if they're not decent themselves. How hard is it to be not fat and not a bitch?
A young bull and an old bull were standing atop a hill looking at a bunch of heifers in a field below.

The young bull says "Let's run down this hill and fuk one of those heifers."

The old bull replies "No. Let's walk down there, and fuk them all."
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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
I hear this from some women. They say that women cherish a 'good' guy because they know how hard they are to find. Of course 'good' means them: 1)being attractive, 2) having similar interests, 3) ambition/good career.
This. Ugly or average-looking "good" guys working average jobs (or slightly better jobs) are literally a dime dozen. A 6+/10 woman could find a man like this to settle down with within a day in this age of social media/online dating.

When sloots say "where have all the good guys gone", they mean where are all the handsome, successful Chads with big hearts who want to be monogamous, get married and have and support a family.

There are regional exceptions (like Eastern Europe) where women (even at a young age) settle for genetically inferior goods, but the reasons are almost always economic (i.e. control, stability and resource extraction in a relationship taking priority over the exciting, uncertain emotional roller coaster that a playboy Chad has to offer)
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Originally Posted By GenLebronski⏩
Check out most of the 40+ women in public next time you're out in about. You will thank your lucky stars you're not stuck with one of them.
I think about this sometimes. What percentage of 40-50 year old women slide into a wine habit, ultra high waist everything, and never miss an opportunity to yell at service workers? Same with men, I suppose. Mentally, we're a busted society.
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the main problems people talk about are when both shoot above their league.

Women get tons of attention so they go for the stars when they get attention from a chad 2 points above their /10 scale, then get pissed when he ditches them for someone 2 points higher. If they would stay in their lane and a 6/10 female dated a 6/10 male, they would be treated way better, but no, they save out for the 8/10 male and get butt hurt and "all men are *******s" when he realizes hes wasting his time.


Men are the opposite, they shoot for 8/10s as a 6/10 and claim women are hard to get and they do nothing but cheat and sloot, when if they actually went for a 6/10 as a 6/10 male they would be fine. Also most men rate themselves 2 points higher, where was women rate themselves 2 points lower.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
the main problems people talk about are when both shoot above their league.

Women get tons of attention so they go for the stars when they get attention from a chad 2 points above their /10 scale, then get pissed when he ditches them for someone 2 points higher. If they would stay in their lane and a 6/10 female dated a 6/10 male, they would be treated way better, but no, they save out for the 8/10 male and get butt hurt and "all men are *******s" when he realizes hes wasting his time.


Men are the opposite, they shoot for 8/10s as a 6/10 and claim women are hard to get and they do nothing but cheat and sloot, when if they actually went for a 6/10 as a 6/10 male they would be fine. Also most men rate themselves 2 points higher, where was women rate themselves 2 points lower.
You have a point, and this is especially evident on dating apps.

But lets be honest here: Which gender is more likely to lower their standards first?

You know the answer.
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