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trolling aside, does online dating work for average guys??
05-07-2020, 05:39 AM
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It’s better to look at online dating in terms of ROI rather than some black or white ‘does it work’ or ‘does it not work’ thinking...
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
05-07-2020, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
this dude speaks truthIt’s better to look at online dating in terms of ROI rather than some black or white ‘does it work’ or ‘does it not work’ thinking...
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
05-07-2020, 11:56 AM
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Absolutely does not work.
I have been swiping for 3 years, had one date total. Which was disaster. I had few matches, but does not go anywhere.
I have been swiping for 3 years, had one date total. Which was disaster. I had few matches, but does not go anywhere.
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05-07-2020, 01:46 PM
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Only for Chad. It works OKAY for me but I took hours to get good photos of myself via selfies. I get about 20 matches on Tinder on average and most of them come on the weekend (Fri-Sunday)
If you can, get professional photos done
If you can, get professional photos done
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05-07-2020, 10:19 PM
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No. I'm an average looking guy and I've spent countless hours on all the different dating apps, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc. and I don't get any matches at all. However, when I change my pics to Chad's pics, all of a sudden I get a bunch of matches.
05-08-2020, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
TLDR ; It doesn't work for Mr Average.It’s better to look at online dating in terms of ROI rather than some black or white ‘does it work’ or ‘does it not work’ thinking...
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
For the average guy, online datingcanwork, but you’re likely to have a chitty ROI. In other words, you’re gonna have to spend a lot of time and effort to acquire one measly lead, who you probably wouldn’t have looked at twice in RL, and there’s still a 50/50 chance whether she shows up to the date.
In short: Online dating has a poor ROI for the average guy.
05-08-2020, 04:41 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Watched the first 12 mins and yea... can’t say I disagree with a single thing he said.this dude speaks truth
05-08-2020, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
he speaks the truth, he gives a lot of red pill reality especially for blacks. I've called into his show beforeWatched the first 12 mins and yea... can’t say I disagree with a single thing he said.
05-08-2020, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I've always wondered how it is for Blacks. It seems like Black's ROI for approaching black women IRL is much higher than white men on white women.he speaks the truth, he gives a lot of red pill reality especially for blacks. I've called into his show before
05-08-2020, 11:00 AM
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I am sure they'd find some success, but it would be an extremely poor numbers game
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05-08-2020, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By inb4everything⏩
No its definitely not, there are a lot of Tyrones and relatively few good looking black chicks. so the fine one's have even more absurd standards than typical woman. Avg or below average blacks are on the struggle time.I've always wondered how it is for Blacks. It seems like Black's ROI for approaching black women IRL is much higher than white men on white women.
05-08-2020, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I see. There are lot of whale black women which unfortunately does fk up the market.No its definitely not, there are a lot of Tyrones and relatively few good looking black chicks. so the fine one's have even more absurd standards than typical woman. Avg or below average blacks are on the struggle time.
05-08-2020, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By inb4everything⏩
yup. even outside of the fat chicks, ghetto chicks, and single moms its relatively hard to find black chicks with good faces. Its why so many black dudes date outI see. There are lot of whale black women which unfortunately does fk up the market.
05-09-2020, 07:26 PM
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No. Look at the OKC data which confirms it. Even if you have some success, you’ll almost always date down.
I think it was ~80% of men rated below average in attractiveness by women.
I think it was ~80% of men rated below average in attractiveness by women.
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05-09-2020, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The trick is to work on not being completely average. If you can raise your SMV by a point, from say a 5 to a 6-6.5, you won't do as well as the top 20 obviously, but you can still hack it.No. Look at the OKC data which confirms it. Even if you have some success, you’ll almost always date down.
I think it was ~80% of men rated below average in attractiveness by women.
I think it was ~80% of men rated below average in attractiveness by women.
05-09-2020, 08:29 PM
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I dont think so. I used to do extremely well online dating with a great face.
I gained 20 lbs and lost my cheekbones and I failed ABYSMALLY .. uninstalled the whole thing and turning my diet around
I gained 20 lbs and lost my cheekbones and I failed ABYSMALLY .. uninstalled the whole thing and turning my diet around
05-10-2020, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
Not with that hot body and abs you're not average. Try not working out for a few months and bring up your bodyfat up to like 25% then try online dating.I consider myself average and did not really have any issues with online dating.
05-10-2020, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
First off, I agree with you - it’s highly doubtful Beararms is average unless he’s dating unattractive women.Not with that hot body and abs you're not average. Try not working out for a few months and bring up your bodyfat up to like 25% then try online dating.
That said, if you’re 25% body fat then it’s within your control to resolve that. Anyone can get an above average physique with the work.
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I wonder what online dating would be for an average looking guy that's rich. I kind of thought about doing a social experiment where I rent an exotic car, take pictures with it and make it look like I'm rich, and then try online dating again to see if I get more matches. I wouldn't actually try dating those girls though, I just want to know if money can make a Timothy competitive with Chad.
05-11-2020, 05:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
It's known for the fact they can. Only difference Chad got girl's wanting his genes and rich guy got gir's wanting his money.I wonder what online dating would be for an average looking guy that's rich. I kind of thought about doing a social experiment where I rent an exotic car, take pictures with it and make it look like I'm rich, and then try online dating again to see if I get more matches. I wouldn't actually try dating those girls though, I just want to know if money can make a Timothy competitive with Chad.
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