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post 1605107931 05-16-2020, 08:14 PM
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Do women still get cold approached?

Went down by the water today and posted up next to 4 young ladies in the 200-250 pound range. Within about 2 hours, I saw them get approached 4 times by groups of dudes.

My favorite were these 2 russian dudes who didn't speak english very well. One of them immediately swung for the fences;

"How about come viz us? We heff drink, a good muzik, and mebbe later... you know..."
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post 1605108281 05-16-2020, 08:19 PM
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Just LOL @ asking the Misc if women get cold approached.
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I rarely get cold approached and when I do, it's not typically someone I'd be interested in. It's usually either old groce guys or guys that are way too young for me. I also don't dress like a thot and walk around with my tits and ass hanging out.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Some female miscers have said they do but I very rarely get approached. Maybe a few times a year.

Last time I recall was at the gym months ago way before COVID.
Aren't you like 40?

No offense, but not that many men are going to approach a 40 year old lady
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I would get cold approached by girls in middle and high school
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Some female miscers have said they do but I very rarely get approached. Maybe a few times a year.

Last time I recall was at the gym months ago way before COVID.
you gotta lose some weight to get down to the range of the ones that OPie is talking about and it should start happening
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post 1605108561 05-16-2020, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
I would get cold approached by girls in middle and high school
You peaked too soon
post 1605108571 05-16-2020, 08:22 PM
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The last time and first time I hit the club I cold approached a table of 3 girls. So yes.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Some female miscers have said they do but I very rarely get approached. Maybe a few times a year.

Last time I recall was at the gym months ago way before COVID.
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I rarely get cold approached and when I do, it's not typically someone I'd be interested in. It's usually either old groce guys or guys that are way too young for me. I also don't dress like a thot and walk around with my tits and ass hanging out.
Well cold approaching during actual day hours is still rare. During prime time at bars and clubs is when it's more likely to happen. Since you both don't really do that, then no wonder it doesn't actually happen to you.

Legz, dressing like a thot has no correlation to getting cold approached. Being in an environment where it's more likely to happen makes more sense.

Source: I approached 3 fully clothed women, at night, in a bar/club patio. They weren't dressed like thots, but looked attractive nonetheless.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Some female miscers have said they do but I very rarely get approached. Maybe a few times a year.

Last time I recall was at the gym months ago way before COVID.
you know why.............



and these are the pics you've shared....... can only imagine your normal everyday look
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
The last time and first time I hit the club I cold approached a table of 3 girls. So yes.





Well cold approaching during actual day hours is still rare. During prime time at bars and clubs is when it's more likely to happen. Since you both don't really do that, then no wonder it doesn't actually happen to you.

Legz, dressing like a thot has no correlation to getting cold approached. Being in an environment where it's more likely to happen makes more sense.

Source: I approached 3 fully clothed women, at night, in a bar/club patio.
Approaching at bars and clubs doesn't count as a "cold approach". It's standard behaviour that every man there is doing.

Not every man in the gym is approaching, so if you are aesthetic and carry yourself well and you are the only one doing it, you are going to score hot gym biddies. Same with on the bus if you take it, in college classes, at stores (grocery store cashiers are very easy to pick up) etc. The value of the cold approach is directly proportional to how much balls it requires to do.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
The last time and first time I hit the club I cold approached a table of 3 girls. So yes.

Well cold approaching during actual day hours is still rare. During prime time at bars and clubs is when it's more likely to happen. Since you both don't really do that, then no wonder it doesn't actually happen to you.

Legz, dressing like a thot has no correlation to getting cold approached. Being in an environment where it's more likely to happen makes more sense.

Source: I approached 3 fully clothed women, at night, in a bar/club patio. They weren't dressed like thots, but looked attractive nonetheless.
True, I have been approached at bars. Also, does getting hit on by co-workers count as being cold approached? I don't think it does since they know me. But that happens too.
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post 1605109481 05-16-2020, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
Approaching at bars and clubs doesn't count as a "cold approach". It's standard behaviour that every man there is doing.

Not every man in the gym is approaching, so if you are aesthetic and carry yourself well and you are the only one doing it, you are going to score hot gym biddies. Same with on the bus if you take it, in college classes, at stores (grocery store cashiers are very easy to pick up) etc. The value of the cold approach is directly proportional to how much balls it requires to do.
From your favorite intellectual spot Quora:
Cold approach is something you use when you're meeting someone you have no social connection with. Unlike with a warm approach (to friends), you're meeting a complete and total stranger without even the “friend of a friend” buffer to ease your way.
https://www.quora.com/What-does-cold-approach-mean

Location does not change the defenition even if it's commonplace at a club. So unless you're the official authority on it, your rule on location holds zero value.

Approaching a stranger = Cold approach even if its a bar, church, or the grocery store.
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Does not happen in the metoo era

Hollering in the ghetto or approaching at a night club does not count
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Ninja pic

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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Ninja pic

bruh, absolutely nobody was asking for pics of those swamp things lmao
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
bruh, absolutely nobody was asking for pics of those swamp things lmao
Guys kept approaching! At least 2 of them were ~12%-14% bodyfat, tall good looking dudes.
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Originally Posted By Iluvmud⏩
you know why.............



and these are the pics you've shared....... can only imagine your normal everyday look
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
you gotta lose some weight to get down to the range of the ones that OPie is talking about and it should start happening
I’ve seen silence speaks body awhile ago, specifically requested spoon pic. She is in good shape
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Guys kept approaching! At least 2 of them were ~12%-14% bodyfat, tall good looking dudes.
So you couldn't catch ninja pics of those alleged tall good looking dudes?

Callin' bullchit on that.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
From your favorite intellectual spot Quora:



https://www.quora.com/What-does-cold-approach-mean

Location does not change the defenition even if it's commonplace at a club. So unless you're the official authority on it, your rule on location holds zero value.

Approaching a stranger = Cold approach even if its a bar, church, or the grocery store.
I agree with you. It's still cold approaching even if at a bar if it's someone you don't know.
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I’ve seen silence speaks body awhile ago, specifically requested spoon pic. She is in good shape
Don't waste your breath. Like 7 people have already verified she's not fat and no one wants to listen because a previous mod fibbed and said the fat chick in the pic is her.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Ninja pic

If they did get approached they would not know.
I bet they get approached by fellow pigs all the time in that swamp place and don't even realize it. They think the pig wants their food, when in reality the pig wants sex.
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I still cold approach in bars and clubs. Works 25% of the time all the time.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
So you couldn't catch ninja pics of those alleged tall good looking dudes?

Callin' bullchit on that.
Brah I'm 0% fraud. Next time I will get pics of dudes for the misc. One (Luke) did politely ask me if any of them were mine before he moved in for the shot.
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I stopped doing it because overall, it was more beneficial to women than myself. More often than not, I will get rejected and she will get a self esteem boost from the encounter. So I don't see the point.
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They do, but far more likely for higher tier women. It's so easy to use dating apps to get laid that the question is: why go out of your way to cold approach now?

It still happens of course - I know plenty of women for whom it is a reasonably regular occurrence. If it is a decent approach, these women actually like it - because higher tier women don't really use dating apps anyway. And it takes far more effort than a swipe, angle photos, and a cheesy pickup line guys read off reddit or whatever the f*ck.
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Yes they happen all the time. You gotta have some intuition though—timing, circumstances, environment, etc.

Also, thanks for sharing that picture op.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Some female miscers have said they do but I very rarely get approached. Maybe a few times a year.

Last time I recall was at the gym months ago way before COVID.
Pretty much this. It happens rarely.

Also, it wasn't that much more when I was younger. It also depends where you are and what kind of neighborhood etc.
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