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post 1610120981 07-09-2020, 06:00 PM
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post 1610121341 07-09-2020, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Only if you’re strong enough to fight in court.

In my case I couldn’t because of a combination of threats/fear and trauma bonding.
There is only one way for a divorce to be considered unfair to one of the parts.


Person A has more money than Person B when they got married.

Person A and Person B starts the divorce process.

Person B takes half of Person A's money.

Unfair for Person A.
post 1610121861 07-09-2020, 06:11 PM
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Cliffs?

Meh never mind...

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post 1610122791 07-09-2020, 06:23 PM
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post 1610123421 07-09-2020, 06:29 PM
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^^ oh I see it. Thats indeed a fuked up situation. And yeah, it was unfair.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No we didn’t have anything when we got married and built everything during the marriage.

Spoiler!
he was a chad. now you fukk low self esteem overweight young college boys so you'll never get hurt by a chad again


PS pls don’t quote because I’ll delete this post later.
ok.
post 1610123541 07-09-2020, 06:31 PM
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That definitely is fukked up and explains both the financial and emotional chit.

Sorry you had to go through that
You would be surprised just how much time I have to waste.
post 1610140971 07-09-2020, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By bfdehewdbyywhn⏩
heard that too

filmed her at the gym then took her back to my place



Thats really sexy.
DAMN
She's not yours....its just your turn
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Originally Posted By brosapiens⏩
Found her business FB account.
Cute girl but huge ... No offense but my alcohol is wearing off.

https://www.********.com/silencespea...4195469887302/
We just gonna ignore this?
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Originally Posted By 21inchArmss⏩
Thats really sexy.
DAMN
that’s SilentbutDeadly
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post 1610145391 07-09-2020, 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Low test
Build like a pyramid.. damn
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No we didn’t have anything when we got married and built everything during the marriage.
Your guy sounds like a major fuken cokface though. Have trouble believing there werent signs

Are you saying one day he flipped a switch and decided to be all those things?

Sounds like you might have been blinded by something to be so delusional. What was it?
post 1610148311 07-10-2020, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted By brosapiens⏩
Found her business FB account.
Cute girl but huge ... No offense but my alcohol is wearing off.

https://www.********.com/silencespea...4195469887302/
Tons of vids about mental health and ****. Could be her lol.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Dik?
Not gonna lie, Silence seems like the type of woman to never learn and have to learn the hard way

Dont think things said will matter
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post 1610151521 07-10-2020, 02:26 AM
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post 1610151601 07-10-2020, 02:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh no I definitely did learn the hard way. I studied his personality type and techniques after the breakup. And I understand the flags and dynamic now. I don’t think I would ever fall for someone like that again because I’ve learned about the signs.
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post 1610152921 07-10-2020, 03:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh no I definitely did learn the hard way. I studied his personality type and techniques after the breakup. And I understand the flags and dynamic now. I don’t think I would ever fall for someone like that again because I’ve learned about the signs.
Classic case of Cluster C personality meets Cluster B personality. Not easy to change your type and you'll fall for a narcissistic type again unless you don't do some CBT on your own or with a psychologist.

This is rooted in childhood. Were you bullied because you were fat or something? SRS
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post 1610153191 07-10-2020, 03:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I was never fat and I just had a normal childhood.

Yes I’ve been in counseling and also have done a lot of reading about that personality type so I think I’ll recognize the signs next time.

Have not been attracted to those types afterwards and I just look for normal/nice guys now. No more charming and charismatic types.
Not attracted or not going for them? lol
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Silencespeaks would be better suited for reddit as her ilk post there.
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Silencespeaks would be better suited for reddit as her ilk post there.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Your guy sounds like a major fuken cokface though. Have trouble believing there werent signs

Are you saying one day he flipped a switch and decided to be all those things?

Sounds like you might have been blinded by something to be so delusional. What was it?
Can you blame her ex? Seriously? She's retarded.
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Question for silencespeaks... If a male beats up another male to defend his girl's honor, is that a sign that the first male will be abusive towards his girl too? The first male is also very charming and manipulative. Is he emotionally abusive too? What should I stay away from? Thanks.
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its a dude

think about it, it would take all of 2 seconds to prove its a female with a pic and misc hat of their body and no face shown. Also consider this person craves attention so there is no reason for them not to do it.

100% a dude
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh no ofc there were many signs and looking back I see all of them. Just at the time I either didn’t see the signs, or was in denial, or didn’t understand them etc. I was extremely naive when we met, never really had come across manipulative or bad people before, had zero street smarts and would’ve believed anything. So I was very easy to manipulate.

And on the surface he presents as an extremely charming and charismatic person. He has 10/10 people skills and uses 10/10 techniques like mirroring, love bombing, gifts, charm etc. On the surface he treated me like a princess, he spoiled me with attention, gifts, trips. I was living a Disney princess life and never had to lift a finger around the house. He acted like he loved me and he told everyone I was the best thing to ever happen to him etc.

So in my naïveté I thought he was my soulmate and love of my life. I genuinely believed he loved me and he was a good person. Because that’s how he presented and I wasn’t aware that people can lie about that.
You've always alluded to the divorce being rough, but you've never gone into detail about it.

But I will let you know that it's never too late to move forward, and I know that there's a part of you that hangs onto whatever feelings you might have had because it's hard to come back from getting burned that badly. But don't do yourself a disservice and prevent yourself from ever experiencing vulnerability again.

In terms of lottery, you won the lottery of chit tier partners. Plenty of people in this world who just aren't like that. Don't let your experiences with one person color the rest of your experiences for a lifetime.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
You should see her flappy tits. Like folded over melted packs of butter
*barfffffffffffffffffff*

Goddamn I hate floppy, saggy tits. So pathetic and sad.
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