And Jesus walked around calling people whores?

Even if you believe in Jesus as you do, he'd be ashamed of you.

Take a breather, re-evaluate what you're doing here.

You are going to hell unless you repent of your devil worship.

Jesus is the God of Abraham.

Allah is Satan.

Uhh yeah can you blame us? I don’t want to pay for all that student loan chit especially when you’re getting fatter and uglier and want to get pregnant, and then I have to sacrifice myself so you can make a little version of me, and then I die at 45 and you get everything. Fuk that.

He's charming.

Honestly, he won't be the first nor the last to behave as he does. His defining schtick is his religious zealousness, though, and that gets entertaining to me.

Wouldn't be the first time someone told me I was going to hell. Definitely won't be the last.

Finances is one of the biggest makers or breakers in marriage.

You would be amazed how mothers who do not love their baby's fathers treat their own baby.

What do you mean?

If your mom hates your dad, she will take it out on you, blaming you for "trapping" her with him. All the abuse she wants to exact upon your father will be instead inflicted on you. And if your father isn't emotionally supportive of her, she will seek it from you, and may even abuse you in other ways later when you grow older.

Do your future children a favor, and don't EVER try to start a family with someone you hate. And avoid mentally ill women who hate themselves because they will always view their child as an extension of themselves and hate them too.

What's funny is that he's asking pictures while calling you a whore.It's Wincel, his mama was abusive.

Good god.

Shut up whore

if ur mom loved u growing up, u don't even know how good your life was srs

it's something everyone takes for granted

My parents always viewed me as an extension of themselves. My dad would even say that. "You're part of me. You're an extension of me." It sounds nice at first until you realize they hate themselves and then they take it out on you. It's a classic narcissism thing. A lot of abusive parents tell their kids "this hurts me more than it hurts you". Yeah bullchit. Then why am I the one with the bruises fuking kunt. Then they tell you you are better off with them than a foster family because they will rape u and kill u in a foster home. Yeahok.gif

If the love isn't there between a man and a woman, then it won't be there for their kid who always reminds mom of dad and vice versa. Unless a person is really a good person inside, they won't distinguish between the two. You'll be "your asshoel father's son" to mom or your "whore of a mother's son" to dad. Always.

That's why it is so important to only marry someone u rly trust and are sure isn't a total psycho. And if they show signs of being abusive to ur kids, u need to get ur kids out of there asap.

it's namek

I was very lucky in that regard. But what I am dissatisfied with my current relationship? And she expects us to get married and have kids, and I don’t want that. What are your thoughts?

Well u should ask urself if u love her. If u don't, why are u in a relationship? And if u rly do, then what are u afraid of? All women eventually expect marriage and kids. And if u rly love her and she rly loves u, it's not bad. That's how things are supposed to work. The issue is how srs are u both about the marriage. Will it last? Will u stand by her when she's fat and old? Will u raise ur kids together? Could ur marriage survive tragedy like a miscarriage or death of a child? Can u see urself growing old together? If the answer to all that is no, and ur just there for sex and fun, and it never grows into anything more then it isn't a real relationship really. You have to be honest with yourself too because if u enter into a marriage and resent her and aren't really happy, you'll probably cheat down the road or turn the resentment inward and start avoiding her and become a workaholic, drinking, or worst case abusing her and the kids. So make sure u rly make the best decision for yourself is all I'm saying. It will hurt her to hear that u don't want marriage, but it will hurt her even more if u stick around and fraud for a decade and a half or some chit and raise a kid without putting your heart into it and taking it srsly.

The end goal of dating in the end IS to start a family. IDK how young u are, but one day, it will turn on like a programmed thing and u will wish u had a family and kids. For me, the desire to have a loving family and kids is even more strong than sex. I'm sure it's fun to bang sloots and have a good time when u r young, but eventually u have to think about ur legacy before u die. And the only real legacy ppl have is their kids for the most part. That's when u become a grown up basically is when the focus of ur life goes from u to ur kids' future. But you know I could be wrong. I mean there are some couples that don't have kids ever and remain married. It is what it is. Nobody can really tell the future of ur relationship. Go with your gut.

Can you ever shut the fuk up? I’m having a conversation, stop butting in you dumb whore.

Fuk. That’s what I’m afraid of. Delaying the inevitable. And I don’t want to hurt her. Dude almost everything you said is wise af. Do you have experience with this?

Remind me to Rep, for what it’s worth. Thanks bro.

Wow

Only from seeing what happens when relationships go horribly wrong. So take whatever I tell u with a grain of salt since I'm seeing it from an outside perspective and as the end result of a bad relationship.

U gotta go with ur gut. Some people never get really srs but stay together forever as gf bf or as a married couple with no kids or w/e. And they have a fuking cuck open marriage and god knows what else. There's a variety of ppl out there in the world and if u can imagine it, someone is doing it. That being said, I believe a man should love his wife and be 100% committed to raising his kids with her. And it really is a lifelong commitment. But these days, marriage is just a fuking word so...

My only question to u is WHY do u not want to marry this girl? If it's just fear, that's something else. Ask yourself why. I mean. Ur fuking her right? U get along? What is it specifically that is keeping u from taking things to the next step? If u identify that, u will know what to do.

Wow Ausaric is back. This thread is a complete mind f*ck.

Dude can you post some of those videos you posted when you hacked up sh*t with swords. You are one autistic toolbag. After Starwars kid, you get the silver medal. Lollllllllllllllllll

Have you ever been in love, or have anything resembling that feeling?

Honestly, I don't know. I don't think so. I think all I have ever felt was infatuation. Love is something different as I understand it. That's a hard question to answer tho because u wouldn't know it was the real deal until it happened to you, right?

I apologize, that was uncalled for. Sorry.

EDIT: Actually, this is the Internet. So nothing matters.

You would have to let someone close enough to experience it but I doubt you'd be able to trust anyone that much.

Damn, mustve gotten to you lmao. You get insulted 1000 times a day yet never give a ****.


Btw he is like 6'4", and around 300 lbs srs.

Basically, the debt thing for women is just one red flag. I'm sure there are a lot of women whose only vice is shytty finances. But the important thing is to make sure the woman u are thinking of marrying is stable enough to be a mom, and that u can really commit to being by her side and raising ur kids the whole way thru without any resentment. U have to be mature enough as a man to handle ur own feelings and communicate so nothing boils into a terrible rage and manifests itself as abuse to ur wife or kids, alcoholism, etc. It happens to a lot of people who simply entered into an unhappy marriage because they were both naive and weren't really sure what they wanted out of life. Also people change and when u marry, ur tying urself to them for better or worse. Sure she's nice now, but what happens 5-8 years from now when she gets a little bored of sex with u and gets a crush on Chad? Will she be open and honest with you and still remain loyal, and will you guys work to spice things up and reconnect? Or will u keep distancing urselves and building the anger until one day u walk in on her with Jamal's dink balls deep in her throat and she reminds u she's getting half ur shyt and the kid?

It's just being a grown up really and knowing and understanding what life is about and what it means to have a family with someone.

I really don't trust anyone. Like when I was younger, I had a few girls come up and talk to me and I usually assumed it was some kind of prank lol. I've had some ultra autismo moments. Like one time early in college, a pretty attractive brunette from a class I was in walked up to me at a bench in the park and randomly said hey how's it going. What's your major etc? And I just sort of looked directly forward expressionlessly and answered in brief concise answers because I was really nervous and I assumed someone had put her up to coming and talking to me. And I just stared forward, and she was like "Hey do you want some pretzels?" She had a bag of pretzels she had bought. I was just like "NO THX" and kept staring forward and she was standing directly in front of me. I wasn't making eye contact. LOL my eyes were crotch level, and she was like "...Uhhh...are my pants messed up or something?" And I'm just like "No." and keep staring because IDK what to say. And then she just is like "ooookay well have a nice day" and walked off. LOL probably the most autistic moment of my life. I legit was thinking they had fuked with the pretzels or that some of her friends were watching and were gonna laugh at me or something. Legit didn't make eye contact with her or look in her direction for the rest of the term and changed my seat to be on the other end of the lecture hall.

I've come a long way since then in terms of interacting with females, but yeah. The trust level is the same as it was.

Lmaoo this made my **** night