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post 1611346071 07-22-2020, 10:39 AM
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I generally agree but think it's very difficult personally to find someone that, overall, beats being single especially during 20's.

Dealing with drama, moods, nagging, more stress, losing freedom on one hand, but avoiding loneliness and having fun and companionship on the other hand.

I think the latter factors begin to outweigh the former as one gets older into their 30's/40's though. If I felt the same way I did at 25 (never felt lonely, never desired companionship), I'd be perfectly fine living out my life single and free and retiring younger.

Of course those factors all weigh differently for different people, so I don't think we should project too much. But I reckon it's fair to assume loneliness would set in for 99% of people later in life.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I generally agree but think it's very difficult to find someone that, overall, beats being single especially during 20's.

Dealing with drama, moods, nagging, more stress, losing freedom on one hand, but avoiding loneliness and having fun and companionship on the other hand.

I think the latter factors begin to outweigh the former as one gets older into their 30's/40's though. If I felt the same way I did at 25 (never felt lonely, never desired companionship), I'd be perfectly fine living out my life single and free and retiring younger.

Of course those factors all weigh differently for different people, so I don't think we should project too much. But I reckon it's fair to assume loneliness would set in for 99% of people later in life.
I was lonely when I was young.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Of course those factors all weigh differently for different people, so I don't think we should project too much.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I was lonely when I was young.
Most people are. I wasn't, so I think it's important for us not to project too hard.

If you completely remove the loneliness factor, plus the desire for companionship, is it still so bad staying single? Not really.
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post 1611346701 07-22-2020, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Most people are. I wasn't, so I think it's important for us not to project too hard.

If you completely remove the loneliness factor, plus the desire for companionship, is it still so bad staying single? Not really.
I agree with this. My friend who is my age has stayed single for years and I always ask if she's lonely and she says that she isn't. She's always doing stuff and has friends. I'm too introverted to be single.
post 1611347371 07-22-2020, 10:53 AM
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rich, loving and healthy family > rich, good looking, single > poor, LDAR, single > poor, chit marriage, chit family
post 1611348151 07-22-2020, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Born2Roam⏩
rich, loving and healthy family > rich, good looking, single > poor, LDAR, single > poor, chit marriage, chit family
Yes, it's definitely better to be single than in a bad relationship.
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post 1611348631 07-22-2020, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted By AltarOfPlagues⏩
you are on the wrong forum
Not really. It is just the "negative types on relationships" who tend to be the most vocal. This thread is a nice change of pace to be honest.
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post 1611355371 07-22-2020, 12:23 PM
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post 1611355521 07-22-2020, 12:26 PM
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post 1611356651 07-22-2020, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah normally I agree 100%. But during isolation the loneliness messed with my head and I actually started thinking that any marriage is better than divorce. That a cheating spouse or addict spouse or abusive spouse etc is all still much preferable over divorce. Now rationally I know ofc that is not true but thatโ€™s how isolation can affect your mind and twist things.
Did you get anxiety? That's the really horrible one.
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Originally Posted By AltarOfPlagues⏩
its really fukin easy to physically train a child they are weak and slow.

some chit seem easy but actually make your life harder. when you never fold and put away your clothes you can't ever find the shiit you want in the pile. thats how parenting is, you smoke your kids so they fall asleep at 8-8:30
My son is wore smooth out and is in his bed by 8:00 pm every night. He wears himself out mostly but I do help it along. Since I've started working out at the house I take him outside with when I'm doing my kettlebell complexes and give him one of those plastic baseball bats. He just swings away with that thing trying to copy me and getting down into the push up position and back up again. He's 2 so there is no form, rhyme or reason to any of it but he seems to enjoy it, I get to spend more time with him, it wears him out and gives my wife a chance to get things done inside without him being all up under her so its a win for everyone
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post 1611364051 07-22-2020, 01:51 PM
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Singlecels are on suicide watch

Def a pathetic existence

Imagine Being 50 and spending your Fridayโ€™s Worried about $1 beers at the local pub, banging old loose pussy hags, obsessing over the latest local nfl team trades, crying to sleep over the oneinitis who got away, playing call of duty eating Doritos and hot dogs, having no sense of community, watching your friends and their families enjoy life, never being invited anywhere, working at the local factory listening to classic rock, wearing a bandana and leather jacket


****k that is worse than hell
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I'd like to find a good woman to wife up...trouble is at my age, the ones left are clinically insane, or single moms.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Who wants to chip in on a misc oldcel co-housing project?

- gym (duh)
- nice laundry room ('cause gym)
- big garage (car guys)
- kitchen inside and out (protonz)
- dog park (puppers)
- garden
- gun range
- workshop
- max available internet service

And errybody gets a suite w/sitting area, bed, bath, kitchenette with thick walls because reasons.

I'm available to be house mom/manager.
As house mom what's the house smashing rules?
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Jakes on you..I only do it few times a year so it always feels 'fresh' like the first time boyo!
Birthdays and Christmas?

Rich you think I can make it my goal to experience "I do" a couple times at different weddings of my own?
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Originally Posted By potbellymadar⏩
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As house mom what's the house smashing rules?
Don't ask, don't tell?
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Don't ask, don't tell?
I might have a spot in my harem opening up. Got some questions though...

Are you of child bearing age?

How's your cooking?

What specific type of Slav are you descended from? East, west or south?
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
I can agree with this as a happily married guy, actually. I'd hate to have to go back to dating. When I was younger I dreaded the idea of hitting 40, and yet here I am - more healthy (mind, body and soul) than I have ever been, with plenty of cash flow to boot.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yep I did and it was terrible. Usually I can manage anxiety fine by going out to do fun things and going to the gym and self care like salons and visiting friends and family etc.

During lockdown that all stopped and I was just alone with my thoughts so that got pretty bad. Even started having PTSD type symptoms like flashbacks. Made me realize Iโ€™m really not over my divorce at all even though itโ€™s been many years.
I started getting some bouts of anxiety after my big breakup. I hate to admit it, but getting another gf seemed to help. Of course you can still get it even within a relationship, but the feeling of being alone can be a trigger.

I also think too much freedom can be disconcerting sometimes. When you are alone and completely free to do anything, it can be overwhelming. Whereas the structure and responsibilities of a family life (or even to another person) can set some direction.

I've thought about this a lot. Complete freedom is the best option if you don't desire companionship; but limiting that freedom through responsibility is typically better for the human condition.

I also believe humans are bigger slaves to our genes than we recognize. We desire certain roles innately.
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Singlecell checking in.

10 year long term didnt end up in marriage/kids. Now too old to start over. FML.

Good news is I wont live long enough to get dementia anyways, so I got that going for me.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes I absolutely was much happier when I was married. I donโ€™t like being single. But marriage is not something you can just replace.

But yes I think at this point the only way I could really get over the loss is a new relationship. Iโ€™ve done pretty much everything else youโ€™re supposed to do to heal from divorce plus itโ€™s been many years. Really nothing else left to try and I think itโ€™s only a new love that could finally let me get over it.
I'm sorry all that happened to you and it sounds like it really messed you up. You'd be much happier if you found an age appropriate partner. Not saying you have date a 50 y/o but you'd likely have more in common with someone within 10 years of you. I can't imagine you have much to talk about with a 23 y/o guy
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