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post 1611892891 07-28-2020, 10:42 AM
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How often do you guys see the girls you are dating?

Been seeing this girl for a month. Usually we hangout twice a week. She spends the night every time so it bleeds into the next day a bit. She is pushing for more, but I have put my foot down on that. I honestly think she would be cool with hanging 7 days a week. I like my free time and space so twice a week every week is even pushing it for me. Am I weird? Or is she too clingy? How often are you seeing your girls?
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post 1611893461 07-28-2020, 10:50 AM
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When I do date I see them pretty much everyday as much as I can.
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post 1611893521 07-28-2020, 10:52 AM
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She lives with me and has zero social life. So every. single. day.
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post 1611893971 07-28-2020, 10:58 AM
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Usually only a couple times a week since I like my alone time.

When things start getting serious I let her spend the night on weekends only.
post 1611894151 07-28-2020, 10:59 AM
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Once a week is optimal.
post 1611894291 07-28-2020, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayl12345⏩
She lives with me and has zero social life. So every. single. day.
This, especially now with Covid cuz I have less to do & we live in a small studio. Feelsbadman. This is sadly how all LTRs seem to go. Enjoy your freedom while it lasts, OP. Once you two move in together, you can kiss the sweet taste of freedom goodbye. Throw some kids into the mix, & it’s officially game over for being your own man, boyo.
post 1611894361 07-28-2020, 11:01 AM
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some people everyday / some people 3-4 times a week
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post 1611894421 07-28-2020, 11:02 AM
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Like once or twice a week but the wife still thinks that's too much
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post 1611894651 07-28-2020, 11:05 AM
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2-3 times a week depending on my work schedule and if my wife actin paranoid


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Originally Posted By altarofplagues⏩
2-3 times a week depending on my work schedule and if my wife actin paranoid


ahhhh fuk you bro lol
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post 1611895281 07-28-2020, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By 1slo5oh⏩
Like once or twice a week but the wife still thinks that's too much
Sounds like you have a stage 5 clinger on your hands brah. Better go NC
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post 1611895391 07-28-2020, 11:13 AM
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Me and my ex would see each other everyday and night.
post 1611896361 07-28-2020, 11:22 AM
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I see my main chick once a week usually and twice on the rare occasion. My other 3 OGs come around once every week but sometimes every other week. Just depends on their dot and if we both have free time. I started living my life this way after I realized I couldn't stand seeing the same chick 3+ days a week. Hate that sht SRS. Could never live with a girl no matter how much I think I like her.
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post 1611896601 07-28-2020, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
Been seeing this girl for a month. Usually we hangout twice a week. She spends the night every time so it bleeds into the next day a bit. She is pushing for more, but I have put my foot down on that. I honestly think she would be cool with hanging 7 days a week. I like my free time and space so twice a week every week is even pushing it for me. Am I weird? Or is she too clingy? How often are you seeing your girls?
You mentioned she would be cool seeing every day of the week. She wants to see you more, so do it.
If twice a week is pushing it, break up with her because you're wasting her time and yours.
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post 1611896671 07-28-2020, 11:26 AM
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My last relationship almost felt like every single day but it was 5-6 times a week. I was working full time, and she was in school like 2 days a week. So when she wasn't in school, she was at my house or I was at hers. I did feel like it was a little too much. I'd say when you are just dating, 3-4 times a week is the sweet spot. Any more it will be suffocating, and any less you kind of are like not dating. As you become more serious then you probably start spending more time together. I actually encourage you to spend more time together. If you want to move in with them, better get a good idea of what that looks like before hand rather than after.
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post 1611896681 07-28-2020, 11:26 AM
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I think it's hard to date someone when you two have incompatible ideas of how much you'd like to see each other.

My girlfriend and I took two years to move in together. For awhile we saw each other twice a week, crept up to 3-4, started spending the night, and it all happened very organically until we realized we just wanted to hang out together a bunch more than we were. It's not that we don't have independent lives and hobbies--less so during COVID--but most relationships, I think, gradually move in this direction at some point as you bond.

It can take a long time. I think we stuck with 2 x a week for a year or more.

If the relationship doesn't start /eventually/ moving toward you wanting to see the person more, you may not be that into her.
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post 1611896781 07-28-2020, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Could never live with a girl no matter how much I think I like her.
Don’t do it bro. Trust me.
post 1611900181 07-28-2020, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Strawng⏩
Don’t do it bro. Trust me.
Definitely never will. I love having my own space and I'm too clean/organized for 99% of chicks to keep up.
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
I see my main chick once a week usually and twice on the rare occasion. My other 3 OGs come around once every week but sometimes every other week. Just depends on their dot and if we both have free time. I started living my life this way after I realized I couldn't stand seeing the same chick 3+ days a week. Hate that sht SRS. Could never live with a girl no matter how much I think I like her.
How about the texting/calling though? What's their minimum for that before they start getting pissy/butt hurt?
post 1611900941 07-28-2020, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
My girlfriend and I took two years to move in together.
Definitely bucking the stereotype there.

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