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» I've noticed with my 2 poor friends of mine that I can't speak freely with them
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post 1612108391 07-30-2020, 01:22 PM
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I've noticed with my 2 poor friends of mine that I can't speak freely with them

There are 2 friends of mine that we go way back with skateboarding. One of them was literally a best friend for years. Neither of them made very good decisions the last several years whereas I did. Needless to say there is a considerable gap between us now. I still talk to them from time to time on WhatsApp. I started noticing that I can't speak freely with them anymore. They are quick to disagree and don't even provide evidence to their counterarguments. Literally just disagreeing to disagree. One of them even told me I should modify what I say to be more "supportive" of his friend's skateboarding. Any advice I give is criticized. Back when I was in their socioeconomic bracket years ago, i could speak freely.
This in sharp contrast to another skateboarding friend of mine (3rd friend) who did do better with his life and with him, I can say whatever the fuk and it's all good. I bring this up as a possible example of what's going on nowadays. The left in this country which harbors a lot of poor people act in this manner. They hate people who have done better than themselves and are quick to tear down anything they have to say. Am I on to something here?
post 1612108661 07-30-2020, 01:25 PM
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post 1612108671 07-30-2020, 01:25 PM
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The proper term is economically challenged
post 1612108741 07-30-2020, 01:25 PM
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What the fuk is this pile of bs even about?

You're skateboarding friends made bad decisions and one is ok and the other you can't speak freely so this is why the left sucks.

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post 1612109511 07-30-2020, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By cjr169
What the fuk is this pile of bs even about?

You're skateboarding friends made bad decisions and one is ok and the other you can't speak freely so this is why the left sucks.

Neat.
Was going to clear your confusion but after reading your sig it's obvious you're 2 digit IQ crew


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post 1612109701 07-30-2020, 01:36 PM
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Unfortunately, a lot of skater dudes never grow up and continue to harbor resentment for "the man" or anybody that is doing well financially for themselves. Usually goes hand in hand with being addicted to drugs. Feelsgoodmane that I skate for sport/exercise and left "skate culture" when I was 17. It attracts a lot of burnouts.
post 1612110191 07-30-2020, 01:42 PM
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I disagree OP...
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post 1612110431 07-30-2020, 01:44 PM
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Lul next time text "I'm too sucessful for y'all" and leave their group then text one of em to add you back like "lul I was jus playing bruh, add me" and if they add you, Text "lul thanks for add back bruh, you did what I told u to"
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post 1612110541 07-30-2020, 01:44 PM
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Op said see you l8r boy
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post 1612111271 07-30-2020, 01:53 PM
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OP got some inherritance money and thinks he's self made now lol; i'm sure your not condescending at all
post 1612111411 07-30-2020, 01:54 PM
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post 1612111761 07-30-2020, 01:58 PM
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YOU cripple yourself if you feel like you can't speak freely. There is a way to call people out on their BS or lack of listening ability with tact, and others will respect you for it. I'm willing to bet you create a hostile environment when you realize your friends are being illogical or have no evidence to back up their claims.

Debating isn't fun when it turns into a fight of egos
post 1612112251 07-30-2020, 02:02 PM
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He was a miscer
They was skaterboiz
Can I make it any more obvious?
He was a ****get
They skateboarded
What more can I say?
He wanted to talk chit to them
But they wouldn’t let him disrespect
They had a problem with his ****gy threads

He was a ****get op
They said, "see you later, ****get op”
He wasn't good enough for them
So ****get op went crying to the misc

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post 1612113581 07-30-2020, 02:16 PM
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the only people that should be supportive of his skateboarding are his sponsor(s)?

no sponsors? then get a job.
post 1612113971 07-30-2020, 02:20 PM
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Someone is always going to hate or be jealous OP.

If they were real friends they would be happy for you that you made it some where in life and not cling to a misery loves company mentality
"it takes a wise man to know when he is in error and a noble man to admit to it"
post 1612114231 07-30-2020, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By bov188
I've noticed that these types of people are always, "Building their empire", getting involved with pyramid schemes, and posting images like this on social media

lol theyre always like a 30 year old server at dennys who sells MLM crap on the side as their "business"

lol at them saying they have "haters" when you wait tables.


their vehicles are equally stupid. they either have a broken down 10 year old kia because theyre broke, or they have a newer car on a high interest rate loan because theyre still broke with bad credit but they think their 7 year old 3 series on an 8% loan makes them hater material. maybe for the other dennys waiters. lol
post 1612115161 07-30-2020, 02:34 PM
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They'll have already generated an excuse for why you made it and they didn't. Some brahs you just have to leave behind. One of my best mates has a house, wife, 2 kids and a great job, he's way ahead of me in that respect. But that's my phucking guy and I'm really happy that he's making it. The last time he got promoted I brought him a fat cigar and a box of beersies. If your 'friends' are going to get jealous or insecure about your success or trying to drag you down/hold you to their level they were never truly your friends.
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
There are 2 friends of mine that we go way back with skateboarding. One of them was literally a best friend for years. Neither of them made very good decisions the last several years whereas I did. Needless to say there is a considerable gap between us now. I still talk to them from time to time on WhatsApp. I started noticing that I can't speak freely with them anymore. They are quick to disagree and don't even provide evidence to their counterarguments. Literally just disagreeing to disagree. One of them even told me I should modify what I say to be more "supportive" of his friend's skateboarding. Any advice I give is criticized. Back when I was in their socioeconomic bracket years ago, i could speak freely.
This in sharp contrast to another skateboarding friend of mine (3rd friend) who did do better with his life and with him, I can say whatever the fuk and it's all good. I bring this up as a possible example of what's going on nowadays. The left in this country which harbors a lot of poor people act in this manner. They hate people who have done better than themselves and are quick to tear down anything they have to say. Am I on to something here?
I have a few old friends on ******** that fall into this catagory.

They won't even speak to me and I just keep them on there to mog them.



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post 1612120751 07-30-2020, 03:38 PM
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they dont understand
send them to me
so i can close the gape
also, time to make new
friends, that can or may help you make better decision
old friends arent bad, but they are drenched and garnished in negativity

answer is should be considered if you
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Is one of these broke skater brahs Ashin ?
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post 1612126031 07-30-2020, 04:33 PM
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Now you know how the rich and powerful feel when when they get criticized for every single thing they say by the common folk.
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working class people are like that, full of negativity, its a coping mechanism that they need because they know on an unconscious level that they dont have the intelligence/energy/discipline or whatever to rise above their current levels

just ditch them, they aint your true friends if they are just gonna criticise you, and when you ditch them they will act like you are stuck up

**** human beings are so ****ing impossible to deal with, the older I get the more I realise that quality people are very rare and that most humans are just trash to put it directly

its almost as if you "must" rise in the social classes to be around calm and well-adjusted individuals

**** the working class peasants, give them their ****ing saturday football, small town drama, grill parties and tabloids about the latest politician who screwed up and theyll be content with life
post 1612127051 07-30-2020, 04:47 PM
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Your homie got brainwashed.

So did mine. He was a "punk" skater, tagging etc but he hated hated hated politics and the democrat nanny state destroying skate areas.

I got into it with him last year over some other ****, him being a bum etc, hadn't seen him till last month. He was at a BLM rally and has pink hair streaks now. Literally not even the same guy.
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post 1612128811 07-30-2020, 05:11 PM
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I get what you're saying but stop being so sensitive. If you're all bro's you can say whatever you want without fear, let people be entitled to their opinion it works both ways
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post 1612220171 07-31-2020, 04:52 PM
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ehh this is kind of on you. There are very charismatic poor people that rub shoulders with rich and influential people all of the time. In the end we're all just people dude
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Originally Posted By blissful88
Clown world is real boyo


It's a disease that infects the low IQ weak minded, which happens to be extreme liberals



inb4 one tries to tell you p3dophilia is a sexual orientation
Truly this though, people who are low IQ usually end up being losers who can't see past themselves at all and you can't be successful around them because they are *******s
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