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post 1612274781 08-01-2020, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
yea cause nothing screams the "best" about a guy using you but has dictated you not good enough to commit to

continually trying to bat above your league while the guy blatantly uses you. sounds very good


fwb women are the lowest of the low
Lol wat? I've had sex approx 10-12 times in the past year. You think it would be better for someone if all of those times were with different people as opposed to the same person? That makes no fukking sense.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because fwb is the best alternative if you can’t find someone good enough for a srs relationship. Unless you want to be indefinitely celibate.
So you're having sex...for years...with someone you know doesn't think you're good enough. I'd rather have a ONS, at least there's a chance.
post 1612275201 08-01-2020, 10:56 AM
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post 1612275391 08-01-2020, 10:59 AM
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post 1612275441 08-01-2020, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
So you're having sex...for years...with someone you know doesn't think you're good enough. I'd rather have a ONS, at least there's a chance.
That's not always how it is, sometimes it's just logistics. Has nothing to do with not being good enough.
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post 1612275851 08-01-2020, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because the realistic options for a srs relationship really suck at this age.

So unless you get super lucky, the realistic options are settle for someone you don’t really like, or get a fwb, or give up and stay celibate.
That's only because women have unrealistic standards.
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post 1612275861 08-01-2020, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
That's not always how it is, sometimes it's just logistics. Has nothing to do with not being good enough.
well the way you talk about your FWB sounds more like a long distance boyfriend.
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post 1612276381 08-01-2020, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
See my post above. I wouldn’t do fwb with a guy my age. Relationship only.

If a guy only wants casual then I’d much rather choose casual with a hot young guy.
You really are clueless.

You start casual and see if something builds. If it doesn't it doesn't if it does then you win.

If it doesn't you can continue to see each other or end it.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You really are clueless.

You start casual and see if something builds. If it doesn't it doesn't if it does then you win.

If it doesn't you can continue to see each other or end it.
Yeah it seems too calculated. Like here's the application for FWB position, and another application for a relationship. Are people really that rational?
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post 1612277141 08-01-2020, 11:22 AM
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post 1612277851 08-01-2020, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah exactly. Standards become unrealistic as you age.

So then you have to decide on either settling below your standards or choosing an alternative like fwb or just giving up.
You are a successful woman maintaining your own life.

Yet you say you won't have a relationship with a man your age or older unless he's rich.

Well after 40 and after a divorce it's not a man's job to provide for you financially.

It's job to provide for you emotionally, sexually, and safety wise. It's his job to not be a financial burden.

But you think that men are only ATMs.

It's your job to pay for your schit and my job to pay for my schit.
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post 1612279721 08-01-2020, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I can get that from a hot young guy though. They pay their own way and they provide for me sexually.

Safety wise I don’t really need anything.

Emotionally idk what that would really entail. I get emotional support from my friends and family. Or a counselor if needed. I do like an emotional connection ofc but not in the sense of emotional support. Just connection. I’m not looking to lean on a man emotionally. I like to be equals and each side to be emotionally stable without much need for emotional support.

That said it’s not really a dealbreaker. If I met a guy my age who I was physically attracted to and who had good character/personality without major issues and who is at least financially stable then I’d give a srs relationship a shot.
be sure to tell the next guy you're in a relationship with about your FWB or.....

will you hide it? inb4 not ashamed

you'll see the shame come upon his face for investing time and or resources in someone who gave it to another man for free. any man who stays beyond that point is a beta

at least with a ONS you can say it was a mistake,

but a fwb is making that mistake over and over

also full of a ton of delusion, manipulation and lying from both sides
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah exactly. Standards become unrealistic as you age.

So then you have to decide on either settling below your standards or choosing an alternative like fwb or just giving up.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes for me it works that way simply based on age.

20-25 fwb only

40-50 srs only

Now if theoretically a 20-25 fwb developed into a srs relationship I’d be ok with that but I wouldn’t have any expectations as to long term.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I would never accept fwb with a guy my age. Or with any guy over 25 really.

But fwb is perfect with young guys 20-25. With the age difference there is obviously no realistic option for a srs relationship.


20-25 perfect for fwb

25-40 no interest (worst of both worlds)

40-50 srs relationship only

50+ no interest


*with ofc Brad Pitt exception as always
Wow damn you are a weird one

Card everyone you meet lol?
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post 1612280321 08-01-2020, 12:01 PM
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post 1612280901 08-01-2020, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By lnvictus⏩
It's called oldcel cope, sweaty
What the fukk.. You ASSUME because I'm old I'm menopausal and have hot flashes!!!
I am not sweaty aargh..

It is 90 degrees here though
post 1612281121 08-01-2020, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
be sure to tell the next guy you're in a relationship with about your FWB or.....

will you hide it? inb4 not ashamed

you'll see the shame come upon his face for investing time and or resources in someone who gave it to another man for free. any man who stays beyond that point is a beta

at least with a ONS you can say it was a mistake,

but a fwb is making that mistake over and over

also full of a ton of delusion, manipulation and lying from both sides
Where do you get that men invest resources?

I've never invested resources in a woman.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Where do you get that men invest resources?

I've never invested resources in a woman.
Lol what a lie, never brought a woman drinks or dinner lmao?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Cass, Chickentuna, Jenn Anniston, Leslis Mann, Christine Taylor, Aubry Plaza, Mila Kunis, Ivana Milicevic


These are examples of what I prefer.
so you like dudes with long hair, plank-style body?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I would never accept fwb with a guy my age. Or with any guy over 25 really.

But fwb is perfect with young guys 20-25. With the age difference there is obviously no realistic option for a srs relationship.


20-25 perfect for fwb

25-40 no interest (worst of both worlds)

40-50 srs relationship only

50+ no interest


*with ofc Brad Pitt exception as always
I **** on the 1st date, just saying...
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Lol what a lie, never brought a woman drinks or dinner lmao?
I don't buy dinner until I am invested a bit. Typically not before we have sex.

And they pay for me as much as I pay for them.

That's the way it's been since 89
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Leo, are you still going steady with the crossfit girl?
Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Lol what a lie, never brought a woman drinks or dinner lmao?
I don't consider less than 10bux on a date a huge investment
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I don't buy dinner until I am invested a bit. Typically not before we have sex.

And they pay for me as much as I pay for them.

That's the way it's been since 89
you buying 1 drink meant you spent resources lol

Even 1 dollar is a considered an investment
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I have too. With my long term fwb we did it on the first date.With my ex husband on the second date.

I’m not a fan on holding out on sex. A few dates is fine to see if you like each other. But I wouldn’t want to go past three dates with someone without sex. By then I’d want to know if we are sexually compatible. Sex is really important to me because I’m not looking for just a friendship.
I win this contest.
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