super rural area, wholesome gal who hasn't been polluted by western media /thread

Im actually starting to think this too, seems like most girls you meet in rural areas are far more down to earth, seems like there is something about this.

I'll share the same advice my dad gave me as a kid. Don't try to look for a woman to follow you along your road and don't change your road to accommodate a woman, drive your own road and plenty of women will come follow you. We were driving in his truck while he sipped on a bud light, so I assume that's the reason he used roads as an example.

Never asked for more explanation, but from what I understand it means don't look for one and you'll find one. Go be the best you that you can be, do your hobbies, pick up whatever professional development goals you've had that you just haven't started, and most importantly don't be afraid to tell a girl to **** right off if she doesn't fit in with your life. I've been divorced, had good relationships, bad relationships, one night stands, dated a diagnosed borderline personality disorder stripper for a year and just about everything else you can imagine. Currently happily married to a woman who is conservative, was raised in an old school southern christian family, isn't a sloot, is 8 years younger than me, and can cook a mean rack of ribs. All I did was stop trying to fit women into my life and let them work to fit themselves into my life. I didn't find her in the places I usually looked - bars, house parties, tinder, etc... but when I had given up on finding one and wasn't looking. To be perfectly honest I was in the best place I'd ever been in life, fallen off a bit since then.

Took me 20 years or so to take my old mans advice to heart but it works.

OP Disney love doesn't exist in the real world. Stop being a beta **** and watch some redpill videos. " Wifey Material " LMFAO you type of muppets will never learn.

Damn beat me to it.

Rec sports leagues seem good. Not the incredibly low level ones which are populated by unathletic green haired folk but ones with decent competition. Volleyball is actually a decent sport. You don’t see too many fatties even in the rec leagues and most of them aren’t insane.

I met my current gf at a family reunion. and no I am not directly related to her you sick pieces of chit. she is my cousins step sister

Met mine at church over 12 years ago.

You still have to get a girl young at church.

They get raw dogged then hit 25 and become born again virgins making some beta holdout until marriage.This worked back in the 50/60/70's when half the population wasn't obese. Now if you want a halfway descent looking wife with good morals you need to do some serious digging.

Even if you're very successful

Chad only

LinkedIn so you know she has a career and goals

good answer we need marty Mcfly here

Idk why miscers have such bad luck with women.

I think if you’re behaving the same way you’d want your partner to, naturally like minded people gravitate toward each other.

The overwhelming majority of men (all but one) I have dated are decent good guys with good jobs and the right morals. It didn’t work out due to personality compatibility.

And most of them (again except for the one) never had too many bad things to say about their exes. So lead me to believe they too dated mostly great women that just didn’t work out for whatever reason.

The one guy that was the exception had only bad things to say about his exes. And now he’s saying horrible things about me.

So perhaps you should look into how you are behaving and why the way you are is only attracting less than desirable women.

You know how I know you have nothing going for you and no standards?

Ask yourself something - why would a top 20% woman want to be with you? In fact, why would you want to be with you if you were a woman. If you gotta reach for an answer, the problem is you. Establish who you are as a man and don't change it for anyone except yourself, if that person is interesting and worthwhile (it will be if you really develop hobbies and grow personally/professionally) you'll find worthwhile people will gravitate to you, be them friends or potential relationships.

As for myself, both friends (men or women) and relationship material women gravitate towards me because I have goals, hobbies I not only do but involve them in and teach them, am in decent shape and am objectively very successful. I also have real morals, beliefs, values and will speak up to my partner when they need to change something to keep the relationship on good terms, whether that means telling them losing 10 pounds or spending the afternoon helping them with college math homework. You gotta be a catch yourself to get a catch my friend, I see lots of miscers complaining about women not wanting them or only bottom barrel women wanting them, meanwhile they bring nothing to the table.

"Have such bad luck with women"

"All of my EXES"

Facts all cheating hypergamous sloots. OP read my threadhttps://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=178754421

Libraries

Churches

Volunteering

Any man who goes out looking for love is a weak cuck. The women I've been with liked me first, they dropped signs of love first, not the other way around. Women should be coming to you, the man. Just lol at being a man and looking for love.

1999

Wifey material lmao all women are cheating hypergamous sloots incapable of love or monogamy. Time to swallow the Red Pill and wake up to the truth about Female nature or become another beta ******* going through life getting with woman after woman and constantly get cheated on and left for another simp ******* when she's bored of you.

in to learn

Yes. He’s it.

And I didn’t marry the others because I didn’t love them. We had personality conflicts that are major, like we did not argue the same way, sometimes one of us is unwilling to bend for the other, different life goals and different geographical preferences, unwillingness to move for each other etc. Basically the relationship was just not mature enough to commit to forever. But they are still great people.If you’re trying to make a point, I don’t understand what you’re saying.

You're making a lot of assumptions and a lot of them are incorrect. How exactly are girls suppose to gravitate towards me when I haven't been going out much and I'm not on dating sites?. The whole "people will gravitate towards you" is utter bull**** unless you go out often and depending on where you go those people you may not even take an interest in.

I've travelled the world and owned property in other countries, I'm building a investment property portfolio and mostly work from home now on my own business. I'm learning a second language and also have other hobbies/goals.


I'm not complaining about anything. I was making a statement that if you don't find a good woman when she's young your chances of finding a good woman diminish with age. There's a reason why a very attractive tall skinny blonde woman is single when she's 28/35 and it's not a good one.

People gravitate to you all the time, you just have to pay attention. My big hobbies are hiking and fishing. I caught and released an 18 and 22 inch trout that belong to a threatened species last weekend after a 12 mile hike, particularly proud of that. Just on that hike alone I had real conversations with 4 different people I remember, got one secret fishing spot, bull****ted about how the rain will be done before one couple got their rain gear on, and had one pretty attractive woman take my picture with the 18 incher. Just fukken be friendly to people and talk, you'll be surprised who you meet.

Edit to add - if you act like some pretentious miscer and try to spit game at everyone then good luck. tldr; be a normal person.

This is actually right. But you have to get out of your basement. Look at gyms for example. People gravitated towards me not because I was the biggest and strongest (although I was towards the top), but because I would engage with people, offer spots, ask for spots, talk to people, etc. If you're silent in the gym with you headphones 100% of the time and expect for a gym girl to come up to you, it will never happen.

Apply that everywhere. You don't have to be one of those over the top extrovert tools everywhere being loud and fake. Just be a normal person and enjoy life and crush at it every day. You'll start to attract a lot of similar people. That's why I still make friends over the years which otherwise seems impossible given the social climate of today.

Let's see dated some 22 year old singer when I was living in the Philippines. She got crazy and wanted babies less then a month into the relationship.
Came back to Chicago dated some 27 year old feminist because her family hooked me up with her. Family totally lied about her or they didn't know what kind of person she really was. First date she told me she was a stripper when she was younger. I wanted to bang so I let her guilt trip me into a relationship.
Tried Tinder; vomit.

I'm also picky. Generally only find tall skinny girls 5"8/6ft attractive that are very politically and morally conservative. I realize the above girl doesn't fall into that category but she was perfect physically. I let my dink do the thinking.


I should probably start going to church.

Madrasa

Grocery store. Deli counter.

Yeppers. It wasn't long ago (been 5 years, wow) I remember being a newly divorced fat dude (6'2" 255 mostly bodyfat) wondering wtf I was supposed to do to not be alone for the next 60 years. Luckily for me I have a good dad who, while he has some pretty tremendous faults, is easily the happiest with life 60+ year old I've ever met, and he's also divorced. Not everybody has that, so sometimes when I'm a few beers in and see a thread like this I sprinkle some of his wisdom - be yourself, which everyone says, but also real advice into what that means. It's real cliche if you take it at face value, but if you look a bit deeper it means actually find out what makes you tick and what makes you happy, pick up that lifestyle, and live that life. Will it bring you women? Who the fuk knows, I sure don't, but it will definitely bring you happiness, and that typically brings other people. The best thing you can do for yourself is be single for a while. Actively try to stay out of a relationship to focus on finding out what life you want to live, then live that life. What do you want your routine to be, what things do you need (non-monetary) to be happy? That is what is important. For me it's spending a lot of time in nature, having meaningful work where I have to learn something everyday, and spending at least 1 hour bettering myself daily be it a workout, reading something to learn, or something that makes me a better person.

I think what that view point has brought me that benefits me with women is that I am 100% ambivalent if they stay or leave. My life will still be good and I'll still be happy because I don't get my happiness from anyone or anything outside of my control.You seem to be overly concerned with other people, what they have and their faults. All I see from the above is women's ages, faults, family problems, etc... If you're really confident in yourself and in a good place you won't need to place blame on someone going baby crazy to a bunch of people on bb.com, you'll just recognize her journey in life is different than yours, move on from that and be happy. You've got a lot to work on before you worry about other people. I could talk plenty of **** about women I've been in relationships with, and I'm sure they could do the same about me, but in the end who cares? I'm just happy I don't have to deal with someone who brings my life down in any aspect.