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post 1612815961 08-06-2020, 11:39 PM
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Is it ever okay to get at a girl with a boyfriend? Srs

Is it an ego thing?
post 1612816011 08-06-2020, 11:40 PM
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If I don't know she has a bf, I don't care
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post 1612816041 08-06-2020, 11:40 PM
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If her bf is a Leftist cuck I would, otherwise no
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post 1612816181 08-06-2020, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
If I don't know she has a bf, I don't care
Met a girl at a party last week (inb4 COVID) Told me she has a boyfriend, part of me don’t care
post 1612816231 08-06-2020, 11:43 PM
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Y'all boys stay safe. I did my fair share of banging dudes gf's in college, but there are people in this world who will murder you for that srs. think with head not with dick
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post 1612816271 08-06-2020, 11:44 PM
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happens all the time "bruh"
post 1612816291 08-06-2020, 11:45 PM
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post 1612816311 08-06-2020, 11:45 PM
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Comes around full circle boyo

Brb you’ve found the “one” in your mid 30s

And come to find out she leaves you for a high school sweetheart

Leave it alone srs
post 1612816421 08-06-2020, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩
Comes around full circle boyo

Brb you’ve found the “one” in your mid 30s

And come to find out she leaves you for a high school sweetheart

Leave it alone srs
True true, dat karma
post 1612816491 08-06-2020, 11:48 PM
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If she flirts back, don't cuck yourself, you have no idea how their 'relationship' is doing it might have been on the downward for a while now and end tomorrow. You can make yourself available, personally I wouldn't cheat on the guy bcus of karma, but a lot of dudes don't care about that. To each their own.

You can't be mad if your wife cheats on you when you were fuking other dude's wives back in the day right? Guess you can if you've got some insane ego, but hey, everybody is different.

It's less of 'karma' and more of the fact that if your standard of loyalty is loose for other people's relationships, it will be loose for your own relationships. Again, some guys who collect baby mommas don't even care about that, but if you're looking for 'the one' karma is gonna get ya for that behavior.
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post 1612816511 08-06-2020, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩
Comes around full circle boyo

Brb you’ve found the “one” in your mid 30s

And come to find out she leaves you for a high school sweetheart

Leave it alone srs
This

The karmagod will get his due..
post 1612816611 08-06-2020, 11:50 PM
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Karma (law of attraction) is real, but everyone learns that at their own pace
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post 1612816641 08-06-2020, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Karma (law of attraction) is real, but everyone learns that at their own pace
So no cuz of karma. **** it
post 1612817071 08-06-2020, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted By BorrachoDamor⏩
So no cuz of karma. **** it
Really do you man. You're an adult, you should have your own moral compass by now. But pursuing short term fun, and having a good and stable life are often at odds with one another
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post 1612817301 08-07-2020, 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Really do you man. You're an adult, you should have your own moral compass by now. But pursuing short term fun, and having a good and stable life are often at odds with one another
Never been a big karma guy but everyone seems to agree that it’s real
post 1612817381 08-07-2020, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted By BorrachoDamor⏩
Never been a big karma guy but everyone seems to agree that it’s real
Probably because people present karma as this mystical phenomena, so people assume it's not real and shrug it off. In reality karma is your actions defining you. They influence how other perceive you, what kind of people are attracted to/repulsed from you, and they influence how you see yourself. Or in some instance it's direct cause and effect - you hang out with bad people, maybe you deal, maybe you f*ck a lot of married women. One day someone shoots you
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post 1612817561 08-07-2020, 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Y'all boys stay safe. I did my fair share of banging dudes gf's in college, but there are people in this world who will murder you for that srs. think with head not with dick
post 1612817671 08-07-2020, 12:12 AM
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Ehh it’s generally a pretty slimy thing to do but as the outsider guy you’ll get less blame than the girl. However I’m a firm believer in doing the morally right thing and so in this situation I would not pursue it; even though it DOES strike your ego a lot because:

You’re high value enough to have a girl in relationship thirst for you

Cucking another man (primal and alpha)

The stigma against it makes it exciting

I will also warn you to find out who you’re dealing with bro. Most guys won’t do **** but some girls can get you in serious trouble. swim nearly killed someone for doing this way back when srs
post 1612817871 08-07-2020, 12:15 AM
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No. It is weakness. Allowing a slut to manipulate you is never good.
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Originally Posted By BorrachoDamor⏩
Never been a big karma guy but everyone seems to agree that it’s real
It makes practical sense for other scenarios, but no sense at all for relationships.

BRB let's say you were a person who robbed/stuck up people, of course you end up with a reputation and eventually crime makes it back to you.

That's within the realistic scope of cause and effect.

If you messed around with a woman who was "involved" and significant other never found out, or didn't care, etc. you're in the clear.

WTF is the guy gonna do follow and spy on OP every day trying to bang his girl?

The idea that some cosmic force is gonna make your future woman cheat on you is ridiculous.

It's not necessarily "karma", there are bad things that spontaneously happen to EVERYONE, same with good.

Do you really believe bad stuff NEVER happened to the nicest person in the world?

Come on man.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Y'all boys stay safe. I did my fair share of banging dudes gf's in college, but there are people in this world who will murder you for that srs. think with head not with dick












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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
It makes practical sense for other scenarios, but no sense at all for relationships.

BRB let's say you were a person who robbed/stuck up people, of course you end up with a reputation and eventually crime makes it back to you.

That's within the realistic scope of cause and effect.

If you messed around with a woman who was "involved" and significant other never found out, or didn't care, etc. you're in the clear.

WTF is the guy gonna do follow and spy on OP every day trying to bang his girl?

The idea that some cosmic force is gonna make your future woman cheat on you is ridiculous.

It's not necessarily "karma", there are bad things that spontaneously happen to EVERYONE, same with good.

Do you really believe bad stuff NEVER happened to the nicest person in the world?

Come on man.
This is how I’ve always had my mentality
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
It makes practical sense for other scenarios, but no sense at all for relationships.

BRB let's say you were a person who robbed/stuck up people, of course you end up with a reputation and eventually crime makes it back to you.

That's within the realistic scope of cause and effect.

If you messed around with a woman who was "involved" and significant other never found out, or didn't care, etc. you're in the clear.

WTF is the guy gonna do follow and spy on OP every day trying to bang his girl?

The idea that some cosmic force is gonna make your future woman cheat on you is ridiculous.

It's not necessarily "karma", there are bad things that spontaneously happen to EVERYONE, same with good.

Do you really believe bad stuff NEVER happened to the nicest person in the world?

Come on man.
Couple scenarios? That girl remembers, holds a grudge, PMs your future gf two years later. Have had this happen. Worse yet? Dude is unstable and aggressive, shoots you in the face
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Couple scenarios? That girl remembers, holds a grudge, PMs your future gf two years later. Have had this happen. Worse yet? Dude is unstable and aggressive, shoots you in the face
And your girl's gonna leave you because you ****ed some broad two years before you met her?

If your girl leaves you for that she was never yours.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
And your girl's gonna leave you because you ****ed some broad two years before you met her?

If your girl leaves you for that she was never yours.
Nah. In my case she didn't, she understood and got over it. Still caused her a fair amount of emotional distress she didn't deserve tho. The bish was determined and actually photoshopped texts between us making it look like I was cheating, was trying to fine my and my girl's employer's and family's social media accounts, etc. Was on the warpath lmao. Twisted hoe
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Couple scenarios? That girl remembers, holds a grudge, PMs your future gf two years later. Have had this happen. Worse yet? Dude is unstable and aggressive, shoots you in the face
Not knowing the bf is a risk for sure. He could be crazy
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not worth it unless youre ugly. you can smash lot of girls

i know misc prob want to date her cause losers so if you date a girl like that. game over

lot of girls out there. who knows if karma is real. could be. couldnt be

bf could be a psycho too

bf could be a good fighter and just want to beat chit out you

also i never been attracted to trashy girls. and thats trashy.
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Nah. In my case she didn't, she understood and got over it. Still caused her a fair amount of emotional distress she didn't deserve tho. The bish was determined and actually photoshopped texts between us making it look like I was cheating, was trying to fine my and my girl's employer's and family's social media accounts, etc. Was on the warpath lmao. Twisted hoe
As for the BF I already addressed that.

I'm not saying do this or do that.

Obviously try and know what you're getting into OK.

If she tells you her BF is a 300 Lb. MS-13 nicknamed "Homicide" you should probably stay away.

I've always felt like at the end of the day I'm not in charge of watching over anyone's relationships.

Of course there are lines I won't cross, friends and family.

If a hot enough broad came around talking she'd leave her man I'd give it a shot, that's how relationships go in the real world.

I know several people who married partners they essentially "stole" from another relationship, and still together long after.

Will they be together for life?

Who knows?

But how many people even that got together on more "morally righteous" terms also end up getting divorced?

It happens to people in all walks of life, even sometimes regardless of how good, faithful, virtuous, etc that a person is.

I always think back to I believe it was that 'Ripley's Believe It Or Not' show, on segment was on the kindest man in the world (possibly ever?).

Anyways the guy thought he would be able to survive living a purely altruistic lifestyle and ended up impoverished and starved to death.

Sometimes being morally righteous is overrated, you gotta know when and when not to break the rules.


(Also wanted to point out GF's gonna be mad if ANY girl calls her talking she ****ed you blah blah blah, that's a 'crazy girl' problem not a 'she was in a relationship' problem)
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
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