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Thread: [SRS] Depression Discussion and Support Thread Part III

post 1612966761 08-08-2020, 04:03 PM
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Nobody cares about anything anymore either. I tried talking about Patrick Maholmes the other day and two normies just disagreed with me yet again and started agreeing with each other he was worth 450 million yada yada. It's like there is no way to even have a conversation anymore.

In what world is an athlete worth 450 million?
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post 1612966841 08-08-2020, 04:05 PM
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But it doesn't matter what it is people just disagree and say what they want to say, people aren't even accepting of others opinions. It's always they are right and you are wrong. So what is the point?
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post 1612967131 08-08-2020, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
You need to look at what you just posted... then ponder if that applies to yourself as well.
Was just thinking the exact same thing as you posted this
post 1612967471 08-08-2020, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
You need to look at what you just posted... then ponder if that applies to yourself as well.
I agree with people fairly often on here. And i use logic and critical thinking skills. These people are just hardcore Chiefs fans so of course they are going to say he is worth 450 million. No player is worth that much.
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post 1612967601 08-08-2020, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I agree with people fairly often on here. And i use logic and critical thinking skills. These people are just hardcore Chiefs fans so of course they are going to say he is worth 450 million. No player is worth that much.
I'm laughing my ass off over here. You're not so bad EOD
post 1612995941 08-08-2020, 10:12 PM
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I really need to dopamine detox. I didn't fap for 3 days and I starting feeling better. Just basic human interaction gave me some happiness and I wasn't depressed but it's so hard. I always tell myself I'm doing it but then as my mood increases I want to smoke and fap more than ever.
post 1613003031 08-09-2020, 12:14 AM
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If you are depressed you are living in the past.
If you are anxious you are living in the future.
If you are at peace you are living in the present.

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post 1613013091 08-09-2020, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls⏩
Life is fukking crazy bro, stop looking for a measuring stick. It's all just a story that nobody gives a chit about ultimately. Whether you are happy and experience good things or you get chit on, truthfully nobody cares. It's a giant dance of nothingness and expression. One is always none, take the weight off.
This.

Also, watch the following Jordan Peterson clip where he talks about the forthright claim that the existentialists make. Watch the whole thing or skip to 7:12 for the meat of the matter:

post 1613062931 08-09-2020, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
This.

Also, watch the following Jordan Peterson clip where he talks about the forthright claim that the existentialists make. Watch the whole thing or skip to 7:12 for the meat of the matter:

Watched the whole clip, interesting to see that Peterson (who I am aware of but not terribly familiar with) seems to have a very good grasp on Nietzsche. I was obsessed with Nietzsche for years (and Dostoevsky for that matter), and he is very often misunderstood and misinterpreted.

One sentence from my post above is actually from a quote from a translation of Nietzsche in the Gay Science, the same book where the "death of God" is proclaimed:

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Pursue your best or your worst desires, and above all perish! In both cases you are probably still in some way a promoter and benefactor of humanity and therefore entitled to your eulogists—but also to your detractors. But you will never find anyone who could wholly mock you as an individual, also in your best qualities, bringing home to you to the limits of truth your boundless, flylike, froglike wretchedness! To laugh at oneself as one would have to laugh in order to laugh out of the whole truth—to do that even the best so far lacked sufficient sense for the truth, and the most gifted had too little genius for that. Even laughter may yet have a future. I mean, when the proposition "the species is everything, one is always none" has become part of humanity, and this ultimate liberation and irresponsibility has become accessible to all at all times. Perhaps laughter will then have formed an alliance with wisdom, perhaps only "gay science" will then be left.
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Personal insignificance, the illusion of a lasting ego, the lack of meaning or ultimate purpose, creates what I have always related to as something of a sandbox world. Life as a version of Gary's Mod essentially. There is nopointto doing any of it, it has no goal or aim in and of itself, but you can play around in it and find some real joy in just being.

There is no need to feel guilty for not measuring up to some arbitrary standard. Stockpiling wealth, having attractive mates, possessing power, those are all aims that drive and sustain life to be sure, but they are not commanded from on high to be achieved. They truly don't matter in any measurable way more than somebody who finds contentedness in a cloister of monks or isolated in a cabin somewhere.

There is so much joy in the realization that you don't really need anything, because you are of no significance. The dance will go on with or without you, and take many forms long after you are gone. The ego is a prison, I think it may be best to destroy it.
post 1613074641 08-09-2020, 07:47 PM
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Do people even meet irl anymore? Srs

I get the feeling people just want to be left alone. Like at work only the really weird people want to talk to me but everyone else just stays to themselves. Like i can't hang out with dudes who like Harry Potter and chit lol.
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post 1613075091 08-09-2020, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Do people even meet irl anymore? Srs

I get the feeling people just want to be left alone. Like at work only the really weird people want to talk to me but everyone else just stays to themselves. Like i can't hang out with dudes who like Harry Potter and chit lol.
People are really awkward bro. That vibe that they want to be left alone is usually just their awkwardness/lack of social skills, or your own projection of anxiety/insecurity.
post 1613165331 08-10-2020, 05:50 PM
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im legit just staring at a wall. my life is so boring. dont have anything left
post 1613174961 08-10-2020, 07:37 PM
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This life is brutal man. Finding love is all that matters as you get older.
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post 1613209031 08-11-2020, 06:41 AM
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I made a post in here a few days ago I was going through episode and I'm feeling better now I think my Zoloft is starting to kick in but I'm still drinking daily that needs to stop like yesterday I guess I got too much time on my hands I don't know.

Want to get more into the faith but need that support systrm, my family probably has a feeling that ive been drinking heavy but idk. I think im going to tell them and get that support circle going.
post 1613237791 08-11-2020, 12:26 PM
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Just noticed I have another problem now. I weigh like 12 pounds more than I normally do & noticed yesterday I’ve been gaining weight during quarantine. I guess I’ve been eating more than I should have been lately & haven’t been exercising at all either. No gyms are open though so how am I supposed to train?
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Just got pulled into the office and my supervisor mentioned how quiet I am and how people have said I don't say a word.

People just don't like quiet people man. There's nothing to yalk about anyways. Literally every day I just hear people talk about the most random crap that doesn't interest me.

I legit don't know what to say to people. I'm Good for a few sentences throughout the day but thats all.
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post 1613249821 08-11-2020, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
This life is brutal man. Finding love is all that matters as you get older.
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Just got pulled into the office and my supervisor mentioned how quiet I am and how people have said I don't say a word.

People just don't like quiet people man. There's nothing to yalk about anyways. Literally every day I just hear people talk about the most random crap that doesn't interest me.

I legit don't know what to say to people. I'm Good for a few sentences throughout the day but thats all.
One don´t need other people to be happy, yeez. It helps to have friends and I recommend it, but so many normies are freaking retards. Don´t base your happiness on their approval. There are cool people out there, so put yourself in position to meet them. Move some other place or whatever. If I lived in the US, I couldn´t take living in the city for too long. I would eventually move rural and live with nature. Western society is sick and degenarate, so don´t try to chase the rat race in the clown world, it doesn´t matter.

I´m also a pretty quiet introvert, always have been. But I have learned to work around it, so sometimes I´m not quiet, sometimes I am. Why dont you save up money and buy a small farm or something? Have a goal you can work towards, something you look forward to. I know I couldn´t take working in an office every day, even though thats what my education is. I´d rather be poor


Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
im legit just staring at a wall. my life is so boring. dont have anything left
Nothing wrong with staring at a wall. Boredom is the default of the universe, boredom is not bad. You can find great peace in staring at a wall. You can feel more alive staring at a wall, than jumping out of an airplane.

Thinking is the greatest addiction most have.
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Originally Posted By PimpMasterC⏩
One don´t need other people to be happy, yeez. It helps to have friends and I recommend it, but so many normies are freaking retards. Don´t base your happiness on their approval. There are cool people out there, so put yourself in position to meet them. Move some other place or whatever. If I lived in the US, I couldn´t take living in the city for too long. I would eventually move rural and live with nature. Western society is sick and degenarate, so don´t try to chase the rat race in the clown world, it doesn´t matter.

I´m also a pretty quiet introvert, always have been. But I have learned to work around it, so sometimes I´m not quiet, sometimes I am. Why dont you save up money and buy a small farm or something? Have a goal you can work towards, something you look forward to. I know I couldn´t take working in an office every day, even though thats what my education is. I´d rather be poor






Nothing wrong with staring at a wall. Boredom is the default of the universe, boredom is not bad. You can find great peace in staring at a wall. You can feel more alive staring at a wall, than jumping out of an airplane.

Thinking is the greatest addiction most have.
Normies are dumb and all act the same. That is what is so depressing. The city is full of degenerates.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Normies are dumb and all act the same. That is what is so depressing. The city is full of degenerates.
Yeah, thats why you should move away if you can´t handle it. Smaller towns are at least more peaceful. There is so many beautiful places in america, it´s a huge country.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Humour me, what do you want in life?
A job that I’m going to actually enjoy instead of waking up dreading it everyday. I don’t have it in me to keep waking up everyday for decades going to a job I hate with a passion. Since I was a kid I never wanted some typical boring job that I would have to keep going to everyday every week. I need a job where I can beat the system of the boring dread of a Monday-Friday 9-5 type of job. It’s depressing just thinking about it. Also wish I still had a social life. I like my alone time a lot but once a week or so I would like to go out & hang out with friends. I would like to have a gf eventually too but I need to straighten out a lot of other areas of my life before I should be with anyone.
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I’ve never been in a worse place mentally. Recently I made a mistake leading to the loss of friendship with my best friend (a 16 year long friendship) and it also caused me to lose all friends and acquaintances associated with him. After this I realized he was basically my only friend lol I only have one other friend I see every once in a while.

I just don’t feel confident about my ability to make new friends for some reason. I feel socially incompetent now. I talk to people and when they start talking about their social life’s and the things they do with their friends I instantly lose confidence because I realize I can’t relate any of my own experiences anymore. It also sucks knowing there is no way for me to land a gf or date attractive girls if I have no friends or social life. Plus I feel like my life is boring and I barely have anything to talk about anyway

I feel extremely lonely and negative and it’s kind of scaring me how unhappy I am
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Originally Posted By SlootMan⏩
I’ve never been in a worse place mentally. Recently I made a mistake leading to the loss of friendship with my best friend (a 16 year long friendship) and it also caused me to lose all friends and acquaintances associated with him. After this I realized he was basically my only friend lol I only have one other friend I see every once in a while.

I just don’t feel confident about my ability to make new friends for some reason. I feel socially incompetent now. I talk to people and when they start talking about their social life’s and the things they do with their friends I instantly lose confidence because I realize I can’t relate any of my own experiences anymore. It also sucks knowing there is no way for me to land a gf or date attractive girls if I have no friends or social life. Plus I feel like my life is boring and I barely have anything to talk about anyway

I feel extremely lonely and negative and it’s kind of scaring me how unhappy I am
Wow man, I literally could have wrote this entire post exactly the same as you did. Feel exactly the same. I don’t have a social circle anymore either & it’s impossible for me to make friends anymore when everyone has their own lives already. It’s a very depressing feeling.
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Fukkin LOL at this thread
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Wow man, I literally could have wrote this entire post exactly the same as you did. Feel exactly the same. I don’t have a social circle anymore either & it’s impossible for me to make friends anymore when everyone has their own lives already. It’s a very depressing feeling.
Thats basically it. Since everyone already has friends idk how to make any. I don't want to be the 5th wheel or whatever where they only want to talk to me when nobody else is around. Sure enough though everyone I interact with already has a friend group. I try to talk to people sometimes but this is blocking me from making any progress. I also feel like people I talk to like me the least or just barely tolerate me.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Thats basically it. Since everyone already has friends idk how to make any. I don't want to be the 5th wheel or whatever where they only want to talk to me when nobody else is around. Sure enough though everyone I interact with already has a friend group. I try to talk to people sometimes but this is blocking me from making any progress. I also feel like people I talk to like me the least or just barely tolerate me.
I think our only chance is finding another job since there’s no one at work we can hang out with. Meet ups just don’t work since it’s forced & it’s not organic in meeting people. And going places alone don’t work since everyone is already in their own groups. At my previous job when every few months I would go to a bar with a few co-workers if I wasn’t with them I would have been looked at as the weird loner guy since everyone there was already in their own groups. The social media era has everyone living in their own bubble & if they don’t have your number in their phone you don’t matter to them.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
I think our only chance is finding another job since there’s no one at work we can hang out with. Meet ups just don’t work since it’s forced & it’s not organic in meeting people. And going places alone don’t work since everyone is already in their own groups. At my previous job when every few months I would go to a bar with a few co-workers if I wasn’t with them I would have been looked at as the weird loner guy since everyone there was already in their own groups. The social media era has everyone living in their own bubble & if they don’t have your number in their phone you don’t matter to them.
I've tried that bro. I've worked in several different locations but it's all the same. If i have tried talking to different people and have been to different job locations it's only logical to think that things just aren't going to change that easily. At my old job i had tons of friends but i left there over 6 years ago. Now days like you said are just different. Everyone is their own little bubble and if you are a loner then you have to get lucky meeting someone who doesn't have friends already. That's all you can do. But i also can't just be friends with anyone. I have to at least share the same interest so i can hang out with them or talk about something i'm interested in. Talking about netflix and stuff like that isn't going to work.

What's weird is people try to talk to me but it's always people much older than me or they just talk about netflix or their kids. Or talk about food/restaurants half the day. I can't hang out with people 15-20 years older than myself.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I've tried that bro. I've worked in several different locations but it's all the same. If i have tried talking to different people and have been to different job locations it's only logical to think that things just aren't going to change that easily. At my old job i had tons of friends but i left there over 6 years ago. Now days like you said are just different. Everyone is their own little bubble and if you are a loner then you have to get lucky meeting someone who doesn't have friends already. That's all you can do. But i also can't just be friends with anyone. I have to at least share the same interest so i can hang out with them or talk about something i'm interested in. Talking about netflix and stuff like that isn't going to work.

What's weird is people try to talk to me but it's always people much older than me or they just talk about netflix or their kids. Or talk about food/restaurants half the day. I can't hang out with people 15-20 years older than myself.
What I don’t get is there’s certain people that can literally start at a job & within a week or two they’ll have a bunch of friends already somehow. The extroverts have it so easy when it comes to meeting people. But whenever I hear anybody talk about anything it’s always boring typical **** that I have no interest in. Everyone I think feels like they have to just like the same typical stuff so they can fit in.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
What I don’t get is there’s certain people that can literally start at a job & within a week or two they’ll have a bunch of friends already somehow. The extroverts have it so easy when it comes to meeting people. But whenever I hear anybody talk about anything it’s always boring typical **** that I have no interest in. Everyone I think feels like they have to just like the same typical stuff so they can fit in.
They connect by talking about netflix shows or restaurants that's about it. I hear people talking all the time but it's always the same topics every day. It doesn't make sense to me how people can do this every day.

It's like they are all the same person man. I've been saying this for years. Like today i listened to my coworkers talk about food, netlfix and a zoo for like an hour or more. I don't hear people talk about the new XBOX or PS5 or anything it's just the same 4-5 boring topics.
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post 1613378301 08-12-2020, 07:41 PM
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it's just not stimulating talking about netflix or food man. WTF. I miss being a kid when we'd just **** around not this normie adult bull****.
post 1613381331 08-12-2020, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
So what are you doing about it?
Well, what can I if it’s not realistic enough to happen? The odds of me having a dream job just isn’t realistic otherwise everyone would be doing it. Also, where am I going to meet people anymore? I talk to 2 friends through text & one is married while the other lives like 5 hours away in another state. I don’t have anyone to hang out with.
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