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post 1614605401 08-25-2020, 05:37 PM
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Holy Chit, The Dating Market is BRUTAL for Men Nowadays

Wouldn't even bother if you are sub 8.5/10. Straight out BRUTAL. I don't think there ever existed a time in history where it was both this hard to get ANY woman and where also women in general offered as little as they do today. Of course if you are 8+/10 you can bang a bunch of damaged women (which can be fun) but phuck this is BRUTAL.
post 1614605491 08-25-2020, 05:39 PM
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post 1614605671 08-25-2020, 05:42 PM
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gave up a long time ago on general dating sites. christian dating app will be my last resort lol. hopefully it's not polluted with stuck up biches
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post 1614605791 08-25-2020, 05:43 PM
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post 1614605991 08-25-2020, 05:47 PM
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Maybe it's just an America thing but at 29 I swear it's never been easier. Talking uni aged chicks too so 18 - 24ish.

I've never had a presence in online dating either. All face to face contact.
post 1614606101 08-25-2020, 05:48 PM
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post 1614606411 08-25-2020, 05:51 PM
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post 1614606571 08-25-2020, 05:54 PM
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Thats what baffles me the most.

Not only is it near impossible to find 6+ chick that dosnt think she's a 9 every second of the day, they all have little to nothing to offer. Not even a car and a license.

Its abysmal.
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post 1614606611 08-25-2020, 05:55 PM
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post 1614606681 08-25-2020, 05:55 PM
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Online Apps are beyond finished. Every other profile is either:

A) FUK TRUMP
B) BLM
C) Extreme Feminist
D) Communist
E) Tattooed whales with 4 kids


Not to mention all of them think they’re Instagram “models”. Smile and look at the camera, that’s all you have to do. I don’t know what the fuk you look like when you’re staring at the ground or looking off into the clouds.

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post 1614606701 08-25-2020, 05:56 PM
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post 1614606761 08-25-2020, 05:56 PM
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Disagree 100%. With apps it's never been easier dude. Score with multiple hot chicks in a week with little to no effort because of apps.

Yea you have to reach a certain threshold to have success on apps. But to be there it doesnt take much.

Lift, dont be a dweeb, groom yourself well, and you wont have any issues.
post 1614606801 08-25-2020, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
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post 1614606881 08-25-2020, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Disagree 100%. With apps it's never been easier dude. Score with multiple hot chicks in a week with little to no effort because of apps.

Yea you have to reach a certain threshold to have success on apps. But to be there it doesnt take much.

Lift, dont be a dweeb, groom yourself well, and you wont have any issues.
It’s not tough to match. The continuous ghosting is the annoying part.
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post 1614607011 08-25-2020, 06:00 PM
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post 1614607081 08-25-2020, 06:01 PM
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No it’s not, sounds like a load of excuses. As long as you’re not punching too far above, there’s no reason you can’t get plenty of dates, just have to get yourself out there.
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post 1614607391 08-25-2020, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA⏩
No it’s not, sounds like a load of excuses. As long as you’re not punching too far above, there’s no reason you can’t get plenty of dates, just have to get yourself out there.
It's still different getting a bunch of dates compared to getting the girl. It's not that hard to ask someone out and have her say yes. The tough pill to swallow is the fact that if you are not super attractive, the chick has nothing to offer and you have to basically make a performance act to get laid with a bish that has nothing to offer. There has NEVER in history been such a mismatch. Like think about this logically, you're a guy that's intelligent, competitive, has his chit together, well off financially....and you have to do a phucking entertainment performance to get laid with a bish that has NOTHING to offer other than mediocre looks. That's the reality of dating today. I'm not saying it's like this in ALL cases, but the mismatch is appalling.
post 1614607451 08-25-2020, 06:04 PM
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Why do I get the feeling none of you guys talk to girls.
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post 1614607641 08-25-2020, 06:06 PM
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Unfortunately thats how it is. You can thank the media and feminism. I have seen plenty of plain women that think they are supermodels. You are cute but you arent that cute, especially for me to put up with your nonsense.

Best attitude to have: indifference and cockiness. Who cares? They want to go out, hook up, whatever, fine.... but dont pin your hopes and dreams on them.

Go lift, do whatever other hobbies you have, work on your career, save money. Live your life.

Watch what happens when they hit 30 and their friends are all married or getting married.
post 1614607751 08-25-2020, 06:07 PM
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Agreed. I’d imagine the poosy, beta men flooding women with attention as well as the chads only smashing has made women even more unstable. Absolutely awful trying to date a 5+ chick. Not even worth the effort half the time IMO.

I got pretty lucky and found a decent, successful woman on Hinge. Been dating for a bit over a month.
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post 1614607841 08-25-2020, 06:09 PM
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Not hard at all to smash. Difficult to find a wifey but such is life. If you can't smash girls then you need to workout more, dress better, lower your standards, and not be bald.
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Before online dating, instagram and smartphones-no. You just date a 5 or 6/10 and go on.

Today in 2020-yes. You may have to date obese women or no one at all.
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post 1614608101 08-25-2020, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Hector002⏩
Why do I get the feeling none of you guys talk to girls.
This.

Always the same fgt no avis gatekeeping that dating is brutal.

Covid aside, if youre primarily attempting to meet girls online, you’re courting disappointment.


Just go out, socialise, talk face face, fukin millennial hermits I swear
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post 1614608161 08-25-2020, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
Agreed. I’d imagine the poosy, beta men flooding women with attention as well as the chads only smashing has made women even more unstable. Absolutely awful trying to date a 5+ chick. Not even worth the effort half the time IMO.

I got pretty lucky and found a decent, successful woman on Hinge. Been dating for a bit over a month.
The social media crap has turned a lot of women into perpetual attention wh*res. Realize the following: ALL women whether they are good looking or not have a posse of male admirers. I have seen the ugliest of ham beasts with no shortage of male attention.

Dont give it to them.
post 1614608451 08-25-2020, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By BootneckBrah⏩
This.

Always the same fgt no avis gatekeeping that dating is brutal.

Covid aside, if youre primarily attempting to meet girls online, you’re courting disappointment.


Just go out, socialise, talk face face, fukin millennial hermits I swear
THIS ^

Online and apps are a huge time waster. As I mentioned above realize that EVERY woman has no shortage of attention online. My sister is very good looking, she did it and she had over 300 men contacting her nonstop.

Want to find out - go scrap a bunch of pics of a good looking woman off the web and set up a profile on one of the sites. Lots of guys have done it and been shocked.
post 1614608951 08-25-2020, 06:20 PM
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If you look good, you'll have no problems at all getting girls. Simple lol it's not rocket science. If you're not getting girls, maybe try maxing on your looks more
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Not really, I have other things that interest me over women
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