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» Holy Chit, The Dating Market is BRUTAL for Men Nowadays
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post 1614609691 08-25-2020, 06:28 PM
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post 1614609911 08-25-2020, 06:31 PM
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my observation -

1. it's a numbers game - you have to swipe a lot!
2. you have to really lower your standards and expectations.
3. you have to be a good liar. promise everything, deliver nothing.

i refuse to play this game right now. i like the bars/in person better but corona has froze my operation.
post 1614610761 08-25-2020, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
my observation -

1. it's a numbers game - you have to swipe a lot!
2. you have to really lower your standards and expectations.
3. you have to be a good liar. promise everything, deliver nothing.

i refuse to play this game right now. i like the bars/in person better but corona has froze my operation.
Exactly.

Online dating (must be) like trying to bag a top job.

90% of resumes get tossed or unseen/ignored.

Lmao why play a market where you have zero USP.

Just meet through social circles, bars, or work.

I’ve never been in a LTR with a girl I haven’t chatted to in person first and foremost.

Thank god im in a solid LTR, but even if I wasn’t, just lmao at even attempting to meet a decent woman online.

Odds have to be 100/1 at least
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post 1614610821 08-25-2020, 06:40 PM
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it's not that the sloots are hard to get. they aren't and never will be. just don't waste your time on the one's seeking attention only. most however simply are not worth more than a pump and dump

sloots created the hook up culture with feminism. sloots have emulated the extreme end of what men used to be. when men were called dogs. little did these sloots realize not all men back in the day were like this. many men were decent (still like today), and many men didn't sleep around or use women. now however, because women have dropped their standards and becomes wh0res, more men echo it. they aren't worth dating 99% of the time

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post 1614611051 08-25-2020, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71
It’s not tough to match. The continuous ghosting is the annoying part.
This, getting matches or a girls number/snapchat is dead easy.

Getting them to actually meet you in real life is hard.

Girls have so many fuking options so even if they are somewhat interested, if another guy who she perceives as better comes along then you're pretty much fuked.

Yeah it's a numbers game but it can be a vicious frustrating cycle.
post 1614611251 08-25-2020, 06:43 PM
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Nah it's pretty good. They actually complain about men
Originally Posted By GordonXXX
my observation -

3. you have to be a good liar. promise everything, deliver nothing.
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post 1614611481 08-25-2020, 06:45 PM
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Sex before marrying your first cousin is haram.
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post 1614611551 08-25-2020, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By BootneckBrah
Just meet through social circles, bars, or work.
This. I assume this is how most people meet, out and about through friends. These people are doing things 5 6 or every night of the week. More times out = more possibilities.

I have my shet together, but don't go out enough to meet girls, therefore it's hard to land a gf. 1 time each weekend is 4 times a month, not really great odds there.
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post 1614611781 08-25-2020, 06:48 PM
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The last time I even tried dating was in 2015 and it was brutal, so I'll take your word for it.
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post 1614611811 08-25-2020, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis
it's not that the sloots are hard to get. they aren't and never will be. just don't waste your time on the one's seeking attention only. most however simply are not worth more than a pump and dump

sloots created the hook up culture with feminism. sloots have emulated the extreme end of what men used to be. when men were called dogs. little did these sloots realize not all men back in the day were like this. many men were decent (still like today), and many men didn't sleep around or use women. now however, because women have dropped their standards and becomes wh0res, more men echo it. they aren't worth dating 99% of the time

why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
Incel cope
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post 1614612031 08-25-2020, 06:51 PM
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Listen bruh. All you gotta do is get jacked have luscious flowing hair and age like fine wine. Just do that bruh.
post 1614612191 08-25-2020, 06:52 PM
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Maybe I live in a bubble but I see average dudes with average chicks often. And I doubt any of them met on tinder.

lol if you think dating apps are reality

Misc anecdotes often don't align with the reality I observe.
post 1614612301 08-25-2020, 06:53 PM
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If your height isn't over 6ft (or can't fraud it) and you're not at LEAST a 7/10, don't online date. It's a waste of time. Srs.

Women will create opportunities for you to cold approach, or you will need to cold approach IRL. Sack up and get it done *******s. If you're in your 30's or older, being in shape is majority of the battle. You'll be better off than majority of males.

GO OUT AND GET IT DONE. IF ONE OF YOU FOLLOWS THIS SIMPLE POST THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN WORTH IT.
post 1614612461 08-25-2020, 06:55 PM
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i find dating utterly depressing and im some what attractive.

any average or slightly above average girls will have tonnes of dudes hitting them.up on instagram tinder and so on..

this is why i bang on about my 6/10 ex because to me that will probably never happen again in my lifetime.

and she wasnt even that good but she has 1000s of dudes dming her on insta tinder etc.

what chance do i have?
post 1614612531 08-25-2020, 06:56 PM
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Be a man. Walk up to them and strike up a convo. If shes nice ask her out if shes not then try another one. If she says no then unlucky, you've proven yourself to be less puccified than 99% of men of nowadays and you actually get to dodge the absolute wretched pool of girls on dating app.

Are you up for the challenge?
post 1614612591 08-25-2020, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71
Online Apps are beyond finished. Every other profile is either:

A) FUK TRUMP
B) BLM
C) Extreme Feminist
D) Communist
E) Tattooed whales with 4 kids


Not to mention all of them think they’re Instagram “models”. Smile and look at the camera, that’s all you have to do. I don’t know what the fuk you look like when you’re staring at the ground or looking off into the clouds.

No thx.
Added their VENMO username and you've pretty much summed up dating profiles in 2020.
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post 1614612851 08-25-2020, 06:59 PM
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Originally Posted By EDcellent
If your height isn't over 6ft (or can't fraud it) and you're not at LEAST a 7/10, don't online date. It's a waste of time. Srs.

Women will create opportunities for you to cold approach, or you will need to cold approach IRL. Sack up and get it done *******s. If you're in your 30's or older, being in shape is majority of the battle. You'll be better off than majority of males.

GO OUT AND GET IT DONE. IF ONE OF YOU FOLLOWS THIS SIMPLE POST THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN WORTH IT.
This guy knows
post 1614612891 08-25-2020, 06:59 PM
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1. too many fat/ugly/old/minority/poor/baggaged women to wade through.
2. their pics are often frauds. they show up 20 pounds overweight, 10 years older, and 10X uglier.
3. they all have some kind of issue or baggage. they want you to be their Prince Charming and save them from their bad decisions and miserable lives. biitching and complaining and jaded. entitled and delusional too.
4. they are "throw-backs" for a reason. it's like going fishing - these fish are ones that were thrown back.
post 1614612951 08-25-2020, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Added their VENMO username and you've pretty much summed up dating profiles in 2020.
Man, I get so salty when they include their venmo. Feels like they're just absolutely dunking on us.
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
1. too many fat/ugly/old/minority/poor/baggaged women to wade through.
2. their pics are often frauds. they show up 20 pounds overweight, 10 years older, and 10X uglier.
3. they all have some kind of issue or baggage. they want you to be their Prince Charming and save them from their bad decisions and miserable lives. biitching and complaining and jaded. entitled and delusional too.
4. they are "throw-backs" for a reason. it's like going fishing - these fish are ones that were thrown back.
So fukin true
post 1614613691 08-25-2020, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Added their VENMO username and you've pretty much summed up dating profiles in 2020.
Don’t forget about “Never come on here, so message me on IG”.

Bitch, if you don’t use the app, delete it. I’m not following your dumb ass.
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No no. Its just brutal for white males.

My my how the tables have turned.
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if you were handsome girls make it very ez, they basically approach you
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Originally Posted By EDcellent
If your height isn't over 6ft (or can't fraud it) and you're not at LEAST a 7/10, don't online date. It's a waste of time. Srs.

Women will create opportunities for you to cold approach, or you will need to cold approach IRL. Sack up and get it done *******s. If you're in your 30's or older, being in shape is majority of the battle. You'll be better off than majority of males.

GO OUT AND GET IT DONE. IF ONE OF YOU FOLLOWS THIS SIMPLE POST THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN WORTH IT.
Misc Bane is right.
I would encourage y'all to travel too when it's possible to do so.
Some locations are great and others are ... well you know.
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post 1614617901 08-25-2020, 07:42 PM
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men are willing to date down, where as women refuse to date down

a 6 man will be like **** it and settle w a 4

a 6 women settle w a 4 man? nah, its either a 9 or nothing. "Don't settle for less" "brave stunning" etc

men actually use logic where as women don't. Men can look forward into the future 30 years where as women live literally for today.
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Most women are disillusioned by Modern Feminism. BAsically tells them to be narcissistic sociopaths
post 1614618321 08-25-2020, 07:46 PM
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Gotta play your cards right

On tinder in some countries (non 3rd world) i get 7-8s interested, girls i wouldn’t hesitate dating

In the US I get nearly fuk all. US is a brutal dating market where you have to be rich, popular as well as good looking
post 1614618421 08-25-2020, 07:48 PM
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Honestly I wonder if some of you neckbeards ever leave your houses or go places then with threads like these I realize many don't get out much.
You can go to malls, parks, movies, boardwalk etc etc. and see average,short,bald, or fat men with good looking or decent women. Sure online dating isn't the best but there are plenty of fat and or ugly men just doing fine IRL.
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post 1614618441 08-25-2020, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By BootneckBrah
This.

Always the same fgt no avis gatekeeping that dating is brutal.

Covid aside, if youre primarily attempting to meet girls online, you’re courting disappointment.


Just go out, socialise, talk face face, fukin millennial hermits I swear
Mostly this

If you dont lift and your hobbies are tv and video games you are the problem
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Finding a man with honorable intentions is also very difficult for females. A woman can find a quick lay, but finding someone who is actually single and who won't run to the misc or his little soy buddies to say her vagina is disgusting, that she smells, that she's weak and stupid, that's nearly unheard of.
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