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post 1614743781 08-26-2020, 10:35 PM
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'falling in love' is extremely beta [srs]

Here are some facts:

- love is a hormonal imbalance in the brain that is caused by cognition of a sexual partner
- when you're 'in love' with a girl, your brain just has a more reliable hormonal reaction to your perception of her, but this will fade over time as sex becomes less frequent
- all women are sloots - they spread their legs for anyone if they can justify it to themselves, and in the age of instagram all women justify A LOT of sex
- if you think you have a 'deep connection' with a girl, then know that she is just using you because she needs a provider for her children and that's all you are
- girls are always shopping around... it's like how when you buy a new phone, you consider the iPhone 11 Pro, the new Samsung Galaxy, maybe a Windows phone... women are the same way with men, and they will marry based on likelihood to be a beta provider and social status (so they can brag to their friends in the exact same way that they brag about having the new iPhone)

I'm sure I'm forgetting many great points here, but bottom line is that if you feel in love then you are a cuck

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post 1614744141 08-26-2020, 10:39 PM
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Actually if you go a bit further you realize it’s alpha to put yourself in such a vulnerable position and share your true innermost feelings with someone, risking the potential to get massively hurt so that you can unify with someone and experience one of the deepest most fulfilling things in human existence
post 1614744401 08-26-2020, 10:42 PM
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I kinda agree op, not gonna lie
post 1614744801 08-26-2020, 10:47 PM
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Men get 0 benefits by falling in love. The women has severe power over you when you've fallen in love with her srs. It's a rip if you do and the relationship doesn't work.
Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Actually if you go a bit further you realize it’s alpha to put yourself in such a vulnerable position and share your true innermost feelings with someone, risking the potential to get massively hurt so that you can unify with someone and experience one of the deepest most fulfilling things in human existence
lol @ this. Women are in the moment feelers. They'll go cold one day if they don't feel the same about you and not care anymore while you're thinking about her months later.
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post 1614744811 08-26-2020, 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Actually if you go a bit further you realize it’s alpha to put yourself in such a vulnerable position and share your true innermost feelings with someone, risking the potential to get massively hurt so that you can unify with someone and experience one of the deepest most fulfilling things in human existence
yeah it's alpha to become codependent on a sloot that is using you to fill the void that slooting has left in her life

ffs man
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post 1614745181 08-26-2020, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted By SoapKing
yeah it's alpha to become codependent on a sloot that is using you to fill the void that slooting has left in her life

ffs man
Who said anything about becoming codependent? Love is not codependent. Maybe if you have mommy issues and are using it to fill your own void.
post 1614745241 08-26-2020, 10:52 PM
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Imagine being the guy that gets stuck being the beta provider while she gets fat and loses all her glow after riding the cock carousel and settling with you. Nightmare scenario.
post 1614745291 08-26-2020, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted By WafflesBrah
Men get 0 benefits by falling in love. The women has severe power over you when you've fallen in love with her srs. It's a rip if you do and the relationship doesn't work.

lol @ this. Women are in the moment feelers. They'll go cold one day if they don't feel the same about you and not care anymore while you're thinking about her months later.
Everyone is an in the moment feeler. & Just because someone falls out of love with you doesn’t mean the love wasn’t worth having. Shielding yourself from love because you’re afraid of being hurt is beta af srs and a huge problem with society today (men and women alike)
post 1614745431 08-26-2020, 10:54 PM
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Just lmfao if you believe if a women tells you she loves you

That’s what she does when she’s trying to get something from you, and the second you do is the point she will start losing interest 99% of the time

Also never be the one to tell her “I love you” first because then you just took all the mystery out of the equation. They don’t want a man to feel like he is emotionally committed srs
post 1614745801 08-26-2020, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Who said anything about becoming codependent? Love is not codependent. Maybe if you have mommy issues and are using it to fill your own void.
If you have put yourself in a position where you are emotionally at the mercy of a sloot then she has power over your mind - you are dependent on her behaving well in order for you to feel well. That is codependency... you are now unable to function properly unless she treats you generously.

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post 1614746121 08-26-2020, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Actually if you go a bit further you realize it’s alpha to put yourself in such a vulnerable position and share your true innermost feelings with someone, risking the potential to get massively hurt so that you can unify with someone and experience one of the deepest most fulfilling things in human existence
No, it's not. It's giving into your sensual desires because it depends on circumstances involved. On the contrary, it's alpha to love someone without expecting anything in return, because you already love yourself.
Originally Posted By SoapKing
If you have put yourself in a position where you are emotionally at the mercy of a sloot then she has power over your mind - you are dependent on her behaving well in order for you to feel well. That is codependency... you are now unable to function properly unless she treats you generously.

Just beta-ness brah
This. Chicks fall in love bro. They feel the feels and we give the feels. It's like how a battery works.
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post 1614746281 08-26-2020, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
Just lmfao if you believe if a women tells you she loves you

That’s what she does when she’s trying to get something from you, and the second you do is the point she will start losing interest 99% of the time

Also never be the one to tell her “I love you” first because then you just took all the mystery out of the equation. They don’t want a man to feel like he is emotionally committed srs
Lol at going through your life never telling a woman you love her cause you're terrified of her losing attraction cause of it. If I love a woman I will tell her aslong as she has said it first tho, so I agree w/ you on that.
post 1614746371 08-26-2020, 11:10 PM
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personally have seen 2 friends in my life..

friend 1 - Supposedly your typical misc chad.

****s around with lots of women and prostitutes.
drug addict
No connection with society or family.
No career planning and broke.
Future bleak, mistakes of the past creep up on this guy as he decides to wake up to face an uncertain future.

friend 2 - "Beta" according to misc

Has stable career
Good amount in savings.
home cooked food from loyal loving wife.
Intelligent wifey and a kid he loves.
marry a girl whom he has loved for a decade.
Future looking bright.

I know which one i'd rather be.

You keep degenerating you "ALPHA" male. LMFAO , GTFO.
post 1614746451 08-26-2020, 11:11 PM
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post 1614746481 08-26-2020, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp
Lol at going through your life never telling a woman you love her cause you're terrified of her losing attraction cause of it. If I love a woman I will tell her aslong as she has said it first tho, so I agree w/ you on that.
I didn’t say that if you go back and read the post carefully

You can reciprocate based on the second condition you agreed to. But never take it to heart if she starts telling you she loves you out of nowhere one day, but by all means do reward her for it showing you appreciate her compliment

Usually it just means they are bored in the relationship and need to “spice it up” with extra feels which means she’s losing interest.
post 1614746601 08-26-2020, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By SoapKing
If you have put yourself in a position where you are emotionally at the mercy of a sloot then she has power over your mind - you are dependent on her behaving well in order for you to feel well. That is codependency... you are now unable to function properly unless she treats you generously.

Just beta-ness brah
You have a weird view of love. Emotionally I am never at the mercy of anyone but myself. I love and am happy with myself 100% fully. It is only when you truly love yourself that you can be in love with a woman and still feel confident/happy/free no matter the outcome. That is not codependency.
post 1614747081 08-26-2020, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
You have a weird view of love. Emotionally I am never at the mercy of anyone but myself. I love and am happy with myself 100% fully. It is only when you truly love yourself that you can be in love with a woman and still feel confident/happy/free no matter the outcome. That is not codependency.
To love someone and to be in love with someone is a symbol of polarity. To love someone is to penetrate them with your energy, and to be "in love" is to be penetrated.

U mad?
Originally Posted By FuarkedUp
Lol at going through your life never telling a woman you love her cause you're terrified of her losing attraction cause of it. If I love a woman I will tell her aslong as she has said it first tho, so I agree w/ you on that.
Well that's part of becoming a man. It becomes who you are. You lose the sense of wanting to receive love from a woman like your mother did. That's why many ancient texts say that when you accept that your mother has died and will never come back, that's when you truly become a man.
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post 1614764581 08-27-2020, 06:25 AM
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I don't know what to think anymore, OP is probably half right,..other posters are half right as well. Glad i got to experience love. Hell most dudes these days can't even get a date or have sex let a long reach a point with a girl you can love each other.
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falling in love is fine

but you can’t really let it overrule logic imo and you also probably can’t overtly express it
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if you have any shred of self confidence and know your own mind then you will know when you are in love. it is as natural as eating, drinking, ****ting or laughing and is probably the most fulfilling aspect of being a human being.

I feel sorry for OP and all the other lost lambs on the misc, constantly chasing "alpha" status to impress other males (most of whom are avi-less miscers).

OP it's sad that you grew up in a family devoid of love, I feel sorry for you man, you will never know what it feels like to rear your own offspring and truly be a man.

god is love
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What even is love? Let's be real.

And by red pill knowledge we know women don't really love us they just love how we make them feel.

So is love simply a hormonal response to the female stimuli?

Is it an illusion?

Being in love was the best feel i've ever felt in my life but the after math and the pain was so haunting and devestating i don't think i ever want to do it again.
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Any fool in the 50% who's been married for +10 years will tell you that love fades away, it's replaced with by a sense of partnership and furthering the family. Or for those less fortunate, it's replaced with secretly building a legal case against your partner, for a court date that may or may not ever happen.
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
Just lmfao if you believe if a women tells you she loves you

That’s what she does when she’s trying to get something from you, and the second you do is the point she will start losing interest 99% of the time

Also never be the one to tell her “I love you” first because then you just took all the mystery out of the equation. They don’t want a man to feel like he is emotionally committed srs
The question I hate the most from a girl is"do you love me?"

How do you respond to that without coming off as a dick? Especially if you've only been together off and on for a month or so.

"Love" is an incredibly strong word. To me its the:"lets settle down and get married and have kids"emotion. But if youre not quite there yet and you just say you "really like her" then it comes off as diminishing ALL feelings you have towards her. On the other hand, if you say i "love" you then it comes on as too strong especially if you havent been together that long.
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Originally Posted By Maestro
The question I hate the most from a girl is"do you love me?"

How do you respond to that without coming off as a dick? Especially if you've only been together off and on for a month or so.

"Love" is an incredibly strong word. To me its the:"lets settle down and get married and have kids"emotion. But if youre not quite there yet and you just say you "really like her" then it comes off as diminishing ALL feelings you have towards her. On the other hand, if you say i "love" you then it comes on as too strong especially if you havent been together that long.
The topic shouldn’t be brought up anyway if she knows you like her. If she asks you that then she’s probably looking for some kind of validation out of insecurity - obviously don’t give it to her, going along with the whole L word is off limits early on thing. She likely already knows you are into her that much to begin with. Keep her in suspense and just redirect the convo with some deflections like “I adore you” or “you haven’t said you love me so why should I say it first”
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Originally Posted By BDSMBBW
personally have seen 2 friends in my life..

friend 1 - Supposedly your typical misc chad.

****s around with lots of women and prostitutes.
drug addict
No connection with society or family.
No career planning and broke.
Future bleak, mistakes of the past creep up on this guy as he decides to wake up to face an uncertain future.

friend 2 - "Beta" according to misc

Has stable career
Good amount in savings.
home cooked food from loyal loving wife.
Intelligent wifey and a kid he loves.
marry a girl whom he has loved for a decade.
Future looking bright.

I know which one i'd rather be.

You keep degenerating you "ALPHA" male. LMFAO , GTFO.
Sorry, but your 2 anecdotes don't suffice as data. I have a ton of savings, a great career, and don't plan on getting married unless I find a unicorn. Just because someone is a degenerate doesn't mean if they get married the "stable" relationship will fix their problems. To take a counterexample, since we're relying on extreme anecdotes here, would you rather be Leo DiCaprio or friend 2?
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Feel sorry for you sad lonely people who actually believe this and aren’t trolling. Your reality is pathetic.
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Incel coming out thread.
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I agree. I feel more alpha when 3-4 women at a time tell me they love me. SRS
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal
Sorry, but your 2 anecdotes don't suffice as data. I have a ton of savings, a great career, and don't plan on getting married unless I find a unicorn. Just because someone is a degenerate doesn't mean if they get married the "stable" relationship will fix their problems. To take a counterexample, since we're relying on extreme anecdotes here, would you rather be Leo DiCaprio or friend 2?
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