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post 1615815181 09-07-2020, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker
LMAO
Are people this delusional?
The level of mental gymnastics.

Do you suddenly become attracted to an ugly fat girl just because she's fun to be around?
You most likely won't even give her the opportunity to show her "personality" because all of your attention would be on hotter girls.
What makes you think that girls won't act the same way?
You think that women are somewhat special and nicer than men?

Women will talk to an ugly guy just to get him to do favor for them and take them out to fancy outings.
Being used doesn't equal being attractive.


When will the cope stop?
The physical attraction is a threshold that’s individual to the specific woman. But if you are asking me if a girl who I wouldn’t usually be into has made me attracted to her, by making me feel good when she’s around, that answer is yes. And it’s confusing because I’m not that physically attracted to her, but she’s just that great of a person.

Again, she isn’t flat out obese or what I would consider gross. If that were the case, it’s be a hard no. But that line is based on the individual.

I’m not that great looking of a guy. I’d consider myself average at best. Sorta muscular, compared to maybe an average 31 year old but I’m 5’9. I also don’t really have any money as I just withdrew from law school mid 2nd year. And before that I was working a ****ty warehouse job. I have no problem attracting not just women, but people in general because I’m fun to be around.

Sure this is my own anecdotal evidence, but you can just walk out side and see couples who aren’t look matched at all and you can make your own conjectures but there is something to this.
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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker
I do have friends.
I don't "pick up" women.
I make my advances to women that show interest.
aren't you like FA? LOL

keep doing your thing and see how far that'll get you LOL
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh
lol wut?. ^ spoken like a LARPing uggo aesthetic crew wanna be who doesn'r go outside.

aesthetic dudes don't get cold approached all the time, lol. At most, attractive women will stand near him and hope he approaches, look at him intermittently and try and catch his eye, laugh slightly harder at his jokes etc.

but no, attractive guys don't get cold approached "all the time" u tard.
What you just described is a girl making it very obvious that she already likes a guy.

I've been cold approached a bunch of times myself, although almost always on campus. I don't know what it's like for oldcels who are paying a mortgage and shopping for nails at Home Depot.
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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker
LMAO
Are people this delusional?
The level of mental gymnastics.

Do you suddenly become attracted to an ugly fat girl just because she's fun to be around?
You most likely won't even give her the opportunity to show her "personality" because all of your attention would be on hotter girls.
What makes you think that girls won't act the same way?
You think that women are somewhat special and nicer than men?

Women will talk to an ugly guy just to get him to do favor for them and take them out to fancy outings.
Being used doesn't equal being attractive.


When will the cope stop?
fukn lol.

it's almost like men and women evolved to find different things attractive in the opposite sex u fukn spaz.
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tbh the west is like the hardest place in the world to date girls so i don't think FA's should be too hard on themselves. literally everywhere else it's so much easier cause of the culture. wouldn't be surprised if canada or BC is like FA nation
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post 1615815671 09-07-2020, 10:12 AM
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On topic, it doesn’t have to do with luck and if you want to claim that. You can make you’re own luck.

Different women prioritize different qualities. Some women want looks over finance. Some women don’t care much about height, others do.

You max out the qualities you can and the ones you deem important and you put yourself out there. That video
The guy posted was correct in the sense that quality women aren’t on dating apps. Sure it’s less convenient, but everyday you can put yourself at a chance of meeting someone new and you flat out ever know.

Can be as simple as smiling at a girl in a store. If she’s attracted to you, odds are good you’ll find her hovering around you later on while shopping. That’s not luck. That’s giving yourself the opportunity. Obviously this is just an example and I’m not saying hit on everyone you see. It’s called being open and approachable.
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Originally Posted By SSM12
The physical attraction is a threshold that’s individual to the specific woman. But if you are asking me if a girl who I wouldn’t usually be into has made me attracted to her, by making me feel good when she’s around, that answer is yes. And it’s confusing because I’m not that physically attracted to her, but she’s just that great of a person.

Again, she isn’t flat out obese or what I would consider gross. If that were the case, it’s be a hard no. But that line is based on the individual.

I’m not that great looking of a guy. I’d consider myself average at best. Sorta muscular, compared to maybe an average 31 year old but I’m 5’9. I also don’t really have any money as I just withdrew from law school mid 2nd year. And before that I was working a ****ty warehouse job. I have no problem attracting not just women, but people in general because I’m fun to be around.

Sure this is my own anecdotal evidence, but you can just walk out side and see couples who aren’t look matched at all and you can make your own conjectures but there is something to this.
Most couples nowadays have the guy at least 1 point higher than the woman. You also have to keep in mind that the woman is wearing makeup most of the time.

And for the looks threshold, it's clear that women have much higher threshold than men do.

Also, I laugh whenever guys say they have no problem attracting women.
What is your success rate?
Just because laid once in a while doesn't mean that most women find you attractive.


Have you heard of the term betabuxxxing?
Most ugly guys with girls are nothing more but walking ATM machines to these women
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post 1615816091 09-07-2020, 10:16 AM
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1. Be good looking
2. Don't be fat
3. Have either money or status
4. Be socially astute and confident

To keep playing the game into the later levels, have a huge cock and low inhibitions about using it as a weapon
post 1615816131 09-07-2020, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12
On topic, it doesn’t have to do with luck and if you want to claim that. You can make you’re own luck.

Different women prioritize different qualities. Some women want looks over finance. Some women don’t care much about height, others do.

You max out the qualities you can and the ones you deem important and you put yourself out there. That video
The guy posted was correct in the sense that quality women aren’t on dating apps. Sure it’s less convenient, but everyday you can put yourself at a chance of meeting someone new and you flat out ever know.

Can be as simple as smiling at a girl in a store. If she’s attracted to you, odds are good you’ll find her hovering around you later on while shopping. That’s not luck. That’s giving yourself the opportunity. Obviously this is just an example and I’m not saying hit on everyone you see. It’s called being open and approachable.
That's a lie.
The overwhelming majority of women prioritize looks.
The ones that prioritize finances are looking for betabucks.

A woman using you for your money doesn't equal a woman genuinely being attracted to you.

Isn't it obvious?
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post 1615816201 09-07-2020, 10:18 AM
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Maybe the don't give you time of the day because you're a racist piece of chit?

A racist and an incel my god what a disgrace of a human, op go fist yourself
post 1615816691 09-07-2020, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By suave2000
Maybe the don't give you time of the day because you're a racist piece of chit?

A racist and an incel my god what a disgrace of a human, op go fist yourself
you're a 31 year old vegan from Peru whose avatar on a bodybuilding forum is you hugging a Llama

I know you don't need this advice because you'll do it anyway but please fist yourself
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post 1615816811 09-07-2020, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By SoapKing
you're a 31 year old vegan from Peru whose avatar on a bodybuilding forum is you hugging a Llama

I know you don't need this advice because you'll do it anyway but please fist yourself
LMAO


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if you cant chat up someone without being in shape, just lifting some weights wont change that

learn to talk to people

but yes being big will get you more attention from guys than girls, hollywood has lied to us
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Dude who hacked your account, you have been posting nonsense recently.
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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker
That's a lie.
The overwhelming majority of women prioritize looks.
The ones that prioritize finances are looking for betabucks.

A woman using you for your money doesn't equal a woman genuinely being attracted to you.

Isn't it obvious?
women do not prioritize looks, and it's not a binary choice of looks or money.

in fact, I'd say neither looks or money is the most important factor - it's social skills or social status.
Originally Posted By trs5
if you cant chat up someone without being in shape, just lifting some weights wont change that

learn to talk to people

but yes being big will get you more attention from guys than girls, hollywood has lied to us
this.

if you've got terrible social skills and then start lifting and get jacked; you're now a jacked social tard with terrible social skills.

being good looking is like getting lots of job interviews; but if you're terrible at job interviews (have chit social skills), it's all for nothing.
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women are extremely sensitive to energy though. if your energy is bad, you won't have a good time

if it's good, they'll be intrigued.

i know that doesn't mean much, but i'm just illustrating how you could look good or whatever and it won't matter. if you're over cowering in the corner and can't interact, you won't have a good time. maybe every now and then you'll get really lucky or something with a drunk broad
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try not to have social skills of a brick and you'll be fine
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OP probably still dresses like he's in highschool.
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Misc puts too much emphasis on certain things as the reason why they are FA.
-I'm not jacked enough.
-I'm too short.
-I'm bald/don't have perfect hair.
-I'm poor.
-I'm not a social butterfly.
-I'm not popular enough.
-I don't have enough money.
etc.


The simple truth is if you aren't really good looking. You need to looksmax and compensate in another way. If you have a **** personality being good looking and having lots of money will not be enough to overcome that **** personality. You need a good balance of everything.



But for the record I'm short and bald and have never had issues with being FA. I know a few guys that are 5'8 or under and bald and none of them are FA either, or had issues being single prior to getting married/in a LTR. Quit making excuses.
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh
women do not prioritize looks, and it's not a binary choice of looks or money.

in fact, I'd say neither looks or money is the most important factor - it's social skills or social status.




this.

if you've got terrible social skills and then start lifting and get jacked; you're now just a jacked social tard with terrible social skills.

being good looking is like getting lots of job interviews; but if you're terrible at job interviews (have chit social skills), it's all for nothing.
Delusional blue pilled
LMAO
You just need social skills bro
Girls are attracted to social skills bro.

How can you say that and not catch yourself being stupid
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It's more likely due to the fact that you're an autist than the fact that physical appearance doesn't matter. Try being more sociable.
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Personality=face>money>height>everything else imo.
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Originally Posted By Suit
OP probably still dresses like he's in highschool.
i dress like im in highschool but i get girls lol. i feel the girls that judge u based on how u dress are shallow/superficial anyways
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I haven't changed the way I dress since 2013

idgaf I laughed at the sherrys threads back then and I will continue to not wear sherrys or buy clothes from H&M
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I feel ya op

But of course the 160lbs guys are "jacked" to them
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