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09-06-2020, 04:21 AM
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09-06-2020, 04:26 AM
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09-06-2020, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
lol Right?!Jesus, I'm getting impatient just reading this. Is he waiting for a signed permission slip from you?
Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Someone cat fishing with Lucis pic?ummm Lucifer you're famous bro? I knew that pic looked familiar
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09-06-2020, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Probably an attempt at humor i'd sayI matched with a girl whos bio says please pay off my student loans... that's just playful humor right?
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How old is this dude? you'd think he'd have an iota of confidence to set up a time and date to meet up with you. Surprised you're this patient lmaolol Right?!
Someone cat fishing with Lucis pic?
Someone cat fishing with Lucis pic?
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09-06-2020, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
well it's an imageboard. Nobody was claiming to be guy in the pic. It's a thread about getting lean and he was used as an example of a lean man so not really a catfish but more of a compliment really.lol Right?!
Someone cat fishing with Lucis pic?
Someone cat fishing with Lucis pic?
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09-06-2020, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle⏩
He's a couple years older than me. Well, he just gave me his number 2 weeks ago, so it's not like it's been forever. But still. Yeah. Trying to be patient cause I def think he's attractive and like talking to him. Which is really hard for me to find. And since I'm not on dating apps it's not like I've got a bunch of guys lined up waiting.Probably an attempt at humor i'd say
How old is this dude? you'd think he'd have an iota of confidence to set up a time and date to meet up with you. Surprised you're this patient lmao
How old is this dude? you'd think he'd have an iota of confidence to set up a time and date to meet up with you. Surprised you're this patient lmao
Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Ahhh I see.well it's an imageboard. Nobody was claiming to be guy in the pic. It's a thread about getting lean and he was used as an example of a lean man so not really a catfish but more of a compliment really.
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09-06-2020, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
That's a nice complimentwell it's an imageboard. Nobody was claiming to be guy in the pic. It's a thread about getting lean and he was used as an example of a lean man so not really a catfish but more of a compliment really.

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09-06-2020, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
That's when you know you've made itwell it's an imageboard. Nobody was claiming to be guy in the pic. It's a thread about getting lean and he was used as an example of a lean man so not really a catfish but more of a compliment really.

09-06-2020, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Usually it’s a lame joke but idk anymore. I know a bunch of women that put their amazon wishlist as their bio and set the age range 40+I matched with a girl whos bio says please pay off my student loans... that's just playful humor right?
To score free stuff lol Ofc it only works if they are very attractive.
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09-06-2020, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
Although used as an example of someone who isn't leanenoughThat's when you know you've made it


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09-07-2020, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
That's so annoying. You think that older guys would be really thirsty, but I think their low T levels just make them not as aggressive as younger guys to meet.He's a couple years older than me. Well, he just gave me his number 2 weeks ago, so it's not like it's been forever. But still. Yeah. Trying to be patient cause I def think he's attractive and like talking to him. Which is really hard for me to find. And since I'm not on dating apps it's not like I've got a bunch of guys lined up waiting.
Ahhh I see.
Ahhh I see.
09-07-2020, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Yea there are plenty of girls looking for sugar daddys and paypigs or whatever. Some girls even put their venmo in their bio..and some of them are really hot young girls..I matched with a girl whos bio says please pay off my student loans... that's just playful humor right?
I just matched with a super hot young girl on bumble (lives very close to me) and her bio says she's looking to be 'spoiled' lol. Not what I'm looking for but I got to admit she's hot.. she also put dumb political stuff in her bio that's a turn off. But I am tempted to hit her up because she's quite attractive (she's a latina that's 'interested in older men lols).
09-07-2020, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Some call San Jose 'Man jose" and the ratios seem bad for guys. I know the area well since I have good friends there. It's the biggest city in the Bay, and it's part city 'downtown' but has several other more suburban areas. Overall it's decent for meeting girls. But some friends that live there always complain about it and always talk about going North towards the city (sf) to meet women.I was thinking more of San Jose yet SF is just a bigger city, more expensive and filled with more homeless. San Jose and the surrounding area is more suburban.
On spread. Just lol.
On spread. Just lol.
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Date went alright. Original plans got ruined due to rain. So we just did a basic lunch and spent time talking. Felt like I was carrying the conversation but it seems like he was nervous a bit. So I won’t ditch him because of that.
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
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09-07-2020, 08:03 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
He wants the secksDate went alright. Original plans got ruined due to rain. So we just did a basic lunch and spent time talking. Felt like I was carrying the conversation but it seems like he was nervous a bit. So I won’t ditch him because of that.
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
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09-07-2020, 08:20 PM
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Having thoughts about reaching out to my ex ex now, coupled with the typical invading thoughts of “did I make a mistake“ with the last one (I know I didn’t)
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09-07-2020, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Don’t you dare luci. You’ll regret it.Having thoughts about reaching out to my ex ex now, coupled with the typical invading thoughts of “did I make a mistake“ with the last one (I know I didn’t)
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Originally Posted By sloppyjoe1⏩
Obviously but he can wait for it lulHe wants the secks
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09-07-2020, 09:28 PM
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Cute Colombian chick messaged me. Lots of prompts in her profile about finding something serious. That’s good as long as she isn’t psycho.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
you know darn well that if any of us were considering the same thing, you'd be telling us not toHaving thoughts about reaching out to my ex ex now, coupled with the typical invading thoughts of “did I make a mistake“ with the last one (I know I didn’t)
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09-07-2020, 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Review your signature sir.Having thoughts about reaching out to my ex ex now, coupled with the typical invading thoughts of “did I make a mistake“ with the last one (I know I didn’t)
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09-07-2020, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Mr
This.Review your signature sir.
Your ex ex is the worst person to reach out to. Keep moving forward. You're still young and don't have a biological clock on you.
09-07-2020, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Not going to, just dealing with the inevitable invading thoughts that come after breakup.This.
Your ex ex is the worst person to reach out to. Keep moving forward. You're still young and don't have a biological clock on you.
Your ex ex is the worst person to reach out to. Keep moving forward. You're still young and don't have a biological clock on you.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yes, keeping busy is important. I'm dealing with a bad breakup, although it wasn't as long as yours and I wasn't living with her. I'm staying busy with an adventure group as it gets me out of the house. I'll just fall asleep depressed if I'm at home so I don't have to think about it. I also go to the outside gym.Not going to, just dealing with the inevitable invading thoughts that come after breakup.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
I also call or text family and friends like you said. It's important to have that network. Work also helps keep my mind off of it.
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345⏩
i'd bet 1 - 2 monthsI want to know what exactly happend to that 1 of 30k guy she dated long term? What is long term? A month? half a year? How long does it take to jump on endless validation carousell again?
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345⏩
The validation carousel never ends. We just use different formsthe most brutal is longer convos to date ratio. 448 clowns she knew from the second 1 she ain't gonna meet with.
I want to know what exactly happend to that 1 of 30k guy she dated long term? What is long term? A month? half a year? How long does it take to jump on endless validation carousell again?
I want to know what exactly happend to that 1 of 30k guy she dated long term? What is long term? A month? half a year? How long does it take to jump on endless validation carousell again?
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Been quiet on the women situation last week or two. Got back on bumble a few days ago and I don’t know what it is with that app but I’ve never ever ever had a single match on there. Makes absolutely no sense. Tinder and hinge I would get matches here and there after the initial noob boost but bumble is a different kettle of fish and I’ve never had anything on there and it’s still the same. I’m convinced the app just doesn’t work for me lol.
I got a new job today within my company, it’s a move to a different department and is effectively a promotion, the pay hasn’t increased by much at-all but I’m really happy with the potential opportunities this will bring in the future. It’s like a stepping stone to a window of high paying opportunities and I’m pretty proud of myself.
I got a new job today within my company, it’s a move to a different department and is effectively a promotion, the pay hasn’t increased by much at-all but I’m really happy with the potential opportunities this will bring in the future. It’s like a stepping stone to a window of high paying opportunities and I’m pretty proud of myself.
09-08-2020, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Well, give it a couple dates and see if he opens up. I met a guy years ago off a dating app that barely spoke the entire time. I was trying to get the convo going and then it made me nervous that he wasn't talking so I felt like I just started babbling about nothing just to fill the silence. I don't mind silence at times, just not when you're meeting someone for the first time. Have something to say FFS.Date went alright. Original plans got ruined due to rain. So we just did a basic lunch and spent time talking. Felt like I was carrying the conversation but it seems like he was nervous a bit. So I won’t ditch him because of that.
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
I did feel like he was making it too sexual but I have an odd comfort zone compared to the avg 24yo
Also hate it when they start trying to get sexual on the first meet. I like flirting but when you're just meeting for the first time there is no need to start getting sexual. Unless you've already talked about hooking up and stuff.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Hopefully she takes your mind off your exes. Tinder guy has been good for getting my mind off FWB.Cute Colombian chick messaged me. Lots of prompts in her profile about finding something serious. That’s good as long as she isn’t psycho.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Just try to stay busy. You'll get through this.Not going to, just dealing with the inevitable invading thoughts that come after breakup.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
The funniest part is guys are just as guilty of wanting validation.The validation carousel never ends. We just use different forms
Originally Posted By Austin317⏩
Congrats on your promotion!Been quiet on the women situation last week or two. Got back on bumble a few days ago and I don’t know what it is with that app but I’ve never ever ever had a single match on there. Makes absolutely no sense. Tinder and hinge I would get matches here and there after the initial noob boost but bumble is a different kettle of fish and I’ve never had anything on there and it’s still the same. I’m convinced the app just doesn’t work for me lol.
I got a new job today within my company, it’s a move to a different department and is effectively a promotion, the pay hasn’t increased by much at-all but I’m really happy with the potential opportunities this will bring in the future. It’s like a stepping stone to a window of high paying opportunities and I’m pretty proud of myself.
I got a new job today within my company, it’s a move to a different department and is effectively a promotion, the pay hasn’t increased by much at-all but I’m really happy with the potential opportunities this will bring in the future. It’s like a stepping stone to a window of high paying opportunities and I’m pretty proud of myself.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yeah. I am. I won’t just write him off after the first date. Met some of his friends today also. Crazy group lol but seems like people I could be around since they don’t get easily offended.Well, give it a couple dates and see if he opens up. I met a guy years ago off a dating app that barely spoke the entire time. I was trying to get the convo going and then it made me nervous that he wasn't talking so I felt like I just started babbling about nothing just to fill the silence. I don't mind silence at times, just not when you're meeting someone for the first time. Have something to say FFS.
Also hate it when they start trying to get sexual on the first meet. I like flirting but when you're just meeting for the first time there is no need to start getting sexual. Unless you've already talked about hooking up and stuff.
The funniest part is guys are just as guilty of wanting validation.
Also hate it when they start trying to get sexual on the first meet. I like flirting but when you're just meeting for the first time there is no need to start getting sexual. Unless you've already talked about hooking up and stuff.
The funniest part is guys are just as guilty of wanting validation.
He also called me baby girl in front of them which gave me butterflies a bit lmaoo
I don’t mind a few sexual comments while flirting but asking me to go to your apartment.. is a big no to me. However, he called me last night and said he was happy I stuck to my word. “Not many people stick to them and keep their morals”.
Oh yes. Guys truly are and it’s fine. It’s human nature to want validation. Its only wrong if you are seeking it outside of your relationship..
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Getting drunk with friends always helped for me. But that can also lead to drunk texting, which probably isn't a good idea.Not going to, just dealing with the inevitable invading thoughts that come after breakup.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
Been keeping very busy, so that’s good, but it’s rough in moments. Creeping feeling of loneliness so trying to call family and friends.
Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Seems a bit much for just a second date.Yeah. I am. I won’t just write him off after the first date. Met some of his friends today also. Crazy group lol but seems like people I could be around since they don’t get easily offended.
He also called me baby girl in front of them which gave me butterflies a bit lmaoo
He also called me baby girl in front of them which gave me butterflies a bit lmaoo
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