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09-13-2020, 01:56 AM
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Matching a few girls, but how does this even work with covid? Do some meet up anyway?
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09-13-2020, 03:21 AM
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09-13-2020, 04:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I haven’t known one girl who has refused to meet up cause covid, they are on the apps for a reason. Had a couple who were hesitant and then I just FaceTimed them and things were good, if that doesn’t work then they just weren’t interested.Matching a few girls, but how does this even work with covid? Do some meet up anyway?
On another note, bots are super prevalent in my area now. Redownloaded tinder Friday night and sitting on 114 matches after a day and half.
Just mass swiped for 30 mins each day.
I’d say about 10-15% were bots, although the bots do unmatch now if don’t reply.
Out of town for the weekend and large Majority of my matches are near my hometown so going to try to set some things up for during this week later today.
Started matching with a lot more 18 y/os which is great since I have my own place now(roommates, but better than living at home)
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09-13-2020, 07:42 AM
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09-13-2020, 08:10 AM
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Grocery guy is out. I finally asked him what was going on yesterday and woke up to a text this morning. Apparently she'd moved out, but it didn't work out so she's back living with him. It sounds like she's not in a financial position to live on her own and he doesn't want to be a dik. Which is fine. Just wish he'd told me when that happened. He apologized profusely and I responded "No worries. I understand." So maybe one day down the road she'll get out on her own and we can date. Not hoping for it or anything but wanted things on good terms. I'll still see him at the store.
And still not sure about Tinder guy. He's an hour away and for me that just doesn't really work well for a dating/relationship type of situation.
And still not sure about Tinder guy. He's an hour away and for me that just doesn't really work well for a dating/relationship type of situation.
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09-13-2020, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Nope. Don’t make yourself the backup plan for grocery guy. He should’ve been upfront with everything right away. It’s not like you two are in Highschool.Grocery guy is out. I finally asked him what was going on yesterday and woke up to a text this morning. Apparently she'd moved out, but it didn't work out so she's back living with him. It sounds like she's not in a financial position to live on her own and he doesn't want to be a dik. Which is fine. Just wish he'd told me when that happened. He apologized profusely and I responded "No worries. I understand." So maybe one day down the road she'll get out on her own and we can date. Not hoping for it or anything but wanted things on good terms. I'll still see him at the store.
And still not sure about Tinder guy. He's an hour away and for me that just doesn't really work well for a dating/relationship type of situation.
And still not sure about Tinder guy. He's an hour away and for me that just doesn't really work well for a dating/relationship type of situation.
I’d say give tinder guy a chance and maybe always meet in the middle, or plan dates where both y’all take turns driving. Which is what I’m doing with sushi guy since he lives 30 minutes away. Maybe keep scrolling a dating app before making it official with tinder guy.
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09-13-2020, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Oh, I'm not being a backup plan for grocery guy. Just saying at some point she'll move out and he'll be ready and maybe something can happen then. Not counting on it, though. I do like him and am attracted to him which is hard to find so not ruling him out completely for the future. It really does add up, so I don't think he's lying. That first week he was texting all the time, then it dropped off. That would line up with her having moved out and then being back. And if he is being honest, I respect that he's not being a dik to her by putting her out on the street or actively dating while she's there.Nope. Don’t make yourself the backup plan for grocery guy. He should’ve been upfront with everything right away. It’s not like you two are in Highschool.
I’d say give tinder guy a chance and maybe always meet in the middle, or plan dates where both y’all take turns driving. Which is what I’m doing with sushi guy since he lives 30 minutes away. Maybe keep scrolling a dating app before making it official with tinder guy.
I’d say give tinder guy a chance and maybe always meet in the middle, or plan dates where both y’all take turns driving. Which is what I’m doing with sushi guy since he lives 30 minutes away. Maybe keep scrolling a dating app before making it official with tinder guy.
I'll prob give Tinder guy a chance. We'll see. Might just end up being a FWB type situation. I don't want to go months or years without sex waiting to find a boyfriend so I'm fine with that. I really have no interest in going back on dating apps. I sincerely hate being on them.
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09-13-2020, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Eh, I see what you mean now mama legz. I guess we’re different on the subject. He had a lot of time to tell you once she moved back in 🤷🏻♀️Oh, I'm not being a backup plan for grocery guy. Just saying at some point she'll move out and he'll be ready and maybe something can happen then. Not counting on it, though. I do like him and am attracted to him which is hard to find so not ruling him out completely for the future. It really does add up, so I don't think he's lying. That first week he was texting all the time, then it dropped off. That would line up with her having moved out and then being back. And if he is being honest, I respect that he's not being a dik to her by putting her out on the street or actively dating while she's there.
I'll prob give Tinder guy a chance. We'll see. Might just end up being a FWB type situation. I don't want to go months or years without sex waiting to find a boyfriend so I'm fine with that. I really have no interest in going back on dating apps. I sincerely hate being on them.
I'll prob give Tinder guy a chance. We'll see. Might just end up being a FWB type situation. I don't want to go months or years without sex waiting to find a boyfriend so I'm fine with that. I really have no interest in going back on dating apps. I sincerely hate being on them.
I hate being on them also. I’d just say it’s hard to find someone in perso. Without them being a coworker /: not many men cold approach in my area. When they do it’s usually just someone I don’t find attractive.
However, sushi guy told me last night he still talks to an ex since they were friends before dating. Honestly got frustrated that I wasn’t aware of it beforehand. He said he forgot since they haven’t talk in over a month. We’ll see what happens.
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09-13-2020, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Well, he never officially said she moved out, I assumed when he gave me his number that she had. So yeah, it would have been nice if he'd said when she moved back in. I would have understood.Eh, I see what you mean now mama legz. I guess we’re different on the subject. He had a lot of time to tell you once she moved back in ♀️
I hate being on them also. I’d just say it’s hard to find someone in perso. Without them being a coworker /: not many men cold approach in my area. When they do it’s usually just someone I don’t find attractive.
However, sushi guy told me last night he still talks to an ex since they were friends before dating. Honestly got frustrated that I wasn’t aware of it beforehand. He said he forgot since they haven’t talk in over a month. We’ll see what happens.
I hate being on them also. I’d just say it’s hard to find someone in perso. Without them being a coworker /: not many men cold approach in my area. When they do it’s usually just someone I don’t find attractive.
However, sushi guy told me last night he still talks to an ex since they were friends before dating. Honestly got frustrated that I wasn’t aware of it beforehand. He said he forgot since they haven’t talk in over a month. We’ll see what happens.
Same. It's about impossible to meet people IRL here. Guys pretty much never approach me. Tinder guys jaw almost hit his chest when I said that. He's like, but you're a fox. lol Still hate online dating enough to not want to get back on there.
Well, speaking to her here or there isn't a big deal, as long as he doesn't see her. I'd make that clear that that's no ok with you.
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09-13-2020, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yeah. Maybe it’ll be a lesson for him? However, I think you deserve someone that’s not scared to be honest lolWell, he never officially said she moved out, I assumed when he gave me his number that she had. So yeah, it would have been nice if he'd said when she moved back in. I would have understood.
Same. It's about impossible to meet people IRL here. Guys pretty much never approach me. Tinder guys jaw almost hit his chest when I said that. He's like, but you're a fox. lol Still hate online dating enough to not want to get back on there.
Well, speaking to her here or there isn't a big deal, as long as he doesn't see her. I'd make that clear that that's no ok with you.
Same. It's about impossible to meet people IRL here. Guys pretty much never approach me. Tinder guys jaw almost hit his chest when I said that. He's like, but you're a fox. lol Still hate online dating enough to not want to get back on there.
Well, speaking to her here or there isn't a big deal, as long as he doesn't see her. I'd make that clear that that's no ok with you.
I can imagine his face lol online dating is just so normal for my age range now. I hate it. It’s whatever though. I said yes to the sushi guy.
Eh. I believe there should be no contact with an ex unless there are kids involved. I told him I dislike it and if I see anything wrong, or if he meets her then I have no issues with NCing. He said he’ll go NC on her if I wanted. I simply said “we’ll see”. On the car ride home he said sorry for “fxxking up”. I’m just glad I didn’t stay the night.
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09-13-2020, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
At least you were told about it upfront (ahem)... now that you’ve made your boundary clear, let him take the necessary action.Eh. I believe there should be no contact with an ex unless there are kids involved. I told him I dislike it and if I see anything wrong, or if he meets her then I have no issues with NCing. He said he’ll go NC on her if I wanted. I simply said “we’ll see”. On the car ride home he said sorry for “fxxking up”. I’m just glad I didn’t stay the night.
He shouldn’t be asking you if he should go NC though, he should just do what’s necessary. He wants you to say it so he can tell his ex “she told me I have to”. Coward, but hey maybe not, I’m speculating a bit.
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09-13-2020, 12:52 PM
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Wow Legz. Grocery dude sounds like a complete time waster. That's just a chit way to treat someone you know is interested in you. If a girl did that to me, no way in hell would she get a second chance. It's not that he is letting her move back in (b/c he's a "nice guy"? hmm not sure about that one), it's that he didn't have the courtesy to say, "I'm not available". Instead he flirts, leads you on...crazy. Usually when guy is so wishy-washy, there's someone else in the picture, so at least now you finally have an answer.
09-13-2020, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That ahem lmaoAt least you were told about it upfront (ahem)... now that you’ve made your boundary clear, let him take the necessary action.
He shouldn’t be asking you if he should go NC though, he should just do what’s necessary. He wants you to say it so he can tell his ex “she told me I have to”. Coward, but hey maybe not, I’m speculating a bit.
He shouldn’t be asking you if he should go NC though, he should just do what’s necessary. He wants you to say it so he can tell his ex “she told me I have to”. Coward, but hey maybe not, I’m speculating a bit.
Anyways, that’s what I plan to do. That’s why I stated “We’ll see” lol I shouldn’t have to tell a man to delete someone. The only thing I asked “do you’d till have feelings for her and does she?”. He stated no. So we shall see. However, now the only thing I can think about is what if they talk more than he states? Because he doesn’t like photos on his ******** due to “nosy” family.
Either way. I’m just going to focus on my mother and my certificate program I joined along side my degree. If he wants to play then he can play lol nothing can stop someone from “playing”.
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09-13-2020, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
I would just say "I've made my boundaries clear, I'm not comfortable whatsoever with any communication w/ exes. I won't contact mine, but I won't dictate to you what to do."That ahem lmao
Anyways, that’s what I plan to do. That’s why I stated “We’ll see” lol I shouldn’t have to tell a man to delete someone. The only thing I asked “do you’d till have feelings for her and does she?”. He stated no. So we shall see. However, now the only thing I can think about is what if they talk more than he states? Because he doesn’t like photos on his ******** due to “nosy” family.
Either way. I’m just going to focus on my mother and my certificate program I joined along side my degree. If he wants to play then he can play lol nothing can stop someone from “playing”.
Anyways, that’s what I plan to do. That’s why I stated “We’ll see” lol I shouldn’t have to tell a man to delete someone. The only thing I asked “do you’d till have feelings for her and does she?”. He stated no. So we shall see. However, now the only thing I can think about is what if they talk more than he states? Because he doesn’t like photos on his ******** due to “nosy” family.
Either way. I’m just going to focus on my mother and my certificate program I joined along side my degree. If he wants to play then he can play lol nothing can stop someone from “playing”.
Check back in with him in a few weeks, if he doesn't say anything. End it if he's still in touch, his character has been revealed.
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09-13-2020, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I’ll say that on our next phone call, or in person. I personally asked “would you like if I talked my exes?” And he stated no. So it should be pretty clear on what to do imo.I would just say "I've made my boundaries clear, I'm not comfortable whatsoever with any communication w/ exes. I won't contact mine, but I won't dictate to you what to do."
Check back in with him in a few weeks, if he doesn't say anything. End it if he's still in touch, his character has been revealed.
Check back in with him in a few weeks, if he doesn't say anything. End it if he's still in touch, his character has been revealed.
Oh I will. It’s my goal to figure out if he’s the playing type 🤷🏻♀️ I already told him if he does then it’s his lost. He won’t find a conservative woman in our age range.
Edit: he called in. He stated “someone shouldn’t hold their past on something that is just starting. It’s best to give them trust and see if they break it”
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09-13-2020, 02:14 PM
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So I usually don't get any likes on Tinder or Bumble, but my friend was telling me about our other friend that created a Tinder profile and in the bio he put that he's just looking to hook up and that he was an ******* in the bio about it, and he suggested I do the same. So I created a Tinder profile again, and I went a step further and claimed I already have a girlfriend and I'm just looking to hook up, and I'm surprised at the amount of likes and matches I have now. I got more likes and matches in 1 day than I did in 6 months on Tinder with my regular bio.
09-13-2020, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
Haha, tempted to do it as well, but I've seen girls who I recognize so it could backfire big time. Probably want to use all new pics each time you run it.So I usually don't get any likes on Tinder or Bumble, but my friend was telling me about our other friend that created a Tinder profile and in the bio he put that he's just looking to hook up and that he was an ******* in the bio about it, and he suggested I do the same. So I created a Tinder profile again, and I went a step further and claimed I already have a girlfriend and I'm just looking to hook up, and I'm surprised at the amount of likes and matches I have now. I got more likes and matches in 1 day than I did in 6 months on Tinder with my regular bio.
Also, I've not matched with girls who were memorable enough to try again with six months later, and then we connect. So if the quality girl (JFL at the idea of quality on Tinder, very rare) is on there and remembers my bio, then I'm done before I start. I'm not above changing my bio depending on who I swiped on, in one case I mentioned lacrosse since I was going after a girls lax coach. We matched and I'm sure that helped.
09-13-2020, 03:50 PM
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Went surfing today with a couple friends, had some pictures taken. Chiiiiiiit. I am ****ing awful at taking photos. I know I’m not as bad as I make myself look in photos lol, is there some sort of online class for taking good photos without looking bad lol, I feel like if a video was taken of me I’d look fine but that exact millisecond the picture is taken I must accidentally do a screw face or something lol.
My country is also getting strict rules put back into place tomorrow in regards to covid. Masks are to be worn everywhere, no more than 6 people together at once. Chit sucks.
My country is also getting strict rules put back into place tomorrow in regards to covid. Masks are to be worn everywhere, no more than 6 people together at once. Chit sucks.
09-13-2020, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yep, true.Yeah. Maybe it’ll be a lesson for him? However, I think you deserve someone that’s not scared to be honest lol
I can imagine his face lol online dating is just so normal for my age range now. I hate it. It’s whatever though. I said yes to the sushi guy.
Eh. I believe there should be no contact with an ex unless there are kids involved. I told him I dislike it and if I see anything wrong, or if he meets her then I have no issues with NCing. He said he’ll go NC on her if I wanted. I simply said “we’ll see”. On the car ride home he said sorry for “fxxking up”. I’m just glad I didn’t stay the night.
I can imagine his face lol online dating is just so normal for my age range now. I hate it. It’s whatever though. I said yes to the sushi guy.
Eh. I believe there should be no contact with an ex unless there are kids involved. I told him I dislike it and if I see anything wrong, or if he meets her then I have no issues with NCing. He said he’ll go NC on her if I wanted. I simply said “we’ll see”. On the car ride home he said sorry for “fxxking up”. I’m just glad I didn’t stay the night.
I guess I look at it as, I could occasionally speak to an ex and know that I won't want to do anything with them. I know that's not true for a lot of people though, and it would be hard to trust someone in that situation.
Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
Well, he didn't lead me on, he was honest about his situation from the first. When he gave me his number she had moved out. The problem is she ended up back there and he didn't just say so, which would have explained his not texting like he had been. So yeah, he's definitely in the wrong, but I don't think he did it maliciously. He apologized profusely this morning. Not waiting around or hoping for anything in the future, but if he gets all that cleared up I would be willing to talk to him to see if it could go anywhere.Wow Legz. Grocery dude sounds like a complete time waster. That's just a chit way to treat someone you know is interested in you. If a girl did that to me, no way in hell would she get a second chance. It's not that he is letting her move back in (b/c he's a "nice guy"? hmm not sure about that one), it's that he didn't have the courtesy to say, "I'm not available". Instead he flirts, leads you on...crazy. Usually when guy is so wishy-washy, there's someone else in the picture, so at least now you finally have an answer.
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09-13-2020, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yep. It’s hard to trust someone that you are still getting to know but it’s whatever tbh. I’m not going to get my hopes up and keep looking for red flags since he has done two already. If he does one more then it’s just go to be a strike and I will NCYep, true.
I guess I look at it as, I could occasionally speak to an ex and know that I won't want to do anything with them. I know that's not true for a lot of people though, and it would be hard to trust someone in that situation.
I guess I look at it as, I could occasionally speak to an ex and know that I won't want to do anything with them. I know that's not true for a lot of people though, and it would be hard to trust someone in that situation.
Edit: after finishing posting that ^
Kinda sad to realize. Honestly think I was born in the wrong generation
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09-13-2020, 04:54 PM
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Man I really felt like I hit it off with this girl on bumble. Turns out we grew up in the same place and had so much in common. Over the span of 4 days talked more over the app then with anyone else lol. Then wanted to invite her for a drink to a local bar and silence for day 3 now.
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09-13-2020, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩
You're probably not that photogenic and just get a professional photographer to take your pictures for you; he or she will tell you exactly which pose or facial expression fits you the best.Went surfing today with a couple friends, had some pictures taken. Chiiiiiiit. I am ****ing awful at taking photos. I know I’m not as bad as I make myself look in photos lol, is there some sort of online class for taking good photos without looking bad lol, I feel like if a video was taken of me I’d look fine but that exact millisecond the picture is taken I must accidentally do a screw face or something lol.
My country is also getting strict rules put back into place tomorrow in regards to covid. Masks are to be worn everywhere, no more than 6 people together at once. Chit sucks.
My country is also getting strict rules put back into place tomorrow in regards to covid. Masks are to be worn everywhere, no more than 6 people together at once. Chit sucks.
09-13-2020, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Why would you spend all that time talking on Bumble for?Man I really felt like I hit it off with this girl on bumble. Turns out we grew up in the same place and had so much in common. Over the span of 4 days talked more over the app then with anyone else lol. Then wanted to invite her for a drink to a local bar and silence for day 3 now.
You should have tried to get her off the app asap; that's what I do and alot of times it does work and the times it doesn't it just shows they weren't really that interested.
Granted she probably would have just ghosted your ass regardless but saying something like "Hey let's take this conversation of ours outside of this app, here's my number 123-456-7890, hit me up so we can set up plans" you would have known asap she wasn't interested so she doesn't waste your time instead of wasting 4 days talking on the app.
09-13-2020, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Well that stinks. Assuming you're the last one who messaged and she left you hanging?Man I really felt like I hit it off with this girl on bumble. Turns out we grew up in the same place and had so much in common. Over the span of 4 days talked more over the app then with anyone else lol. Then wanted to invite her for a drink to a local bar and silence for day 3 now.
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09-13-2020, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted By mcboo2⏩
Yeah you're right, some will.Some will its def taking me longer than normal though
If you hear some excuse like "We should talk on here more often due to the pandemic", 99% of the time they're not sexually interested in you and will just use you for attention over a span of weeks or months.
If a woman likes you, she's gonna wanna meet up with you regardless. Sure some women might not want to anyway even if they like you due to living with high risk relatives but even then there are still plenty of other women out there that will meet up with you.
09-13-2020, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
I have "I'm not looking for anything serious" in my bios which is essentially the same thing and I still get matches myself so yeah it does work.So I usually don't get any likes on Tinder or Bumble, but my friend was telling me about our other friend that created a Tinder profile and in the bio he put that he's just looking to hook up and that he was an ******* in the bio about it, and he suggested I do the same. So I created a Tinder profile again, and I went a step further and claimed I already have a girlfriend and I'm just looking to hook up, and I'm surprised at the amount of likes and matches I have now. I got more likes and matches in 1 day than I did in 6 months on Tinder with my regular bio.
Just keep on grinding, you'll get some success at some point.
09-13-2020, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
This. Until you've met in person you know her about as well as you do some random miscer.Why would you spend all that time talking on Bumble for?
You should have tried to get her off the app asap; that's what I do and alot of times it does work and the times it doesn't it just shows they weren't really that interested.
Granted she probably would have just ghosted your ass regardless but saying something like "Hey let's take this conversation of ours outside of this app, here's my number 123-456-7890, hit me up so we can set up plans" you would have known asap she wasn't interested so she doesn't waste your time instead of wasting 4 days talking on the app.
You should have tried to get her off the app asap; that's what I do and alot of times it does work and the times it doesn't it just shows they weren't really that interested.
Granted she probably would have just ghosted your ass regardless but saying something like "Hey let's take this conversation of ours outside of this app, here's my number 123-456-7890, hit me up so we can set up plans" you would have known asap she wasn't interested so she doesn't waste your time instead of wasting 4 days talking on the app.
09-13-2020, 11:11 PM
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Girl wants to meet this week, let's see if it actually happens.
Matches and stuff have been decent, but I reckon it's because I just re-activated them.
Matches and stuff have been decent, but I reckon it's because I just re-activated them.
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09-14-2020, 02:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
How many Likes?So I usually don't get any likes on Tinder or Bumble, but my friend was telling me about our other friend that created a Tinder profile and in the bio he put that he's just looking to hook up and that he was an ******* in the bio about it, and he suggested I do the same. So I created a Tinder profile again, and I went a step further and claimed I already have a girlfriend and I'm just looking to hook up, and I'm surprised at the amount of likes and matches I have now. I got more likes and matches in 1 day than I did in 6 months on Tinder with my regular bio.
How big is your city?
09-14-2020, 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
I've had over 30 girls come straight to my place from Tinder/Bumble/Hinge in the last two years. The vast majority came over the same night we matched or within 1-2 days max - any more and they lose interest.Man I really felt like I hit it off with this girl on bumble. Turns out we grew up in the same place and had so much in common. Over the span of 4 days talked more over the app then with anyone else lol. Then wanted to invite her for a drink to a local bar and silence for day 3 now.
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