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Originally Posted By spinaroonie⏩
mind blown...I've had over 30 girls come straight to my place from Tinder/Bumble/Hinge in the last two years. The vast majority came over the same night we matched or within 1-2 days max - any more and they lose interest.
but on the other hand... you have total strangers coming over to your place?
good thing is I have a bar like a 2 minute walk from my place lol
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Got a text from the girl I was seeing saying that she thinks I'm amazing but doesn't see this going anywhere and bla bla bla...
Normally I wouldn't care too much as we weren't dating long but today I found out my ex is dating a buddy of mine
I just feel like crying to be honest
Normally I wouldn't care too much as we weren't dating long but today I found out my ex is dating a buddy of mine
I just feel like crying to be honest
09-14-2020, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
I've stopped doing public dates altogether and only have girls meet at my place. There's enough volume and churn in my city for at least one girl over from apps each week.mind blown...
but on the other hand... you have total strangers coming over to your place?
good thing is I have a bar like a 2 minute walk from my place lol
but on the other hand... you have total strangers coming over to your place?
good thing is I have a bar like a 2 minute walk from my place lol
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
True man, dont waste days on end chatting.Why would you spend all that time talking on Bumble for?
You should have tried to get her off the app asap; that's what I do and alot of times it does work and the times it doesn't it just shows they weren't really that interested.
Granted she probably would have just ghosted your ass regardless but saying something like "Hey let's take this conversation of ours outside of this app, here's my number 123-456-7890, hit me up so we can set up plans" you would have known asap she wasn't interested so she doesn't waste your time instead of wasting 4 days talking on the app.
You should have tried to get her off the app asap; that's what I do and alot of times it does work and the times it doesn't it just shows they weren't really that interested.
Granted she probably would have just ghosted your ass regardless but saying something like "Hey let's take this conversation of ours outside of this app, here's my number 123-456-7890, hit me up so we can set up plans" you would have known asap she wasn't interested so she doesn't waste your time instead of wasting 4 days talking on the app.
While you are taking days to chat, shes going out with other ppl in the meantime.
My best results have came with asking for a meetup after some brief convos, it really weeds out the time wasters.
I've even had some ask me to meet the same day, a couple hours after talking.
Just go for it, OP
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Originally Posted By spinaroonie⏩
Yeah I stopped doing dates a long time ago myself.I've stopped doing public dates altogether and only have girls meet at my place. There's enough volume and churn in my city for at least one girl over from apps each week.
I usually either meet at their place or mine or if we gotta, we go to a hotel.
People who are saying they're mindblown have never been in that situation (at least not yet anyway) so it seems abnormal for them.
I'll only go on a date with a chick who's my gf, not some random woman I met online or in public I don't even know.
To me if you're going on dates to impress women you just met, you're just pandering.
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Originally Posted By redliner9⏩
Nice chitTrue man, dont waste days on end chatting.
While you are taking days to chat, shes going out with other ppl in the meantime.
My best results have came with asking for a meetup after some brief convos, it really weeds out the time wasters.
I've even had some ask me to meet the same day, a couple hours after talking.
Just go for it, OP
While you are taking days to chat, shes going out with other ppl in the meantime.
My best results have came with asking for a meetup after some brief convos, it really weeds out the time wasters.
I've even had some ask me to meet the same day, a couple hours after talking.
Just go for it, OP
09-14-2020, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
he's banging her still.Oh, I'm not being a backup plan for grocery guy. Just saying at some point she'll move out and he'll be ready and maybe something can happen then. Not counting on it, though. I do like him and am attracted to him which is hard to find so not ruling him out completely for the future. It really does add up, so I don't think he's lying. That first week he was texting all the time, then it dropped off. That would line up with her having moved out and then being back. And if he is being honest, I respect that he's not being a dik to her by putting her out on the street or actively dating while she's there.
I'll prob give Tinder guy a chance. We'll see. Might just end up being a FWB type situation. I don't want to go months or years without sex waiting to find a boyfriend so I'm fine with that. I really have no interest in going back on dating apps. I sincerely hate being on them.
I'll prob give Tinder guy a chance. We'll see. Might just end up being a FWB type situation. I don't want to go months or years without sex waiting to find a boyfriend so I'm fine with that. I really have no interest in going back on dating apps. I sincerely hate being on them.
sorry but he must be really good looking if you are going to put up with that.
most dudes I know in this situation packed the woman's chit up and drove her to her parents house and washed their hands of them.
I smell BS.
it actually doesn't add up.
why cockblock yourself?
why would a man voluntarily go without sex or miss out on a chance with another woman?
If he was really interested in you she'd be gone and out of his life.
09-14-2020, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
This.Yeah I stopped doing dates a long time ago myself.
I usually either meet at their place or mine or if we gotta, we go to a hotel.
People who are saying they're mindblown have never been in that situation (at least not yet anyway) so it seems abnormal for them.
I'll only go on a date with a chick who's my gf, not some random woman I met online or in public I don't even know.
To me if you're going on dates to impress women you just met, you're just pandering.
I usually either meet at their place or mine or if we gotta, we go to a hotel.
People who are saying they're mindblown have never been in that situation (at least not yet anyway) so it seems abnormal for them.
I'll only go on a date with a chick who's my gf, not some random woman I met online or in public I don't even know.
To me if you're going on dates to impress women you just met, you're just pandering.
Don't be the chump who wines and dines a girl who went over to BlackScorpio's place the week before!
Pitch the date at your place.
Of the girls who've gone straight to a guy's place at least once before:
- Most will open to doing it again with you with little "comfort" required
- Remainder are in their "post-hoe" phase
Of the remainder of girls who've never gone straight to a guy's place at least once before:
- Most will balk entirely at the suggestion
- Remainder will be open to the idea, but will need more "comfort"
09-14-2020, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
He's cute and I like talking to him. He's also bald and on the short side. Shrug. I'm not putting up with anything now that I know she's back living there. I also don't agree with the he'd pack up her stuff and drive her to her parents. We don't even know if she has parents alive, where they may be, etc. It's really not that easy when you don't have the financial means to live on your own. If what he's saying is truth then I respect him for not being a dik and putting her out on the street. I didn't get the impression they were broken up because they hated each other or that she did something terrible to him. Breakups don't always have to be hateful.he's banging her still.
sorry but he must be really good looking if you are going to put up with that.
most dudes I know in this situation packed the woman's chit up and drove her to her parents house and washed their hands of them.
I smell BS.
it actually doesn't add up.
why cockblock yourself?
why would a man voluntarily go without sex or miss out on a chance with another woman?
If he was really interested in you she'd be gone and out of his life.
sorry but he must be really good looking if you are going to put up with that.
most dudes I know in this situation packed the woman's chit up and drove her to her parents house and washed their hands of them.
I smell BS.
it actually doesn't add up.
why cockblock yourself?
why would a man voluntarily go without sex or miss out on a chance with another woman?
If he was really interested in you she'd be gone and out of his life.
If it's BS, then it's BS and nothing will ever happen between us. It's not like I'm trying to get in the middle of their situation.
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And then you got women who leveas you on read for not entertaining enough message.
It's only black and white from now on. Either she is in or not. 0 effort from my side apart from asking out and some short casual banter.
It's only black and white from now on. Either she is in or not. 0 effort from my side apart from asking out and some short casual banter.
09-14-2020, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
If a woman I've never met comes straight over to my place, she's a moron. I'm a decent guy, but she doesn't know that.Yeah I stopped doing dates a long time ago myself.
I usually either meet at their place or mine or if we gotta, we go to a hotel.
People who are saying they're mindblown have never been in that situation (at least not yet anyway) so it seems abnormal for them.
I'll only go on a date with a chick who's my gf, not some random woman I met online or in public I don't even know.
To me if you're going on dates to impress women you just met, you're just pandering.
I usually either meet at their place or mine or if we gotta, we go to a hotel.
People who are saying they're mindblown have never been in that situation (at least not yet anyway) so it seems abnormal for them.
I'll only go on a date with a chick who's my gf, not some random woman I met online or in public I don't even know.
To me if you're going on dates to impress women you just met, you're just pandering.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
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09-14-2020, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
this...If a woman I've never met comes straight over to my place, she's a moron. I'm a decent guy, but she doesn't know that.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
also not to mention I don't really now if I want all these skanks over at my place before I know who they are nomsayin.
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09-14-2020, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
Yup, I wouldn't be very comfortable going to anyone's place before meeting publicly.this...
also not to mention I don't really now if I want all these skanks over at my place before I know who they are nomsayin.
also not to mention I don't really now if I want all these skanks over at my place before I know who they are nomsayin.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
It’s common for sexual assault to happen and I don’t see how women have courage to do it on the first date. I remember asking a FB group w/ all women and all of the younger girls encouraged me to stay the night with sushi guy. LmaoooIf a woman I've never met comes straight over to my place, she's a moron. I'm a decent guy, but she doesn't know that.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
Just wow.
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09-14-2020, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yes, and these are just the personal 1:1 stories I've heard. Women should never be encouraged to put themselves in this kind of situation.It’s common for sexual assault to happen and I don’t see how women have courage to do it on the first date. I remember asking a FB group w/ all women and all of the younger girls encouraged me to stay the night with sushi guy. Lmaooo
Just wow.
Just wow.
It's bizarre to me that this happens and is semi-normalized, srs. Really idiotic.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Sexual attraction beats logic at times.If a woman I've never met comes straight over to my place, she's a moron. I'm a decent guy, but she doesn't know that.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
I've heard several stories of women being sexually assaulted in these scenarios.
If a woman doesn't want to come to my place, that's fine. I just move on as at times I really don't feel like meeting in public to "get a feel" for the other person as that requires doing something more extra than necessary and I'm all about being seamless.
Getting laid should be easy, not having to go through all these hoops and plus even if we do agree to meet in public, you do realize she can still flake or ghost right?
There's no guarantee if I agree to meet at a bar to feel each other out that she still won't ghost or flake as I've been stood up in public before.
If she flakes or ghosts if we scheduled to go to her place or mine, at least I can still do other stuff at my place and I didn't waste gas or time walking or driving anywhere.
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I think people tend confuse what the consequences for doing something should be and what they are in reality.
Like it's totally a woman's right to go over to some unknown dude's house, have sex and leave. The consequencesshould be that they have sex, the end. The real life consequences may be very different.
Like it's totally a woman's right to go over to some unknown dude's house, have sex and leave. The consequencesshould be that they have sex, the end. The real life consequences may be very different.
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I’m on the way to a drink date now. Personally I don’t have any issue with going on dates cause it’s stuff I would want to do anyway, or if chit goes south I enjoyed myself anyway.
So pretty much only drinks, Ice cream or boardwalk.
If I had my true own place, I’d just almost exclusively invite girls straight over or to the bar near my place.
I’m still inviting girls over now, but can’t make it easy and do like dinner and drinks for a while cause got roommates.
I got two dates lined up for tomorrow, and actually had my worst one ever the other day but I’ll post an update in a few days.
Also I have no fear about inviting a woman over. I am confident that none of these tinder broads would beat me 1 on 1, and I have firearms if they were going to try to set me up ad my house
So pretty much only drinks, Ice cream or boardwalk.
If I had my true own place, I’d just almost exclusively invite girls straight over or to the bar near my place.
I’m still inviting girls over now, but can’t make it easy and do like dinner and drinks for a while cause got roommates.
I got two dates lined up for tomorrow, and actually had my worst one ever the other day but I’ll post an update in a few days.
Also I have no fear about inviting a woman over. I am confident that none of these tinder broads would beat me 1 on 1, and I have firearms if they were going to try to set me up ad my house
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
It's weird but similar things have happened to me on Bumble. Lots of attractive women on there, but the algorithm seems weird based on the timing I get matches..it will be dead for like 2 weeks and then I'll get 3 in a row..then 2 of them will forget to message. One will send me an awesome message and then leave and forget about it and doesn't reply to my reply (most will only send a wave emoji or hello). Also I've been ghosted on there too (I don't string things along with a lot of messages usually). Everytime I'm about to delete it I'll match with some hottie to get my hopes up (it's taught me to keep hopes low now lol).Man I really felt like I hit it off with this girl on bumble. Turns out we grew up in the same place and had so much in common. Over the span of 4 days talked more over the app then with anyone else lol. Then wanted to invite her for a drink to a local bar and silence for day 3 now.
I still keep the app and don't pay anymore though. It seems I get a similar match rate whether I buy the boost or not.
09-14-2020, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
You do you and get laid. Don’t call the rest of us panderers because we want to date differently and find a serious partner that isn’t an irresponsible slut.Sexual attraction beats logic at times.
If a woman doesn't want to come to my place, that's fine. I just move on as at times I really don't feel like meeting in public to "get a feel" for the other person as that requires doing something more extra than necessary and I'm all about being seamless.
Getting laid should be easy, not having to go through all these hoops and plus even if we do agree to meet in public, you do realize she can still flake or ghost right?
There's no guarantee if I agree to meet at a bar to feel each other out that she still won't ghost or flake as I've been stood up in public before.
If she flakes or ghosts if we scheduled to go to her place or mine, at least I can still do other stuff at my place and I didn't waste gas or time walking or driving anywhere.
If a woman doesn't want to come to my place, that's fine. I just move on as at times I really don't feel like meeting in public to "get a feel" for the other person as that requires doing something more extra than necessary and I'm all about being seamless.
Getting laid should be easy, not having to go through all these hoops and plus even if we do agree to meet in public, you do realize she can still flake or ghost right?
There's no guarantee if I agree to meet at a bar to feel each other out that she still won't ghost or flake as I've been stood up in public before.
If she flakes or ghosts if we scheduled to go to her place or mine, at least I can still do other stuff at my place and I didn't waste gas or time walking or driving anywhere.
If a girl came straight to mine without a care, I’d judge her intelligence/maturity.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Imo you are panderers if you wanna go on dates with women you don't know but that's my opinion. You don't have to agree with it but just accept it.You do you and get laid. Don’t call the rest of us panderers because we want to date differently and find a serious partner that isn’t an irresponsible slut.
If a girl came straight to mine without a care, I’d judge her intelligence/maturity.
If a girl came straight to mine without a care, I’d judge her intelligence/maturity.
You also do you and if it's working for you keep at it.
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i don’t mind going on a few dates with a girl but then after that instead of going somewhere before fukking, id rather just have her come over or go to her place. I actually prefer going to her place over her staying at mine since i can leave and i feel bad kicking them out sometimes
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Originally Posted By spazzin⏩
Yeah that's one pro of going to a woman's place.i don’t mind going on a few dates with a girl but then after that instead of going somewhere before fukking, id rather just have her come over or go to her place. I actually prefer going to her place over her staying at mine since i can leave and i feel bad kicking them out sometimes
But if a woman lives further away? I rather have her come to mine.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I believe the risk for sexual assault is over blown in these scenarios, but I do accept the premise. Feminists will argue that this is victim blaming etc, and I do see where they're coming from, but it's also a reality they have to deal with.Yes, and these are just the personal 1:1 stories I've heard. Women should never be encouraged to put themselves in this kind of situation.
It's bizarre to me that this happens and is semi-normalized, srs. Really idiotic.
It's bizarre to me that this happens and is semi-normalized, srs. Really idiotic.
To draw a comparison, if you're ever pulled over by a cop who's being overly aggressive or unreasonable, it's best to just do as they say, not be overly confrontational, and then file a complaint or pursue your legal options once you're out of the situation. Whether a citizen should have to think that way in an ideal world is irrelevant.
09-14-2020, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
I agree, if I got into the hood and get shot, I maintain some responsibility for it.I believe the risk for sexual assault is over blown in these scenarios, but I do accept the premise. Feminists will argue that this is victim blaming etc, and I do see where they're coming from, but it's also a reality they have to deal with.
To draw a comparison, if you're ever pulled over by a cop who's being overly aggressive or unreasonable, it's best to just do as they say, not be overly confrontational, and then file a complaint or pursue your legal options once you're out of the situation. Whether a citizen should have to think that way in an ideal world is irrelevant.
To draw a comparison, if you're ever pulled over by a cop who's being overly aggressive or unreasonable, it's best to just do as they say, not be overly confrontational, and then file a complaint or pursue your legal options once you're out of the situation. Whether a citizen should have to think that way in an ideal world is irrelevant.
Perhaps it’s overblown in general, given the whole metoo thing. But my experiences indicate it’s still relatively common and almost always because the woman out themselves in a bad situation, like going to a strangers apartment.
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09-14-2020, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
You’re entitled to your opinion, but I don’t have to accept it as fact.Imo you are panderers if you wanna go on dates with women you don't know but that's my opinion. You don't have to agree with it but just accept it.
You also do you and if it's working for you keep at it.
You also do you and if it's working for you keep at it.
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09-14-2020, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Agree, but taken too far this type of reasoning can also lead to paralysis. These type of sexual assaults can, and do, happen on the third, fourth, or fifth date as well. I believe you should always meet in public first, but some level of risk is unfortunately always present (in terms of the woman's reality) in the early stages of dating.I agree, if I got into the hood and get shot, I maintain some responsibility for it.
Perhaps it’s overblown in general, given the whole metoo thing. But my experiences indicate it’s still relatively common and almost always because the woman out themselves in a bad situation, like going to a strangers apartment.
Perhaps it’s overblown in general, given the whole metoo thing. But my experiences indicate it’s still relatively common and almost always because the woman out themselves in a bad situation, like going to a strangers apartment.
09-14-2020, 11:25 PM
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Made sushi guy a bit “upset” tonight (not on purpose)
Before we were exclusive I put my # and email on my schools discord info about students. Had a male peer contact me by my phone #. Sushi guy looked puzzled and stated it was sus when I told him on FT. Made me laugh it a bit. Which confused him and I blurted out “Now you know how I feel about your ex. I have no connection to this man besides school and no history with him.”
He just asks “so was this payback?”. Which it wasn’t. I don’t believe in doing so. However, I can tell the guy at my school has a crush so I will be ignoring to respect sushi guy.
Before we were exclusive I put my # and email on my schools discord info about students. Had a male peer contact me by my phone #. Sushi guy looked puzzled and stated it was sus when I told him on FT. Made me laugh it a bit. Which confused him and I blurted out “Now you know how I feel about your ex. I have no connection to this man besides school and no history with him.”
He just asks “so was this payback?”. Which it wasn’t. I don’t believe in doing so. However, I can tell the guy at my school has a crush so I will be ignoring to respect sushi guy.
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09-14-2020, 11:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Well you can't eliminate risk but it's not smart for a female not to meet a guy in public before heading off for sex. Like at least screen for 30 minutes, you can weed out a majority of mental cases just by seeing if they are a bit 'off'.Agree, but taken too far this type of reasoning can also lead to paralysis. These type of sexual assaults can, and do, happen on the third, fourth, or fifth date as well. I believe you should always meet in public first, but some level of risk is unfortunately always present (in terms of the woman's reality) in the early stages of dating.
A well motivated predator with reasonable social skills is going to find victims one way or another, but at least you can pass on the obvious tweaker or the guy who didn't wash for a week.
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