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post 1616761991 09-16-2020, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
I think why double texts get a negative connotation is because simps will send them a fewhoursafter not receiving a response. like, bruh, not gonna make much of a difference.
How long inbetween texts you talking about?

Waiting a few weeks (maybe even months) proves you aren't needy and if the timing is right ie she doesn't have anything else going on and has some time to kill it can def work.
post 1616768201 09-17-2020, 12:55 AM
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Got a date lined up for Friday, she’s pretty, doesn’t wear much makeup, has a nice body/goes to the gym, has extremely similar movie tastes and interests as me which is a huge plus in my books, doesn’t go out to clubs and also has the same kind of humour as me.

Trying not to be as critical about her as I have been with other girls in the past.
post 1616768351 09-17-2020, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩
Got a date lined up for Friday, she’s pretty, doesn’t wear much makeup, has a nice body/goes to the gym, has extremely similar movie tastes and interests as me which is a huge plus in my books, doesn’t go out to clubs and also has the same kind of humour as me.

Trying not to be as critical about her as I have been with other girls in the past.
Just keep your expectations low, and hopes high. We all tend to idolize potential partners, but so far so good - best of luck.

Don’t be critical of things that aren’t genuine character flaws or value mismatches. Little things just don’t matter much.
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post 1616771771 09-17-2020, 02:41 AM
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Broke up with my gf today so in
post 1616772481 09-17-2020, 03:02 AM
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Originally Posted By AestheticNoz⏩
Broke up with my gf today so in
No story time?
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post 1616772621 09-17-2020, 03:08 AM
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Are people really still on Tinder? It legit used to be the best app known to man but at least in MA it has become bottom tier compared to Hinge.
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post 1616772701 09-17-2020, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted By chaoserver⏩
Are people really still on Tinder? It legit used to be the best app known to man but at least in MA it has become bottom tier compared to Hinge.
bro I'm not even on hinge I need to get in on that.
Tinder is like 80% either obese or massive amount of tattoos/piercings on these girls.
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post 1616772811 09-17-2020, 03:16 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
bro I'm not even on hinge I need to get in on that.
Tinder is like 80% either obese or massive amount of tattoos/piercings on these girls.
Thats what I'm saying. Way back around when it came out it was tons of HBB's eager to come over, these days its a cocktail of bots and low tier one word wonders. It can certainly still get the job done, but in 2020... Why?
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post 1616773021 09-17-2020, 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
No story time?
Former colleague, petite Indian girl with a nice face and banging body. Got together a few weeks after I broke up with my ex of 5 years.

Had a good year together, lived in London with her did a bit of travelling before COVID fuarked everything. Moved back but she wanted to stay in London whereas my priority right now is saving everything I earn for a deposit on a place.
post 1616800831 09-17-2020, 10:52 AM
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Tinder is still good for alot of dudes.

I used to think the same too but I realize it was because I wasn't as good looking as I am now.

Granted I don't be getting a ****load of matches every day all day but I still get matches.

The thing that separates me from other guys that use corny pick up lines or post cringy openers and messages (I've seen the actual messages and all I can do is laugh and smh) is that I don't be spending all day or every day just trying to talk all the app or through text as I wanna know which women are legit interested in me instead of trying to use me for attention and that's why I'm usually transparent and direct on these apps (and irl too) and it works for me.

Alot of women have told me they appreciate how upfront and direct I am even if I get rejected and they respect me for that.


To me my time and self-respect is more important than getting laid and if you don't understand that by now then idk what to tell you.
post 1616819751 09-17-2020, 02:40 PM
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post 1616820221 09-17-2020, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
around a week. after a couple of weeks i forget who these girls are; i don't even know their names until I go back onto the app to look before meeting them so i know they don't remember me lol
months probably would only work if they legit got super busy and stopped talking to other guys completely
I don't be playing that 3 day, 5 day, 1 week or 1 month text rule as regardless if it's a minute later or an hour later, if a woman isn't interested in you, she's either not gonna reply or is gonna take hours or a whole day to reply.

I just text or call them like a normal human being instead of worrying about when a woman will reply back.

And honestly I usually forget about women (what they look like and all that) after just a few days if they don't reply back and especially after I delete their number and unmatch them.
post 1616820781 09-17-2020, 02:54 PM
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post 1616820951 09-17-2020, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah⏩
this is in regards to double texts, as a continuation to post 8533 above. i've gotten no reply and threw a hail mary a week later and it worked. i think the "how long to reply" question that you are referencing is a different conversation tbh
Oh yeah you're right, my bad.

Yeah it really depends on the situation.
post 1616855591 09-17-2020, 10:00 PM
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This is an previous exclusive fwb/gf/something

Hit her up a few days ago, got a missed call today, then these texts, don't really care if she takes up the offer tbh

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post 1616855971 09-17-2020, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted By chaoserver⏩
Thats what I'm saying. Way back around when it came out it was tons of HBB's eager to come over, these days its a cocktail of bots and low tier one word wonders. It can certainly still get the job done, but in 2020... Why?
I don't want that. I want a quality woman. That's near impossible to find on these dating apps. I'm getting sick of conversations that revolve around sex.

Where the hell are you supposed to find a relationship in Covid? I can't play my volleyball league anymore and my adventure club is mostly dudes. I guess i'll keep swiping on Bumble lol.
post 1616857311 09-17-2020, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This is an previous exclusive fwb/gf/something

Hit her up a few days ago, got a missed call today, then these texts, don't really care if she takes up the offer tbh

I'm not sure what to say about her. She sounds a little flighty.
post 1616858011 09-17-2020, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I'm not sure what to say about her. She sounds a little flighty.
You don't have to say anything, just sharing. It will be nothing serious with her regardless.
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post 1616859101 09-17-2020, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Multiple reasons. With him being an hour away, I didn't really see it being anything more than a FWB type situation. I don't have time for frequent traveling that far. I also realized the past few days that I'm just not ready. It's been really rough and I need more time to heal from my FWB.
You definitely need to take time to heal mama legz


Sushi guy blocked his ex without me having to ask. Now on Friday night there’s 80% chance I’ll stay at his place so on Saturday we can go to the cider mills. Also this adorable garden that I desperately wanted to see this summer.
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post 1616860601 09-17-2020, 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Sushi guy blocked his ex without me having to ask. Now on Friday night there’s 80% chance I’ll stay at his place so on Saturday we can go to the cider mills. Also this adorable garden that I desperately wanted to see this summer.
He'll want to see your garden too
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This is an previous exclusive fwb/gf/something

Hit her up a few days ago, got a missed call today, then these texts, don't really care if she takes up the offer tbh
Makes sense you reached out and good text from your side.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
He'll want to see your garden too
He can’t be my Adam yet
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post 1616871781 09-18-2020, 05:21 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
You definitely need to take time to heal mama legz


Sushi guy blocked his ex without me having to ask. Now on Friday night there’s 80% chance I’ll stay at his place so on Saturday we can go to the cider mills. Also this adorable garden that I desperately wanted to see this summer.
I definitely do. This week has been particularly bad for some reason.

Oh that sounds nice. Have fun!
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So I got on hinge now and I think I realized the problem with my profile... it's just plain and ass and unattractive.
On tinder my profile is like 90% more effort than most people but on hinge I was amazed by the quality of pictures on some of these broads.
It's like you have to hire a professional photographer in the carribean to follow you around...
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post 1616875861 09-18-2020, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
So I got on hinge now and I think I realized the problem with my profile... it's just plain and ass and unattractive.
On tinder my profile is like 90% more effort than most people but on hinge I was amazed by the quality of pictures on some of these broads.
It's like you have to hire a professional photographer in the carribean to follow you around...
Is it true you need 5-6 pics for Hinge? I'm thinking about maybe trying it in a couple weeks or months when I'm ready. I've swiped through Bumble and the guys in my age range are oof. I wonder if Hinge is any better.
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post 1616876231 09-18-2020, 06:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Is it true you need 5-6 pics for Hinge? I'm thinking about maybe trying it in a couple weeks or months when I'm ready. I've swiped through Bumble and the guys in my age range are oof. I wonder if Hinge is any better.
I think you need 6
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post 1616877671 09-18-2020, 07:19 AM
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date #3 this week: She said it was getting late and had to go. Not the update yall wanted lmao. Think i’m gonna ghost her, 2 dates with her and not even a make out session
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post 1616879791 09-18-2020, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Is it true you need 5-6 pics for Hinge? I'm thinking about maybe trying it in a couple weeks or months when I'm ready. I've swiped through Bumble and the guys in my age range are oof. I wonder if Hinge is any better.
Yeah give Hinge a try, it might do you some good.

Granted some dudes might still wanna hook up despite them saying they're looking for a relationship since you're not into that but unlike them, at least with me I'm upfront about it so don't be surprised if they try to get all sexual from the rip since I know how pathetic guys are online.
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Hinge is the best, then CMB.

Deleted the rest, partially because they're ****e and partially because 2 apps is more than enough time to spend on this.
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post 1616897441 09-18-2020, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
I think you need 6
Zoinks! That's gonna be tough since due to the shut down I'm not really going out and doing stuff to get pics. Guess it'll be a bunch of selfies or pics from last winter.
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Yeah give Hinge a try, it might do you some good.

Granted some dudes might still wanna hook up despite them saying they're looking for a relationship since you're not into that but unlike them, at least with me I'm upfront about it so don't be surprised if they try to get all sexual from the rip since I know how pathetic guys are online.
Yeah, I would like to be on an app that is geared more towards actual dating rather than hookups. Wondering if I should give Match a try. Might try Hinge and see what kind of guys are on there and then if nothing good try Match as a last resort.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Hinge is the best, then CMB.

Deleted the rest, partially because they're ****e and partially because 2 apps is more than enough time to spend on this.
Yeah, I don't see a need to be on multiple apps. That's a pain to keep track of.
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