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post 1616835471 09-17-2020, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By naich⏩
Great suggestions, except I am no longer attracted her after she recommended this place. Not interested in dinner anymore, interested is ways to say im not interested.
You are ending this way too early & you don't pay on first date (or future ones unless its a special occasion), 50/50 it. Just be decisive and stick with the first restaurant or one similar in price range if its too big of a deal.

If she wants expensive restaurant & you to pay for it on a first date then she is just using you for free food, then lose attraction.

*Going forward, you should start off with something small like coffee/smoothies anyways.
post 1616835641 09-17-2020, 05:45 PM
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Show up, order the most expensive entree and when the check comes tell her you forgot your wallet

Or excuse yourself to use the bathroom and bail out

Then lmao at her when you see her at the gym
post 1616835661 09-17-2020, 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted By naich⏩
I invited her out to dinner. If you invite, you pay. Also the guy pays on the first date, what world is everyone living in? Any dates beyond that is up for discussion
This is the source of your entire problem right here lmao. Strong pedestalization.
post 1616835921 09-17-2020, 05:48 PM
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As stated, tactfully tell her you want to get a drink instead.
post 1616836301 09-17-2020, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozef⏩
As stated, tactfully tell her you want to get a drink instead.
I recommended dinner, weird to redirect into drinks.
Hot off the press! She texted saying shes good with the original place. Going to continue with the date, but im weary.
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post 1616836411 09-17-2020, 05:54 PM
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oof normally i'd go swayze but since you go to the same gym i'd tell her your ex came over and you guys fuked and now you're confused and don't feel comfortable dating right now. it's easy and it gets the job done.
post 1616836511 09-17-2020, 05:55 PM
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only cucks do dinner for a first date! what's wrong with you? it should be meet for a drink and maybe some apps. just make up an excuse and cancel the date ASAP.

NEVER EVER DO DINNER ON THE FIRST DATE!
post 1616837241 09-17-2020, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
only cucks do dinner for a first date! what's wrong with you? it should be meet for a drink and maybe some apps. just make up an excuse and cancel the date ASAP.

NEVER EVER DO DINNER ON THE FIRST DATE!
Drinks are planned for her apartment 2 blocks away. Just didnt want to pay 2x for dinner.
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post 1616837601 09-17-2020, 06:08 PM
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First dates are to hang out and get to know each other. Best dates are having a drink, preferably at your crib.
post 1616838191 09-17-2020, 06:15 PM
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“sounds like a great second date spot”

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post 1616839071 09-17-2020, 06:28 PM
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"hmm how about this place, average entree' 12$ and they have a good 2 for 1 app deal and $2 margaritas."
post 1616840731 09-17-2020, 06:56 PM
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"Hey hate to do this but something came up with work. Can we meet at (1 to 2 hours later) for drinks at (swanky cocktail place)?"

You can leave after 1 drink if she sucks.
post 1616842121 09-17-2020, 07:13 PM
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Should have taken her to Applebees. Sloots love Applebees.
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post 1616842211 09-17-2020, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
"Hey hate to do this but something came up with work. Can we meet at (1 to 2 hours later) for drinks at (swanky cocktail place)?"

You can leave after 1 drink if she sucks.
yee this; or if you wanna bail just send her some crap about how your work roster changed etc.. etc..
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post 1616842991 09-17-2020, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
“sounds like a great second date spot”

/thread
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post 1616843321 09-17-2020, 07:28 PM
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What else are good for dates? I don’t wanna be spending $50 every time I go out that could be money for a ps5
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post 1616849911 09-17-2020, 08:43 PM
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How about some pics of the girl op, you flaming *******
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post 1616850171 09-17-2020, 08:47 PM
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Her choosing a place where entres are $54 isn't 'random'. She's trying the use you like a sucker, she's not dumb op.
post 1616850841 09-17-2020, 08:56 PM
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i would tell her straight up thats not a first date place for me

nothing else

if she has a problem with that she can get fukked and go find some other beta **** willing to pay for sex.
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post 1616851411 09-17-2020, 09:02 PM
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“Perfect, let’s reschedule”
post 1616851721 09-17-2020, 09:06 PM
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Tell her that place sounds awesome and you’ll pick her up at 7






Then pull into the McDonalds drive thru on your way there and tell her you changed your mind.

Then don’t get her anything even if she asks
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post 1616851901 09-17-2020, 09:08 PM
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Just lol at everyone itt overthinking a date. Be upfront. Pretty simple
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