Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum » If you want to find a wife, 25 is the absolute max age (Srs) (calculations inside)
  1. Results 31 to 60 of 84
  2. Page 2 of 3
  3. First
  5. 1
  6. 2
  7. 3
  9. Last

Thread: If you want to find a wife, 25 is the absolute max age (Srs) (calculations inside)

post 1616880681 09-18-2020, 08:03 AM
-
#31
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
a flip switches in girls around the age of 21-23 if they are family orientated. Before that dating/guys is just for fun and they go for whatever they feel like

If you are dating a girl in the 22-24 range, they will usually start to get the idea that they either need to commit to having a family with you, or move on to a more suitable person to avoid being single again at 26+. If they don't start getting this ideas then, they probably never will
This may be true for women who never pursue a career. Some do in their early 20s and get more family oriented in their late 20s.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616881091 09-18-2020, 08:08 AM
-
#32
  1. Fozzy13
  2. unregistered user
  1. Fozzy13
  2. unregistered user
  3. Join Date: Jan 2007
  4. Posts: 38,659
  5. Rep Power: 41514
lol @ marrying a 25 yr old....goodluck with your divorce goals
n4l
Rayaarito
fappin
r32gojirra
post 1616881191 09-18-2020, 08:09 AM
-
#33
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 4,990
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Fozzy13⏩
lol @ marrying a 25 yr old....goodluck with your divorce goals
strong reading comprehension
post 1616881201 09-18-2020, 08:09 AM
-
#34
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
This may be true for women who never pursue a career. Some do in their early 20s and get more family oriented in their late 20s.
Thats a career motivated woman who happened to also want kids

Just like there are family orientated women who happen to have a career


Truly family orientated women would not take the risk of not having kids in favour of making money
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616881321 09-18-2020, 08:11 AM
-
#35
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Thats a career motivated woman who happened to also want kids

Just like there are family orientated women who happen to have a career

Truly family orientated women would not take the risk of not having kids in favour of making money
So a person is unable to change? I wasn't family oriented at age 25, now I am.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616881381 09-18-2020, 08:12 AM
-
#36
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 4,990
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Thats a career motivated woman who happened to also want kids

Just like there are family orientated women who happen to have a career


Truly family orientated women would not take the risk of not having kids in favour of making money
do you think i's a bad sign if awomen says she doesn't want kids or family [SRS]
post 1616881461 09-18-2020, 08:13 AM
-
#37
  1. Komytea
  2. Anjunadeep
  1. Komytea
  2. Anjunadeep
  3. Join Date: Aug 2014
  4. Posts: 3,820
  5. Rep Power: 23537
gf is 23 and i'm 32 hnngggggg
post 1616881551 09-18-2020, 08:14 AM
-
#38
  1. ScottTil
  2. Registered User
  1. ScottTil
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2015
  4. Location: Maine, United States
  5. Posts: 7,130
  6. Rep Power: 34863
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
This may be true for women who never pursue a career. Some do in their early 20s and get more family oriented in their late 20s.
she can pursue her career and get married while in school. Even if shes doing medical school or a PhD or something shell be done by 28 and should be ready to start a family then
Texas crew
post 1616881621 09-18-2020, 08:15 AM
-
#39
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
So a person is unable to change? I wasn't family oriented at age 25, now I am.
You can change priorities but your main value system not really imo, not saying its a bad thing btw.

But family orientation is definitely also an innate trait in some women, these girls knew all along thats what they wanted and plan their whole life in that direction

Doesnt mean you need a women like that, or ones that arent are bad mothers
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616881721 09-18-2020, 08:16 AM
-
#40
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 4,990
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Komytea⏩
gf is 23 and i'm 32 hnngggggg
do you take finasteride?
post 1616881981 09-18-2020, 08:20 AM
-
#41
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
do you think i's a bad sign if awomen says she doesn't want kids or family [SRS]
Think youre overthinking this bro. If both under 21-22 relationships arent srs so take no notice


If you are past that and its a more serious relarionship, its a bad thing if you do want kids yourself yes
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616882281 09-18-2020, 08:23 AM
-
#42
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 4,990
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Think youre overthinking this bro. If both under 21-22 relationships arent srs so take no notice


If you are past that and its a more serious relarionship, its a bad thing if you do want kids yourself yes
Nah but i mean, have you ever met a girl who was just like "nah i don't like children or nah i don't want kids"

do yo reckn there's osmethin wrong with her (srs)
post 1616882381 09-18-2020, 08:24 AM
-
#43
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
You can change priorities but your main value system not really imo, not saying its a bad thing btw.

But family orientation is definitely also an innate trait in some women, these girls knew all along thats what they wanted and plan their whole life in that direction

Doesnt mean you need a women like that, or ones that arent are bad mothers
Your core values develop when you transition from childhood to adulthood. At 25 you're still somewhere in between, nowadays probably still more on the childish side.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616882551 09-18-2020, 08:27 AM
-
#44
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
she can pursue her career and get married while in school. Even if shes doing medical school or a PhD or something shell be done by 28 and should be ready to start a family then
I don't get your argument. Pursuing a career means actually having a career in the end, not just learning for it.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616882591 09-18-2020, 08:28 AM
-
#45
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
Nah but i mean, have you ever met a girl who was just like "nah i don't like children or nah i don't want kids"

do yo reckn there's osmethin wrong with her (srs)
No not really, fine to not want children a lot of people tending that way now
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616882641 09-18-2020, 08:28 AM
-
#46
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  1. sandman2019
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jul 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 4,990
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
I don't get your argument. Pursuing a career means actually having a career in the end, not just learning for it.
How does it feeling knowing your wife rode the carasoul in her 20s then turned 30 and chose u to be the beta provider srs?
post 1616882661 09-18-2020, 08:28 AM
-
#47
  1. Komytea
  2. Anjunadeep
  1. Komytea
  2. Anjunadeep
  3. Join Date: Aug 2014
  4. Posts: 3,820
  5. Rep Power: 23537
Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
do you take finasteride?
nah
post 1616882841 09-18-2020, 08:31 AM
-
#48
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
Your core values develop when you transition from childhood to adulthood. At 25 you're still somewhere in between, nowadays probably still more on the childish side.
Disagree, all these things start earlier


You cant suddenly become career motivated at 30, you had to go work your ass of to get a degree, do interships, get promotions etc

Your core value systems is always there
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616883221 09-18-2020, 08:36 AM
-
#49
  1. EvanR127
  2. Registered User
  1. EvanR127
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2017
  4. Age: 34
  5. Posts: 225
  6. Rep Power: 507
I’m 28 and my gf is 24. Met on bumble before the rona.

Going well and she’s from money.

She has degree and career. I have no degree and kinda no career rn.
post 1616883241 09-18-2020, 08:36 AM
-
#50
  1. soaponarope1
  2. 6'2" 227
  1. soaponarope1
  2. 6'2" 227
  3. Join Date: Jun 2016
  4. Location: Florida, United States
  5. Age: 40
  6. Posts: 13,552
  7. Rep Power: 63078
Originally Posted By Fozzy13⏩
lol @ marrying a 25 yr old....goodluck with your divorce goals
I'll take my chances, will be nice having a woman who is always 9 years younger than me hanging around.

Plus, even if my assets get halved in 20 years I'll still have enough to never have to work again. Meanwhile you'll spend 20 years jacking it in your mom's spare bedroom.
post 1616883351 09-18-2020, 08:37 AM
-
#51
  1. ScramFranklin
  2. Registered User
  1. ScramFranklin
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2017
  4. Age: 36
  5. Posts: 19,925
  6. Rep Power: 147928
Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
Agree with OP/10.

Met my wife when she was 21, married when she was 23. Still together at 26. Have a kid. Strong relationship.

Previous girlfriend was 28 when we met, 34 when we broke up. She was an absolute train wreck. Not sure if she wanted kids. Did want, did not want. Just very unsettled. She's probably in her 40s now, and married an unemployed fat stereotypical cuck soyboy that was 10 years younger. Strong mental problems.

25 max boyos.
How old were you when you met your wife?
-Engineering Crew
-Self Improvement Crew
-Third Position Crew
-Keith Woods Crew
-Consolecel Crew
-Dr. Edward Dutton Crew
post 1616883631 09-18-2020, 08:41 AM
-
#52
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By sandman2019⏩
How does it feeling knowing your wife rode the carasoul in her 20s then turned 30 and chose u to be the beta provider srs?
I don't know. My wife is 100% financially independent from me. We have zero shared assets. Separation of goods, even in case of divorce (default by law). I provide for myself and 50% for my kids. We both wouldn't want it any other way, because we don't believe in marriage being a business contract.

I won't go into detail about her or my prior dating history because frankly it's none of your business.

No offense but judging from your thread history you seem to project your misery onto others.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616883881 09-18-2020, 08:44 AM
-
#53
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  1. wave_length
  2. Retired at 42
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Location: Vienna, Austria
  5. Age: 53
  6. Posts: 18,041
  7. Rep Power: 68853
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Disagree, all these things start earlier


You cant suddenly become career motivated at 30, you had to go work your ass of to get a degree, do interships, get promotions etc

Your core value systems is always there
For some, sure it starts earlier. And there are plenty of people who were absolute bums in their 20s and still had great careers later in life.
How to lose fat for Noobs: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=129247741
post 1616884461 09-18-2020, 08:50 AM
-
#54
  1. CougarP01
  2. Misc dumbass
  1. CougarP01
  2. Misc dumbass
  3. Join Date: Dec 2006
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 9,771
  6. Rep Power: 60423
Met my gf when she was 24(I was 29), and 20 months later, we following your timeline without even knowing.

Pretty realistic timeframe though. Doesnt seem like were moving too fast or things are becoming drawn out.
Hi
post 1616884641 09-18-2020, 08:52 AM
-
#55
  1. backinthegymbro
  2. Never accept defeat!
  1. backinthegymbro
  2. Never accept defeat!
  3. Join Date: Aug 2018
  4. Posts: 23,402
  5. Rep Power: 275845
By age 25, they already have a body count in the triple digits post college.
No hymen no diamond.
Cobra Kai never dies!
post 1616884651 09-18-2020, 08:52 AM
-
#56
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
For some, sure it starts earlier. And there are plenty of people who were absolute bums in their 20s and still had great careers later in life.
People might fall into a job they enjoy and are good at and make money

But they dont go from lazy to working their ass off, doing whatever it takes to be succesful. Thats either always there or never there
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616885031 09-18-2020, 08:55 AM
-
#57
  1. snailsrus
  2. 💙💙💙💙💙🪳
  1. snailsrus
  2. 💙💙💙💙💙🪳
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 15,306
  5. Rep Power: 189841
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
This. I think over 35 is when a man starts running out of time to build a proper family
naw my dad was 45 when I was born
SuperHercules crew
cancer survivor crew
Dyslexic crew
Friend of Mr.Wilson crew
Ugly and old cell crew
Cat crew
Insomniac crew
post 1616885231 09-18-2020, 08:57 AM
-
#58
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  1. LukeS1
  2. Luke
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 13,210
  6. Rep Power: 55417
Originally Posted By CougarP01⏩
Met my gf when she was 24(I was 29), and 20 months later, we following your timeline without even knowing.

Pretty realistic timeframe though. Doesnt seem like were moving too fast or things are becoming drawn out.
Das it mane you guys are the textbook couple


You also have a trump card here bro, in that given what i outlined in the OP you are almost her last chance, whereas you can leave and go find another 24 year old. I hope you dont have to go down that road though
6'1, 205 lbs

Luke
post 1616885691 09-18-2020, 09:02 AM
-
#59
  1. ScottTil
  2. Registered User
  1. ScottTil
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2015
  4. Location: Maine, United States
  5. Posts: 7,130
  6. Rep Power: 34863
Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
I don't get your argument. Pursuing a career means actually having a career in the end, not just learning for it.
yeah but she can focus on working after her kids.
Go to school 18-2x whatever you need. Take time off from your career to pop out some kids then get back into it.
Texas crew
post 1616885751 09-18-2020, 09:03 AM
-
#60
  1. swoleyo
  2. Registered User
  1. swoleyo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2009
  4. Location: Chicago, Illinois, United States
  5. Age: 42
  6. Posts: 10,948
  7. Rep Power: 48507
Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
It can happen, it will often be fine but you are playing with fire once you go above 35;



Its not something you would want to realise is an issue, when you're married, one kid in etc...
What man wants to have kids at 50 though? you're gonna be 65 when your kid is in high school
Mod neg Cry-Baby Crew
NEG ONLYFANS THREADS CREW
EPSTEIN DIDN'T KILL HIMSELF CREW
RAW DOG CREW - PRESIDENT OF THE COMPANY
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts