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post 1617071931 09-20-2020, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Ye I've jokingly done stuff like that once we're in into the relationship, being playful etc. but this sounds kinda concerning.
Yee I wouldn’t of cared if it was in that context. I enjoy a good joke. It should’ve been saved for when I’m more comfortable. Let alone when a dude is trying to pressure sex lol
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Smart thing giving his address to people. When I meet strangers from the internet I tell a couple of my friends where I'm meeting them and that if they don't hear from me by a certain time to call the cops. lol

He's actually a couple years older than me. I give him some leeway as he's been in a relationship for the past 6 years and it's not really his fault her new living situation didn't work out. I truly don't think any of it was maliciousness on his part, just cluelessness and not being completely out of that situation.
Oh yeah. Even on our first date I shared my location with my sis in law. She also knows my passcode to my phone and all of my social media if anything happens. Also he asked me how much do I trust people. I stated “I was always taught to not fully trust someone no matter how long I’ve known someone.” He gave me a bit of side eye lol

Coming from two different backgrounds suck in a way lul

6 years? Yeah. Most likely was cluelessness lol Sucks that he wasn’t up front right away but oh well, at least he didn’t lie about it
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post 1617072711 09-20-2020, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yee I wouldn’t of cared if it was in that context. I enjoy a good joke. It should’ve been saved for when I’m more comfortable. Let alone when a dude is trying to pressure sex lol

Oh yeah. Even on our first date I shared my location with my sis in law. She also knows my passcode to my phone and all of my social media if anything happens. Also he asked me how much do I trust people. I stated “I was always taught to not fully trust someone no matter how long I’ve known someone.” He gave me a bit of side eye lol

Coming from two different backgrounds suck in a way lul

6 years? Yeah. Most likely was cluelessness lol Sucks that he wasn’t up front right away but oh well, at least he didn’t lie about it
Yes absolutely. It's tough when you're too different.

Yep, that's my feelings on it. Cluelessness and he was honest when it came down to it.
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post 1617073011 09-20-2020, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yes absolutely. It's tough when you're too different.

Yep, that's my feelings on it. Cluelessness and he was honest when it came down to it.
Yee. I told him not to take it personal since I grew up in a area where it’s known to get hurt by your “best friend” lul

Yeah. He saves himself a bit for being up front about it.
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post 1617073631 09-20-2020, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yee. I told him not to take it personal since I grew up in a area where it’s known to get hurt by your “best friend” lul

Yeah. He saves himself a bit for being up front about it.
Well, at least you found out fast that he's not for you, instead of wasting a bunch of time on him.

Also where is Spade?! Did he elope or what?! lol
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post 1617074571 09-20-2020, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, at least you found out fast that he's not for you, instead of wasting a bunch of time on him.

Also where is Spade?! Did he elope or what?! lol
Ye. I kinda knew he wasn’t for me when he stated he disliked kids and the fact he doesn’t want girls. Automatically compared him to an incel on the misc lul

Let’s hope so. The dude needs something instead of getting played by some younger girls lol
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post 1617075091 09-20-2020, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Ye. I kinda knew he wasn’t for me when he stated he disliked kids and the fact he doesn’t want girls. Automatically compared him to an incel on the misc lul

Let’s hope so. The dude needs something instead of getting played by some younger girls lol
I don't dislike kids but I just don't want any due to I rather just take care of myself and a potential wife instead of another human being for 18 years or his or her life.

Plus I'll constantly be worried about my kid getting kidnapped or killed or whatever and I don't need all that stress in my life but that's just me.

And yeah I don't care if Spade is going after younger women but if he's constantly being played by dumbass immature 20 year olds then the problem is him.
post 1617075451 09-20-2020, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
I don't dislike kids but I just don't want any due to I rather just take care of myself and a potential wife instead of another human being for 18 years or his or her life.

Plus I'll constantly be worried about my kid getting kidnapped or killed or whatever and I don't need all that stress in my life but that's just me.

And yeah I don't care if Spade is going after younger women but if he's constantly being played by dumbass immature 20 year olds then the problem is him.
It’s fine to think that way, but I want a big family personally. Someone like you and sushi guy wouldn’t be a match for me. Which is cool. Everyone is allowed to not want kids lol

Yee. Curious on what’s going on though.
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post 1617078091 09-20-2020, 11:31 AM
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Now I'm matching with the same people on Hinge I matched with on Bumble. I guess a lot of people are on multiple apps lol.
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Ye. I kinda knew he wasn’t for me when he stated he disliked kids and the fact he doesn’t want girls. Automatically compared him to an incel on the misc lul

Let’s hope so. The dude needs something instead of getting played by some younger girls lol
Well, he's still really young so he'll probably change his mind, but if you know you want a big family then even if everything else meshed it's still a pretty big risk to wait and see with someone like that.
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Now I'm matching with the same people on Hinge I matched with on Bumble. I guess a lot of people are on multiple apps lol.
This is my issue here. I'm in a not so big area and it seems like it's all the same guys on all of the apps.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This is my issue here. I'm in a not so big area and it seems like it's all the same guys on all of the apps.
I'm in a big area but so far it looks like there are more quality people on Hinge. Plus for you the guys on Hinge have to agree that they won't write any sexual content or send noods. That's not the case on Tinder or Bumble.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, he's still really young so he'll probably change his mind, but if you know you want a big family then even if everything else meshed it's still a pretty big risk to wait and see with someone like that
Yeah, I get that. I just see a difference between saying “I don’t want kids because I’m not ready” to “I hate kids. I don’t have the patience for their annoyance” lol

Maybe that’s just the pickiness of me ^ Just doesn’t sit right with me since I love kids.
I don’t want to be in my 30s when I have my first child. I’d take one right now if I could lol but that’s just me.
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post 1617081021 09-20-2020, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I'm in a big area but so far it looks like there are more quality people on Hinge. Plus for you the guys on Hinge have to agree that they won't write any sexual content or send noods. That's not the case on Tinder or Bumble.
Oh, didn't know that. Well, I don't think you can send pics on any of those apps?
Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yeah, I get that. I just see a difference between saying “I don’t want kids because I’m not ready” to “I hate kids. I don’t have the patience for their annoyance” lol

Maybe that’s just the pickiness of me ^ Just doesn’t sit right with me since I love kids.
I don’t want to be in my 30s when I have my first child. I’d take one right now if I could lol but that’s just me.
Oh, I missed that part that he hates them. lol Yeah, that is a different story.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh, didn't know that. Well, I don't think you can send pics on any of those apps?
Yeah you can send noods on Tinder and Bumble lol. Since you are looking for a quality man, I'd focus more on Hinge.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Yeah you can send noods on Tinder and Bumble lol. Since you are looking for a quality man, I'd focus more on Hinge.
In messages? No one sent me pics in messages on Tinder when I was on there.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh, I missed that part that he hates them. lol Yeah, that is a different story.
Yeah. Definitely a different story. I also found out the ex he had as a friend they broke up only three months ago? Maybe less. So I think he still has feelings for her. I don’t want to be someone’s rebound lmaoo
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post 1617083781 09-20-2020, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Yeah. Definitely a different story. I also found out the ex he had as a friend they broke up only three months ago? Maybe less. So I think he still has feelings for her. I don’t want to be someone’s rebound lmaoo
How long was he with her? 3 months after they broke up may not really be a rebound.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How long was he with her? 3 months after they broke up may not really be a rebound.
I believe he said 5 months dating but they were really good “friends” before they tried a relationship.
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post 1617094451 09-20-2020, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
I believe he said 5 months dating but they were really good “friends” before they tried a relationship.
I wouldn't consider that a rebound. Still, doesn't matter because he doesn't sound like someone that you should be dating.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I wouldn't consider that a rebound. Still, doesn't matter because he doesn't sound like someone that you should be dating.
100% agree mama legz. I honestly just want to find love but 100% starting to think I won’t find it.
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post 1617099711 09-20-2020, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
100% agree mama legz. I honestly just want to find love but 100% starting to think I won’t find it.
Girl-o you're so young. You will find it.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Girl-o you're so young. You will find it.
True mama legz. I’m just being too emotional lul
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
True mama legz. I’m just being too emotional lul
I have hope for you. <3
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I have hope for you. <3
Thank you <3 same goes for you
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Thank you <3 same goes for you
lol I"m glad someone does because I don't.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
lol I"m glad someone does because I don't.
There is still a chance for you.

Honestly you probably have to date younger and I'm not talking about guys in their 20s, I'm talking about at least 10-15 years younger if all the guys your age are that unattractive and lame.

Plus I know you have a high sex drive so you probably want a younger guy to match that
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
There is still a chance for you.

Honestly you probably have to date younger and I'm not talking about guys in their 20s, I'm talking about at least 10-15 years younger if all the guys your age are that unattractive and lame.

Plus I know you have a high sex drive so you probably want a younger guy to match that
I don't mind going a little younger, but the fact is, I do prefer guys around my age when they're fit. I like having things in common like the stuff we grew up with. Yeah, the sex thing does worry me when it comes to guys my age or older. It would suck pretty bad to be with someone who has a low drive or ED issues. :/

If I end up getting on Hinge in a month or so, I'll prob set my age range from 45-55. The problem with going down to 40 is if they're single and never been married they may still want kids.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
If I end up getting on Hinge in a month or so, I'll prob set my age range from 45-55. The problem with going down to 40 is if they're single and never been married they may still want kids.
Yes but if they want kids they'll look for women younger than themselves anyways.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Yes but if they want kids they'll look for women younger than themselves anyways.
Yes, but I mean more maybe they're not sure about kids, but still young enough to change their minds. I don't want to get involved with anyone that may change their mind a couple years in. I think the only way I'd be comfortable getting involved with a 40 yr old is if they had been married and already had kids.
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