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09-21-2020, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
I've been lurking the hingeapp subreddit (no viaduct) for a few weeks, and I've seen only bad things about HInge's boosts. They're supposed to be significantly worse compared to Tinder's boosts, whose effects allegedly can be felt for a few weeks (you get put into somebody's stack until they swipe past you rather than just being put in the stack for the brief time Hinge provides)>btw I bought boost on hinge... got 1 match but overall waste of money. Just LOL thought it was going to be 10 bucks for an entire day but it was for 1 hour.
GTFO with that chit
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09-21-2020, 06:16 PM
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Boosts etc suck, signing up a new account is the best experience by far.
I feel like my matches are better than before. Added a couple of good pics, could be that.
None of mine are professional but a couple kinda have that quality. Honestly I’d say it’s probably worth getting pro photos done.
I feel like my matches are better than before. Added a couple of good pics, could be that.
None of mine are professional but a couple kinda have that quality. Honestly I’d say it’s probably worth getting pro photos done.
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09-21-2020, 06:32 PM
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Yeah I can attest to the Hinge boost being terrible. Literally did nothing when I used it and it costed like 6-7 bucks. Fuk that noise brahs save your money. Tinder boost works decently though, usually.
09-21-2020, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Do you really need professional pics for dating apps? The more I read here about them the less I want to get back on them.Boosts etc suck, signing up a new account is the best experience by far.
I feel like my matches are better than before. Added a couple of good pics, could be that.
None of mine are professional but a couple kinda have that quality. Honestly I’d say it’s probably worth getting pro photos done.
I feel like my matches are better than before. Added a couple of good pics, could be that.
None of mine are professional but a couple kinda have that quality. Honestly I’d say it’s probably worth getting pro photos done.
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09-21-2020, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Do you need them? No. Will good pics help you significantly? Yes.Do you really need professional pics for dating apps? The more I read here about them the less I want to get back on them.
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09-21-2020, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Well I know good pics help, but I'm not getting professional pics done just for a stupid dating app.Do you need them? No. Will good pics help you significantly? Yes.
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09-21-2020, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Feel like it's more relevant for guys as 1) we're generally worse at taking pics and 2) it's generally more competitive to get through the matching stage for usWell I know good pics help, but I'm not getting professional pics done just for a stupid dating app.
I also wonder how much worse it is for millenials/gen Zs - we're (some of use are) growing up constantly taking and posting pics for others' criticism/approval, so there's going to be a higher bar for photo quality i'd think.
Does kinda feel like I have to at least have some interest in photography sometimes.
09-21-2020, 07:19 PM
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wow just got blocked by a girl for getting a little playful.
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body
... or toast - your call, tough choice"
Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body
... or toast - your call, tough choice"Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
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09-21-2020, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
To your first point, I agree. Just going through the pics on Tinder and OKC a month or so ago, a lot of guys have really bad pics. The good ones definitely stand out in comparison. Also agree that sometimes it seems like you have to be a professional photographer.Feel like it's more relevant for guys as 1) we're generally worse at taking pics and 2) it's generally more competitive to get through the matching stage for us
I also wonder how much worse it is for millenials/gen Zs - we're (some of use are) growing up constantly taking and posting pics for others' criticism/approval, so there's going to be a higher bar for photo quality i'd think.
Does kinda feel like I have to at least have some interest in photography sometimes.
I also wonder how much worse it is for millenials/gen Zs - we're (some of use are) growing up constantly taking and posting pics for others' criticism/approval, so there's going to be a higher bar for photo quality i'd think.
Does kinda feel like I have to at least have some interest in photography sometimes.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Lol at her blocking you for that. She's the one who said something first.wow just got blocked by a girl for getting a little playful.
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body then
... or toast - your call, tough choice"
Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body then
... or toast - your call, tough choice"Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
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09-21-2020, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Did she just mean she wanted food other than avocados? lol.. I'm not crazy for interpreting something sexual, rightLol at her blocking you for that. She's the one who said something first.
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09-21-2020, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I took it as sexual, but maybe she did mean food. lolDid she just mean she wanted food other than avocados? lol.. I'm not crazy for interpreting something sexual, right
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09-21-2020, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Regardless it wasn't that bad. I guess she pinned me as a fukboi or something and blocked me. Her loss.I took it as sexual, but maybe she did mean food. lol
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09-21-2020, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Nope, it wasn't bad at all, especially since you gave the alternative of toast.Regardless it wasn't that bad. I guess she pinned me as a fukboi or something and blocked me. Her loss.
It is her loss.
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09-21-2020, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Ye no need to change my behavior I think. Just weird.Nope, it wasn't bad at all, especially since you gave the alternative of toast.
It is her loss.
It is her loss.
That’s pretty much as sexual as I get in msgs. Usually more innuendo too, thought she was doing that.
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09-21-2020, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fwiw, I did also read it as sexual a few times before I realized it even could just be talking about food.Ye no need to change my behavior I think. Just weird.
That’s pretty much as sexual as I get in msgs. Usually more innuendo too, thought she was doing that.
That’s pretty much as sexual as I get in msgs. Usually more innuendo too, thought she was doing that.
Just too many "hahas" to expect that's a joke about food.
09-21-2020, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Ye was like 80% sure it was sexual. Guess it was the 20%, but even so... to block me? One of her pics was a bit slutty too so it wasn’t like she was very conservative.Fwiw, I did also read it as sexual a few times before I realized it even could just be talking about food.
Just too many "hahas" to expect that's a joke about food.
Just too many "hahas" to expect that's a joke about food.
Women eh.. make zero sense.
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09-21-2020, 08:41 PM
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If she says stuff like that and expects a normal red-blooded man not to respond with something sexual, she is fukking retarded.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
09-21-2020, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah, the block was lame. Guess she's a bit socially odd, at least over text (not that I'm one to talk) if she texted like that and didn't even pick up on it after the fact.Ye was like 80% sure it was sexual. Guess it was the 20%, but even so... to block me? One of her pics was a bit slutty too so it wasn’t like she was very conservative.
E: Lmao at Mr Beer wizarding me much more directly
09-21-2020, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
May have still been sexual, but you did escalate quickly and make it more explicit while hers was subtle. She could also just be nuts. Apps are full of them.Ye was like 80% sure it was sexual. Guess it was the 20%, but even so... to block me? One of her pics was a bit slutty too so it wasn’t like she was very conservative.
Women eh.. make zero sense.
Women eh.. make zero sense.
From what I've seen from other guys, being sexual with your messages is completely hit or miss. It'll work for the ones who are looking to fuk right away, and it'll turn off most everyone else. Good way to get rid of "time wasters" as BlackScorpio would put it. I never got sexual in my messages since it's not something I'm into, so I don't really know.
09-21-2020, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
It isn’t that subtle though to suggest more on the first date. It’s more innuendo for sure, but I made a probability call.May have still been sexual, but you did escalate quickly and make it more explicit while hers was subtle. She could also just be nuts. Apps are full of them.
From what I've seen from other guys, being sexual with your messages is completely hit or miss. It'll work for the ones who are looking to fuk right away, and it'll turn off most everyone else. Good way to get rid of "time wasters" as BlackScorpio would put it. I never got sexual in my messages since it's not something I'm into, so I don't really know.
From what I've seen from other guys, being sexual with your messages is completely hit or miss. It'll work for the ones who are looking to fuk right away, and it'll turn off most everyone else. Good way to get rid of "time wasters" as BlackScorpio would put it. I never got sexual in my messages since it's not something I'm into, so I don't really know.
I don’t usually get sexual either because I don’t want to lose the more conservative women, right. I get that. But being a bit playful when I have the signals (plus like I said her pics were a bit provocative), isn’t terrible i think.
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09-21-2020, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Mr
Exactly, I wouldn’t have said anything sexual if she hadn’t said that. I even debated on it, and decided that between the msg and her pics that it was the right move.If she says stuff like that and expects a normal red-blooded man not to respond with something sexual, she is fukking retarded.
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09-21-2020, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
With an innuendo though, there's some plausible deniability so that she doesn't look like a sloot. If she responded to your message, it's basically admitting that she's down to fuk (even if she is down to fuk). Maybe something like, "There will definitely be more than avocadosIt isn’t that subtle though to suggest more on the first date. It’s more innuendo for sure, but I made a probability call.
I don’t usually get sexual either because I don’t want to lose the more conservative women, right. I get that. But being a bit playful when I have the signals (plus like I said her pics were a bit provocative), isn’t terrible i think.
I don’t usually get sexual either because I don’t want to lose the more conservative women, right. I get that. But being a bit playful when I have the signals (plus like I said her pics were a bit provocative), isn’t terrible i think.
" would be better. Or maybe not. Been awhile since I sent flirty texts to strange females, so I'm out of it. And if she's going to be that sensitive over a message, she's likely a bit nutty. Would've been a headache if you actually met. Or it might not have mattered what you sent.
09-21-2020, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Ye that's a better message. Just seems extreme to block me, was about to set up a date.With an innuendo though, there's some plausible deniability so that she doesn't look like a sloot. If she responded to your message, it's basically admitting that she's down to fuk (even if she is down to fuk). Maybe something like, "There will definitely be more than avocados
" would be better. Or maybe not. Been awhile since I sent flirty texts to strange females, so I'm out of it. And if she's going to be that sensitive over a message, she's likely a bit nutty. Would've been a headache if you actually met.
" would be better. Or maybe not. Been awhile since I sent flirty texts to strange females, so I'm out of it. And if she's going to be that sensitive over a message, she's likely a bit nutty. Would've been a headache if you actually met.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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09-21-2020, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
ED issues can be prevalent for men in their late 40s to 50+. Hopefully they don't have blood pressure issues and can take Viagra lol.I don't mind going a little younger, but the fact is, I do prefer guys around my age when they're fit. I like having things in common like the stuff we grew up with. Yeah, the sex thing does worry me when it comes to guys my age or older. It would suck pretty bad to be with someone who has a low drive or ED issues. :/
If I end up getting on Hinge in a month or so, I'll prob set my age range from 45-55. The problem with going down to 40 is if they're single and never been married they may still want kids.
If I end up getting on Hinge in a month or so, I'll prob set my age range from 45-55. The problem with going down to 40 is if they're single and never been married they may still want kids.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
She's probably a feminist who wants to be slooty but then gets a playful response and feels like she's being mistreated. Sigh.Ye that's a better message. Just seems extreme to block me, was about to set up a date.
09-21-2020, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Ah, that actually makes sense. She's pretty hot so can afford to be like that too.She's probably a feminist who wants to be slooty but then gets a playful response and feels like she's being mistreated. Sigh.
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09-21-2020, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I honestly didn’t take what she said as sexual but I’m not the average sexually active person here lol Still say she was an idiot to block over a harmless joke like thatwow just got blocked by a girl for getting a little playful.
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body
... or toast - your call, tough choice"
Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
She said she likes avocados, and I made a joke about having them on our first date. Then:
Her: "Avocados sounds nice I would be down for more than just avocados tho hahahahaha"
I read an implication, said something like this: "How about off my body
... or toast - your call, tough choice"Her: "I don't know your body, depends."
BLOCKED
Not a great line, but thought I was just being playful, huh?
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09-22-2020, 03:53 AM
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Legz a woman doesn't need to get professional pictures, why would she?
All of you like to use filters anyway to make yourself more attractive than you really are so there's that.
For us guys? I'll say alot of us do need them to make us stand out from all the losers so anyone knocking professional pictures are usually people who do bad online.
Don't knock it til you try it.
All of you like to use filters anyway to make yourself more attractive than you really are so there's that.
For us guys? I'll say alot of us do need them to make us stand out from all the losers so anyone knocking professional pictures are usually people who do bad online.
Don't knock it til you try it.
09-22-2020, 04:03 AM
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And most of the time I'm not sexual right off the bat with women that haven't initiated anything sexual yet as to me it's better to do that over the phone or in person after you gotten a good read on the body language and vibe of the woman (I'm not talking about slutty vibes either but anyone who's good at reading body language will know what I'm talking about) as something like that can be taken the wrong way through text.
Now if it's mutual then I can see both parties sexting.
Regardless that's really the type of woman no one should be dealing with anyway if she's gonna get that anal and block you.
Now if it's mutual then I can see both parties sexting.
Regardless that's really the type of woman no one should be dealing with anyway if she's gonna get that anal and block you.
09-22-2020, 04:16 AM
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Setting my Tinder/Bumble up tonight what are you dudes using to show off your physique, beach photo, gym photo etc?
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09-22-2020, 04:31 AM
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Originally Posted By AestheticNoz⏩
if you have a good physique... beach photos yes, gym photos no.Setting my Tinder/Bumble up tonight what are you dudes using to show off your physique, beach photo, gym photo etc?
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OLD is a clown world bro, you have to show off everything you have but it has to be like covert or natural. No selfies, no selfies at the gym.
It's like it only counts if someone else took the pic in a natural scenario, otherwise it's creepy lol
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