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post 1617495131 09-24-2020, 03:30 PM
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post 1617495221 09-24-2020, 03:31 PM
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post 1617495251 09-24-2020, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Ilovemygf
Past a certain age, you get zero respect as a man if you aren’t married/have been married previously. Like it or not, it’s ingrained in western culture, and it probably won’t change.

Kind of like the male equivalent of a 40yo+ crazy cat lady, others just lol at you, or think you’re a *******.

Although I feel bad for Ameribrahs, a lot of American women are completely broken and unwifeable
Zero respect from who?

Who do you think gets more respect?

A middle aged dude who's dating a hot young sloot or a middle aged dude who's married to an old, wrinkly whiny sloot??
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Originally Posted By Beararms
Married man here and I will steer/warn younger guys not do it unless you have a strong urge to want a family. Anything else and no, avoid it. It's a lot of work, it's probably me but it feels like a second job a lot of the time. There are some benefits but not much else. If it doesn't work I will never get married again.
Its a business that can flourish and make you rich or fail and ruin you for life. Unfortunately just like real businesses it has a very high failure rate.

Sorry but Im not going to sugar coat it and praise it like people do. I'm being real about it from my perspective.
Good honest answer.
post 1617496641 09-24-2020, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
ex-wife

Cutting scars and tatted-up bolt ons. Pretty solid reasons why she's an ex.
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99
Dis lol.

You're a bag of cells that was initially programmed to find the best mate, make babies, and raise them so that they can spread your genes. Everything else is an extra in life. Love is required in a relationship so that both partners stay faithful and can focus their energy on their children. Marriage is simply seen as a way to solidify that bond so that both adults are loyal and make sacrifices for their children. But obviously this is lost upon so many miscers and so many left-wing folks. Who would rather talk about Karl Marx then have kids and raise a healthy family.
Of course this ******* has to bring up politics lol.

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post 1617497141 09-24-2020, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Ilovemygf
Past a certain age, you get zero respect as a man if you aren’t married/have been married previously. Like it or not, it’s ingrained in western culture, and it probably won’t change.

Kind of like the male equivalent of a 40yo+ crazy cat lady, others just lol at you, or think you’re a *******.

Although I feel bad for Ameribrahs, a lot of American women are completely broken and unwifeable
This is wildly outdated view. If you're at all red pilled in the slightest, you know the world we live in. I respect the hell out of dudes who found their own purpose without getting cucked into marriage and kids.

How much do you respect 80% of dudes with fat, sloppy yenta wives. Happy wife happy life, have to check with the boss first, she's just working out legs with tyrone right now, etc.
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Originally Posted By Gaedj
You lose so much if you divorce your wife.

Even if you get divorced, your life will never ever be the same if you have kids with her.

What possibly made you think it's a good idea to get married unless you have no ability to attract hot chicks?
Jokes on her. Half of nothing is nothing.


I've been with my wife 14 Years.
Love my life dude, srs. It's like life on ez mode right now 100%

Having a solid partner is awesome.


ITT a bunch of people who hate marriage/solid families, but also hate modern women, who are as awful as they are because they don't come from solid families.

You are what you hate boyos. Just adding to the decline.

Also, the "cliche" marriage, isn't he marriage everyone is participating in. I don't ask my wife permission for ****.

You try to marry the instagram sloots, you get what you pay for. The ones who end up in the chittiest marriages are the ones who think with their cocks and place looks/sex as the absolute highest priority.
Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip
So many married men posting ITT and yet not one single pic of their wives is posted


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Originally Posted By FA*******
Cutting scars and tatted-up bolt ons. Pretty solid reasons why she's an ex.
She never cut. All those tattoos were after our divorce and she had implants before we got married. (Yes that picture is recent and we've been divorced for 5 years)

We are divorced because after 10 years we need up seeing the world and our place in it completely different.

Good job on your shallow judging ability though.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
This is wildly outdated view. If you're at all red pilled in the slightest, you know the world we live in. I respect the hell out of dudes who found their own purpose without getting cucked into marriage and kids.

How much do you respect 80% of dudes with fat, sloppy yenta wives. Happy wife happy life, have to check with the boss first, she's just working out legs with tyrone right now, etc.
Ayyyyyy lol

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post 1617499631 09-24-2020, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
This is wildly outdated view. If you're at all red pilled in the slightest, you know the world we live in. I respect the hell out of dudes who found their own purpose without getting cucked into marriage and kids.

How much do you respect 80% of dudes with fat, sloppy yenta wives. Happy wife happy life, have to check with the boss first, she's just working out legs with tyrone right now, etc.
Red-pilled? Of course: enough to know that women have it on ezmode these days, yet often still cry "victim" in various ways, shapes and forms. The "Gender Pay Gap" is an absolute joke; I have shown repeatedly on this forum that single women earn more than single men, and that it is marriage (and kids) that change everything.

On the 80% - there are plenty of male losers out there too. Look at all the neckbeards tossing away significant portions of their income (or inheritance) to a 5'2 womanlet online who just shakes her cheeks while he jerks in a tissue?

The truth is, the "marriage statistic" is fraudulent, because - wait for it - weare not equal. The lie of liberal democracy when "PC" agendas are pushed is to act like we are all equal. We are not. Some are more attractive; some are smarter; some are harder working, and (Amartya Sen) equality of opportunity is the most we can ever even hope to achieve.

And this is why the "marriage statistic" is fraudulent - because people aren't equal; so you can't compare my marriage to my wife to some random doorknob who gets married because he "knocked her up".

You know this as well as I do, Ernie, but if you truly relate to any of those 80% plebs well...I can't say I believe you.

In other words "poors gonna poor", and if something like 50% of Americans can't even save USD 1000, why would I ever believe they are able to choose good life partners for themselves?
post 1617500301 09-24-2020, 04:24 PM
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Triggered married brahs negging cause they can't cope with the fact that they made the biggest mistake of their lives.

Sorry bros, a man's gotta speak the truth
post 1617501401 09-24-2020, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
This is wildly outdated view. If you're at all red pilled in the slightest, you know the world we live in. I respect the hell out of dudes who found their own purpose without getting cucked into marriage and kids.

How much do you respect 80% of dudes with fat, sloppy yenta wives. Happy wife happy life, have to check with the boss first, she's just working out legs with tyrone right now, etc.
Let's take a look at a quick example: samsbolton

A virgin approaching 50 who lives with his mum, works manual labour for minimum wage, drives a 14 year old mini and tragically tries to mitigate his pointless existence by playing golf (badly) and spends his Saturday nights crafting 'worst miscer of the year' poll threads on a forum populated by guys half his age..

... you're telling me you 'respect the hell' out of that?
fist yourself
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Most of you on this site shouldn’t be married and sure as fuk should not reproduce.
I probably banged your mom.

Eat the whole animal like a real man.
post 1617501651 09-24-2020, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Reproducing and raising offspring is the sole reason you exist. A solid marriage and family unit is the full package.

Anything less is failure.
This was true, when a man needed kids as laborers.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
Because every study ever done on the topic ever shows that kids do better when parents are married than when they're not.
if a kid senses that the state isn't involved in their parents' relationship, they immediately turn into a POS and start rioting
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Originally Posted By Gaedj
Triggered married brahs negging cause they can't cope with the fact that they made the biggest mistake of their lives.

Sorry bros, a man's gotta speak the truth
sounds like FA cope to me
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post 1617502511 09-24-2020, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Let's take a look at a quick example: samsbolton

A virgin approaching 50 who lives with his mum, works manual labour for minimum wage, drives a 14 year old mini and tragically tries to mitigate his pointless existence by playing golf (badly) and spends his Saturday nights crafting 'worst miscer of the year' poll threads on a forum populated by guys half his age..

... you're telling me you 'respect the hell' out of that?
Consider the pool of wifeable women. Even if you're optimistic, you can't possibly tell me it's any higher than maybe, say, 5%?

Sammy boy isn't anywhere near a top 5% male, so he's in the pit with the rest of the 80%, slugging it out for bottom tier whales.

To think, he might have been able to marry and knock up a woman like this:

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Originally Posted By Tanerian
Jokes on her. Half of nothing is nothing.


I've been with my wife 14 Years.
Love my life dude, srs. It's like life on ez mode right now 100%

Having a solid partner is awesome.


ITT a bunch of people who hate marriage/solid families, but also hate modern women, who are as awful as they are because they don't come from solid families.

You are what you hate boyos. Just adding to the decline.

Also, the "cliche" marriage, isn't he marriage everyone is participating in. I don't ask my wife permission for ****.

You try to marry the instagram sloots, you get what you pay for. The ones who end up in the chittiest marriages are the ones who think with their cocks and place looks/sex as the absolute highest priority.





You look happy in that wedding photo. Congrats brah srs.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
lol at divorce. if you OJ her you dont have to pay anything
And relief washes over me in an awesome wave
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian
You know this as well as I do, Ernie, but if you truly relate to any of those 80% plebs well...I can't say I believe you.

In other words "poors gonna poor", and if something like 50% of Americans can't even save USD 1000, why would I ever believe they are able to choose good life partners for themselves?
All it takes is for you to get MOGGED one time by Kinobody and it's THE TOUR IS OVER.
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Originally Posted By Gaedj
Zero respect from who?

Who do you think gets more respect?

A middle aged dude who's dating a hot young sloot or a middle aged dude who's married to an old, wrinkly whiny sloot??
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
This is wildly outdated view. If you're at all red pilled in the slightest, you know the world we live in. I respect the hell out of dudes who found their own purpose without getting cucked into marriage and kids.

How much do you respect 80% of dudes with fat, sloppy yenta wives. Happy wife happy life, have to check with the boss first, she's just working out legs with tyrone right now, etc.
Have either of you met a 40+ year old man who has never married, doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t have terrible character flaws/disabilities? If so, how many?

YMMV but they’re almost mutually exclusive. That’s why it’s not respected in western culture, it implies someone is defective, and any exceptions just prove the rule.
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Originally Posted By Ilovemygf
Have either of you met a 40+ year old man who has never married, doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t have terrible character flaws/disabilities? If so, how many?

YMMV but they’re almost mutually exclusive. That’s why it’s not respected in western culture, it implies someone is defective, and any exceptions just prove the rule.
Yeah I've met plenty. I play tennis with one every week. He is a professor of psychology at ASU, so obviously red pilled as fukk. He spent his first 10 years in family therapy and said that was enough to put him off marriage/kids forever.

He's in good shape, owns 2 houses, takes trips almost every weekend to mountain bike/tennis/golf/camp, and still has a nice rotation of sloots begging him for marriage, including at least 1 who is 20 years younger than him.

This idea that you have to be a loser if you're not married is old timey blue pilled cope.
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So many people talk about marriage like its a lifetime thing. Just look up the statistics on lifelong marriages, its grim. Lets be real for a moment marriage just isn't forever.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Yeah I've met plenty. I play tennis with one every week. He is a professor of psychology at ASU, so obviously red pilled as fukk. He spent his first 10 years in family therapy and said that was enough to put him off marriage/kids forever.

He's in good shape, owns 2 houses, takes trips almost every weekend to mountain bike/tennis/golf/camp, and still has a nice rotation of sloots begging him for marriage, including at least 1 who is 20 years younger than him.

This idea that you have to be a loser if you're not married is old timey blue pilled cope.
This.

There's a huge diff btw a 40 year old loser and a successful 40 yr old who has a rotation of young sloots.

The latter commands 20x more respect than 40 yr olds suffering in a chitty marriage with an ugly wife.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Yeah I've met plenty. I play tennis with one every week. He is a professor of psychology at ASU, so obviously red pilled as fukk. He spent his first 10 years in family therapy and said that was enough to put him off marriage/kids forever.

He's in good shape, owns 2 houses, takes trips almost every weekend to mountain bike/tennis/golf/camp, and still has a nice rotation of sloots begging him for marriage, including at least 1 who is 20 years younger than him.

This idea that you have to be a loser if you're not married is old timey blue pilled cope.
This man knows.

We are entering new times brahs, times where 4/10 sluts become rich by selling pictures online, times when dudes are not marrying anymore because most of the time its a really bad idea. We are just entering a new era, thats it. I wont look weird at any single guy on his 40's, nor id nod at any married dude on his 40's. To be as close minded as that is a trait of a really dumb person.
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Good to see several married brahs being honest about how they feel about marriage ITT as opposed to all the copings I see in many other threads.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Yeah I've met plenty. I play tennis with one every week. He is a professor of psychology at ASU, so obviously red pilled as fukk. He spent his first 10 years in family therapy and said that was enough to put him off marriage/kids forever.

He's in good shape, owns 2 houses, takes trips almost every weekend to mountain bike/tennis/golf/camp, and still has a nice rotation of sloots begging him for marriage, including at least 1 who is 20 years younger than him.

This idea that you have to be a loser if you're not married is old timey blue pilled cope.
I truely feel bad for children who have to deal with that, and who develop trust issues because of it. Shows the wickedness of their parents. Even though that is outside of his control when he was a child, would you not say that trust issues with the opposite sex are a character flaw?

It might be an old timey idea, but it doesn’t mean it’s wrong.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
All it takes is for you to get MOGGED one time by Kinobody and it's THE TOUR IS OVER.
Who? Not all of us marry trash whose highest aspiration in life is to be featured on WSHH.

Humans aren't equal, as harsh a lesson as that is for some to accept. So the failures of the many say nothing about the rest of us.

Though to be fair to them: the tour was over for some from birth.
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